In general I would think the answer would be no, as sissy fetish seems to come from the shame that some cis men feel about having a submissive/bottom side to their sexuality, and then eroticizing that shame into a humiliation/degradation kink that sees being feminized as the most shameful and humiliating thing that can be done to them as men, and therefore hot.
I would think that if you had actual dysphoria it would probably get in the way of being able to enjoy that kink, especially since MEFs want to pass as poorly as possible but that's something that usually triggers dysphoria for actual trans women.
The situation is different, in my mind, with the actual real life fetish that Blanchard based AGP on, because it doesn't see femininity as inherently degrading in the way that MEF does, and of course it's well known that repressing pre-transition trans women can find "AGP" an outlet for their repressed identity, but one that tends to fade as they transition.
I have kind of a sissy kink. I don't feel gender dysphoria or feel shame about it, I just like being submissive, I like having contrast between me and the men who fuck me, and feminine attire and stuff works better for both of those things.
I don't specifically try to pass or not pass, I just wear lingerie or stockings when guys tell me to.
I am 100% sure this division between disgusting MEF sissies and genuine dysphoric agps was made by insecure agps like you who don't want to associate with reddit rapehons. In reality both of you are agp, and agp as fetish comes from same shame about wanting to be feminine.
Sissies are just boomer version of femboys. Both of them are submissive, want to look feminine, are porn addicts who call themselves as porn category, are into butt plugs, chastity cages, etc. And I am sure, most of them are dysphoric, but are so deep in repression, in their masculine 40yo man gender role, that their egg doesn't crack. They can even achnowledge the fact they want to be women, but as they don't want to ruin their life, family, career, etc and become a hon, they keep this fetish as partial relief from their dysphoria.
Well it's true, I cannot understand how self respecting person with self awareness can unironically call themselves a femboy. It's literally the same as calling yourself a sissy for me.
I've never had anything resembling the actual fetish AGP is based on, I just have some familiarity with kink and I feel like there's a real meaningful distinction between them.
Fundamentally, the difference I see is that MEF is a degradation/humiliation kink that uses feminization as a vehicle, while "AGP" is a feminization kink in which feminization itself is what's being eroticized.
>Sissies are just boomer version of femboys.
From what I've seen, most femboys, even if they're kink submissives, don't see femininity itself as *intrinsically degrading* the way sissies do.
The part I can't wrap my mind around is how someone could simultaneously by dysphoric about their masculine traits but also find feminization intrinsically the most degrading and humiliating thing possible. And I use 'intrinsically' here specifically because they find it degrading inherently, not just because they'd be embarrassed if others knew they enjoyed being feminine because they're afraid of being judged.
For me it's the submission and loss of control first, then the visuals and taking dick. The humiliation is mostly neutral to me, more into the sluttiness, which has some overlap in terms.
I do not. I am ok with my male body and big D. I enjoy my masculine side when. I am with women and enjoy topping them
Sometimes i do wonder what it would have been like if I was a girl...but not enough to transition
that being said- this
doesnt apply to me at all. I feel no shame. I am proud of my fem side and my ability- as a man- to embrace and express. It brings me joy not shame.
nah. im ok with it. when im with guys its not about my penis or even my orgasm. I prefer it caged with guys actually but panties can be de facto chastity
But in my early days of crossdressing, it would be quite painful to see how little I passed, and I disliked getting beard growth as a teen because of this.
I think more than dysphoria, you get attached to your feminine image, since it's so pervasive in your fantasies and almost a requirement for the fantasies to be possible, that once reality becomes incompatible with that you will naturally react negatively towards these changes
>claims to be a masochistic emasculation fetishist >won't suck a dick
baka raise your game
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hehe, im very asexual towards girls, which is probably why my sexuality never inverted
>my fantasies are more abstract and strange.
Pls share
>being the only man in some kind of feminine job (i.e secretary), friend group or activity >wearing perfume or crossdressing >watching girly entertainment >having feminine mannerisms >looking feminine in general
there even better if it's "forced" in some way
3 weeks ago
Anonymous
>being the only man in some kind of feminine job (i.e secretary), friend group or activity
i've lived your dream. a few years back i was the only guy in a class of 18
hehe, im very asexual towards girls, which is probably why my sexuality never inverted
[...] >being the only man in some kind of feminine job (i.e secretary), friend group or activity >wearing perfume or crossdressing >watching girly entertainment >having feminine mannerisms >looking feminine in general
there even better if it's "forced" in some way
Uh, this doesn't sound like MEF to me, this sounds like AGP. There's nothing here that suggests you have ah humiliation/degradation kink or that you find femininity inherently degrading?
>I think more than dysphoria, you get attached to your feminine image, since it's so pervasive in your fantasies and almost a requirement for the fantasies to be possible, that once reality becomes incompatible with that you will naturally react negatively towards these changes
That's interesting. Looks like an indirect form to get something like dysphoria, but not quite the real thing.
In general I would think the answer would be no, as sissy fetish seems to come from the shame that some cis men feel about having a submissive/bottom side to their sexuality, and then eroticizing that shame into a humiliation/degradation kink that sees being feminized as the most shameful and humiliating thing that can be done to them as men, and therefore hot.
I would think that if you had actual dysphoria it would probably get in the way of being able to enjoy that kink, especially since MEFs want to pass as poorly as possible but that's something that usually triggers dysphoria for actual trans women.
The situation is different, in my mind, with the actual real life fetish that Blanchard based AGP on, because it doesn't see femininity as inherently degrading in the way that MEF does, and of course it's well known that repressing pre-transition trans women can find "AGP" an outlet for their repressed identity, but one that tends to fade as they transition.
Mefs are just the extreme kinky side of AGPs
>since MEFs want to pass as poorly as possible
But fucking why?! I wanted to rip my face off before i got laser hair removal
I have kind of a sissy kink. I don't feel gender dysphoria or feel shame about it, I just like being submissive, I like having contrast between me and the men who fuck me, and feminine attire and stuff works better for both of those things.
I don't specifically try to pass or not pass, I just wear lingerie or stockings when guys tell me to.
I am 100% sure this division between disgusting MEF sissies and genuine dysphoric agps was made by insecure agps like you who don't want to associate with reddit rapehons. In reality both of you are agp, and agp as fetish comes from same shame about wanting to be feminine.
Sissies are just boomer version of femboys. Both of them are submissive, want to look feminine, are porn addicts who call themselves as porn category, are into butt plugs, chastity cages, etc. And I am sure, most of them are dysphoric, but are so deep in repression, in their masculine 40yo man gender role, that their egg doesn't crack. They can even achnowledge the fact they want to be women, but as they don't want to ruin their life, family, career, etc and become a hon, they keep this fetish as partial relief from their dysphoria.
>Sissies are just boomer version of femboys
This is the most offensive and defamatory comment (towards femboys) I have ever seen on this entire site
Well it's true, I cannot understand how self respecting person with self awareness can unironically call themselves a femboy. It's literally the same as calling yourself a sissy for me.
Or if a middle aged woman called herself a milf
I've never had anything resembling the actual fetish AGP is based on, I just have some familiarity with kink and I feel like there's a real meaningful distinction between them.
Fundamentally, the difference I see is that MEF is a degradation/humiliation kink that uses feminization as a vehicle, while "AGP" is a feminization kink in which feminization itself is what's being eroticized.
>Sissies are just boomer version of femboys.
From what I've seen, most femboys, even if they're kink submissives, don't see femininity itself as *intrinsically degrading* the way sissies do.
The part I can't wrap my mind around is how someone could simultaneously by dysphoric about their masculine traits but also find feminization intrinsically the most degrading and humiliating thing possible. And I use 'intrinsically' here specifically because they find it degrading inherently, not just because they'd be embarrassed if others knew they enjoyed being feminine because they're afraid of being judged.
For me it's the submission and loss of control first, then the visuals and taking dick. The humiliation is mostly neutral to me, more into the sluttiness, which has some overlap in terms.
I do not. I am ok with my male body and big D. I enjoy my masculine side when. I am with women and enjoy topping them
Sometimes i do wonder what it would have been like if I was a girl...but not enough to transition
that being said- this
doesnt apply to me at all. I feel no shame. I am proud of my fem side and my ability- as a man- to embrace and express. It brings me joy not shame.
I would love your big D in my mouth.
Sorry. Only females get to suck my cock. Im a strictly no recip with dudes.
thats stupid
nah. im ok with it. when im with guys its not about my penis or even my orgasm. I prefer it caged with guys actually but panties can be de facto chastity
yes, sissies are trans women
sissies are cis men
sissies are transgender women
crossdressing makes you a woman
Sissies are inherently transphobic
how?
Sissies are transphobic cis men mocking real trans women with their sick and disgusting fetish
trans women are men in womanface
being trans is misogynistic
Women having a job is manface.
Barefoot and pregnant in the kitchen is the womena role
Kill yourself
I'm off 3 wafers of ketamine and 400mg of tapentadol and I genuinely can't tell if their face is male or female. I think I see a beard shadow doe
sissy stuff is sublimation of gender dysphoria into that
No.
They're limp dick middle-aged men who shoved something up their arse one day and experienced their first decent orgasm for two decades.
most of them troon out
Cis MEF here
I don't know if I have dysphoria
But in my early days of crossdressing, it would be quite painful to see how little I passed, and I disliked getting beard growth as a teen because of this.
I think more than dysphoria, you get attached to your feminine image, since it's so pervasive in your fantasies and almost a requirement for the fantasies to be possible, that once reality becomes incompatible with that you will naturally react negatively towards these changes
what is a cis mef?
non-tranny masochistic emasculation fetishist
why can't you just call yourself a fag like the rest of us?
im not into men even in a meta way. my fantasies are more abstract and strange.
>my fantasies are more abstract and strange.
Pls share
hes a furry. calling it.
is there much overlap between mefs and furries?
>claims to be a masochistic emasculation fetishist
>won't suck a dick
baka raise your game
hehe, im very asexual towards girls, which is probably why my sexuality never inverted
>being the only man in some kind of feminine job (i.e secretary), friend group or activity
>wearing perfume or crossdressing
>watching girly entertainment
>having feminine mannerisms
>looking feminine in general
there even better if it's "forced" in some way
>being the only man in some kind of feminine job (i.e secretary), friend group or activity
i've lived your dream. a few years back i was the only guy in a class of 18
aka normal mtf tranny in denial
Uh, this doesn't sound like MEF to me, this sounds like AGP. There's nothing here that suggests you have ah humiliation/degradation kink or that you find femininity inherently degrading?
maybe they are the same thing
>I think more than dysphoria, you get attached to your feminine image, since it's so pervasive in your fantasies and almost a requirement for the fantasies to be possible, that once reality becomes incompatible with that you will naturally react negatively towards these changes
That's interesting. Looks like an indirect form to get something like dysphoria, but not quite the real thing.
most do, yes