Unable to enter any romantic relationships due to tiny penis, do you think I should become transgender?
When hard, I can't break 4" in length, even when I press up hard against my pubic bone. I also know excess fat isn't the issue since I'm so thin, so I can't have any. At its thickest point, my erect girth barely exceeds 4" either.
I'm 5'10 but I only weigh 103 pounds, even though I've extensively worked out for years in the past to try to gain weight and a more muscular body. As a result, I'm pretty sure no girl will ever be attracted to me based on my physical characteristics.
I naively took everyone else's advice after I had zero luck finding anyone who wanted to date me back when I was younger, believing I'd be able to branch out and get together with someone who loved me once I grew up and became an adult. However, it's taken years of searching yet I still haven't been able to find anyone who's remotely interested in me.
At this point, I'm wondering if I'm better off just being done with living my heretofore depressing life as a man, and trying to get a sex change instead. I know that process won't be as easy as it sounds, but do I have any better options left?
>even though I've extensively worked out for years in the past to try to gain weight and a more muscular body
Lmao eat more homosexual
You're pretty good looking for an asian guy, you should be able to get a cut asian gf pretty easily. Just don't have sex until she loves you if you care about the small dick.
I've tried, and I think I do eat more than most, but it turns out I'm just a hard gainer 🙁
Good looking for an Asian? Are you saying I'm below average in general here?
>I've tried, and I think I do eat more than most, but it turns out I'm just a hard gainer
No, just eat more fucking food
>Good looking for an Asian? Are you saying I'm below average in general here?
Not really, you just evaluate different races on different standards. You're better looking than most white guys but they might do better with girls than you
>No, just eat more fucking food
Bruhh this is so obviously though, like don't you think I've been trying that for years? It hasn't worked for me
>they might do better with girls than you
What makes you say this?
>What makes you say this?
Generally women prefer white guys to other races. You're like a 5.5-6, probably the equivalent of a white 4-5.
>You're like a 5.5-6, probably the equivalent of a white 4-5
How can I increase that?
Lift weights and eat more you fucking retard. It's not that hard. Also probably do something else with the hair.
>>>Lift weights and eat more
I've been trying my hardest to do that, like I described above baka
Haven't been really getting much advice on how to actually go about it in a way that would succeed for me though, which is what I really came here to ask for
>Haven't been really getting much advice on how to actually go about it in a way that would succeed for me though
There is no solution. Eat high calorie foods. Only need to eat like 200-300 extra calories a day for 2-3 years and you're up to normal weight
Carbohydrates like pasta and bread, you mean?
But fundamentally, I still question whether it will make a real difference when it comes to attracting girls.
Are they going to be drawn to a skinny, weak, lanky, shy, socially awkward, and naturally effeminate virgin, with a dick that can't cut 4 inches, any more if he's 120 pounds as opposed to only 105 though?
>Carbohydrates like pasta and bread, you mean?
Yes, or even sweets if you want
>Are they going to be drawn to a skinny, weak, lanky, shy, socially awkward, and naturally effeminate virgin, with a dick that can't cut 4 inches
No, but you can get rid of every characteristics on that list except the dick size.
But for now I can only dream of that and cry myself to sleep alone in bed at night
>you can get rid of every characteristics on that list except the dick size
I've tried building up my confidence, becoming more outgoing and less reserved, making better friends who're up there on the social ladder, talking with a smoother voice or in better tones, since day 1 tbh. Like literally elementary school
It's so freaking useless that I've just given up because I'm convinced it's never going to work
But u got any tips for me, when it comes to that?
>But u got any tips for me, when it comes to that?
I think the first priority should be your physique. Then just try to make male friends, it's super easy. How old are you? If in college making friends should be insanely easy, and you could also meet them at work if not. Then just work on yourself and the confidence will come, so work on your career/skills.
>try to make male friends, it's super easy
Hoooow?
And besides, how does that aid with my end goal or come in handy over the long term?
>Then just work on yourself and the confidence will come
Ugh if only it were that easy! I've always been an overachiever at anything I've done (academics obviously, not when it comes to sports) yet I still have the lowest self-esteem ever!
>work on your career/skills
As if that will magically get me a gf ...
P.S. why is this website keeps on trolling me by tacking random Japanese words onto the end of each sentence that I write, it's not funny and they should seriously consider cutting it out
>Hoooow?
Talk to guys who share your interests?
>And besides, how does that aid with my end goal or come in handy over the long term?
How does having friends help you? You're hopeless
>I've always been an overachiever at anything I've done (academics obviously, not when it comes to sports) yet I still have the lowest self-esteem ever!
You're a twig with no friends. Fix that
>As if that will magically get me a gf
It'll make you feel better about yourself, which is more important than getting a gf
>Talk to guys who share your interests?
Except I can barely find any! Sometimes it feels like they're always only the macho type who bullied and mocked and taunted me throughout my school years, bringing up terrible memories of repressed trauma
>You're a twig with no friends. Fix that
But I do have friends
>How does having friends help you? You're hopeless
I'm referring to the dating scene specifically right here
got a white 5 for you right here
>>>got a white 5 for you right here
Whats that supposed to mean?
I wish I'd ever come half as close, then I probably wouldn't feel so shitty about myself anymore and there's no way I'd manage to hold myself back at all lol
White privilege bro. You're probably like a 6/10 objectively but get a -1 or -2 because of racism
>Bruhh this is so obviously though, like don't you think I've been trying that for years? It hasn't worked for me
You are so fucking retarded holy shit
>You are so fucking retarded holy shit
The hell you mean, what have I been doing wrong here? I'm trying my damnedest already baka
if you still look like a twig, you simply need to eat more
>you simply need to eat more
Yeah no shit, thats the obvious answer but Ive done my best and it still aint working out to the extend that I need it to
>You literally look like an old college friend's go-go-dancer ex-boyfriend
Go go dancer? What are those
And is that a compliment? Cuz thanks if so
>you're already twinkmode af
Likewise, I have the same questions about this lol
>Also
Are you that person who asked me to send a picture of my feet?
Yes.
have you asked
For context, I obviously don't look masculine at all, so it probably shouldn't be too hard for me to eventually pass as female. For instance, I've never once shaved in my life, but I haven't grown any facial hair at all. In addition, people I grew up around frequently tell me that I've always acted somewhat feminine, being shy and submissive in my personality.
In a way, it feels like I was perhaps destined to end up here one day. However, I've never truly felt like a girl either, and the idea of reassignment surgery truly does scare me. I can't even imagine coming out to friends, or putting myself through the inevitable social alienation that would ensue.
Unfortunately, I've always wanted to be able to sexually dominate a woman, since that's just the way I was wired to be. It's sad that I may have to permanently give up on this goal, and I'd rather not leave it behind for good, but I simply don't feel like there's any chance it might come true anyway, no matter how I might try to change myself.
In other words, would I be better off simply forfeiting my dream, taking a chance by transitioning, and trying my luck with men (or even lesbians) rather than waiting around for myself to get old?
Just stay a male then and either end up dating a girl. In sexual activities that feature a dominant and a submissive there's a lot to explore that doesn't have to do with the dominant having a big dick.
Alternatively if you do not attract girls you could also date gay men. No transitioning necessary.
Just research it. Like everything it has positives and negatives. Right now being trans is hot with normies, so it's easy enough to make a supportive friend.
>I obviously don't look masculine at all
That's not true. You have very masculine eyes and an average jawline. If you lift and bulk up you'll look pretty masculine
>That's not true. If you lift and bulk up you'll look pretty masculine
Gib socials or something, I can send a pic to prove it
You'll be able to see what I mean once you see the rest of my body too lol
And besides, I already addressed the point about working out, and how I really haven't been able to get any bigger 🙁
>You'll be able to see what I mean once you see the rest of my body too lol
You have a relatively masculine face though, and you can change your body
>I already addressed the point about working out, and how I really haven't been able to get any bigger 🙁
I have a slow(ish) metabolism so that was never a struggle, but you really just have to eat more dude
>
Gib socials or something, I can send a pic to prove it
You'll be able to see what I mean once you see the rest of my body too lol
And besides, I already addressed the point about working out, and how I really haven't been able to get any bigger 🙁
But I tryy, I really do
It's not like I can force myself beyond my limits once I become full
My body weight has really never fluctuated much or been prone to variance, a very steady climb throughout my childhood and teenaged years
Even if I did my best to eat more (or conversely starve myself) it would make a couple pounds of difference, at most. Even over a period of like weeks at a time, for instance
You don't try enough. You've been ~100 lbs for years? If you ate one donut every day and changed nothing else in your diet you would gain 25 lbs in a year.
>If you ate one donut every day and changed nothing else in your diet you would gain 25 lbs in a year
Lol sure, just try being me for a single second and you'll understand baka
As if I dislike donuts or something lmao
I'd eat a bakers dozen on the daily if I got the chance lol
>You've been ~100 lbs for years?
I'd still be 95 if it weren't for supercharged pandemic weight gain and sedentary lifestyle go brrr
nta i have one logical question here
if you are not gay, how will becoming trans help any?
>nta
fwiw my hottest sexual fantasies involve being dominated by a larger and stronger man, if thats what youre wondering about
not sure if that matters or its even relevant to this discussion though, unfortunately :/
were you always gay?
>were you always gay?
was i always?
no, i dont think so. probably just became so, out of a lack of options
and due to the constant harassment from other boys in my grade, getting pushed around and put down all the time made me feel inferior and worthless
along with being neglected by every girl in favour of those same assholes and idiots, i started believing i could never get laid, so yeah
also just growing used to it, starting to enjoy the torture at their hands
gotta find love somehow, amirite? :')
dude how old are you? and if youre legit 5'10 i cant imagine you got bullied that badly, most guys arent bigger than you
>if youre legit 5'10 i cant imagine you got bullied that badly, most guys arent bigger than you
I've always been pretty much average height in all my classes, but it was never about that. It was about me being meek and passive and caving in to every demand they ever made of me
nta but I'm curious, pls add discordusername#5875
Just no. You obviously have a terrible complex about your body, and drastically altering it with cross sex hormones will only make it worse. First of all, you are a man and you will always be a man and no matter how feminine or masculine you look or how many procedures you go through you can never change that. And also "feeling like a girl" is made up nonsense as sex is a biological fact and not a feeling. My biggest advice to you is to get off the internet as it does nothing but rot your brain and your self perception. And PLEASE I promise you this will solve itself out if you improve your mental health. Make some goals for yourself and find value in yourself beyond your body and how others perceive you. Read, study, learn a new skill, work out, travel. Literally anything! Passivity leads to mental illness which is why you currently are this way
being trans sucks
>you never pass. even the most famous trans women don't pass IRL. guys can biologically tune in to signs on a person and determine their sex. Width of shoulders, Adams Apple, facial hair (visible only a few hours after shaving), hand size, the way you walk, the position of your feet when you stand, how you sit, how you act, facial expressions.
There's literally no way to pass, it's impossible.
Also it's extremely expensive and there's tons of health risks. The surgeries are dangerous, the hormone therapy is dangerous and increases your cancer risk.
even if you get bottom surgery, it's not a real vagina. It's just a hole where your dick used to be and it leaks anal fluid 24/7, which smells really bad and can cause septic death.
Not to mention you have to dilate daily or your vagina will scab over and begin to heal itself.
Just don't do it.
You don't have to be a stereotypical manly man, most real men aren't. Accept you're just a weird man, that's perfectly okay.
but I told you I've never even shaved, and I still don't have any visible facial hair! Surely if it doesn't appear after years, it won't be discernible given mere hours?
Absolutely no. Gain 20lbs of muscle and be a shredded twink and girls will love you. Improve your personality and outlook on life though.
More like 40 lbs of muscle lmao
He only needs to be 20lbs of muscle more to be a twink.
Sticking to a tranny hormone and self care routine is even harder.
>Sticking to a tranny hormone and self care routine is even harder.
I do wanna look pretty, though!
>He only needs to be 20lbs of muscle more to be a twink.
But aren't twinks supposed to be the skinny kind? Then what am I right now?
>College campuses
Uhh where on my university fairgrounds?
>Gain 20lbs of muscle and get shredded
If only it were that easy to pick out a training regimen or exercise schedule and stick to it!
Just move to a chinky enclave and squid game kpop twink maxx
>move to a chinky enclave and squid game kpop twink maxx
What? Sorry but I can barely understand what any of this even means
There's a small subset of tiktok zoomers and spergy girls absolutely obsessed with kpop twinks and want to date boys who look like them, you should take advantage
>spergy absolutely obsessed with kpop twinks who look like them
Ooh nice, where can I find them?
College campuses and tiktok probably
No even 4 inches are fine bro, you can eat her out or use toys.
You're not bad looking either.
Is that you?
Please don't become a tranny. If you love men, then become a cute twink, or so.
>When hard, I can't break 4" in length, even when I press up hard against my pubic bone
Lmao mine is like 4-4.5 soft depending on when I measure it.
instead of taking estrogen try going to the doctor and getting on TRT.
You will absolutely gain muscle mass / have positive bodily changes.
Who knows it could be a game changer for you
no you are in prime of youth no need to sin. go to church
You can date asian chicks without explaining it while I'm over here trying to think about how to explain that my third girlfriend in a row is asian. Fuck you bro, you're hot and blessed, your personality is the issue 100%.
Be a femboy
Is life just sex for you?
Sounds miserable if so. Consider not chopping off your dick and find other means to get women's attention, like having a personality worth of their time.
>you think I should become transgender?
50%
>50%
I'm sorry but what do you mean by this?
If this guy in the picture is you, you should try getting into a Kpop band, kpop fans love themselves some cute thin guys with small penises.
(And would you look at that, not all of them are ugly or fat)
>you should try getting into a Kpop band
And how can I realistically do that? I don't exactly have any musical talent or training to begin with
>kpop fans love themselves some cute thin guys with small penises
Are you serious? Or just trolling here lol
I thought submissive girls were the ones who went for alpha male dominant types the most strongly tbh
>not all of them are ugly or fat
But who are you comparing them to, here?
I take it that you're implying and saying there must be some group of girls who *are* ugly and fat, in fact?
>And how can I realistically do that? I don't exactly have any musical talent or training to begin with
Git gud. Half those guys sing like dying cats and dance like lame geese when they start out, but they get better with practice. All you need is to keep practicing like a motherfucker.
>Git gud. Half those guys sing like dying cats and dance like lame geese when they start out, but they get better with practice. All you need is to keep practicing like a motherfucker.
But I'm not Korean, neither by nationality nor ethnicity. How can I even find buddies to start a band with, or join one, let alone enough fans of the genre? And I certainly don't live in a community where Asians make up the majority, either :/
Oops, I hit Send before finishing my post.
>I thought submissive girls were the ones who went for alpha male dominant types the most strongly tbh
Those guys are cute, famous and have money, of course there are girls swooning over them. And I don't know if they're submissove or not, but should it matter? You aren't exactly in a position to pick and choose here, OP.
>I take it that you're implying and saying there must be some group of girls who *are* ugly and fat, in fact?
Well, I was talking about the fans, of course. The Kpop girl groups are all beautiful and thin (sometimes way too thin) and with milky white skin; that's the beauty standard in South Korea, after all.
>And I don't know if they're submissove or not, but should it matter? You aren't exactly in a position to pick and choose here, OP.
what do you think is the biggest thing thats holding me back from becoming the type of guy who does get to be selective about this kinda thing rn tho?
only comes
>but I don't know if they're submissive or not, but you aren't exactly in a position to pick and choose, here
some?
>Those guys are cute
Lmao 9/10 times I hear any girl saying that about a dude, its as an insult 🙁
English isn't my first language, my culture isn't American, "cute" isn't necessarily an insult here and in fact being a cute guy can get you laid.
Do it. I love when other people hurt themselves, it makes me feel a little less miserable
lmao no, didnt read
get your head out of your ass and man up
and dont forget: you cant be a woman
>man up
It'd be somewhat helpful if you could provide a more detailed list of instructions, please ...
dont pretend you dont know what "man up" means
it means "accept yourself for who you are, and deal with it"
it means "take responsibility for your life and work to make it better"
it means "dont run away from your problems by pretending you're something youre not"
and it means "be brave, be tough, and if you have fears, conquer them"
start looking into taking testosterone supplementation, or start taking actions that will allow your masculine body to naturally produce more testosterone: lifting weights, eating protein, fats and carbs, and taking vitamin D
not sure, post feet
>not sure, post feet
That's a rather odd request but alright, where should I send it to you?
the /soc/ feet thread
Take pimozide to fix your mental illness
revolutionary
zinc probably helps too
>fail as a man
>feel like shit
>'what could I do to fail again and feel even worse?'
this is you
You literally look like an old college friend's go-go-dancer ex-boyfriend. So you're already twinkmode af.
Also
>Also
Ur gonna need to give me the exact link of that thread mate, Ive spent some time scrolling through that board and I still havent found the right page for it yet :/
>you're already twinkmode af
What's this supposed to mean, and is it a good or bad thing to be?
I'm a girl and I find you very attractive. I thought the picrel you used was some rando at first
>I'm a girl and I find you very attractive
Awww thanks! Mind telling me more about yourself, by the way?
What do you want to know?
>What do you want to know?
Honestly just curious about everything.
Age, ethnicity, personality, hobbies, body size and shape, where you grew up, whats your job if you have one ... if you feel comfortable with sharing any of that information, of course.
>I'm a girl and I find you very attractive
You probably wouldn't anymore though, if you got to see any of the rest of me ...
No