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Debating killing myself

I'm not depressed, I'm really happy. The problem is, however, that there's one thing I don't and can't have; a girlfriend. I have great family and friends and they're Disney tier perfect. I get unconditional love from all of them and I'm very grateful for this and feel terribly sorry for people in my situation, but without even that which I do have, struggling to even make a friend. However, despite not being clinically depressed or anything, I'm just so unbelievably lovesick. I'm not asking for relationship tips, I'm just asking for ways to forget about not having a relationship, SPECIFICALLY as a romantic person. If you're one of the few people who'd recommend suicide, sell me on it because I'm unironically very split.

  1. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    Quit bitching.

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      im not bitching

      If this is really about a girlfriend, lower your standards and expand your interests.

      Also make an effort on apps and meetups.

      It wouldn’t hurt to have above average hygiene and clothes like button-ups instead of anime graphic tees.

      You’re better off just fixating on a hobby or skill and taking it all the way. You’ll impress and/or meet someone along the way

      >If this is really about a girlfriend, lower your standards and expand your interests
      anon, i'd date a girl with a cleft lip, fucked nose, bug eyes and obesity. as for interests i have a season ticket, go to the pub every weekend, etc.
      >Also make an effort on apps and meetups
      I got one match with an obese single mom. sure i could date this woman, but i wouldn't see that as a relationship, i'd see it as more of a looking after their child kind of scenario. I have good pics and am at least a 3/10, probably a 5/10.
      >It wouldn’t hurt to have above average hygiene
      i have way above average hygiene
      >clothes like button-ups instead of anime graphic tees
      other than some band shirts, i wear designer.
      >You’re better off just fixating on a hobby or skill and taking it all the way. You’ll impress and/or meet someone along the way
      here's hoping.
      but anyways, the point of this thread isn't for advice on how to get a gf, it's how to distract myself from it despite being the type of person who's a hopeless romantic.

  2. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    If this is really about a girlfriend, lower your standards and expand your interests.

    Also make an effort on apps and meetups.

    It wouldn’t hurt to have above average hygiene and clothes like button-ups instead of anime graphic tees.

    You’re better off just fixating on a hobby or skill and taking it all the way. You’ll impress and/or meet someone along the way

  3. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    You cant be serious with this shit. Suicide so I dont have to see your whiny ass posts. Holy shit.

    Imagine being weak willed enough to contemplate suicide over being single. You say youre not happy with only matching with fat single moms but youre also a 3/10? No fucking wonder. Go to the gym and get a better barber, fuckass.

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      come on, i don't wanna insult you, but leave my character out of it, i just want advice on how to forget about dating.
      > You say youre not happy with only matching with fat single moms but youre also a 3/10? No fucking wonder.
      yeah, that's what i said.
      >Go to the gym and get a better barber, fuckass.
      i have been going to the gym for 3 years and my haircut's fine

      • 1 week ago
        Anonymous

        If youve been to the gym for 3 years youre not a 3/10 to anyone but yourself unless you've been doing nothing but scrolling on facebook there.

        • 1 week ago
          Anonymous

          >If youve been to the gym for 3 years youre not a 3/10 to anyone but yourself
          i meant 3/10 in the face, and i even said that i'm probably higher. if you take into account the whole package i'm obviously higher than a 3 since i'm 6'2, make okay money, etc, etc.
          still, my problem is that i want to forget about the whole ordeal. maybe i'll spontaneously meet a girl who likes me one day, it's just that every day it seems less likely and for now i'd like to get it out of the back of my head.

  4. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    OP here, just want to clarify that, despite the large number of incels on this board, i'm not espousing the same rhetoric, i am honestly desperate for advice for my predicament.

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      This is literally incel rhetoric and mindset. You havent accepted it yet but its been ingrained in you.

  5. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    If you have all these qualities you're saying, what do you think is not working? I know way worse guys who have girlfriends or at least hookups. What is wrong with you then?

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      my social circle isn't great and no woman i approach is interested. since i have no luck online either, i've been led to think that it's my face

      >there's one thing I don't and can't have; a girlfriend
      Cringe

      i know, it's a pretty gay problem to have

      Learn to meet your own emotional needs

      You can transcend desire for relationships through meditation. Take the finders course and stop at location 4 or read and apply happiness beyond thought by Gary Weber

      i am ethically opposed to doing meditation, but thanks anyway, it's the sort of thing i'm looking for

      • 1 week ago
        Anonymous

        >my social circle isn't great
        i mean, it is really. it's people who i genuinly like but i mean that none are girls and only the attractive friends have gfs and their gfs don't have friends so there's no chance of being setup with anyone

        You can learn to attract women

        https://u.teknik.io/4SSzOA.pdf

        try the free “start conversations with women” and “get her number” , and “from meet to date” videos here http://davidtianphd.com/masterclass-content/

        https://docdro.id/8eOP9oe

        https://ia802200.us.archive.org/19/items/pdfy-TIGwEuUmNnQVm7x7/The%20Way%20Of%20The%20Superior%20Man.pdf

        i know it's probably drivel, but i'll give some a go

      • 1 week ago
        Anonymous

        Femanon speaking, post a pic if you want to, I'll rate you for real. Either that or describe yourself in detail, but that won't work as a pic.

        • 1 week ago
          Anonymous

          i look a lot like this guy

          [deleted post]

          but with a smaller chin and a more symmetrical nose

          • 1 week ago
            Anonymous

            You're not hideous that's true, maybe your mouth is small for my taste, but if your skin looks good and you wear nice clothes I think you may be easily a 5/10. Don't see why you wouldn't get a girl. It's either that or you're self-centered, a moron, pedantic or in short, your personality sucks. I've dated 4/10s whose personality was just great.

            • 1 week ago
              Anonymous

              How did you meet your bfs ?

      • 1 week ago
        Anonymous

        >i am ethically opposed to doing meditation
        Why?

        • 1 week ago
          Anonymous

          i'm a non-denom Christian. don't really take the stuff too seriously, but i try to at least avoid new age stuff like that and yoga, stuff propagated by american intelligence agencies as a means to subvert Christendom

  6. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    >there's one thing I don't and can't have; a girlfriend
    Cringe

  7. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    Learn to meet your own emotional needs

    You can transcend desire for relationships through meditation. Take the finders course and stop at location 4 or read and apply happiness beyond thought by Gary Weber

  8. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    You can learn to attract women

    https://u.teknik.io/4SSzOA.pdf

    try the free “start conversations with women” and “get her number” , and “from meet to date” videos here http://davidtianphd.com/masterclass-content/

    https://docdro.id/8eOP9oe

    https://ia802200.us.archive.org/19/items/pdfy-TIGwEuUmNnQVm7x7/The%20Way%20Of%20The%20Superior%20Man.pdf

  9. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    20 yr old M here. I never had a girlfriend or any romantic experiences in my life. Sure, being single for all of your life starts to weigh down on you at times especially since I see 90% of my peers already in relationships /experienced romance. Not having any luck so far in finding a woman in uni either. OP, if you're about the same age as I am or even a bit older just know that you aren't alone. (If you've seen /adv/ you probably already figured it out lul) My advice in taking your mind off relationships is to find something else to focus on that you're passionate about. You like working out? Play some sports, go b balling at the park. You like bands? Go play an instrument (assuming you haven't already done so). Who knows, you might meet that special someone while playing a gig but don't do it for the sake of relationships, y'know? What I've learned throughout my life about getting relationships is that you really can't 100% control it. Sometimes it could be that the right person has never come yet. My parents are from two different nations and never dated until they moved to the states and met each other at 27. They always say that getting a gf and finding a true SO is mostly destiny at work. You can't force a relationship, because if u do it will end in a train wreck 99% of the time as I've seen all the time during high school. Why focus your energy on something you can't have complete reign over? Please don't have a nice day. If you're young or even if you're old if you keep on going the chance will always be there. If you end it, that will cut short your window of opportunity. I know that having a loving relationship is one of the best things to experience in this life but please know that even if you don't have one now there's no reason that your life should be miserable because of it. At least you are of sound mind and are physiologically healthy (I hope). You can pursue anything you want to because of what you already have; keep going, you'll be alright.

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      >OP, if you're about the same age as I am or even a bit older just know that you aren't alone.
      yeah, i'm 23. it pisses me off to no end when people try and tell me that i'm an exception and that very few men are KHVs, so it's always nice for the reminder.
      >Go play an instrument
      i was thinking of picking up the guitar
      anyways, thanks for the kind words, anon. means more than you may think so.

      You're not hideous that's true, maybe your mouth is small for my taste, but if your skin looks good and you wear nice clothes I think you may be easily a 5/10. Don't see why you wouldn't get a girl. It's either that or you're self-centered, a moron, pedantic or in short, your personality sucks. I've dated 4/10s whose personality was just great.

      it's not me, but yeah, i'd say i'm around a 5, but i don't know, maybe i give off the idea that i'm a moron without opening my mouth or something

      • 1 week ago
        Anonymous

        You're welcome anon. Good luck out there and keep on living. "We're all gonna make it, brahs." - Zyzz

  10. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    I wanted to kill myself last year but one thing that has stopped me is : If I do it, I'll cause too much pain for my mother that she'll end up doing the same.

    I know how you feel.
    I dont know of it ever goes completely away but it does a lot. I think about suicide every other day but I dont want it anymore.

    Let some time pass alright ?
    Also, wanting to have a nice day can be related to deficiences, physical deficiencies.
    I dont have the complete list but (spoiler here) its related to sleep, nutrition, exercise
    And something less mentionned in the answers than in the question : social life

    If you have no friends, discord or telegram wont really help. Gotta be physical.
    So I suggest you these possibilities :

    Find a job and yes, even a shitty one cause wanting to kill your boss or your customers wont be as painful as what you feel right now

    Maybe volunteer somewhere (havent tried that so its an idea without experience)
    Could be the same shitty environment but once again, you wont think or feel the pain of ending it

    Join a club, for me it is martial arts
    Last year was closed due to corona (which worsened my condition) but theres nothing brings me more joy than fighting.
    And it may be one of the things that helps me living.

    @Kbaget on telegram if you want

    I dont answer often, but I eventually do :p

    Captcha :GAWD4

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      thanks man, i get the gist with the deficiencies. you and this anon

      You're welcome anon. Good luck out there and keep on living. "We're all gonna make it, brahs." - Zyzz

      have cheered me up plenty for at least tonight. i have a good job and all that, life's pretty good, i just really want a gf.
      >Join a club, for me it is martial arts
      i think i will give that a go
      >@Kbaget on telegram if you want
      i don't have telegram and don't really trust it because of that catboikami situation, but thanks anyway

      • 1 week ago
        Anonymous

        Sure 🙂

        And by a club I dont mean martial arts only, could be chess, political or else

      • 1 week ago
        Anonymous

        As for the gf part that I havent touched upon

        Cant help you that much, only had one gf, broke up a year ago, since then nothing

  11. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    >a girlfriend
    Jesus Christ

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