What should I know about the Dark Triad? Could it actually help me to build better, more exciting relationships than just being kind and nice?
Dark Triad
What should I know about the Dark Triad? Could it actually help me to build better, more exciting relationships than just being kind and nice?
As with everything, this is a "it depends" situation.
Most sane women will instantly reject you. But, there's not exclusively sane women out there, so you can definitely get with women who don't respect themselves. First, though, you have to be hot.
>you have to be hot.
Not a requirement
Basically all of the benefit of the dark triad comes from being confident, and insofar as it helps it's because it boosts confidence.
>narcissism
self-centered and arrogant self-ideation that you're great, without regard to others or any facts of the matter, comes off as being extremely self-confident.
>machiavellianism
gaining power through manipulation imparts a feeling of control, which is expressed through a feeling of confidence
>Psychopathy
not letting morals or empathy take any options off the table makes a psychopath feel like they have more options in the same scenario, more options is on average more feeling of control, and more control is more confidence.
IF you can be confident without the dark triad, you definitely should, because women respond to the excess of confidence in spite of the flaws, not the flaws.
>Not a requirement
100% a requirement. A woman who doesn't want to fuck you will not put up with this bullshit for any reason. In fact, I know women that won't even be friends with men they don't wanna have sex with.
I'm not saying it doesn't matter at all, but guys can definitely punch way above their relative attractiveness in terms of their partners, and it's not just with money or success.
You just need something extra going for you, and one of those things that can do that is raw confidence
idk man, have you even read the studies that indicate "dark triad" traits are attractive? What does they say?
My own experience I learned from my various gfs starting from my very first is that being rude, selfish, and dismissive of her only made her more attracted to me. It is so weird, but I have to work with the world as it is. Every girl I've been with has been similar, loved being overpowered physically and emotionally, loved me being stronger than them, even controlling them or practically raping them.
My assumption these days is IF she's a woman AND straight, THEN it's safe to assume she wants the exact opposite of feminine traits at all times in her mate, and literally everything she says that ever contradicts that is a shit test and she isn't even aware of it. If you want a girl who is attracted to the typical binary sexual relationship, your best bet to be attractive is embodying the stereotype masculine traits as much as possible.
>Most sane women will instantly reject you
I'm not sure about this. It seems like just about every girl everywhere loves a badboy, especially while she's young and attractive. Eventually most "realize" how much trouble it is, conveniently when their looks are fading. Some very rare cases, and rarer each year, are mature enough to realize the warning signs immediately and bury their attraction to the dangerous one for someone more stable. But there it is, she's burying her attraction to make the more mature choice. She's attracted to them too.
I think it's a remnant from our more warlike past. She'll tolerate a lot of shit, even outright physical abuse, as long as it means *she* is with *him*
>It seems like just about every girl everywhere loves a badboy
t. person who is exclusively exposed to women via the internet.
Nah man, I'm in my 30s and I'm barely on LULZ much anymore. Your wishful thinking will harm you grievously.
How exactly is that the case?
I don't know you so I can't tell you exactly. But, some very common pitfalls of assuming girls will respond the way you want (or were taught to expect) instead of noticing how they respond in reality are:
>losing out to guys you're taller than, better looking than, more educated than, make more money than, should be a better choice than
>timidity and niceguy approach has girls either rejecting outright or giving the pricey three-date runaround while she's definitely fucked other guys first night
>if one sticks through it and courts his way into a relationship, her potentially cheating because she *felt a spark* between her and a guy she met, and she's not afraid of whatever repercussions would be caused by her official partner's hurt feelings.
Just to name a few that came to my head in a few moments thinking about it.
lmao. Women do this, yes, but men do this too. You pointed out that some people are dogshit people and then expected it to be a shock to me.
I'm not kind out of stupidity or naivety. I am kind because it's my active choice to do so.
I am diagnosed with ASPD.
I am a bully to girls. I poke at their insecurities unapologetically and get ostracized because of it. Because I lack care, I often get invited back as if nothing happened. This is because most people are socially adjusted and not personally adjusted to what is right. We work towards social capital, and an individual who values personal capital above it often will control normies just based off his actions
Being an asshole is good. You want to be able to show your sensitive side. As in, go on CHAT GPT and ask it to write a love poem, and send it randomly to a lover. Say this is for you and this is how you can trust me. The poem should do enough and make sure it's generated correctly
This makes sure you have two colors and gives you an illusion of complexity. You are able to become an asshole but also a "caring" person. I would not spend time at all writing an actual poem, just use OpenAI and get a paraphraser. It should be enough
Really good for BDSM.
>Narcissism
Praise kinks, high protocol play, body worship
>Machiavellianism
Human objects (human footstool, etc.), service, giving sexual orders
>Psychopathy
Sadism, CNC, punishment
>What should I know about the Dark Triad?
That it’s unreliable and inaccurate, only good to define surface-level human behaviours but completely misleading in how to go about reconciling them.
>Could it actually help me to build better, more exciting relationships than just being kind and nice?
Absolutely not. You misunderstand the very thing you’re contemplating to imitate. Do you know why people on the ‘Dark Triad’ have so-called ‘better, more exciting relationships?’ How they get them frequently and quickly?
By being “kind and nice”. Notice I put quotes. They do NOT behave like petulant edgy clowns outwardly, they don’t act stoic, cold, hard-ass up front. That shit you’re imagining is an incel myth, a cope used by /LULZ/ tards to distract them from personal responsibilities.
The dark triad, the sociopath, is a master at acting “kind and nice”. Acting. Consider Satan, the most wicked figure in literature, he is not a brutal overpowering and imposing figure. He is elegant, luminous, appearing as light. But underneath is a dark void. That is the trap that’s set down.
They pretend to be things they are not. In doing so, they cannot know true connection. So no, it would not build better relationships. It would merely dress them in the illusion that they are, for a time.
If your approach of kindness is genuine, and your problem is you’re not finding kindness returned, then it’s not your kindness at fault, it’s your lack of boundaries and unwillingness to discriminate that’s at fault. Choose better women.
>what if I'm just an absolute fucker and suck ass and nobody will like me once word spreads of my antisocial behaviour? is that a Pro Gamer Move bros?
Probably not. It's fun to read up on though
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get a part-time job for a few hours on the weekend working vice. hell, even a soup kitchen or volunteering with something where you're in direct social contact with a variety of people accustomed to street life. those are the grimy bearers of reality, they'll teach you how to find trust in a serious relationship built on these new standards you seem to be looking for - you do not even have to abandon your kindness and nicety.
The most fuckboy, a new girl every week type of men I know have many of these traits, what does this mean
I already posted in /LULZ/ but imma repost here
To uzilize this god given triade you have to also be smart. Just having massive disregard for human beings doesnt get you anywhere and makes you "manipulate" little girls until the dawn of time. My friend probably has all 3 of these fairly high on the spectrum yet does what
(being nice in certain situations) suggests. Being a "good" user of this means being a good human to others when need be but completly disregarding them in the "right" situation. You adapt to your surroundings incredibly well because you are very objective yet can recognize emotional patterns in behavior which leads to an advantage in many aspects of life. Imagine never feeling guilt nor remorse over your actions.
The mentioned friend is a workaholic in the finance/tech field and has made a killing off of his investments and his rigeriouse work ethic. Also is fairly successfull with woman and his a relationship.
These kinds of people are littered all over "high finance" and high tech roles.
yes he has many friends that are alike. But many are just clueless normies that went to University so you blend it well and can adapt to your surrounding easily and they hide the Psychopaths in the masses.
Also from what i see you saying. You can't just become the dark triade you literally can't.
The things my friend has done are impossible to do if you dont have complete disregard hammered into your brain from childhood. You can't make these decisions you cant get the motivation nor can you think like one you just can't it's god given as i said meaning it's a powerful tool only useable by the ones gifted with it and nobody else. You cant self impose Psychopathy onto yourself except if you think your mentality is strong enough to survive sever mental trauma which often is the cause of such "quirks".
Also if everyone had this and used it nobody would have it because it implies that people can be manipulated which someone with the Triade and intellegence can't. You cant step on people below you when they try to step on you at the same time