no, but the good news is it's pretty easy to overcome insecurity. Just put yourself out there and get rejected enough to the point that it stops hurting and you'll be more confident and dominant.
Women want to date tall handsome men. If you're tall and handsome, any manner of behavior and personality will be regarded as attractive. If you're not, it will become a flaw for others to point as the supposed cause of your loneliness, so as to do away with the dissonance they're feeling over the self-evident undeniable challenge to their just world fallacious personal worldview.
this is only half true
it's true that getting your first chance with a girl is mostly down to looks and height, but the reality is that most girls are fumbled, not out of reach, and most guys have a chance with *some* woman lifetime odds
OP being shy and insecure is bad for dating not because the other girl wont like it, she may or may not, but because it means you're going to create problems for yourself. Being shy and insecure manifests in poor choices like not bringing up things that bother you. Then when she bothers you enough, you hold it against her, when it was your responsibility to put your foot down in the first place
also if you are shy and insecure, you won't be comfortable around other men who are interested in your gf, probably not good for the vibes between you and gf long-term
but the good news is that you can get over your shyness and insecurity to *a meaningful extent (and no more than that)* pretty quick, especially with help of good experiences early in relationship
>and most guys have a chance with *some* woman lifetime odds
But essentially no chance at love. You fall in love spontaneously, and with maybe 1 in 1000 people. You can date maybe 1 in 100 you ask as an average man. They are mostly independent groups, so your odds of ever being together with a woman you love is 1 in 100,000.
>OP being shy and insecure is bad for dating not because the other girl wont like it, she may or may not, but because it means you're going to create problems for yourself. Being shy and insecure manifests in poor choices like not bringing up things that bother you. Then when she bothers you enough, you hold it against her, when it was your responsibility to put your foot down in the first place >also if you are shy and insecure, you won't be comfortable around other men who are interested in your gf, probably not good for the vibes between you and gf long-term
based
no doubt
OP said "do girls wanna date shy/insecure guys?"
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Women want to date tall handsome men. If you're tall and handsome, any manner of behavior and personality will be regarded as attractive. If you're not, it will become a flaw for others to point as the supposed cause of your loneliness, so as to do away with the dissonance they're feeling over the self-evident undeniable challenge to their just world fallacious personal worldview.
said its all about looks, being shy/insecure doesn't matter
i think its only half true, there is an initial magnetism you simply have to establish with looks, no way around it, but its not as hard to establish as people make it seem, first of all, but also once you have it, it can definitely go wrong if you're shy/insecure
Even if they did, the bullshit shenanigans of women and their toxic trends of the last 15 years have destroyed any semblance of suspending the belief of doubt that anyone of us would have.
Nope. Women chose long leg bone and handsome face. Behaviorally, their selection is dysgenic, because they are ok with any behavior so long as these physical criteria are met. And humans persist in a state of nature. They're not magical beings beyond it. You're quite literally wrong about all your ideas.
Her friends also only care about long leg bone and face handsome. That's what woman compare and compete with each other on: how hot my boyfriend/future husband is. Simple as.
no.
you might find shy and insecure girls cute but girls mostly see shy insecure men as pathetic.
has to do with them dating up by nature, if you position yourself as less or equal to her she cant shake off the feeling that she can do better. thats why some girls get the ick from well mannered stable dudes but get aroused by meth head white trash dudes. or where the whole ''girls only date buttholes'' come from. its not being treated like shit that they like, its being less than him. same with height and money. girls want to date up. but there is this other phenomenon that prevents shy insecure guys from getting girls who are even more shy and insecure, something akin to equalizing her shortcomings by finding a guy who doesn't have those at all. ever notice that short girls tend to always go for tall guys, like top 10% tall? or how super shy girls who barely leave the house tend to date some of the most outgoing and secure guys who doesn't even understand the concept of social anxiety? emotional girls who cry watching generic love movies find dudes whos only emotions are nothing and anger?
good hearted guys who struggle to get out of their shell and show emotion just attract evil minded girls who destroy everyone around her on sadistic whims.
maybe some of them do. they might cuck you though
no, but the good news is it's pretty easy to overcome insecurity. Just put yourself out there and get rejected enough to the point that it stops hurting and you'll be more confident and dominant.
God i fricking hope so. My life is doomed if they don't
Your life is fricked then. If you are old enough to post here but never had a gf it's over.
a4vvv
Women want to date tall handsome men. If you're tall and handsome, any manner of behavior and personality will be regarded as attractive. If you're not, it will become a flaw for others to point as the supposed cause of your loneliness, so as to do away with the dissonance they're feeling over the self-evident undeniable challenge to their just world fallacious personal worldview.
this is only half true
it's true that getting your first chance with a girl is mostly down to looks and height, but the reality is that most girls are fumbled, not out of reach, and most guys have a chance with *some* woman lifetime odds
OP being shy and insecure is bad for dating not because the other girl wont like it, she may or may not, but because it means you're going to create problems for yourself. Being shy and insecure manifests in poor choices like not bringing up things that bother you. Then when she bothers you enough, you hold it against her, when it was your responsibility to put your foot down in the first place
also if you are shy and insecure, you won't be comfortable around other men who are interested in your gf, probably not good for the vibes between you and gf long-term
but the good news is that you can get over your shyness and insecurity to *a meaningful extent (and no more than that)* pretty quick, especially with help of good experiences early in relationship
you gotta let yourself be loved and love back
>also if you are shy and insecure
shy and insecure like you pussy?
i was in high school and my early 20s for sure
not as much anymore, but still yes
>and most guys have a chance with *some* woman lifetime odds
But essentially no chance at love. You fall in love spontaneously, and with maybe 1 in 1000 people. You can date maybe 1 in 100 you ask as an average man. They are mostly independent groups, so your odds of ever being together with a woman you love is 1 in 100,000.
>OP being shy and insecure is bad for dating not because the other girl wont like it, she may or may not, but because it means you're going to create problems for yourself. Being shy and insecure manifests in poor choices like not bringing up things that bother you. Then when she bothers you enough, you hold it against her, when it was your responsibility to put your foot down in the first place
>also if you are shy and insecure, you won't be comfortable around other men who are interested in your gf, probably not good for the vibes between you and gf long-term
based
>especially with help of good experiences early in relationship
But to get good experience with a gf, you need to be able to get one. That's how we're stuck
no doubt
OP said "do girls wanna date shy/insecure guys?"
said its all about looks, being shy/insecure doesn't matter
i think its only half true, there is an initial magnetism you simply have to establish with looks, no way around it, but its not as hard to establish as people make it seem, first of all, but also once you have it, it can definitely go wrong if you're shy/insecure
You can be shy and confident at the same time
Girls date tons of insecure guys. "Insecurity" as it's used on internet forums just means "a behavior I don't like."
do guys want to date shy insecure girls?
Why do you ask? Are you selling?
Men PREFER shy/insecure girls.
>tfw no arcade attendant gf to play Pop'n Music with
Even if they did, the bullshit shenanigans of women and their toxic trends of the last 15 years have destroyed any semblance of suspending the belief of doubt that anyone of us would have.
They can certainly try though
hell nah, you are the beta bux
No girl you ought to be with.
yes but it'll be the ones that'll take advantage of you for being that way
No. You are not husband material. Improve yourself, be better. Even in nature, females chose only the best males.
Nope. Women chose long leg bone and handsome face. Behaviorally, their selection is dysgenic, because they are ok with any behavior so long as these physical criteria are met. And humans persist in a state of nature. They're not magical beings beyond it. You're quite literally wrong about all your ideas.
how would my friends react to him would i be envied if i were to be in a relationship with this man
is one of the first things they ask themselves so yes you can be whatever as long as it doesent contaminate the public face you two share.
social media has ruined women
Her friends also only care about long leg bone and face handsome. That's what woman compare and compete with each other on: how hot my boyfriend/future husband is. Simple as.
the blackpill is so bitter bros
Actually they do
>T. Aggressive and insensitive autisitc virgin who sees plenty of beta basedboys with gfs.
>Do girls wanna date shy insecure guys?
Yes Anon. This is what girls really want
no.
you might find shy and insecure girls cute but girls mostly see shy insecure men as pathetic.
has to do with them dating up by nature, if you position yourself as less or equal to her she cant shake off the feeling that she can do better. thats why some girls get the ick from well mannered stable dudes but get aroused by meth head white trash dudes. or where the whole ''girls only date buttholes'' come from. its not being treated like shit that they like, its being less than him. same with height and money. girls want to date up. but there is this other phenomenon that prevents shy insecure guys from getting girls who are even more shy and insecure, something akin to equalizing her shortcomings by finding a guy who doesn't have those at all. ever notice that short girls tend to always go for tall guys, like top 10% tall? or how super shy girls who barely leave the house tend to date some of the most outgoing and secure guys who doesn't even understand the concept of social anxiety? emotional girls who cry watching generic love movies find dudes whos only emotions are nothing and anger?
good hearted guys who struggle to get out of their shell and show emotion just attract evil minded girls who destroy everyone around her on sadistic whims.
if you are tall, yes, otherwise no