>coworker "friend" at work figures out i'm trans by presumably snooping through my computer during a visit to my place
>people at work stop calling me "miss" or "lady" and start saying "dude" and "man".
I'm not hallucinating right, this person completely violated my privacy and outed me at work didnt she?
Probably, I've been outed and fired before with similar ways.
what a fucking psychopath holy shit
i'm so sorry anon that sounds really awful
curious how she got on your computer though, did you leave it unlocked or let her on it?
i live alone, why would i lock my computer?
well if you're going to have people over you would probably want to NOT leave private information out in the open like that
or maybe i'm a huge schizo or something
personally i lock all of my stuff i deem private away where people most likely can't find it and that includes all the files on my computer. i also have it so when i close out of firefox it deletes all my history and cookies.
Because it can get stolen? Pawnshops won't buy a computer that's locked.
I live in a secured apt. Theres locks on doors everywhere, no one can get anywhere if they dont live here and we have a security officer here overnight and anyone who doesnt have keys or a keycard has to check in with ID. Why would I worry about theft?
How do you spend your entire life on the internet and practice such shitty OpSec?
what the hell is opsec?
oh no no no
I don't get it either. Locking your computer only prevents people from physically using your computer. If you don't live in a crime-ridden cesspit (city), then there's no reason to lock your computer when you're not using it.
Operational security
if you're inviting strangers to your home you'd think you would lock shit up at least
She wasn't a stranger, we've worked together for 18 months.
That doesn't mean you should trust her. It's just a co-worker not a close person of yours right?
my fault for trusting someone in any significant amount and being a schizo when it comes to hiding shit in my apartment i guess?????
...jesus
You’ve learned a hard lesson: never trust coworkers not to be gossiping pieces of shit. This applies to both men and women.
>she
Of fucking course.
Get back at her in any way you can
Thread's like this is why I'm
why i'm?
Repressing
similar thing happened to me but when i left and went to a new place apparently someone decided to stick it to me and tell the new employers hr that i was trans too :/
>she
Absolutely. Cis women are not to be trusted. They're all transphobic.
As opposed to cis men who will kill you.
Cis men being worse isn't an argument for cis women being good.
Men being dogshit doesn't magically make women saints.
Who do you think those men are killing for? Men, left to their own desires, gladly date trannies whenever they please. Cis women have to shame them out of it since birth or else they know they'd lose all power they have over them.
>criticizing cis women
>uhmmm durrr men will LICHTERALLY KILL YOU!!!!!111!
foid behavior
why do you always want to avoid accountability lmao
black and brown cis men*
at work stop calling me "miss" or "lady" and start saying "dude" and "man".
I don't get how people can be so mean spirited. As if they want you to know that you are not accepted.
That's exactly what they want you to know. This is why I have learned that you should never trust anyone, not friends, not family, and never let anyone get too close.
>you should never trust anyone, not friends, not family, and never let anyone get too close
this makes me want to cry, i know how it feels. it makes me angry that we have to live like this. people think we're suicidal because we're delusional or something but its because of shit like this
Not only think you're delusional, but use that statement to take more of your human rights and further alienate you. They did it to black people, homosexuals, and other groups and they will do it to you unless we fight back.
yeah, it makes me cry all the time. I honestly don't even consider myself to be a person anymore.
Women are insanely clichy and having a dick makes you not part of any clich that vagina havers are in.
Are you mtf or ftm? Also that's psycho behaviour.
mtf
Then also fuck your co workers, you obviously pass because they intentionally started misgendering u after finding out.
What do you mean fuck them? They think i'm a man and they're all straight with wives and kids.
outing people should be considered a hate crime and punished as such imo
at worst it could be considered creating a hostile work environment, but since 98% of hr employees are cis women they really wont do anything.
Let me guess, coworker is a femoid? Thry love to dig any info about you and gossip about it.
Meds
dude and man are literally neutral so many people use use them all the time on men and women you are just retarded
are you really trying to gaslight me?
before she came to my apartment last time, it was exclusively feminine referals when talking about me, now its almost exclusively "neutral" or male ones.
kys retard
Cope, homosexual. Stop grooming people and fucking up their mind so much that they start mutilating themselves
Literally telling people about something is grooming? Like you groom people to believe that a brown man in the desert 2000 years ago was white, and hates gays and minorities?
Jesus was from the Levant region, there are people with fair features from there. I'm not an American btw. You are brainwashing people into a cult. There are a lot of cults now a days, lgbtq, childfree, you name it. And these people multiply by grooming.
>my specific theologist and christian historian said jesus was white so he's white
also
>childfree
purely a result of it being uneconomical to raise children now a days. if you make enough money to do it, you have no money, you get no gibs from the govt, and then the only people breeding are low income, low education retardas who get their snap, daycare credits, childcare credits, etc.
privitization and the deregulation of labor laws and banking has resulted in these costs of living not matching the wages, its all a ploy to get you to own nothing and be happy
all you can do is make up some horrible lie about her
sneak something on her phone to get her vanned
she deserves it
you actually make a very convincing point that he probably would hate gays