I've never been able to hold back, so I've always assumed that's true for everyone else as well. But lately multiple friends have casually mentioned to me that's not the case, and I've just been too embarrassed to probe them further or ask them to elaborate. Of course, I can control the speed, length, and duration of my thrusts (in other words, how fast, hard, and deep I go) while also dictating my own rhythm and tempo too, but simply trying to "hold it in" has never worked for me, or even had a slight effect. Am I the only one who feels this way, and if so, what am I doing wrong?
>Can guys actually control when they cum?
Yes, of course
>I've never been able to hold back
I don't even know what that means. I don't think there's any way I could cum if I wasn't actually trying to cum
>I can control the speed, length, and duration of my thrusts (in other words, how fast, hard, and deep I go) while also dictating my own rhythm and tempo too, but simply trying to "hold it in" has never worked for me, or even had a slight effect. Am I the only one who feels this way, and if so, what am I doing wrong?
Well.. okay now that's a bit confusing for me. Those are the same thing, aren't they? Well sorta, at least. I suppose I could keep going at the same pace and make myself not cum yet, but the simplest thing to do would be to slow down if you're about to cum lol
>I don't think there's any way I could cum if I wasn't actually trying to cum
this is my problem, unfortunately. id say its been at least a year since the last time i "intentionally" cummed while having sex.
from the research ive done, i dont *technically* suffer from PE but im close, and unfortunately i dont last nearly as long as my gf would like me to
>I suppose I could keep going at the same pace and make myself not cum yet
sadly, im not able to do that either. when i reach my peak, i reach my peak, and it feels like its at the most inconvenient of times every time (right as shes about to get there) which makes me feel like a total failure for being unable to last that extra 5 seconds, half minute, or however much longer it wouldve taken
>the simplest thing to do would be to slow down if you're about to cum lol
thats what i was referring to with my original comment. sadly shes slept with another guy before, and shes told me he was way bigger and thicker than me. more importantly, he could (apparently) go way faster and for way longer (not to mention deeper too, obviously) without cumming, which is perhaps the thing that matters most to her (and understandably so, because im trying to empathize with the letdown that she must feel every time we get in bed together)
>from the research ive done, i dont *technically* suffer from PE but im close, and unfortunately i dont last nearly as long as my gf would like me to
>i dont last nearly as long as my gf would like me to
I would call that premature ejaculation
>sadly, im not able to do that either
You are able to do that
>which makes me feel like a total failure for being unable to last that extra 5 seconds, half minute, or however much longer it wouldve taken
Half a minute? You've got a mental thing going on maybe?
You should just keep going after you cum then, shit
>and shes told me he was way bigger and thicker than me
Maan, DP her with a fucking dildo then. Or stick your hand in there at the same time, I love doing that shit
>he could (apparently) go way faster and for way longer (not to mention deeper too, obviously) without cumming
Shit I'll run out of breath before I cum lol
>and understandably so, because im trying to empathize with the letdown that she must feel every time we get in bed together)
Fuck that bitch, you need some sex toys then. Or one of those sleeves you wear on your dick. Or just wrap your dick in electrical tape, that ought to do the trick.. nah you better get one of those sleeve things. And a bunch of dildos and vibrators, and half a gallon of lube. Trust me
>You are able to do that
but how? i try my best, doesnt seem to make a difference
>You've got a mental thing going on maybe?
wdym
is 30 seconds supposed to be long or short
>You should just keep going after you cum then
how would this help?
not like i can do this in the first place, because its super painful to do anything other than pull out immediately, and even that sometimes hurts too
ok painful maybe isnt the right word to use here, the best way to describe it is that my body has this deep kinda physical revulsion to continuing to thrust as soon as the moment my first drop comes out
>Shit I'll run out of breath before I cum lol
huh?
>And a bunch of dildos and vibrators
... am i supposed to put all those things in her at the same time, in addition to my dick?
>wdym
Like, does she announce that she's close to cumming, and THEN you cum (before she does)? Or do you cum and then afterwards she tells you that she was close to cumming? If it's the former then it might be a mental thing and if it's the latter then uhh I'd guess she's prolly just lying to you lol. Or she's retarded, because she should learn to be like "don't cum yet, homosexual, I'm about to cum!"
>>You should just keep going after you cum then
>how would this help?
Well dude, because then you would last long enough for her to cum, right?
>not like i can do this in the first place
Yes you can
>ok painful maybe isnt the right word to use here, the best way to describe it is that my body has this deep kinda physical revulsion to continuing to thrust as soon as the moment my first drop comes out
Like girls say after they cum "it's too sensitive! Stopppp, it's too sensitive!" Like, so what bitch, deal with it, I'm not done fuckin with you yet..
Yeah, if I want to I can just straight up ignore the sensitivity and shit and just keep fucking without even stopping. You only gotta make it like a minute or two anyway, then that shit fades and you're back in the fucking zone
>>Shit I'll run out of breath before I cum lol
>huh?
I mean I'm old and fat and while I used to fuck all night long, now it takes me all night long to fuck. I'm out of shape nigga, fucking wears me out, shit
>... am i supposed to put all those things in her at the same time, in addition to my dick?
It's worth a shot.. But nah the vibrator would go on her clit, then you shove whatever you want in her hole(s). I got a thing for fisting and toys and whatnot and I may be a bit on the extreme side, but you ought to at least be somewhere in the middle if you're gonna be fuckin properly. These niggas who freak out if they find their gf has a toy, or they won't allow her to have a toy that's bigger than their dick? They're losers, and their gfs will never be satisfied
>Like, does she announce that she's close to cumming, and THEN you cum (before she does)? Or do you cum and then afterwards she tells you that she was close to cumming?
both tbh
actually now that i come to think of it more carefully, probably more of the former. but i dont think i cum *because* she says shes close, maybe the action just picks up, which arouses her, but also makes me get closer to cumming more quickly. just a guess, though
and i think this might be a mental mirage that ive created, more than anything else ... in other words, convincing myself (after the fact) that she was close, even when she may not have been anywhere near the point of climax. perhaps im just subconsciously employing that tactic to try and motivate myself to last just that bit longer the next time, by telling myself that ill get her to cum too, if i successfully manage to delay my own orgasm
>Yeah, if I want to I can just straight up ignore the sensitivity and shit and just keep fucking without even stopping.
this is actually a very interesting idea, i never thought id be able to do that
but maybe its worth a shot after all
ill try it out and see if it works (provided she lets me, though i dont see why she wouldnt, since she wont have finished yet) and get back to you in a few days time hopefully. just 99% certain this will fail, like all other strategies ive tried so far lol
>You only gotta make it like a minute or two anyway, then that shit fades and you're back in the fucking zone
yeah no ... it takes me hours to get properly hard again without a really straining feeling in my dick
and a couple days at a minimum before i can actually cum again (maybe id be able to ejaculate a tiny little bit before that if i absolutely forced myself to, but its legitimately painful if i do)
I can edge for almost an hour in my gf. When she's dick drunk and about to pass out from so much orgasms I unload the biggest nut straight to her cervix. Shit's cash.
>I can edge for almost an hour in my gf
Man there's like a point where if I've been fucking that long, I almost can't cum anymore. If I was full blown fucking for an hour straight, I'd be past that point. Of course, this can be reset if I take a 15-30 minute break or something. Taking a nap or going to sleep will 100% reset it, but just watching an episode of a show or going to the kitchen to make a sandwich or something will usually do the trick too. I have no fucking idea what this phenomenon is or why it works that way, btw
>Does it really matter how long it takes? Round two should be only a few minutes away, you can do a lot of exciting stuff in the meanwhile
Like steal one of her kids' Caprisuns out of the fridge? Make some bagel bites? Pizza rolls? Mac n cheese? Man I love the food that bitches buy for their kids, I dunno about you
I was thinking more on the line of continuing sex stuff, but you do you
>I was thinking more on the line of continuing sex stuff, but you do you
Ahh you mean like the part where you eat your cum out of her cunt? I love that part too
But yeah I know what you meant, was just sayin sometimes I'm a lazy old drunk fuck and I gotta go drink out of whatever open wine bottle she has in the fridge and eat a few slices of turkey straight out of the package before I'm gonna do a round two lol. Go microwave a hot pocket and see what her kids have been watching on netflix/hulu, you know?
I suppose you could do that if you're into it. There should be nothing unhealthy either about eating her out nor eating your cum, barring STDs, but that shouldn't be a problem in a longer term relationship
Even if you're not 100% into your partners things, if you're not completely turned off by them I'd suggest atleast trying different things. It can really spice up your sex life to not be a prude
>There should be nothing unhealthy either about eating her out nor eating your cum, barring STDs, but that shouldn't be a problem in a longer term relationship
STDs? From eating my own cum out of her cunt? Or you mean just from eating her cunt in general? My dad always told me to stick your tongue in there and if it shrivels up, don't fuck it!
Aaand yeah that's why he had to have his tonsils removed back in the 80s..
Not a cum doctor, but generally unadviceable to have your mucous membranes touching each other's when STDs are unknown. Risk of throat cancer is higher if you catch HPV, and people generally don't like other STDs either.
>Not a cum doctor, but generally unadviceable to have your mucous membranes touching each other's when STDs are unknown
How the fuck you gonna find out if STDs are present other than sticking your tongue or dick in there? It's just which one would you rather sacrifice?
>Risk of throat cancer is higher if you catch HPV, and people generally don't like other STDs either.
Mmhmm, mmhmm, what's your point? Course bitches nowadays ought to have the HPV vaccine, right? They started that shit with like.. all the girls younger than me I think lol
Anyway, what are you gonna do, ask the bitch to get tested before you fuck? Are you gonna go to the doctor with her and make sure she actually does it? Then demand a certified letter that has the results?
You can always use a condom with one night stands. It's also pretty useful for preventing pregnancy. Yes sticking your tongue or have any material come from there is a risk you're taking if you aren't sure of STDs. If you've been fucking the whole city it's entirely in your and your partner's interest to get tested if you're looking for a longer term relationship
It's not full blown for an hour, it's really just edging but with her pussy, I go slow or even full stop and just make out with her with me still inside. but I get what you mean, it's like interval cardio and if you go long enough there's a point that fatigue overtakes pleasure and you just can't cum anymore.
>I unload the biggest nut straight to her cervix
please, please, show me how to do this!
on an unrelated note, its nice to finally read a thread on LULZ that isnt 90% snark and shitposting lol what a nice feeling for a change
inb4 ive jinxed it in 3, 2, 1 ... lmao
>Well.. okay now that's a bit confusing for me.
hows it confusing for you?
>Those are the same thing, aren't they? Well sorta, at least.
whats the same thing as what?
No, we can’t. I mean you can sort of hold it back but then it doubles down on itself, like a sneeze.
It's not really physically holding back or squeezing your dick muscles or anything.
You just sort of "listen" to your body and when you feel like you're maybe around the corner close of probably being close to cumming your pull your dick out and think about a quick math problem or something for a second or be like "oh let's do it in another position" or straight up tell her "yeah just taking 5 seconds here otherwise I'm cumming this early"
Like you never experience that when jacking off, knowing how close you are to cumming and being able to stop and reset yourself
>Like you never experience that when jacking off, knowing how close you are to cumming and being able to stop and reset yourself
Wait, are you being sarcastic or serious? Because I think I learned to control myself by jacking off lol. It's weird to think people just jack off nonstop start to finish without using any control or anything, you know? Do people do that?
>You just sort of "listen" to your body and when you feel like you're maybe around the corner close of probably being close to cumming your pull your dick out
See I wouldn't even need to pull my dick out or anything. I wouldn't get that close to cumming in the first place, actually. It's like you say, listen to your body, except I can feel when I'm close to cumming, and when I'm close to being close to cumming, and when I'm close to being close to being close to cumming.. and just control myself back at those points, that way I never end up pulling the "hold on, don't move don't move!" shit lol
>Do people do that?
i used to, before i lost my virginity
>I think I learned to control myself by jacking off
yeah. since then, ive discovered so much about the difference between this and actual sex
and basically learned that it needs to be more of an art than brute force all the way along
just wish my body would cooperate better when i needed it to, baka
>control myself back at those points
how do you actually do this, thats my $100 million dollar question lol
im repeating myself here, but i dont like slowing down or being more shallow, since i feel like i already dont match up in that regard nearly well enough
and also because it doesnt help me out much, regardless
>I never end up pulling the "hold on, don't move don't move!" shit
she barely moves anyway ...
back when we were together at first, she would
but that was waaaaay too much action for me, like id cum so fucking quick
so its really just been me doing everything since then, which is just as well, given that my strokes are always light and gentle until i know im truly beyond the point of no return
though i probably couldnt go too hard or fast even if i tried, i doubt im physically capable of all that much
it doesnt really work for her because i can tell shes used to it being rougher, but oh well ...
>i used to, before i lost my virginity
I saw this fucking thing on HBO when I was like 9 or 10 and they were talking about how women like a man who can last a long time, and they're going to share their secrets with us on how to last longer! Honestly I think it mighta been a fucking Extenze infomercial or something, but they actually gave a lot of fucking good info, and one thing they said was that when you're jacking off, you should jack off until you're about to cum, then stop, then repeat, repeat repeat and get more and more comfortable with it. I took that fucking shit to heart too, and the whole time I was jacking off up til I lost my virginity, I was kinda training myself (and my dick) too
I've never once jacked off the way you're saying, by the way. I watched that commercial before I could even jack off to completion lol. Since day fucking 1 I've always been controlling myself like that
>how do you actually do this, thats my $100 million dollar question lol
Really? Dude.. man, maybe that fucking Extenze commercial did more for me than I realized
>im repeating myself here, but i dont like slowing down or being more shallow, since i feel like i already dont match up in that regard nearly well enough
Well just stop feeling that way nigga, you're not gonna make your dick bigger by trying to cram it in there deeper. Let go of that mentality. Hell let go of all thoughts other than what you're doing and what you want to be doing while y'all are having sex
> given that my strokes are always light and gentle until i know im truly beyond the point of no return
Wow, you mean you can cum from "light and gentle?" Duuude are you one of those dudes that can cum from a lapdance from a stripper? See, I'm almost jealous of dudes like that because I have never been like that in my life..
>what you want to be doing while y'all are having sex
to literally last long enough to satisfy her lmao. i feel like such a failure because im already going slow, stopping and starting, yet i can never last more than a few minutes (like less than 5) and oftentimes not even a full minute, ESPECIALLY when shes on top of me
>that fucking Extenze commercial did more for me
please, please, please, teach me your tricks!
>Wow, you mean you can cum from "light and gentle?"
yes, and not only *can* i, but i always *do*, too 🙁
>Duuude are you one of those dudes that can cum from a lapdance from a stripper?
i know you probably didnt mean this literally, but to answer your question, i have no idea haha
never met a stripper before, nor had a lapdance performed on me ... but hey, youre giving me ideas! lmao
>See, I'm almost jealous of dudes like that because I have never been like that in my life
yeah no, i fucking hate it and it makes me feel so shitty
especially because im really not that manly in any other way to begin with, so i guess growing up i just contented myself with the fantasy that surely i can perform better than other men in bed
clearly thats not the case though, but i just wish i could control things like how long i can last, because im clearly not changing my dick size lol
>Wow, you mean you can cum from "light and gentle?" Duuude are you one of those dudes that can cum from a lapdance from a stripper? See, I'm almost jealous of dudes like that because I have never been like that in my life.
naw, still wanna trade bodies with you haha
>"hold on, don't move don't move!"
FREEZE OR I'LL CUM!
>squeezing your dick muscles
this has the opposite effect for me lol the more tension i put in my body, the quicker i get to the point of climax
>when you feel like you're maybe around the corner close of probably being close to cumming your pull your dick out and think about a quick math problem or something for a second or be like "oh let's do it in another position"
ive also tried to do this. but like i mentioned in my last post, i reeeeeally dont wanna do it unless i absolutely have to, because i hate seeing the look of disappointment on her face whenever this happens right as shes getting into the mood
not that it works for me to avoid it, either, since i cum immediately otherwise (and lately this problem has only seemed to get worse, not better)
frankly pulling out or stopping only seems to delay it for me (unless we circle back later, after a looooong time, which fully defeats the purpose because it kills the mood anyway) rather than allowing me to go back down to a less-aroused state. like, if i was gonna cum in 5 seconds and then i stop or quit for a short while, then ill cum in 5 seconds (give or take) once i re-insert anyway. so i cant even say this strat is all that effective for me :/
>Like you never experience that when jacking off
wdym by this, whats the difference between them for you?
>wdym by this, whats the difference between them for you?
just pulling out as you feel the first tingle of whoops we're getting close to orgasm, or with masturbation you just stop stroking yourself and just shake your dick around or whatever. Again not when you're seconds away from busting, but when you start to feel a little something and it's too early you just metaphorically or literally shake it off.
> because i hate seeing the look of disappointment on her face whenever this happens right as shes getting into the mood
the real look of disappointment is if you cum too quick. I'm always pulling out and taking a second and switching positions or sometimes my dick just slips out since I really put my hips into it and it's good sloppy pussy, it's not the end of the world if there's a 5 second break in the action.
yeah youre right, fair enough
>just pulling out as you feel the first tingle
if i did this, id have to instantly leave as soon as i got in lol even after all this time, the nerves havent calmed down for me, whenever i think about putting myself inside of her
>the real look of disappointment
i already feel shitty enough about not sizing up without having to worry about my speed or how hard i can go, let alone the depth of penetration too
>it's not the end of the world if there's just a 5 second break in the action
This used to happen to me. Pure anxiety was driving it. My ex was a raging bitch, fucked with my head. Fucked a new girl the week after we broke up and I performed fine, lasted ~15 mins. Not sure how you fix the anxiety tbh.
Also, might be worth getting viagra. There's tons of online services that will prescribe it to you easily for cheap.
>My ex was a raging bitch
the exact opposite is true in my situation, and shes the best, so ... what should i do here?
>Pure anxiety was driving it.
same :'(
>I performed fine, lasted ~15 mins
these days, id give anything for that tbh ...
>Also, might be worth getting viagra
what does it to do your body though, any undesirable side effects?
Sorry, never figured out to address the anxiety beyond leaving the situation that was causing it.
Viagra doesn't really have many negative side effects. Things can take on a slight bluish tint, and you should be sure to stay well-hydrated since it can dehydrate you. Beyond that, you might get slight nausea if you mix with booze. Just try it out man, what's the worst that can happen
i suppose back when i was single, it didnt bother me too much, nor did i have any point of comparison when it came to how long other guys could last
>Viagra doesn't really have many negative side effects
i guess im more so just worried about any possible hidden or long term side effects on my health, those you cant see, dont feel, or arent directly visible on the surface in particular
can you add me on discord or something, and ill show you what i mean lol
I have a strange problem where if I'm fucking a new girl I can last a really long time, but once a relationship passes a few years mark then I have a hard time not cumming fast. Not sure what that is. Maybe the pressure in the beginning is enough to make me not cum at all costs.
interesting. for me, this has always been a problem. i guess i just brushed it aside at first and assumed it would get better as i became more experienced with having sex, but no such luck :/
I literally have to try to cum. It takes actual effort to do, and sometimes I just don't manage to. I wish I could just lose control and let it happen, but no, I have to make the conscious effort to do it.
can we trade bodies please? lol
I dunno man, not sure if you actually want this. By the end you're just sweaty, angry, and sore but still pent up. Girls don't tend to like it when you can't manage to finish, makes them feel like they're inadequate, and no amount of telling them "it's not you it's me" seems to help.
>not sure if you actually want this
lol yeah i suppose i have no familiarity with the challenges posed by the opposite affliction
>By the end you're just sweaty, angry, and sore but still pent up
grass is still greener though, because i really, really wish i could know what this feels like :'(
Does it really matter how long it takes? Round two should be only a few minutes away, you can do a lot of exciting stuff in the meanwhile
>Round two should be only a few minutes away
only a few minutes? bro wtf it takes me literal days to get back into the mood
First of all, your girlfriend is horrible for even comparing you to her ex and making you have retroactive jealousy/dick envy, I would say consider leaving her, but you clearly love her too much for your own good (which is also one factor why you cum so fast).
So instead, personally, I find that the position you do it in helps. I'm gay so YMMV (anal), but when I do missionary I cum so fucking quick so everything is so tight (3 mins max). Doggy style is slightly better (5-7 mins max), but I find that dragging your partner to the edge of the bed, then lifting their legs up and fucking them makes you last forever (45 mins ++++++, haven't actually finished in this position because we were both too tired) since its way looser that way, no muscles clamping and shit. She'll easily tell what you're trying to do though, so if she still bitches about it then again, I really advise you to consider another person to spend the rest of your life with.
>your girlfriend is horrible for even comparing you to her ex and making you have retroactive jealousy/dick envy
thats not really how it happened. if anything, i asked her first, *because* i was so insecure about her past relationships and everything lol. or maybe she just brought it up one day, but it was clearly because i was curious and pestering her about it. wait no, i remember now, it was after one of the times we had sex and she was clearly underwhelmed, even though she didnt say so. i asked her what was up, and i guess she just spilled the beans on that whole thing, but she was clearly reluctant to do so, she just didnt want me to worry and feel bad about myself and think i was somehow small or inferior i guess
>you clearly love her too much
i wouldnt call it "too much" lmao, but yeah i definitely do love her :') a lot <3
part 1 of 3 (contd below)
>dragging your partner to the edge of the bed, then lifting their legs up and fucking them
so the way i picture this is like, theyre lying on their back, but their legs are dangling and hanging over the side of the bed, but then you lift them up to their chest or even above their head? that what you mean?
if i do this, id have to be standing up, and the mattress would have to be placed at an appropriate height for me to enter her, right?
also im not that strong (i barely weigh 100 lb myself) so if this position requires holding any of her body parts up, im not sure if id have the stamina to do it
(2/3, contd again, because my message got a little bit too long for that lmao)
Yes you'd basically have to be standing at the edge of the bed with her butt at the end, no you don't need to lift her legs all the way to HER head lmao you just need to lift them up (probably just the thighs will do), it won't cost you any stamina to lift it up unless your gf is a landwhale or something, the only stamina you'll have to worry about is if you can handle the full body movement of fucking her while standing for more than 30 minutes straight.
>not how it happened etc.
Good for you then but honestly as a person who also takes dicks, she's just being a size queen, so I still think she's being a bitch for that. Man to man, that's how I feel about her, but that's up to you.
ok this is probably gonna sound super cringe but i kinda have a couple questions, can you add me at [email protected] please?
>your gf is a landwhale
what does this mean, just that shed be exceptionally heavy?
>standing for more than 30 minutes straight
why 30 minutes though? i can only last 2-4 minutes (if im going as slowly as possible) as it stands already, and only a few seconds (like literally <15) if im actually trying to go for it
so doesnt 30 minutes sound like a bit of an unrealistic target for me, unless im really missing something big here?
>she's just being a size queen, so I still think she's being a bitch for that
i get the way you see things, and i do appreciate that, but i truly do believe her when i get the sense her ex could go a lot faster, for much longer, and not to mention quite a bit deeper too, all before cumming on her command. at least thats what my pessimistic self courses to be convinced of, until shown otherwise lol
so i just feel shitty because i specifically know that that particular combination of factors makes an exceptionally huge difference for her. and not to play devils advocate here, but so what if shes a size queen? like if a bigger dick on a guy who can last way longer just does it for her in a way that i dont, then she has every right to be, as long as she isnt actually going out of her way to belittle me or get me to feel bad about myself
>she'll easily tell what you're trying to do though
i dont think shed have a problem with that? after all, she does want me to last longer too. so if this helps me do that, id imagine shed be all the way on board. thats assuming it doesnt make her any less comfortable, though
>if she still bitches about it then again
shes never really bitched toward me. i dont hold her feelings against her at all, because i can definitely tell shes used to having a way larger dick inside of her that can reach deeper and go faster & for longer
im just hella grateful shes stuck with me all this time despite the terrible experience in bed from her end
(3/3 and finally done, now)
It's possible, but painful and frustrating. If successful, it becomes a dice roll between either zero consequence; dry climax with numbing; or stabbing and burning sensation. Sometimes it results in a painful sensation for up to 48 hours afterwards.
Generally not worth it. Also, ask a gynaecologist, not internet weirdos. I wouldn't be surprised if interrupting/arresting climaxes led to prostate cancer, because of how fucking painful it can be at times.
I usually feel when im about to nut, so i can pull out in time.
fwiw im fairly certain shes clean and safe (thank god) so STDs really shouldnt be a problem for us here
wait, hold on … *how* quickly are you saying you can cum again, after youve already cummed once?
because for me, it takes multiple days at least
idk how you can possibly do it multiple times in a matter of mere minutes baka …
>wait, hold on … *how* quickly are you saying you can cum again, after youve already cummed once?
It depends if I'm actually trying to cum again as soon as possible, or if I'm just fuckin again and end up cumming again
If I was going for record time? I dunno, like 3-5 minutes maybe? Less than 10 mins for sure, but that's record time you know? lol
>because for me, it takes multiple days at least
Whatchu talkin bout nigga? What does that even mean? What is preventing you?
>idk how you can possibly do it multiple times in a matter of mere minutes baka …
The same way you do it the first time
yeah ok sounds like were just built very differently then
>What is preventing you?
because of the way it feels. the closest thing that i can think of to describing it is as “pain” but even that doesnt quite fully cut the image accurately
also, even if i were to insert myself successfully, i just physically cant cum again. like my body never gets to that point, nothing comes out of my dick, etc
and all of that is assuming i can even get hard, which is pretty tough to do immediately after ive cummed
but again, even as just for putting myself back in my gf, my dick gets suuuuuper sensitive right after sex, so trying to do that again would be like someone holding their breath when theyre on the verge of suffocating. you technically can, but the instinctive impulse from your body is so strongly opposed to it, to the point where that compulsion becomes irresistible. its like the head of my dick just says no (because of how badly it hurts) and the rest of my body just has to follow that
or idk maybe im just being a wimp here, like ive always been. that wouldnt exactly surprise me either haha
>also, even if i were to insert myself successfully, i just physically cant cum again. like my body never gets to that point, nothing comes out of my dick, etc
Psh, what about if you're just jacking off by yourself?
>and all of that is assuming i can even get hard, which is pretty tough to do immediately after ive cummed
Fuck that, don't even let the thing get soft then, just keep fuckin, god damn
>so trying to do that again would be like someone holding their breath when theyre on the verge of suffocating
No, not like that, because if you do that, you will fucking suffocate, whereas if you keep fucking after you cum, your dick will just be sensitive for a minute or two, then that goes away and your back to normal lol
>or idk maybe im just being a wimp here, like ive always been. that wouldnt exactly surprise me either haha
Yes, yes you are. I would have to tie you down and force you to cum over and over without letting you have a break. No homo..?
>… but im no longer aroused in the same way or state as before anymore, so i cant do it because it just isnt the same, if you get what i mean?
I know the feeling you're talking about but you can just ignore that feeling and keep going anyway. It fades pretty quick, especially when you're.. literally still fucking the bitch. Seems kinda arousing to me at least
ack just email me at [email protected] instead and ill show you what i mean graphically a bit lol
>what about if you're just jacking off by yourself?
yeah, then same thing tbh. also it feels terrible rather than pleasurable, so i wouldnt wanna do that anyway
but even if i tried to, im pretty sure i couldnt orgasm or reach climax again, let alone ejaculate and cum for a second time all over anymore
yeah i think itd just be dry and painful lol
>tie you down and force you to cum over and over
so hot … i mean, what?
>a
>No homo
damn what a shame :'(
>so hot … i mean, what?
..
>No homo
>damn what a shame :'(
Alright it's officially homo now, fuck it. Where do you live and is it Texas, damn it?
>is it Texas
omg noooooo we are so far away :'(
but seriously, please still reach out to me baka whats the worst thing that can happen? >;)
>but seriously, please still reach out to me baka whats the worst thing that can happen? >;)
So why exactly am I supposed to email you again? What are you showing me graphically?
CMON ILL TELL YOU WHERE I LIVE LOL PLEASE I JUST WANNA TALK
>The same way you do it the first time
… but im no longer aroused in the same way or state as before anymore, so i cant do it because it just isnt the same, if you get what i mean?
the position in bed lol
or just give me yours, that works too