I find it really difficult to cum from penetrating a vagina with my penis. It gets to the point where I even get bored and lose my boner after a few minutes of PtoV. I'm a lot more turned on by titty fucking or by wanking over women, than by actually fucking them. In the past couple of years I only came one time, inside a girl's pussy and that was because dhe had really strong vaginal muscle that could tighten up over me at will. How do I get to enjoy vaginal sex again?
I always need at least one bump before someon replies.
Death grip
Lay off the porn and jacking off for a while to resensitize
This isn't a solution to his problem.
Yes it is. I stopped jerking off and it made sex 100x better even when I am circumcised
Tried this, literally does nothing.
>This isn't a solution to his problem
the solution to his problem is not ejaculating from any other stimulation but piv until he can do it
>circumcised problems
my sympathies anon
What the fuck are talking about? I'm not American.
Stop jacking off
have sex with people who aren't bad at it
Would masturbating with a fleshlight help?
In my case the oly difference would be if they are good at titty fucking.
so would you rather just titty fuck or what is your deal? why do you need to cum from piv?
It boost women's ego. Some women think there is something wrong with their pussy if they can't make you cum with it. Even if I have to explain it has nothing t do with them. Also it's embarassing for me if I lose my erections during PiV.
>Would you rather just titty fuck
Absolutely!
maybe look for women who just want to do that? though i understand that's probably hard to bring up in casual conversation
This is very true. I’d feel so bad about myself if my partner couldn’t cum. I do kegels for that reason, I’m paranoid.
>I do kegel for that reason
The woman who has managed to make me cum, did kegel for years, her pussy was the tightest I've ever been in. She could almost jerk my dick with it.
>her pussy was the tightest I've ever been in. She could almost jerk my dick with it.
Shit, I could literally jack my dick off inside of my last gf's pussy. I mean my hand and dick inside of her at the same time, jacking myself off.. Now that's good pussy
>Now that's good pussy
Well it's a good thing she found you, becausenot a lot of men enjoy pussy this loose.
>Well it's a good thing she found you, becausenot a lot of men enjoy pussy this loose.
That's because those men are retarded. ALL pussy is that loose. You realize a baby comes out of that hole, right? You can put anything you fucking want in there. You get this idea in your head that "tight" = good but that's just dumb. Any girl can clamp her pussy down on you, just tell her to do it. Any girl can take your hand and cock at the same time, and it'll snap right back to the way it was by tomorrow morning (or after 30 minutes, probably). If you're not enjoying that loose stretched out pussy, then you're not livin life, imo
>You realize a baby come from that hole right
You realize a baby fucking rips the vagina for ever? No woman who has ever had a baby is ever going to as tight as before.
Some women naturally have tighter holes than others. The tightest women will have vaginitis if they take on a dick that's too big. I've tryed fucking hr with a balldo and she couldn't fit it in her pussy.
>You realize a baby fucking rips the vagina for ever?
No? You realize it doesn't, right? SOMETIMES they might give the bitch an episiotomy, and only some of those are actually necessary (<10%?). And even in those cases, THE THING HEALS RIGHT BACK UP
>No woman who has ever had a baby is ever going to as tight as before.
Yes they will, it doesn't work like that
>The tightest women will have vaginitis if they take on a dick that's too big
Do what? Something tells me you mean vaginismus? That doesn't mean they're TIGHT? And why would you want that anyway? It hurts your dick too, you know? It's a bad thing, not a good thing
>I've tryed fucking hr with a balldo and she couldn't fit it in her pussy.
Translate to English?
I said vaginitis, I meant Vaginitis.
Vaginas cum in all shapes and size regardless of muscle strenght. But some tunnels are narrower and can get microrips if inserting objects that are too larges.
>It hurt your dick
No, my hands will always be tighter than a vagina.
>It dosen't mean they're tight
Dogs have paws. it dosen't mean things with paws are dogs.
>Translate to English
Now you're just being a sophist!
I only like doggy when I'm standing up and I get tired pretty easily.
>I said vaginitis, I meant Vaginitis.
Oh okay, great, well you're extra wrong then lol. You out yo mind, nigga? Dick so big it gave her a fucking INFECTION?
>No, my hands will always be tighter than a vagina.
Let me know how it feels sticking your dick in a dry cunt
>Now you're just being a sophist!
What? You said
>I've tryed fucking hr with a balldo and she couldn't fit it in her pussy.
I assumed there were some typos in there or something? Or I don't know what a balldo is, maybe? Is that a thing i need to google? Cause I just assumed you typed something wrong
Great, the world's first ball dildo, how did I not know about this..
You know you can just shove your balls in without this device, right? Though this might make it easier, hmm.. Do you mean you put your cock and balls both in at the same time? Cause I'ma do that one day myself, the time I tried one or the other kept slipping out and I said "fuck it, I'll get around to that later"
>and I get tired pretty easily.
You and me both. We need to get in better shape though lol
>I had a few experience where my dick hit a wall inside a girl and bent. I'm terrified of breaking my dick, so I don't trust 1NS with this position
Just keep banging against it, it'll go in deeper eventually. Plus, haven't you ever had her snap your dick in half when she was riding it? I'm to the point where I don't even blink when that shit happens anymore, just "you just broke my dick. Oh no, keep going, it's fine" lol
Here how's that work
>Giant dick
>tiny tunnel
>Microrips in the vagina's
>microrips left unoticed
>microrips gets infected
>You can stick your balls directly
Nigga what? I WOULD NEVER in my life try that thing. The point of the balldo is that it not only make it easier, but it also prevent your testicles from collapsing.
But that thing has a pretty large diameter. When my partner saw it, she was afraid it wouldn't fit and she was right it was not only impossible to get more than the tip inside her, it hurt her as well, so we stopped trying.
>You just broke my dick it's fine
No it isn't, if you had actually broken your dick you would have been in agonizing pain and you would need a surgical intervention. You can cause some severe dammage to your penis, if you bend it too hard.
>I WOULD NEVER in my life try that thing
Wait why not?
>The point of the balldo is that it not only make it easier, but it also prevent your testicles from collapsing.
Yeah I get it, I didn't know such a thing existed. You just squeeze your ballbag so your balls are pushed up towards the end, then shove them fuckers in there, but apparently I'm doing it the old fashioned way
>But that thing has a pretty large diameter. When my partner saw it, she was afraid it wouldn't fit and she was right it was not only impossible to get more than the tip inside her, it hurt her as well, so we stopped trying.
Yeah I'd roll my eyes at her and tell her "you know a baby's head comes outta there?"
Anyway, you gotta try again using a bunch of lube. If I can get my hand and dick in there together, you can get your sack in there + that contraption
>No it isn't, if you had actually broken your dick you would have been in agonizing pain and you would need a surgical intervention. You can cause some severe dammage to your penis, if you bend it too hard.
Yeah yeah I get it but I've had the accidental bending thing happen so many times now that I know I didn't actually break my dick and everything's fine, just hurts a little, therefore she can continue what she's doing. If I thought she actually broke the thing, I'd throw the bitch into the ceiling fan
Like other anon said, you definitely don’t want a broken dick. You would need immediate surgery and I believe you still have permanent damage.
Looks like you need to be in better shape. Doggy isn’t really an issue for me.
>Looks like you need to be in better shape. Doggy isn’t really an issue for me.
(I'm not him, I'm
)
You're right about the better shape part, obviously, but.. how long can you pound away at the bitch before you're out of breath? Doggy or whatever position I guess as long as you're the one doin the pounding
Mmm I’d say it’s like 20 minutes.
That’s fair. Haven’t had much experience with big butts.
I like doggy but only on skinny girls with round butt.
Girls with big butts, I find it akward trying to get inside them, and I don't know how to position myself.
>A baby comes out of there
You keep repeating that but it serve no purpose. Do you know how much pain it is for a woman to get a baby out of there? Her vagina has to rip oppen, they can't have sex for months afterward. It was impossible to fit in. Imagine trying to get something wider than your head inside your mouth. Not all women have the same circumference inside their vagina.
>Girls with big butts, I find it akward trying to get inside them, and I don't know how to position myself.
If you're in doggy, take your hands and spread their asscheeks apart if you want to get in deeper. Or you can make them do that part, either way
>You keep repeating that but it serve no purpose
Well what do you want me to say instead? That you can fit a football in there? People might deny that, but no one can deny the baby's head coming out of there, sooo
>Do you know how much pain it is for a woman to get a baby out of there?
I think the contractions and whatnot are more painful than anything. Once she's fully dilated it's a matter of getting the bastard through the cervix, then they pretty much come sliding out like they're goin down a slip n slide
>Her vagina has to rip oppen
No it doesn't.. Listen to me, my fist is 3.5" across. A fucking baby's head is half an inch, maybe an inch bigger if they got a bigass fucking head? Granted my fist isn't as wide the other direction, it's still almost 3"x3.5x, and my hands aren't all that big. I can shove my hand in and out of this hole like it's nothin, you know? No ripping, no tearing, no bleeding, no hurting, none of that
>they can't have sex for months afterward
Oh whatever, if they don't tear (or more likely, get cut), they can have sex the next day, or the same damn day if they want
>It was impossible to fit in
It's not impossible, give me that damn thing, I'll show you
>Not all women have the same circumference inside their vagina.
Yeah yeah yeah, whatever, you leave them alone with me for the night and we'll see
P.S. buy some lube, compadre
>Mmm I’d say it’s like 20 minutes.
Jesus christ, what are you a marathon runner?. Ahh I need to get in better shape, I miss those days. I'll start tomorrow!
Are you a virgin?
>Are you a virgin?
No? I don't care about your picture, their hole is gonna be the size of my god damn fist either way, so what difference does it make? You see how that range only goes up to 2.5"? Well my fist is 3.5", how's that work? It's almost like it stretches
Stop being a coomer ASAP.
Would you fags quit calling it PiV. It’s ridiculous. Using lingo like this is probably why you can’t stay hard
Sex it’s dick in Pussy. Everything else gets the descriptor. Gay anal sex. Oral sex.
literally no one is contesting any of that by saying piv (which is a simple, obviously correct term describing what's happening)
why do people say copulation? why do people say intercourse? why do people say fornication?
it's fine for one thing to have multiple words, spergo
I say PiV be auseit takes less time to write and I'm lazy.
yeah wtf is PTV that'slike Saying kissing is LTL
I thought kissing was TTT
Stop watching porn so much. My ex bf was the same way. He would take FOREVER to cum (sometimes couldn’t even get there) from regular sex. My current partner, we are engaged, sometimes cums after only a few minutes because he’s not a coom brain.
It’s 100% your masturbation that’s getting in the way. Either that or you should get your T levels checked.
>My current partner, we are engaged, sometimes cums after only a few minutes because he’s not a coom brain.
>because he’s not a coom brain.
>It’s 100% your masturbation that’s getting in the way.
>My current partner, we are engaged, sometimes cums after only a few minutes
Retard, that's not why he cums in a few minutes. He's Jim from American Pie. He's the guy that cums just from having a girl touch his dick. He's a fucking premature ejaculator, you retard, he probably jacks off and watches porn all the time too lol
Jesus christ..
>He's a fucking premature ejaculator
I'm not the anon you replied to but you're a fucking idiot. Vaginal sex should last ideally between 3-8 minutes. 3 minutes if she hasn't blown you yet and closer to 8 minutes if she has. The rest of sex should be taken up by a good amount of foreplay, oral for both parties (if desired), and then vaginal. In total sex should last between 20-40 minutes.
That doesn't mean 20-40 minutes of jackhammering her pussy. If you have to do that in order to get off then you're watching too much porn. Ideally the majority of sex should consist of foreplay. That way it's easier for both of you to get off because you're insanely aroused. I can get my wife off in less than 2 minutes if we've had sufficient foreplay and when we do foreplay the orgasm for both of us is like 100x better. Young people these days don't even know what foreplay is. Every younger female friend of mine complains about how their boyfriends/husbands/one night stands just want to stick it in immediately and how sex sucks for them because of it. Zoomers/Millennials are fucking retarded.
>3 minutes if she hasn't blown you yet and closer to 8 minutes if she has
The other way around, you mean? Last longer if she hasn't blown you?
3 minutes huh? So one position and done?
>Ideally the majority of sex should consist of foreplay
Why?
>That way it's easier for both of you to get off because you're insanely aroused
I am? From foreplay you mean? What kind of foreplay are you talking about that gets me insanely aroused? I mean yeah, that exists, but I want to know what you're thinkin lol
>I can get my wife off in less than 2 minutes if we've had sufficient foreplay
By get her off you mean get her off by fucking her with your cock? Or as OP says, P2V
>Every younger female friend of mine complains about how their boyfriends/husbands/one night stands just want to stick it in immediately and how sex sucks for them because of it
Yeah it's laziness and retardation but I think it's like 75% laziness/25% retardation. It'd be better for both people if they spent more time on foreplay, and at this point, I think most people know that shit, they're just lazy. Now maybe they're lazy sometimes and not others, that can be more understandable I guess
I dunno, it's not too fun sticking your dick in a dry pussy connected to a girl that isn't really into it
That being said, I still gotta fuck more than 3-8 minutes, you crazy?
>The other way around, you mean? Last longer if she hasn't blown you?
Yeah, typo.
>3 minutes huh? So one position and done?
If you only last 3 minutes then yeah. If you're closer to 8 then you can do 2-3 different positions if you want. But most couples have a favorite position and stick to it most of the time.
>I am?
Good for you. What about her? Women need more than a look at your dick to get aroused and you'd know that if you gave a damn about your partner.
>What kind of foreplay are you talking about that gets me insanely aroused?
Kissing, closeness, sensual (but not sexual) touch. Just touching and exploring each other's bodies (non-sexually) feels amazing.
>By get her off you mean get her off by fucking her with your cock?
No. 90% of women can't get off on vaginal sex alone. It feels nice to many women but what gets women off is taking the time to show them that you love them, lots of foreplay, and playing with their clit. Way too many men are so insecure about their manhood that they refuse to accept that their manly dick isn't enough go get women off alone.
>I still gotta fuck more than 3-8 minutes
If it takes longer than that you're not properly aroused. Wanting to fuck her pussy is not "properly aroused." It's sad that you've never experienced proper arousal, though not surprising. People these days don't know how to have sex.
>But most couples have a favorite position and stick to it most of the time.
I can't do that man, that would be weird as fuck. I'm not even sure that would feel like sex to me anymore
>No. 90% of women can't get off on vaginal sex alone. It feels nice to many women but what gets women off is taking the time to show them that you love them, lots of foreplay, and playing with their clit. Way too many men are so insecure about their manhood that they refuse to accept that their manly dick isn't enough go get women off alone.
Yeah I was gonna call you out for being full of shit, but you're good again lol
>If it takes longer than that you're not properly aroused. Wanting to fuck her pussy is not "properly aroused." It's sad that you've never experienced proper arousal, though not surprising. People these days don't know how to have sex.
Nah nah nah, that's not what I meant. I could cum faster than that if I wanted to, but I gotta fuck longer than that, it's too much fun, I can't help it
>Gotta fuck more than 3~8
Even if I'm jacking off alone, if it take me less than 5 minutes to cum, I'm left sexually frustrated.
Young women don't give a shit about foreplay and the older ones take too long to turn on.
Cock ring! Cock ring! Cock ring!
Anyone who has one of these should die.
You're pretty mad about a small rubber circle
>I'm a lot more turned on by titty fucking
I don't believe you can cum from titty fucking but not from fuckin a pussy. You mean you're just more turned on by titty fucking, right? Not that you can cum from it?
>that was because dhe had really strong vaginal muscle that could tighten up over me at will
They all can do that, just some don't know or don't care enough to bother
Anyway, I don't see an issue here, just titty fuck her for a while, fuck her cunt for a while, then jack off all over her, pat her on the head and tell her good job, then be on your merry way
are you taking any medication?
>Amphetamine salts and Dextroamphetamines
Try doggy or other rear-entry positions. The front wall of the vagina is firmer than the back and may give you the pressure and friction you need.
>Try doggy or other rear-entry positions. The front wall of the vagina is firmer than the back and may give you the pressure and friction you need.
And if she's on top, then try lying on the ground or something else firm/solid (preferably not carpet lol). I suppose this is prolly true for you being on top too. I dunno if it's because there's less give on a solid surface or what, but it definitely makes a difference
>Lay on your back
I had a few experience where my dick hit a wall inside a girl and bent. I'm terrified of breaking my dick, so I don't trust 1NS with this position
probably a phisical issue, do kegel and cardio.lying on top of awoman isn't going to do it for either of you.
>Do cardio
I've noticed that my dick get harder and I last longer, when I'm running on a regular basis.
>Kegel
How doe's that work for men?
So far I've only seen exercice to avoid premature ejaculation and that consisted in stoping your pee flow midstream.
>that consisted in stoping your pee flow midstream.
Never do this. You're training your brain to not fully empty your bladder, causing incontinence.
>>How doe's that work for men?
>>that consisted in stoping your pee flow midstream.
>Never do this. You're training your brain to not fully empty your bladder, causing incontinence.
I don't know for sure, but I would guess that they weren't talking about actually stopping your pee midstream, but that the exercise for men would like what you'd do when you're cutting off your pee midstream
I figure it's like if your dick is hard and you can kinda flex it, you know what I mean? Just guessin but that's prolly it
same
i don't know what it is but tits really make me cum better than vaginal sex tbhuu
I feel like a woman can put her tits anywhere against my skin, and it instantly makes that an erogenous zone. And plastic tits just don't do that to me.
exactly the same way i feel
soft and rounded medium to large tits just feel great i can't stand the touch of silicon tits they weird out
only way vaginal sex feels good for me if she's really wet and then it doesn't come close to a titjob
Do you have a really tiny dick?
take off your condom and find a tighter/better hole
If a girl is using her pelvic muscles to squeeze your cock then she's trying to get you to bust that fat nut. They reserve that effort though, that's why you gotta learn to eat pussy and keep her eyes wandering who you are.
>If a girl is using her pelvic muscles to squeeze your cock then she's trying to get you to bust that fat nut. They reserve that effort though, that's why you gotta learn to eat pussy and keep her eyes wandering who you are.
OR she's trying to get you to hurry up and cum so the whole thing can be over with
Me too. Never had this problem but my gf got fat as fuck.
Maybe you’re not attracted to your partner any more