Let me explain. I'm not bad looking, certainly not a Chad, but decent face, tall and a full head of hair. I'd say I'm a 7/10. Now looksmatch-wise, I could go for a 7/10 girl. But I never did. Too much work. Always having to be the best version of myself, always having to be on top of my game and never make a mistake. The thought of that already makes me tired.
So, I just aim low. My dating life is with girls like 5/10 and 6/10. I can relax that way. It's like a mutual understanding. They are happy because they got a good looksmatch deal, and I am happy because I don't have to put in the work. I just want that warm, wet throbbing hole.
Do you agree with this strategy?
Many guys take this strategy, and it's why you often see the white male/female asian pairing instead of the reverse. The problem is that dating down makes women more entitled. Ugly people prefer beauty just as much as other people.
>The problem is that dating down makes women more entitled.
Agreed. I'm aware that what I am doing is not positive for our general position.
>Always having to be the best version of myself, always having to be on top of my game and never make a mistake. The thought of that already makes me tired.
You're not settling then, you're just being who you are if you refuse to be your best version of yourself
Much better than being the kind of guy who pulls all the stops and acts a certain way and does certain things at the beginning of a relationship and then slowly goes back to his original ways and original attitudes/personality AKA a liar portraying himself as someone he's not
>the easy road
By not dating
Yeah I can't date either knowing my so-called looksmatch is being Chad's concubine right now.
>By not dating
You don't want that warm wet throbbing hole?
Funny how EVERYONE thinks they are a 7/10, Whenever an uggo asks someone to rate them 1-10, they always rate 7/10 to spare the feels.
I know. I thought about saying 8/10, but then I would get slammed for being too arrogant. It's never right, is it? 🙂
>It's never right, is it? 🙂
Nope. Attractiveness is often subjective, unless a person is a true 1/10-2/10, then they are fucked if they are a male.
Females can always get sex, no matter how uggo they are cause of loser incel males who will hit even the nastiest gash.
>Females can always get sex, no matter how uggo they are
This is one of the facts of life.
>Do you agree with this strategy?
Dude, I just can't even. What men in the West go through has a name; it's called "abuse." Your women are literally the character foil of how Muslim men in the Middle East treat their women. Your women are allowed to beat you, cheat on you, lie to you, steal from you - at what point will you realize that your pursuit is a worthless endeavor? Stop engaging in the culture that this is thriving off of and accept that your options are either
>die alone without the experience of what it would be like to be in a relationship whether its marriage or a committed relationship.
>die alone with the experience of being with someone only to have them break your heart and leaving you in a terrible condition where you're terrified to socialize with others from that point on for the rest of your life.
These are your two options. All these people giving you advice clearly don't give a fuck about hurting other people and you being single is literally a testament of you not wanting to comply to a method that hurts people.
No society in all of human history has made the modern dating method work and no it has never been a "new" thing but rather a symptom of a society dying. The correct method is communities of ethnically homogenous peoples who through their family networks provide pairing partners for the people within that community.
Nothing else works.
You're not wrong. But I think you are overthinking it a bit. I'm sure there is a whole theory behind the dating scene. I am just a dude who's lucky to look fairly decent and take advantage of it. I see the opportunity, I take it. Like I said, I just want that warm, wet throbbing hole. 5/10 girls also have them. I know that sounds simple, but it is what it is.
>Like I said, I just want that warm, wet throbbing hole.
When that feeling subsides, you will be too old to keep up your track record. That is the penalty for the mistake. I am not judging you but I need to let you know how this may endanger you in the end for I do love you even if I do not know who you are?
no question mark*** LMFAO!!! What a total Ron Burgandy moment right there.
Like I said, you're not wrong. I especially agree with this:
"The correct method is communities of ethnically homogenous peoples who through their family networks provide pairing partners for the people within that community."
But that isn't easy. Not where I live at least.
Dude, some people in history don't mate - that is a fact and we all have to get over it. I can sit here and lie to you and tell you the same thing you've heard over and over again about how you need to change and become something in order to get "it" but I care about how your psyche comes out of this than the feeling of grandeur I get from telling someone how it ought to be. Instead, I would rather tell you the truth because I know it sits in your head reminding you about this revelation and you will make decisions that are a bit safer from the point I've said it. Hopefully, this will result in your overall happiness and good welfare which will consequently lead to a life of longevity for you. Now if I said that mating was plausible, I would be lying and you know that, you aren't stupid. We know that there are people out there who haven't mated before and that could be any one of us. Maybe, somewhere in the averages, you would feel at ease; but the problem is when we ask what is the statistical average of someone under your circumstance falling under the likeliness of being able to find a mate? I am a mixed person, I don't follow under those odds, I have no homogeneity to cling onto; broken home - many people can relate - we don't have the likeliness of making it; that is where we inherit our parents mess and no man on Earth cleans that but God. My point here is not to worry about this because it will cause you to become hurt and insecure which in the end will kill you in misery.
>When that feeling subsides, you will be too old to keep up your track record.
I don't really get what age has to do with it, as a dude that's plays a minor role I would think?
Low-aiming anons, get in here. Am I right? Do you go for women lower on the looksmatch scale, because it's just easier..?
Look at the post directly above yours. They already stated that fact.
What’s the point of this post? Why do you care if people agree with your strat? Was there a reason you felt the need to make this post? Like you’re doubting your strat or something?
Long as you’re okay with it and it not illegal, you keep doing you.
I think he's imagining average or ugly women seeing his post and getting mad at it, mostly
I thought I was doing that but it actually turned out my girlfriend is more attractive than me so its funny how bad we are at perceiving attractiveness.
Ha, sounds familiar. Funny how that works. I used not to think about my hair like it was nothing special, but since girls are complimenting me on it, I'm obsessed with not going bald 🙁
Yea just a cautionary tale for op, it is extremely hard for one to assess your own attractiveness
I never had a girlfriend.
I never had a girlfriend. Thoughts?
You're not an abomination, are you? Always remember, a 1/10 girl also has that warm, wet throbbing hole.
I don't care.
Sure you do. You want that warm wet throbbing hole. Otherwise, what's the point of having a girlfriend? For conversation? Kek. That's what your friends are for.
No reason to play this stupid dating game just to fuck women and then get cucked by them. If I wanted that wet throbbing hole I'd just see an escort.
>Do you take the easy road in dating?
As you describe it?
I always refused to date below an 8/10 even though appearance-wise I am just a 5/10. But I am smart, ambitious, funny, and outgoing so I *never* settled for less than the best.
I think you’re viewing things the wrong way for a long-term relationship. My gf is admittedly less physically attractive than girls I’ve dated in the past (though I still think she’s cute) but I enjoy my current relationship more because I like her more as a person. If other guys overlook her, then whatever it’s not really something to consider. I put effort into the relationship based on how much I love her and how much I feel she loves me, not how much I feel I need to compete for her, so I actually end up putting way more effort into my current relationship than in the past. If you’re viewing things in terms of effort based what you feel you need to do to keep her, you probably don’t really like her that much.
And just as an observation, you can’t really judge how good a girl is in terms of personality based on attractiveness alone. There are plenty 10/10 girls who are loyal and caring and plenty of ugly girls who are absolutely vile, and will lie, cheat, and manipulate when they eventually do get the opportunity. Just like guys. The only thing you can do is learn the signs
>I put effort into the relationship based on how much I love her and how much I feel she loves me, not how much I feel I need to compete for her