I have been so blackpilled for such a long time, but I recently had an experience which forced the blackpill out of me. For the first time in a long time, I actually went outside and went to a bar and met three women there. We had a good time and afterwards one asked me to fuck, another asked me on a date, and the third gave me her number. I didn't rizz, I didn't xyz-maxx, I didn't use some PUA-shit, I just kind of awkwardly stood there and talked to them.
Clearly, it is not as over for me as I thought, however, I have been so blackpilled for so long that my confidence is basically non-existent. I didn't want to, and couldn't, capitalize on any of this because I hate myself. But now that I don't have anything external to blame its clear that actually having confidence would change the game for me. What are some ways I can work towards building social confidence within myself?