I have been so blackpilled for such a long time, but I recently had an experience which forced the blackpill out of me. For the first time in a long time, I actually went outside and went to a bar and met three women there. We had a good time and afterwards one asked me to fuck, another asked me on a date, and the third gave me her number. I didn't rizz, I didn't xyz-maxx, I didn't use some PUA-shit, I just kind of awkwardly stood there and talked to them.
Clearly, it is not as over for me as I thought, however, I have been so blackpilled for so long that my confidence is basically non-existent. I didn't want to, and couldn't, capitalize on any of this because I hate myself. But now that I don't have anything external to blame its clear that actually having confidence would change the game for me. What are some ways I can work towards building social confidence within myself?
you see this every day. you know what it is so you avoid it. and yet you still come here to do the same thing every time.
What does that mean?
do your own fucking homework? i don't understand what focus you're looking for
>do your own fucking homework?
I was asking what are some ways I can build confidence in myself
I think what second post is implying here is that your confidence will naturally improve as long as you stay off this website. Just go out more and find something better to do with your time then post here.
>Just go out more and find something better to do with your time then post here.
>implying I don't naturally come to spend less and less time in this place
Besides bitchin' on /gioyc/ and hanging out with the one hobby general I like, I can't stand this place. Even little things, like people not reading my argument or repeated arguments that go on such a hard line script, that if you attempt to divert in anyway you're shifted back to the A/B, and everyone being boring as FUCK makes me hate this place so much.
Oh yea, and schizods like
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Yea it’s really hard being here. Like it’s just so much noise, but it’s addicting at the same time.
I wish I never came here 🙁
This is the one place I can say what I want and not worry about anything. I can complain on /gioyc/ about anything, I can make a thread about how I shit my pants, and it won't haunt me. For that alone, it's worth it.
But if you want interesting people or at least, a conversation, this place sucks. I disabled the eye thing for LULZ x, just so I can post whatever and not worry any (you)s. Now if I feel the need to go to a thread and see what I said, I have to go back on it, which reduces interest a lot.
I just wait for a better future.
you only get that shit by building yourself up by looking down on others, and getting good interactions with girls.
yeah you're just lying
in bars women just sit at their table, with their group surrounded by men they already know and do not ever interact with any strangers. Men who go there alone just sit there alone and then go without speaking to anyone. No talking, nothing.
And confidence is a decision, loving yourself is a decision, it's not something that can be build up it's just waking up and deciding on doing it. You do love yourself and are confident you're just coming up with stupid fucking lie about a bar to make yourself feel worse, you lie that these women talked to you because just not being able to speak (which is what happens in real life) is not sad enough for you, you feel like you need to both believe bullshit story you've made up and then add extra layer or retarded where you would squander these opportunities that cannot ever occur in real life. You're just a fucking retarded liar.
Go to actual bar and deal see what the real problem is, your problem isn't that you would not capitalize, your real problem is that you cannot ever be in a situation where speech or contact with women is possible. In bars they are just sat like fucking autists in meat circle of men they already know. No sex, no number, no dates, nothing going on there regardless of how confident and self loving you are. You can sit there either noncofident or in full on manic narcissistic dellirum thinking how you're the greatest human being that has ever lived and you'd still never be able to speak just because it isn't a place where speaking with women can ever physically happen because of them being surrounded by these men and there being nothing to ever say to them.
You're making up bullshit stories to make your real life already miserable situation even worse. Get over yourself and deal with the real problem which is lack of any chance to ever conversate with women which can only be solved by going to university again.
agreed. no matter how drunk they get, no woman is gonna walk up to a guy by himself and offer herself to him.
You're replying to schooler.
I've been approached by women hundreds of times. Yes, women walked up to me and heavily implied that they would be interested in me sticking my penis into their bodies.
Granted, I'm not the ugliest, but pretty far from awesome.
I've literally been approached by women back when I used to go clubbing and to bars and shit. I don't anymore because something broke in my brain and I got blackpilled for no reason. I'm thinking about it now. Wtf happened to me.
No you didn't, I just explained to you retards it cannot ever happen. They just sit at tables with their own groups surrounded by men they know. There's no way for you as a man to break through the barrier the men around them create and they won't ever seperete from their autistic cell to speak to someone alone.
>No you didn't
Yes, it did.
I explained to you, retard, exactly how it happens and works.
When was the last time you went to a bar? What bar was it?
Oh, they willingly ignore the men around them on the outlook for better ones. That's when I shine, thank you very much.
>it cannot ever happen
I pick up women in bars all the time!
No you don't. I just explained, they're in their meat cube surrounded by men they know. Nothing to say, no way to break them apart.
I explained to you retard that it doesn't. THey just sit in their group unaware of anyone they don't know.
He absolutely can. You won't wake up and do it, you can just decide to do it any time you want. No brute forcing or anything. You can just decide to think you're the greatest person in the world right away. You can decide to stand up or to turn on the light, it's the same, it's just decision to do it. You can tell yourself that your favorite movie is this or that one and confidence is the same, you just decide that you are or not and that's it. OP's clearly confident based on how he's writing, if he wasn't in total love with himself he'd just agree with everything I've said without trying to lie more. He's both a narcissist for not taking others advice (he cannot recognize someone is better than him because he loves himself too much) and he's overconfident (thinks his bullshit retarded detached lie's can ever convince someone he's ever done anything)
I love going to bars a meeting new people. Trivia nights are the best, a lot of bars demand an equal number of men and women per team so they sit you together at a table and you talk, drink, compete together as a team, and get to know each other.
I've made a lot of male & female friends that way, even got some dates with women.
>And confidence is a decision, loving yourself is a decision
don't word it this way. It makes it sound like the OP can brute force it, which you can't. You just gotta let it happen. One day you'll wake up and you'll just start loving yourself and that's that. No conscious intent or effort required.
Blackpills are peddled by losers who need to believe that their failures are inevitable and not their fault. And they particularly hate those who succeed, because they prove the pill is wrong.
keep talking to strangers.
That'll help a lot
Maybe the blackpill is true, but you are handsome after all? Did you try rate me threads?
The sheer desperation of the Blackpillers is funny AF
Someone being sexually successful doesnt disprove the blackpill, unless proven to be ugly.
See?
This guy wants us to think that despite 97% of men losing virginity before age 40 and 80% of men *getting married* only handsome men can have any sex.
Fucking.
Hilarious.
But he will either pretend this isn't true or
>my favorite
claim that having sex, marrying, and so on somehow doesn't count if the woman involved isn't a 10/10