Being a girl must be exhausting. A long time ago, I made female alt accounts on two different message boards, pretending to be a girl for fun.

Being a girl must be exhausting. A long time ago, I made female alt accounts on two different message boards, pretending to be a girl for fun. I ended up leaving because too many people developed feelings for me, including guys that I was regular friends with under my main, authentic account. I would hate getting that kind of attention all the time. Sounds exhausting.

  1. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    yeah I have no idea why anyone would want to be female.....

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Oh no, too many people like talking to me and want to date me, it is so difficult being desirable.

      this happens to me too and idk even know why... I'm not that interesting or attractive and I don't have a cute personality
      I think men just project their ideal gf onto any woman they meet

      FEMALE

      BRAINED

      BOTTOMS

  2. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Oh no, too many people like talking to me and want to date me, it is so difficult being desirable.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      [...]
      [...]
      FEMALE

      BRAINED

      BOTTOMS

      I was mocking OP.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Mocking is something done by female brained bottoms.

        It's a bit different when you're not actually a girl, but a cis male with AvPD who's just having fun and is also worried about being exposed pulling a really weird stunt. (I was relieved when one of those forums died permanently the next year and so nobody would ever learn that Sarah the Black Mage was me)

        INFJs with AVPD

        are

        FEMALE

        BRAINED

        BOTTOMS

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Wait a minute, when did I mention being INFJ...

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            It's obvious

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            I knew because IM BEHIND YOU! OOOOOOOO SPOOOKY!

            No it’s because I’m friends with a LOT of INFJs. They’re disproportionately AvPD sufferers. #TheMoreYouKnow

            Also you apparently like to post violet-haired anime girls a lot. And in one of your posts on another thread, you mentioned being an INFJ.

            FEMALE

            BRAINED

            BOTTOMS

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              NTA but INFJs are femcels, they aren't feminine enough or sexy enough to get a cult following like op did

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                >femcels
                lol

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          >what are cis male comedians

          being wanted by people is suffering, I hate being female......

          >being wanted by people is suffering
          You should think about rope, it might be a good choice.

          • 2 months ago
            SyntheticusHumanitus

            the .... mean i'm being sarcastic

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              So you enjoy turning guys down...?

              • 2 months ago
                SyntheticusHumanitus

                I enjoy being desired whether I turn guys down or not. I'm generally ace and most men just want sex.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                >most men just want sex
                Many many men would do anything for you if you even pretend to care about them, much less actually do, even if you never have sex with them.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      It's a bit different when you're not actually a girl, but a cis male with AvPD who's just having fun and is also worried about being exposed pulling a really weird stunt. (I was relieved when one of those forums died permanently the next year and so nobody would ever learn that Sarah the Black Mage was me)

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        I mean I see people post shit like this all the time, they think this way. I'm so sad that so many people want to date and have sex with you 🙁 that must be difficult.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >Sarah the Black Mage

        THAT WAS YOU??

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >Sarah the Black Mage
        Oh. Hi Marzipan

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Name sounds familiar. Who were you on the forums?

  3. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    this happens to me too and idk even know why... I'm not that interesting or attractive and I don't have a cute personality
    I think men just project their ideal gf onto any woman they meet

  4. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Eh, not really? As long as your open about being gay for women and set healthy boundaries it works out fine with 90% of guys. I have more girls try to tear me down or do incel entitlement shit to me than guys.

  5. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    at least they even get attention man

  6. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    It is exhausting, but a lot less so than maintaining a false masculine persona. It makes me so sad to imagine how scared the little girl inside me must’ve been back then.

  7. 2 months ago
    SyntheticusHumanitus

    being wanted by people is suffering, I hate being female......

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      How many people want you?

      • 2 months ago
        SyntheticusHumanitus

        enough, can't believe boys want me despite my appearance, being desires is pain, I am very depressed.....
        For real though, I broke up with my last BF because I don't like commitment

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          I hope your bf is okay now. I don't want him to be hurt by some skank.

  8. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I’m ugly as fuck so besides a few weird sexually harassing comments nobody really acts weird around me and i’m pretty invisible. One time i brought my switch to school and guys started being really nice to me and talking to me because i was a gamer girl but like usually i don’t get any attention.

  9. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    that’s why women pretend to be men online A LOT

    • 2 months ago
      SyntheticusHumanitus

      I do this on twitter, people take me more seriously if they think i'm a guy

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        people take things seriously on twitter?

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          unfortunately yes

        • 2 months ago
          SyntheticusHumanitus

          I'm a political pundit on twitter, no one is gonna listen to a woman talk politics

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            totally untrue

            • 2 months ago
              SyntheticusHumanitus

              They won't when I speak about the numbers and polls etc. I'm not some kind of hyper woke liberal.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                >numbers and polls
                Because they don't mean anything. Hillary lost and crime stats are all lies from biased cops.

              • 2 months ago
                SyntheticusHumanitus

                and I predicted 2016 correctly, shy tory effect, look it up

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            So how's your boyfriend doing after you remorselessly ripped out his heart?

            • 2 months ago
              SyntheticusHumanitus

              idunno, i ghosted him, he was too much of a trad con.
              He tried to control me and make me conform to the trad lifestyle

              >numbers and polls
              Because they don't mean anything. Hillary lost and crime stats are all lies from biased cops.

              why do you hate the police? Crime stats aren't fake, crime is down, sick of the people acting like crime is skyrocketing. Maybe in the US but not here.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                so you have to larp as a man bc you surround yourself with misogynists

              • 2 months ago
                SyntheticusHumanitus

                Not Larping, I just don't have my gender listed anywhere and so people think i'm male and I never correct them.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                >He tried to control me and make me conform to the trad lifestyle

                I dunno how much to believe your account of things. You seem like a bad person.

  10. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I would TOTALLY hate it to, UGH can you imagine being constantly basked in warmth from everyone, could NOT be me

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      The love would be nice sometimes, but with most guys I wouldn't return the feelings so I would hurt a lot of people. That part wouldn't be fun at all, and I also have trouble saying no to people and either give excuses or evade the subject.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I know it's so hard to be loved by so many people and desired 🙁 I just can't take it.
      Rich people talk about shit like this too though, whining about how hard it is to be rich and famous. Oh its so horrible.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Am I the only one who thinks the whole "being loved" thing would largely be spoiled by the other side of the coin (turning people down and hurting them)? It's not as though you can just freely bask in their love and warmth with no angst or negative emotions involved. If people didn't care about whether or not their feelings were returned, sure... but they do care. I've had people like me before even as a cis guy, and if you don't like the person back it's just depressing and stressful (though it's nice to look back on in future years after the person loses interest in you).

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          It wouldn't be your fault or your problem so you would just learn to ignore that part

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            like cis women do

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            No, I'm not as indifferent to the feelings of others as the average LULZ poster. I mean, I've had at least one person have feelings for me at basically all times going back to 2014 and it's never become easy or painless for me.

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              People close to you? Cause it's different if they're not close to you. Don't tell me you're talking about discord or something.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                Many online cases and many offline cases, but I don't distinguish much - if people tell me I hurt them, that's what counts to me.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                You don't care, though, or you wouldn't let things get to that point. If you keep doing it that much you're leading people on in some way. I wish the world was just and you'd receive some negative counterbalance to the amazing little life you have. Maybe in the possible afterlife, I can hope at least.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                bruh
                wtf
                chill

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                I don't really know why it happens... it just does. It all seems very arbitrary to me and prompted by nothing.

                No worries, though. No matter what anyone else thinks of me, I will always hate myself. I'm stupid and worthless and that's that.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                >I will always hate myself
                I mean that's a given, people like that always do. That is a nice consolation, so thank you.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                People like what?

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                People that interact with others in ways that leads to many people developing feelings for them. Shows them pulling validation from them because they need it (because of their self hate).

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                I don't flirt or anything unless I mean it, that's cruel and bad. I just try to be the best friend I can be. I enjoy long and deep conversations and making the other person feel appreciated and validated and understood on a deep level.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                >making the other person feel appreciated and validated and understood on a deep level
                Yeah, I bet it makes them feel really good after they develop romantic feelings for you.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                nta but why so mad? have you know someone like them?

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                probably taking out anger at women

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                but op is male

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                Yeah but they type fembrained, use a female avatar, and have all this unrequited love directed at them

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                How is their writing style fembrained?

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                More the content of their writing, talking so much about feelings and not wanting to hurt others etc.

                Op being a femboy, trans, woman, is not really relevant. They all experience extreme overvaluation by society and in social and dating situations generally, so same thing. They also are fembrained, which is true.

                Yeah that's basically what I was trying to say

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                Op being a femboy, trans, woman, is not really relevant. They all experience extreme overvaluation by society and in social and dating situations generally, so same thing. They also are fembrained, which is true.

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              >I'm not indifferent to the feelings of others
              Yeah, I definitely believe you haha.
              >I've had at least one person have feelings for me at basically all times going back to 2014
              >it's never easy
              I have to not say anything in reply to this or I'll be fedposting. Yeah, I was going to try to say something else but I don't want to be put on a list.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      It’s nice until someone is hitting on you in the mental hospital and starts yelling at the nurse who asks him to distance himself from me. Like praise is nice until they get bitter that you don’t reciprocate their feelings.

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