Lately, he bought a book called 'Seduction' by Robert Greene and he also bought a book 'How to read people like a book"
In the beginning, he proposed to me in 3 days. I was in shock, but his paystub conveys a very comfortable life (over 10k a month) so I said yes.
He planned the whole thing for months and told me that "you are strong" frequently I didn't know what he meant, then he stopped telling me "you are strong" after the following:
He made me lie about my virginity with a crazy method (I don't know how he came up with it) I had stay with this lie otherwise he would go crazy because it bothers him that he was a virgin and I only had one guy before him and then lost interest because I was curious about sex... I had literally 1 body count before. Of course, I regret it all. I was a teenager and stupid.
I do not feel like myself and my self-ego got split up because of this, I have to be two separate individuals in my brain from the trauma. One person is a virgin, another person is a true real me and I cannot reveal my true self. It hurts me so much that I can't be true to myself to my own husband.
I talked with him about this stuff and how he convinced me to be a virgin and he said he didn't do anything on purpose. He also thought I was manipulating him but I actually didn't do it on purpose, so there's that.
Did I marry a psychopath, your thoughts?
> screencap is one of his book
I have to pretend to be another person to keep the atmosphere peaceful in the household.
My parents told me that I should tell him that I'm a virgin too.
you're a stupid b***h do whatever you're gonna frick it up anyways
this
marry a psychopath who cares hopefully he kills you
>he proposed to me in 3 days. I was in shock, but his paystub conveys a very comfortable life (over 10k a month) so I said yes.
lol
Yup
He's never physically abusive or unkind to me or anything like that. He does the best he can when he's not working. That's all.
In a way, she's right. She'll probably never meet another guy willing to commit to her who makes that kind of money.
Everything else, you're both young, stupid an immature. You'll both grow up
Lol
Lmao
Can't say he's a psychopath but I wouldn't be surprised if he's a manipulative person. I would guess he has an inferiority complex and always feels like he needs to be the alpha male so that's why he's having you lie about your virginity. This doesn't sound like the character of a man I would marry, especially not one who proposed to me in a matter of a few days
I did not know he would plan on this after proposing to me.
It really bothers him that he doesn't have a foreskin adding to his trauma.
Whether this whole story is real or not you're mentally disabled
Maybe we need a marriage counselor?
That's not a bad idea.
I would stay open to the idea but, uhhhh, no I don't think that will work. I would mostly stay open to the idea as a way to please him if it's what he wants.
It's hard to say for sure what the best thing to do would be. Honestly he just sounds dissatisfied with you, sad to say. It could be partially your fault, but I genuinely don't think it is. I think he's just low self-esteem and felt he had to marry this person or he'd die alone. Sorry. I mean, happily married men don't tend to read about seduction in their free time.
Understandable, but still
>I have to pretend to be another person to keep the atmosphere peaceful in the household.
Is 10k a month really enough to justify living the rest of your life with someone who makes you feel like this over such an egotistical concept? Imagine how much worse this will get with time as you run into more and more issues
>He made me lie about my virginity with a crazy method (I don't know how he came up with it
What method?
Gold diggers deserve whatever they get, up to and including death
I barely buy anything but essentials like clothing, I even save money on food or pharma. I grew up in a family when that used food stamps.
He straight up told me that I'm not a golddigger golddiggers are not my thing.
>he proposed to me in 3 days. I was in shock, but his paystub conveys a very comfortable life (over 10k a month) so I said yes.
>not a gold digger
>He straight up told me that I'm not a golddigger
You are the dictionary definition of a gold digger
Guys, they literally have to hitch themselves to a man and ride it for the rest of their lives. At least, that's the plan going into it. Of course they're going to care that he makes enough to provide. ~120k/yr is solid, but it's not anything to write home about.
There is a huge difference between pursuing partners for cash and just making sure your partner has enough to build a life on.
Think about if it was your daughter.
Shut up moron
>they literally have to hitch themselves to a man and ride it for the rest of their lives.
Good point, sir, it’s a lifelong commitment and I dare you find me a woman who would defile such an agreement for something as petty as boredom and envy induced by Instagram addiction.
Like I said, it's the plan going into it lol
>I do not feel like myself and my self-ego got split up because of this, I have to be two separate individuals in my brain from the trauma.
Lmao. What trauma?
It's a little weird, but realistically you're making a way bigger deal out of it than it is. No one wants to hear about their partner's sexual past. It's weird that he wants you to LARP as a virgin, but it's not much different from the standard routine of just not talking about it from a practical perspective.
I will never understand men who order these cringey fricking books publicly. Like I can understand being so desperate that you turn to a fricking self-help book. Can they not just get the PDF on their iPhone? Or a computer? Or an iPad ideally? I remember reading a Reddit story about some dude who ordered "No More Mr. Nice Guy" and was sad that his wife was making fun of him for it. Truly pathetic.
Anyway he might or might not be a psychopath, but your man is definitely moronic.
He's college smart for jobs but for socializing, networking, and creating a startup... I don't see any shine from him.
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