There's literally nothing wrong with coping. If you think you don't cope, ironically that's because you're coping.
Cope is a derogatory way to say hope, it's not a rational belief but something that lets you drive onwards. Some degree of cope is good for you, it's necessary to survive and not be bogged down by depression and doubt.
Cope is the light at the end of the tunnel, that may be a nice sunshine or a burning fiery apocalypse.
How do you cope? What keeps you moving, and believing in the future?