mtfs, do you feel unsafe at night, or face other issues that woman claim to face after transitioning? I ask because I saw this post and I would like to know if you all have had similar experiences.
Do you feel safe at night?
mtfs, do you feel unsafe at night, or face other issues that woman claim to face after transitioning? I ask because I saw this post and I would like to know if you all have had similar experiences.
It completely depends on your area, even if I was a 6 foot burly man I wouldn't feel okay walking around the city I'm in now alone at night.
messed up the crosslink
Have you noticed any changes from when you weren't passing, though? or is it just more of the same
If I am in a diverse area it can feel unsafe even during daytime
you mean an area filled with naggerS???
even before I transitioned I was very weak and cowardly and scared of everything new. I always made sure my doors were locked all the time and I live in a fairly safe area. So nothing has changed at all on that front.
i feel completely defenceless
I have been harassed numerous times, some crackhead was harassing me and following and he wouldn't leave me alone so said some random russian phrases in a deep voice at him to make him go away. Another time a nigga threatened to kill me because he said I was "eyeing his bike". Those are the two biggest things that aren't just homeless or junkies begging for shit
This is all during the daytime my area is shit, if I am honest I would not want to be here at night even as a guy.
I feel relatively safe, shit that scared me before as a guy still scares me and not really anything new scares me. When I'm in a situation that feels seedy I do have the extra fear that I'd be raped instead of mugged or something and that they'd see I'm trans when they went to rape me and they'd just kill me. But nothing really has ever happened. At worst I've had a few creepy guys hit on me. That's like the main threat to my safety that I feel differently, those kinds of situations are uncomfortable to try to defuse. Honestly in some situations I feel even more safe, like before if I was in a crowd and some random dude started beating on me people might assume it's a fair fight and stay out of it or assumed I started it but now if they saw him beating on a girl someone would beat the shit out of him. I was never really that big or strong as a guy anyways so it doesn't matter a ton
>I was never really that big or strong as a guy anyways so it doesn't matter a ton
you'd be bretty blown away just how much damage you can do with a smaller body tbh
Yes. It's over.
Never did ever since childhood
Third world thread
I moved from one 3rd world country as a passer to another 3rd world country where women are looked down upon and harassed for smoking, I’ve been followed in cars when going down but roads and had stuff screamed at me in a foreign language.
Also some men that approach me consider it an insult if I don’t want to talk to them, they honestly expect women to be nice to them all the time
The road on i live on is the most dangerous road in my entire country, for recorded violent and sexual crimes.
Not my city, my country. Im very scared, all the time. Its a matter of when, not if i get killed. Throw being trans into the mix, its a nightmare.
Do not recommend
Zona Norte?
https://zona-norte.com/
On the first night i moved in, i saw two guys stamp on another guys head outside my window. I called the police and the police were angry with me and put the phone down.
I dont call the police anymore
>The road on i live on is the most dangerous road in my entire country, for recorded violent and sexual crimes.
damn son you must have some work ethic
>Do you feel safe at night?
not really, depends on where I am ofc
in my neighborhood generally more so because it's a nice area, but like if I'm in the city or somewhere I'm not familiar with then no lol definitely not, makes me wish I had some sort of self defense weapon sometimes
I mean I've been followed like on 2 separate occasions so unless it's well lit, no.
Absolutely not. If I'm not with bf I carry a gun
Yeah, I feel fine. I live in a pretty safe city tho and also I don't feel q lot of fear for my physical safety generally. I'm perfectly comfortable going on walks in the dead of night for hours, I've never been harrased and even when strange people have talked to me, I've never had issues with them.
Yeah ever since I started getting followed walking home while boymoding. It sucks because I can’t go for nightwalks and my boyfriend or brother have to pick me up sometimes if it’s late
I’m semi-scared of going out at night. I’ve been sexually assaulted once or twice by guys because I was too confident and familiar and thought I could look after myself, but I couldn’t. I get harassed a lot even during the day and the night (especially on weekends) is terrible. That being said, I still go out, because I don’t want to live in fear.
I live in a pretty safe neighborhood but I still avoid walking out alone at night cause it's scary