I'm a bi guy who is mostly attracted to girls but man it's getting harder and harder to justify shooting my shot at women. Dating apps are shit, girls on my college campus are dry as hell, and I almost never get positive attention from the opposite sex. On the contrary, the encounters I have with other bi guys are always so great. Flirting with women feels like I'm playing a 3 decade old Japanese fighting game with the wrong controller against a seasoned esports legend while flirting with guys is easier than a game of basketball against 3rd graders with lebron on my team.
What the fuck do I do? I'm only attracted to like the <5% of gays that are cute twinks my age but trying with women has made me just wanna give up on the gender entirely. Is there a way to become more attracted to guys or smth? Do I just have to date them more?
Im the same. What you have to realize is although you may think you find those girls “attractive” you truly only find <5% of “real women” truly attractive. Most people aren’t compatible and many will never find love
Lol you're literally just straight aren't you
Never known a straight guy that's been in a gay relationship and hooked up with a guy friend but idk you tell me
>Is there a way to become more attracted to guys or smth?
No, and if you try really hard it'll just become sunk costs and you'll delude yourself into believing it worked. That happened to me.
Anyway, you can just masturbate to chicks when you get the impulse and fuck or date guys otherwise.
That might be me and my trannyism
take the passport pill
I'm not going to sperg about social dynamics but women want someone who has resources and can provide for future children. Young men (early to mid 20s) don't have money or resources. You'll get a lot more attention from women as you get older.
That said, I'm bi and I'm really just finished with women, and I got a twink bf recently so I'm satisfied with my place in life at the moment.
If you want to be super cynical about it, date feminine men to get a better feel on how to date women in the future. The experience translates really well in most cases.
>date feminine men to get a better feel on how to date women in the future
this is just the bi guy version of the thing that bi girls do when they experiment with lesbians except somehow worse
I won't try and cope, that's exactly what it is.
And it works. Really well.
I am a whore and I figured out how to work the sex game >:)
I fucking hate LULZners who use grammar BECAUSE YOU ALWAYS SUCK AT IT
“Really well.” IS NOT A FUCKING SENTENCE
Sounds like linguist cope xd
Sentence fragments are hardly just a LULZ thing lmao
>using periods as punctuation instead of a stand in for a slight pause in verbal speech
Hey, I’m an editor for an Ivy League university press, and you, my friend, are a moron. Go read some modernist literature. Read it well. How well? Really well.
Here’s your (you)
i mean if it works it works but it makes me sad because it'll also just make bi people look worse. as a bi woman, i know bi people may be seen as cheaters, as greedy, as confused gays/straights, as people that can't keep a relationship or be monogamous. using people to train for a straight relationship will only add to that. 🙁
I don't think you should date people for fun. I just wanted to point out the most cynical mindset to have for OP if he's having trouble with women.
As I said in
, I got a really handsome boyfriend recently. He's the first person I've ever had feelings for, and he's a genuinely lovely person to spend time with.
You’re the kind of bisexual I am where you’re attracted to women’s bodies and men’s personalities I cope by being an agp crossdressing twink idk what you should do…probably find a cute cross dressing twink Asians are nice
I was hit on by 3 girls at school and missed all the hints because they were so indirect with it. Meanwhile guys would just ask me to date them.
Why are women like this?
Start banging trans women and just flaunt them around roasties to make them jealous
U know perfectly well women view men who date tranners as failures. Stop pretending men are chased when they literally are desperate for women
>Start banging trans women
They're just as crazy and demanding as cis women, just hornier and more open about their sluttiness. They have the same expectations from you, but at least they kind of get you a bit more than the average cis woman so idk.
Some trans women seek validation by emulating all the worst attitudes from women regarding the men who're attracted to them as well (I.E. having ridiculously high standards and bitchy dismissive attitudes), and by that point i might as well go for a cis woman that won't get me judged by society and doesn't require me to validate her femeninity constantly.
That said, the right trans woman is a godsend to a straight man.
I've been in public romantic relationships with trans women btw. I'm not just spewing hate here.
Bruh same. Plus there's this weird thing where i feel much safer, relaxed, i'm able to have a better time when i'm with men, and, because of how past experiences have turned out, i trust them more.
Everything is just so much more chill. The expectations are lower, we get each other more, getting them to cum is easier, etc.
Sadly i'm only bisexual and not biromantic. Maybe i just haven't met the right twink to fall in love idk.