I Don’t see myself objectively. I have been trans for a few years and have had some procedures, but I still see the male in me. I don’t know. However, when I go out, men look at me, approach me, and they get my number. My cis female friends said that it doesn’t mean anything because guys hit on everything. I am confused because I can’t understand if they talk to me because they find me mildly attractive, or it’s just the number game.
Yeah, especially if you’re younger.
Don't take that as confirmation that you're ugly, but yes they do.
It's just men swiping right 100%
The last time a man asked for my number was early 2022.
Im happy for you OP but im suicidal
wow that must be sooo hard..
It sucks, im ugly
🙁
I'm being sarcastic.
Oh... thats not very nice....
I want a bf and im just hideous.
Clearly not considering a man asked for your phone number in the past year
That was before my nose was broken and and disconnected from my brow bone
Sounds like an easily fixable problem
How
Rhino
If you ever got hit on you're not ugly enough to complain
at the end of the night guys will hit on anyone rather than go home alone
>ugly girls with wealthy parents
Well
>My cis female friends said that it doesn’t mean anything because guys hit on everything
They are likely jelly
many such cases
Don’t hugbox OP. It’s true men will hit on anyone.
Not true, you have to look like a woman. It's true that they will hit on ugly women but they never do on men so OP definitely passes.
You have never spent any time as a non-passing girlmoding tranner if you think that men never hit on them. If I had a dollar for every time a drunk man mentioned he creepily mentioned being "curious" about having sex with a trans woman I'd have ffs by now.
Idk i think
might be right unless you're both wrong and someone really can be too ugly
Like i dont pass and im ugly and no one has ever hit on me, not even incels are interested
Unless its because im both ugly and dont pass but that would mean that OP either passes or isnt ugly
your friend sounds bitter
>cis "friends" disparaging you because they're insecure men think you're attractive
why does this happen every time
its true men would hit on anything however its also true that ur friends may not be telling the truth
good friends will hugbox u even if u ask them not to because they care about u and have a selfish desire to not hurt ur feelings
bad friends will put u down to make themselves feel better regardless of whether or not what they r saying is true so take their opinions with a grain of salt and get outside opinions from neutral parties
Yes, looks don't really matter if it's for a hookup, men go lower for better success and higher for relationships
I personally don't hit on anyone
yes sadly
>guys hit on everything
Your friends are mostly right, the guys who do take the risk of flirting with strangers use the "see what sticks" approach.
You likely are ugly but it doesn't matter anymore, if you have a heartbeat men who never learned how to be alone will give you attention.
No one ever does this to me so I'm guessing you're actually attractive tbh.
I used to be friendly to ugly women because I see them as nonthreatening and I like having women in my life for nonsexual reasons believe it or not, I genuinely am not interested in sex with uggos, but unfortunately they don't know how to deal with a guy being nice to them so they either fall in love with me and it becomes an inconvenience, or they go "UHHHH I HAVE A BOYFRIEND, MY BOYFRIEND SAID THIS I GOT IT FROM MY BOYFRIEND DID YOU KNOW I HAVE A BOYFRIEND!?!?!?" when I didn't ask
So now I'm only friendly to hot women and it works a lot better because they love the attention and they know how to handle it, they also seem to appreciate how I will never try to turn it into something that it isn't
t. straight acting bi beta male who would never approach a woman sexually (the ones who want me, usually more dominant mommy types, approach me not the other way around)
>My cis female friends said that it doesn’t mean anything because guys hit on everything.
Lol this sounds like the ugly women of the group cockblocking their attractive female friends when guys ask for their numbers.
>She's not interested, creep.
Fuck that noise.
You're attractive, hun, and multiple men asking for your number indicates that.
It’s because you’re a tranny. Even ugly trannies get hit on because it’s niche. Not shut in weebs obviously, but you sound social.
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