That is a massive red flag. He's not satisfied with having sex with you. It might start that he genuinely cares for you and just wants sex on the side, but the second he catches feelings for the girl he's fricking it is over.
So my monkey brain agrees with but on the other hand he might just like different people to fulfill different parts of his desires. Maybe if he had a cis gf he would also make a request for a poly relationship to find a trans gf. As an insatiable bi-bawd I also ask to open up my relationships to fulfill the other side of my desires. But I'm not poly and that obviously is pretty different because it effects the way love is shared.
>Maybe if he had a cis gf he would also make a request for a poly relationship to find a trans gf.
Guess what cis women really don't appreciate or put up with
Anon plenty of cis women are in poly relationships. There are some examples of women hating losing in open relationships when their partner turns out to be into trannies and he ends up getting laid more than they expected, but there are also successful poly relationships like that.
That's not true a lot of times they are really emotionally damaged from the last gf/wife they had, and they use your troony love and affection to boost there confidence and ego once again, only to kick you to the curb after draining emotions from you like an energy vampire.
More common than you would imagine.
It's not that they cant get woman.
They have and will again, they just need some healing first cuz of they're crazy ex wife.
>accept >wait until he gets a cis gf >try and get him to start a threesome with him and his gf >threesome starts >start fricking his gf infront of him and keep kicking ur bf away until its only you and her alone in bed >make her cum while your bf watches >break up with him instantly afterwards
now not only did you destroyed his ego, but if ur bi you also have a new gf win/win
>Start threesome with his gf. >Try and frick her but your pp isn't really hard enough to penetrate. >Try and push bf away but a lot stronger than I am so I can't. >He starts fricking his gf and I go sit in the corner and wait. >They cum and want to start round 2 so they ask you to go pick up a pizza for later and you do it.
>accept >wait until he gets a cis gf >try and get him to start a threesome with him and his gf >push him down on the bed and frick him in the ass and say to her how much he loves it when you do this >hold his mouth shut so he cant b***h too much >break up with him right after and forever ruin her perception of him as a masculine man
lmao
>does this mean im just a placeholder to him
Yes. The only reason a straight man would ever date a troony is because they can't get a cis girl, or because they're a repper/chaser.
Coming at this from the other side if the aisle (a guy), I would say that, without trying to put words in anyone's mouths, this seems very very... Odd.
More so than swinging even.
If somebody told me they were a swinger, part of me would think that they just want to spice things up for the night.
A opening up a mono "relationship" to a poly one seems like his wants his cake and to eat it too.
P.s. I put brackets around the word relationship, not to mock your own relationship, but to highlight that this isn't a simple pump and dump as with swingers.
He is hoping she would come back time and time again to expand YOUR relationship (for now).
Shut this down rn or get out. I’ve been here before, the ride never ends well. You WILL be the one awkwardly sitting on the edge of the bed while they frick
look at it this way, OP.. to everyone in your life, no matter who they are or what they might mean to you, you are but a placeholder. someone they keep around because they fear loneliness. you're the shit you scrape off of the bottom of the barrel, OP.
I feel terrible because I found myself on the opposite end of something similar to this last night. We've always been really close friends over Discord voice/text chats and I started to develop feelings towards her that I kept at bay because I always planned to take my real sexuality to the grave. Over time I opened up more and we grew closer until it became routine for us to cuddle virtually and flirt with each other. I was the one that started this and even though she shared these feelings she rightfully kept me away guessing I'd want to go through life straight. Last night she wanted to know how committed I was. I admitted I still wanted to keep this side of me hidden and my plan is to eventually start dating. It hurt her so much and I feel so fricking awful about everything. Honestly I was hoping she would find a boyfriend irl or for me to drop dead so she would move on. I feel like I fricked up really bad and she deserves better. I decided to be selfish and ended up hurting the person I love the most in a way I can't possibly imagine. I'm so sorry for putting her through this. I just hope she's going to be okay.
They're outside the country, I'd have to give up my immediate family, and I'm a repressing submissive crossdresser that became fit in hopes of living a normal life. My attraction comes from jealousy and self-hatred runs deep.
as soon as a partner says they want poly, its over. >t. watching my best friend of 20+ years do this to his wife of 14 years after they both put on 30lbs
There's plenty of situations where being poly is cool but I've gotta say a cis man who wants multiple gfs, trans or otherwise is a red flag.
For polyamory to work it has to be something everyone involved is enthusiastic about too.
Save yourself op. If you're coming here for dating advice instead of talking to him then realistically you're gonna break up soon, so break up with him first and find someone else who isn't a frickboy coomer
i almost wouldnt mind just being another cumbucket cuddletoy to him as long as he still cares for me and gives physical intimacy. i know this is pathetic
im afraid that he'll leave me or forget about me once he finds the cis gf
anyone suddenly springing polyshit into a monogamous relationship just wants to cheat but is too much of a coward to do it without gaslighting you into giving them permission. Dump his ass
You're the cum dump.
This is not gonna end well for you.
I would walk away right now and save yourself more hurt.
It’s over 🙁
it's over, leave before you're hurt
like i trust him, i believe he genuinely just thinks itll work out
but im worried maybe this will be the scenario
touching anyone even willing to date a cis woman is a sin
But that’s the troony community too. Wtf you talking about hon.
That is a massive red flag. He's not satisfied with having sex with you. It might start that he genuinely cares for you and just wants sex on the side, but the second he catches feelings for the girl he's fricking it is over.
theres nothing fundamentally wrong with the oh boy, two cakes mentality
9 out of 10 times a guy starts wanting to see another woman it is over. Don't kid yourself.
So my monkey brain agrees with but on the other hand he might just like different people to fulfill different parts of his desires. Maybe if he had a cis gf he would also make a request for a poly relationship to find a trans gf. As an insatiable bi-bawd I also ask to open up my relationships to fulfill the other side of my desires. But I'm not poly and that obviously is pretty different because it effects the way love is shared.
>Maybe if he had a cis gf he would also make a request for a poly relationship to find a trans gf.
Guess what cis women really don't appreciate or put up with
Anon plenty of cis women are in poly relationships. There are some examples of women hating losing in open relationships when their partner turns out to be into trannies and he ends up getting laid more than they expected, but there are also successful poly relationships like that.
That's not true a lot of times they are really emotionally damaged from the last gf/wife they had, and they use your troony love and affection to boost there confidence and ego once again, only to kick you to the curb after draining emotions from you like an energy vampire.
More common than you would imagine.
It's not that they cant get woman.
They have and will again, they just need some healing first cuz of they're crazy ex wife.
it's over anon
>accept
>wait until he gets a cis gf
>try and get him to start a threesome with him and his gf
>threesome starts
>start fricking his gf infront of him and keep kicking ur bf away until its only you and her alone in bed
>make her cum while your bf watches
>break up with him instantly afterwards
now not only did you destroyed his ego, but if ur bi you also have a new gf win/win
>Start threesome with his gf.
>Try and frick her but your pp isn't really hard enough to penetrate.
>Try and push bf away but a lot stronger than I am so I can't.
>He starts fricking his gf and I go sit in the corner and wait.
>They cum and want to start round 2 so they ask you to go pick up a pizza for later and you do it.
my heart sank into my stomach reading this and imagining it why are cis women so fricking scary
>accept
>wait until he gets a cis gf
>try and get him to start a threesome with him and his gf
>push him down on the bed and frick him in the ass and say to her how much he loves it when you do this
>hold his mouth shut so he cant b***h too much
>break up with him right after and forever ruin her perception of him as a masculine man
lmao
Sorry anon
If you're not interested in the cis chick and she isn't in you, it's over.
Just tell your BF it's either her or you.
he just broke up with you, anon
>does this mean im just a placeholder to him
Yes. The only reason a straight man would ever date a troony is because they can't get a cis girl, or because they're a repper/chaser.
It means what he wants and needs are not in line with what you want and need and thus the relationship is over
Monogays need to stop letting polyshitters bully them into being cucked, stand up for yourselves
its not cucking if i consent
idk ill probably end it though t. op
Coming at this from the other side if the aisle (a guy), I would say that, without trying to put words in anyone's mouths, this seems very very... Odd.
More so than swinging even.
If somebody told me they were a swinger, part of me would think that they just want to spice things up for the night.
A opening up a mono "relationship" to a poly one seems like his wants his cake and to eat it too.
P.s. I put brackets around the word relationship, not to mock your own relationship, but to highlight that this isn't a simple pump and dump as with swingers.
He is hoping she would come back time and time again to expand YOUR relationship (for now).
Shut this down rn or get out. I’ve been here before, the ride never ends well. You WILL be the one awkwardly sitting on the edge of the bed while they frick
An ass can't replace a tight and well lubricated vegana, it's just what men are designed to be attracted to.
A talented mouth can beat both of those options though. Get practicing anon.
look at it this way, OP.. to everyone in your life, no matter who they are or what they might mean to you, you are but a placeholder. someone they keep around because they fear loneliness. you're the shit you scrape off of the bottom of the barrel, OP.
Poly is a red flag in general. Also i guarantee he is not attractive. Poly homosexuals are the non binary of relationships. It is just an uggo cope.
that’s only cool if they treat you like a sex slave maid pet thing.
>closed monogamous relationship where someone randomly suggests opening it or going poly
not very optimistic about this sort of thing
Anon i had a similar question but instead of breaking it off early i am now a suicidal frick, please save yourself before its too late
You should get out that sounds awful
I feel terrible because I found myself on the opposite end of something similar to this last night. We've always been really close friends over Discord voice/text chats and I started to develop feelings towards her that I kept at bay because I always planned to take my real sexuality to the grave. Over time I opened up more and we grew closer until it became routine for us to cuddle virtually and flirt with each other. I was the one that started this and even though she shared these feelings she rightfully kept me away guessing I'd want to go through life straight. Last night she wanted to know how committed I was. I admitted I still wanted to keep this side of me hidden and my plan is to eventually start dating. It hurt her so much and I feel so fricking awful about everything. Honestly I was hoping she would find a boyfriend irl or for me to drop dead so she would move on. I feel like I fricked up really bad and she deserves better. I decided to be selfish and ended up hurting the person I love the most in a way I can't possibly imagine. I'm so sorry for putting her through this. I just hope she's going to be okay.
Wtf is wrong with you just date her you'll regret it forever if you dont
They're outside the country, I'd have to give up my immediate family, and I'm a repressing submissive crossdresser that became fit in hopes of living a normal life. My attraction comes from jealousy and self-hatred runs deep.
as soon as a partner says they want poly, its over.
>t. watching my best friend of 20+ years do this to his wife of 14 years after they both put on 30lbs
I do not advocate violence often but beat some sense into your friend before he ruins his wifes life.
There's plenty of situations where being poly is cool but I've gotta say a cis man who wants multiple gfs, trans or otherwise is a red flag.
For polyamory to work it has to be something everyone involved is enthusiastic about too.
Save yourself op. If you're coming here for dating advice instead of talking to him then realistically you're gonna break up soon, so break up with him first and find someone else who isn't a frickboy coomer
i almost wouldnt mind just being another cumbucket cuddletoy to him as long as he still cares for me and gives physical intimacy. i know this is pathetic
im afraid that he'll leave me or forget about me once he finds the cis gf
anyone suddenly springing polyshit into a monogamous relationship just wants to cheat but is too much of a coward to do it without gaslighting you into giving them permission. Dump his ass
if you don't want poly too, IT IS OVER.
just that simple