Been on dating apps for over a year, tried irl. I give up forever. Picrel.
Been on dating apps for over a year, tried irl. I give up forever. Picrel.
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Holy fuck that is brutal mate
Mogs me ngl ngl tbqh
You are too nice
Pretty much, women hate nice guys.
Both statements are true. Only chads can afford to be nice. I'm a 6/10 borderline chud looking fag and the only way I've been able to get girls to like me is to treat them like shit.
>borderline chud looking
>one person fails on /LULZ/ therefore I give up
>countless examples of ugly/short/fat men finding gfs/wives but these don't matter
put on a trip so we can filter you tranimetranny
Put on a trip, so we can filter you newfags.
Sure, but the chud guy isn't even close to a 6/10.
you aren't fooling anybody with the ebyc oldfag tranime shtick discord troon
Put on a trip so we can filter you trannies
I have resting chud face.
I'm not taking advice from a person who uses anime reaction pics.
>countless examples of ugly/short/fat men finding gfs/wives but these don't matter
There aren't. Post data that these men are in happy loving relationships or admit to being a disingenuous, word playing liar. Height in men is the most powerful positively correlated predictive variable in suicide rates in developed countries, because of the intense romantic loneliness it engenders.
He's just not chad lol
I really doubt what I wrote made a big difference.
most people arent very much so this is normal. just keep going. find women who are your type for better success
>just keep going
>countless examples of ugly/short/fat men finding gfs/wives but these don't matter
Where? I see older couples like that but I never see young couples with guys like that
Unironically reddit will have tons of short/ugly/fat guys who talk about their sex adventures and their gfs, etc. r/inceltear did their selfiedump recently to show that even they as short ugly fucks still have gfs/get laid, though some of them were boomers. It's very obvious that most men are not incels, and even the vast majority of guys on /LULZ/ aren't incels despite many being afflicted with being short/fat/ugly.
>what is LULZ X?
I didn't say any advice lol.
Do you mean their selfies that mostly consisted of overweight men with trannies?
Kek. I remember people were making fun of their pics here and they were seething.
That was like 1 or 2 of them, from what I saw, and obviously on /LULZ/ they cherrypicked the funny-looking couples. It doesn't matter, anyway, since there are still other places where you can find examples.
Unreadable. LULZ X has a filename randomizer, and I use it whenever I'm not mobileposting. It uses a random Unix filename from the past year.
Regardless of all of that. Ywnbaw.
and ywnbm, chudcel pissbaby.
go listen to 100gecs while you dilate tranny
transgirl anime website
what? Nothing to say dude?
This lmao. Why would an 8-9+/10 guy think he can give advice to guys who struggle to even land a second date?
no wonder you're an incel, nobody likes transphobes
sour grapes as they say :3
yes LULZX shows when those pictures where not saved, but posted when you saved them, revealing you to be an ultra newfag turbodiscordtranny
also, retarded obviously
Brutal. Even if one gets over the looks threshold, you still need to dance in the right manner or she will find one of the other 100 guy's in her DMs.
How tall are u tho man?
I'm 5"10 without shoes
You're kind of a manlet for a zoomer rip
retard the average is still 5'9-10.
lifefuel, I'm 6'1 barefoot in the evening
>this guy is constantly getting shot down in 2022
Yeah, I have no chance, I'll stick to jacking off to my anime babes.
Same. Zero chance for a guy like me if he is not enough. Sometimes you almost trick yourself into self harming again but then you see others do it for you.
>tfw even turbonormies cant get a gf
Inb4 normies are going to come and tell you to get an haircut.
Women would rather get pumped and dumped over and over again by picrel than have a relationship. You were sold a lie that women desire monogamous relationships. They do not. It's men who desire this.
why are you sending girls good morning texts that you only had one date with? you send good morning texts to long term gf's, not new girls you just met. that's clingy.
Also they say you're too forward so most likely you're sperging out on dates. Also you're israeli, turn to Christ.
Just shut up with all this cope, man. No one is buying it. if you need to be absolute fucking perfect in every exchange just to get a gf, something is fucking wrong. You absolute dogshit fucking homosexual
Yeah I don't agree with that at all, I think plenty of men have no game and have relationships
I had multiple LTR's from tinder and lots of hookups. I had hundreds of matches.
Here's what you do to get gf from tinder (or IRL)
>match with cute girl
>send CASUAL first message to test the waters "I like your socks." "You look like you listen to jazz." "I like your pointy ears."
>chit chat for 3-5 messages back and forth. Ideally aim for a short first convo, the goal is to ask her out and get her to say yes. Early on it may be 10-20 messages but when you get good it's 3-5 messages
>"haha thank you! I like those socks too. :3"
>talk about general interests for date ideas. Hiking, food, etc.
>"You've never been to that hiking trail? We should go!"
>"I'd love to anon :3"
>"what's your schedule like? Weather is supposed to be nice this weekend."
>"hmmm I'm busy Saturday but I got nothing going on Sunday :3"
>"Sunday sounds good! What's your number? I'll send you a text"
>get her number
>on day of the date send her a text "hey it's anon, still on for hiking today?"
>"hey anon! :3 yes I'm glad you texted me. Meet me there are 3?"
>"I'll be there! see you in a bit"
>go on date
>at end of date kiss or whatever
>if you did good SHE'LL TEXT YOU. sometimes 5 minutes later, sometimes 5 days later
>"I had a great time anon :3 I'm surprised you kissed me :3"
>send flirty text back or whatever and ask her out again. If she texts you positively after the date, it translates to "I like you, arrange the next date."
>arrange the next date
>eventually you hang out daily and she'll be your gf.
>I had hundreds of matches
So your experience is completely irrelevant to the vast majority of men
It's not your "game"
homosexualy anime shit.
also to add to this guide, "have fun" on the date basically means don't try too hard. It's basically a test trial for what it would be like if you guys were dating. Treat her like someone you haven't seen in forever. Show your true self, build rapport, ask about what's going on in her life. Get her talking about herself and opening up to you. If there's chemistry, it will flourish naturally just by you bringing her to open up. Be honest, be polite.
Also do nofap. If you fap before a date you'll lose social fuel. Nofapping for a while before a date makes everything feel so easy, you know exactly what to do and what to say without thinking about it.
hes right about nofap, i never jerk off the night before a date, always smoke a ciggy in the morning to spin myself up too.
but op you look like a desperate cuck in those messages. "Hehe"? I know your an acting guy but why are you such a fucking homosexual. Nobody cares about your grandma either.
>action creates reaction
>intent is received and mirrored
>your energy out determines the energy given back
show her you are interested in a romantic way. flirt, be as physical as she is comfortable with, hold eye contact, or she will just drip you because of the gay/beta signals.
mega cope dude, just mark off obvious whores. you as a man should be able to read a girls vibe just from her bio. doesnt matter
her looks, i only like on 8s and up on hinge but it works because i pick people with good personalities.
Doesnt matter because OP is a closeted fag and its quite obvious from how he texts and looks
I assure you that none of that game bs works irl. Whatever success you had has to do with other things.
You are an idiot. Quit baiting ITT. This is your second time trying and it's obvious.
Fucking idiot tries to LARP as Chad and says to do nofap. lmfao
>Dude just smoke a cigarette and look her in the eye lol
The moment I left the west and travelled eastern Europe and Asia my phone fucking blew up. Basically gaurenteed a couple dates with different girls each week. This is without paying for these goy apps too, white guys basically get +2 so a 6/10 chud is lifted to an 8/10 romantic western guy.
In the west all I could attract were post wall roasties and landwhales. In Poland I was scoring good looking uni girls
>paying for apps
>doesnt believe in horniness forcing you to adapt
see below for my thoughts on bait
no it isn't, im sub 6 foot and brown and look like a terrorist. i just understand that women are like fish, you have to use the right bait. and if you want the most beautiful fish, use the best bait you have. reminds me of a meth head i met once who told me he caught and fucked a 7 foot gar in florida, same principle.
>im sub 6 foot and brown
caging hard af at that rn
my point is being white and going to poor countries isnt relevant, i am on the low end of what you would call SMV. op's problem is his method. he is not sending girls the right signals. if i can bag hot white girls, why cant this guy? he must be a turbosperg because i told my last date like 3 different nazi jokes and she still slept with me
>match with cute girl
at least in my experience this was very hard to do. i havent used dating apps in over 2 years because the only matches i would get would be with fat or black women (i used the swipe right on everyone strategy). i probably used dating apps for about 4 years before i gave up on them as a whole for myself. i even bought myself a tinder gold membership or whatever it's called that gave you the ability to be on people's app first and have unlimited messages.
pic rel, probably the last "cute" girl i matched with over 2 years ago. no, i didnt get a date with her
>i used the swipe right on everyone strategy
The apps penalize this.
Swipe left on everyone except the the girls who are so attractive you wouldn't even care if her photos are five years and 15 pounds out of date.
yeah it lowers your elo rating in their matchmaking system
i used many different strategies over the course of the 4-5 years while i used dating apps. nothing worked but swiping right on everyone would give me more matches than just swiping on cute girls. only two dates come to mind as i think about it now that actually came to fruition. no relationships happened from either because they were both catfish. here is another match i had before i totally quit
30 year old single mothermaxing
im 32 now and my last relationship was online that i found through WoW. she was 13 years older than me, in the process of getting a divorce and had a 13 year old daughter going to counseling over her gender identity. i ended things because she was a feminist, too liberal for me to stand, and i didnt want a child in my life. it's all a very pathetic story, i know. it's why i've given up on the idea of a relationship with a woman.
pic related, it's one of the many that i used on my dating profiles
Christ, brother, why not just bang whores overseas at this point? There is a robot that fucks girls like picrel down in Tijuana for like $90 lol
He's looking for a loving, committed relationship. If orgasms were all he needed, his hand would do the trick.
The type of women available him are not capable of giving him that. These women deserve to die alone.
while in the army i had some fun with whores and even at a company outing in vegasa few years ago i hired a whore to suck me off to help me forget temporarily about my gf who cheated on me. i subscribe to bangkok 112 on youtube and enjoyed his videos but then covid happened and he isnt uploading anymore but i used them for research for whenever i plan to get myself over to thailand. but as
said, i would like a relationship rather than an import hookerwife who will get pregnant to force me to support her for 18 years
You're better looking than me and have hair. I have a neanderthal face. I ususally intimidatemaxx so that scares away the girls too kek
this is me in college. even as a manlet i had zero issue picking up girls. im glad i had at least the chance to experience prime pussy before dating apps hit. now it seems all that is left for me is to become a cuck and raise another man's child or date a fat woman. both of which i refuse to do because i have something called dignity
You have (had?) a laid back stoner type look with longish hair who is fun to be around and social. Chicks dig that so I can see how you were able to get girls. Maybe you should try growing out your hair again, but I wouldn't know. We're all just coping.
You need to be agressive and squintmaxx. The young Billy Mitchell look suits you when you have facial hair and not smiling.
this is me toward the end of my time in the military (this pic is probably 2017). i was much more selective with who i spent my attention toward (was looking for wife material at this point in my life) but i still didnt have too many issues talking with women and picking them up. i had two girlfriends both of which i was very serious about getting married to but they both dissolved for their own reasons. but now, it almost seems impossible to have a conversation with a woman i find attractive that i dont know with the intention of getting a date out of it.
not a normie, just not a autist sperg like some LULZ users. probably been coming to this website since before you could walk if im honest. even got a blowjob in high school out of a girl by showing her LULZ
>i know this super funny website, want to come to my place so i can show you? (2006 before smart phones)
>what is it?
>ever heard of LULZ?
>bring her to my room in my parents house
>show her LULZ
>she laughs at some post
>she feigned interested in some stupid website to get to my bedroom
>sucked my dick for almost 30 minutes
>asked why im taking so long
>in my mind ive been holding in a fart since she came into the room
>fart and cum in her mouth at the same time
>moan loudly to try and cover up fart
pic is the oldest screenshot i have that i took of LULZ
Jesus you must be 40 or something.
i graduated high school in 2008 zoomie. im 32
>not a normie
>i had two girlfriends
you know /LULZ/ originally started out as a good idea of generating OC. but somehow, somewhere it turned into the trash heap that it is now
It all started to go downhill with the >tfw no gf wojak posters. That was the beginning of the end. Not sure what that has to do with my post though.
I just recieved a message from God when I closed my eyes: You're kicking these women into Chad's room. Stop it. Stop it right now.
>the only matches i would get would be with fat or black women
Be picky with who you swipe on lol. Also don't take it too seriously.
Dating apps do not represent the average women. I know countless people who are not on dating apps because they have had awful experiences with r/niceguys and other such deadbeat losers. The people who are still on there are either unloveable entitled fatties, girls who havent had the bad experiences yet, overly picky stacies who keep getting pump and dumped, bots and black girls who are trying too hard.
I hate the "its because you have no game!!!" Replies and people telling you a long list kf behaviours you need to follow
If i cant be myself and talk about my interests and goals why would i want to date her anyways? Why turn into a completely different person (we are not even talking about becoming a BETTER person, like taking more care of yourself and being nicer to people, you should be doing that), a huge list of to do things like mentioned
I dont like interacting this way with a potential partner, why should i act and be fake in order to date someone
>just be yourself
>BUT ALSO MICRO-CALIBRATE EVERY SINGLE WORD YOU EVER SAY TO A WOMAN AND ITS TIMING LEST THE SOCIOLINGUISTIC HYPERFINE STRUCTURE OF YOUR COMMUNICATION DROPS HER ESTIMATE OF YOUR SOCIAL STATUS AND PROWESS BELOW ACCEPTABLE LEVELS
It truly is over isn't it f
NTA and kind of offtopic, but what possesses people to come to a website SPECIFICALLY created for people who enjoy anime and transgirls, and complain about said things?
Reddit is that way ---->
You fucking homosexual bitch. This is our home, you fucking invaded. I would straight up clobber your face irl and magdump into you. Fuck you, sincerely, me, and every other anon from here to /misc/ and back. Bitch.
Shitty bait . Anime website, not for larping sissy homosexuals who like to prance around in dresses and rape kids. You will never be a woman, nobody will see you as a woman, and no matter how hard you try your gaping, rotten axe wound will remind you with every painful throb no matter how hard you try to hide it.
>emotionally fucked up
>years of bullying gave me PTSD and destroyed my self esteem
You can't even get a date because you gave a misplaced morning text.... lol. I'm sure my odds are high.
I don't think it was because of the text. She just wasn't attracted to me physically.
I agree with you. She was looking for any reason to not like you. This is the experience of 80% of men.
Have you tried leaving the US? Just be white is a real thing
You would have a much easier time in Asia/south America/ eastern Europe
Just go for middle class girls so you don't get a gold digger
This. High tier normies like OP will slay in Asia or East Europe. Women in America are all sexually liberated whores with their heads up their ass. My mate has showed me how these women are on dating apps. Go anywhere else
Well shit you mog me to hell and back. Why the fuck should I even bother?
We don't have a chance. I would put him in at least top 30% of men. He has not facial deformities, all his hair, well groomed, he has degree with a unique interest. You can't win. The game is stacked in a game of casual dating. Every girl he matched with has or could fuck Chad. You can't compete against that.
Something like 40% of young men are out of the dating game according to studies and women still can be this picky.... And you still have homosexuals claiming it's just not pumping and dumping harems.
>tfw israelites are preventing their own from breeding
You're clearly super desperate and they can tell.. that's why they're turned off by the idea of dating you.
if you're having that much trouble theres just no chance for me
Idk this is just my experience, maybe yours will be different.
Zero game in these texts. You are trying too hard and it shows
U are kinda qt but I am mtf
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OP is someone i would consider decently attractive man, definjtely handsome. If he cannot get a fucking hookup from a dating app, how the fuck am i supposed to find a girlfriend with marriage in mind? Fuck.
Damn, even the israelite can't get laid. It's actually fucking over.
>decent looking fellow
>130 verbal israeli IQ
Yeah, I'm thinking it's over for all of us.
I dont think I would have an advantage because of that lol
Oh no, there's a whole thing about us being incels because of DA JOOZ, but you're DA JOO and you're right there in the hole with us.
But also, you mog the absolute fuck out of me, which makes me extra hopeless.
I think that's just the agenda of billionaires and I guess sort of the natural result of social media.
All the major feminist were israeli. He literally got fucked over by his own people. Show some human empathy
>Show some human empathy
I strongly suggest you take your own advice.
whiteknighting for israelites by apologetically showing you're not one of those bitter polchuds will not get you laid bro
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>OP is someone i would consider decently attractive man, definjtely handsome. If he cannot get a fucking hookup from a dating app, how the fuck am i supposed to find a girlfriend with marriage in mind? Fuck.
I don't believe this is OP unless he posts a selfie with timestamp
it's not gonna fix your little bitch face but you need a haircut
Here they come, bros
>get a haircut
>it's your game
lmao. Never fails. Never. You are just not Chad, OP. Not knocking you down. I'm just telling you the truth.
I know, its just really hard because I took all the normie advice too.
just get ripped, bro
it's that easy. He is dyel.
Men need to realize that dating apps are designed for women's hypergamy which means filtering out 80% of men. So if you aren't in the top, you are just wasting your time. She does not want you, she does not need you, she will only reject you.
Those matches she has on Tinder do not go away because you meet her in public and give a firm handshake, bro. Sorry to say.
What is your point here?
The impression I get from this is that your mistake is treating your first date as your third date. Maybe I'm wrong, but that's the vibe I get. Or maybe your breath really stinks or something idk.
I just don't want to play all these games in order to have a relationship.
Tell me what you do on a first date? Are you really clingy and pushy? Because for me a first date is basically like hanging out with a new friend and getting to know each other. Cuddling and kissing is a third date kinda thing (although this depends heavily on your country/location/sluttiness of the girl).
I'm just saying this because all these girls matched you, but then seem a bit scared after your first date. So I'm wondering if you're too pushy physically or if you're just talking about weird autistic shit.
No, I never tried being physical with them. Just talked about casual stuff, I have some niche interests but nothing out of the norm.
Something's ot adding up here. There's something you're not telling us. Do you have massive BO or something? What are your niche interests? Do you do all the talking or do you mostly listen to them?
I feel like your problem can easily be fixed if we can find out what you are doing that turns off all these girls during the first date.
I only got like 3 actual dates, the others just ghosted me after a week or two of texting and calls. I don't have bo lol.
nevermind your just a megacuck.
thus spoke zarathustra:
>you will have 3 day turnaround from your first convo to meeting irl, 3 days maximum.
>you will move your conversation off the app as soon as possible to texting, no snapchat.
>you will ask a question, ask a follow up/secondary, then relate your own experience to it.
>you will walk her to her car and pay for her meal (what are you, poor?)
>you will wait for her to thank you for a good night, then bring up some flirty joke as a reference and ask her on date #2
>you will kiss her at the end and date #3 under the same protocols will result in sex
These are the tenets of dating.
youre waiting too long. women respect a man who acts. if you fuck around in the talking stage and text too much you look needy and weak. now man up or just download grindr and accept your fate.
>if you fuck around in the talking stage and text too much you look needy and weak.
I tried to do it sooner but they just said they were busy on those days.
i literally just tell them, i say "im free Thursday night, let's get dinner at 6?" Boom done. Always give 3-5 days of advance time so they can rearrange scheduling.
>action produces reaction
if it doesnt work out and she is interested, she will offer an alternative date and time.
you are trolling and baiting for responses so have a (You). but women dictate 99% of the time when the date is happening, if it even happens. she can't make your weeknight date suggestion (lol btw this is how i know you have never dated) and the weekend approaching she cant make it? you're SOL bud cause she wont stay interested until the weekend after.
hahaha have a tough time getting dates bud? welcome to your limited vision of life on the other side. if talking goes well and you vibe, you can always tell her when and where, and she will correct you. if she doesnt stay interested after 3 fucking days you must be boring or incredibly ugly.
see this is what you want. if you dont have force of masculine personality to achieve 1-2 dates a week, change yourself, because nobody will change themselves for you. i have given you a method, apply it or dont, worst that can happen is you still fail, best case you win like this guy.
>best case you win like this guy.
As if he used any of what you said.
>if she doesnt stay interested after 3 fucking days you must be boring or incredibly ugly.
i am this guy
for reference i am not brown skinned, not overly fat, not balding, and the only compliments i ever get are on my smile so i tend to try and smile a bit. this is only what you can see from my appearance, what you cant see is that i've held a full time job since graduating college (so over a decade now), i have all the benefits that come with a career to include financial stability, good credit, insurance, 401k, my own apartment (with zero roommates) and my own car. one MAJOR deficiency i have is that i am a manlet, i am 5'7". over my years of dating since middle school through college it's been no big deal. but guess what got very popular after i graduated? dating apps. and now my height is suddenly an issue even when the average male height in america is 5'9". it is what it is
two criticisms before i go to bed
>you just got datemogged by a brown manlet
>you have a terminal case of gay face
women can smell it on you. both you and OP look gay.
>women can smell it on you. both you and OP look gay.
im guessing you glossed over the fact where i said throughout middle school and college i had no issue getting a gf, which in turned meant i got laid plenty of times with plenty of women. most people think i am the older brother between myself and my brother (who is taller than me). i doubt women think i look gay but whatever works for you and adding to your self esteem bud
I didn't say you are gay. I said YOU LOOK GAY.
on a dating app visuals is key, present an image, sell yourself to them. i take it you arent in sales either.
Shilling your shitcoin on biz isn't sales anon
>I said YOU LOOK GAY.
i know you arent reading most post and fully digesting them because all i was talking about was how i believe women perceive my looks.
>i doubt women think i look gay
go to bed retard
>gets complimented on his smile (a feminine trait)
>thinks he doesnt look gay
i can see the gay face on your pic. gayboy. hit the gym and a grow a beard, watch things turn around on the apps for you.
>hit the gym
yes, this is actual good advice that i think many people already know about
>grow a beard
even if i could i hate facial hair and the feeling of it. i shave frequently and wont stop it
pic is some fb from college (2010)
>cant grow beard
>hates how it feels on his face
are you sure you arent gay
yeah i was in uni in the early 2010s and dating apps got HUGE halfway through my degree. I went from getting by with a handsome brown face but being short, to not getting by at all because height and race suddenly gained massive prominence because of the ability to just completely filter them out in apps.
> Always give 3-5 days of advance time so they can rearrange scheduling
Women never do this. They are more likely to pretend they are busy than rearrange their schedule for sub8 male.
is all this shit a joke? Tinder is a fuck app not a date app. If a girl is on tinder it's because she wants to get fucked not go hiking you fucking retards. If you can't just get her pussy wet and have her aching to get to your dick asap within the first 10 hours after first contact then move on to the next one.
eh i mean not always man. some girls arent on tinder to just fuck. you gotta pile full of alc to get em that way xD
bro if she isn't begging to get dicked by you BEFORE she even meets you, you're doing it wrong. I've never even met a girl on tinder and even when I meet girls and get their numbers they're usually showing me how wet i'm making them before I ever even see them in person again. If she isn't telling me that she'll promise to suck my dick better than anyone has ever sucked my dick before why the fuck am i supposed to care?
ya ur with thots thats standard thot behavior. ever fucked a virgin nigga
is not the same Anon you were talking to btw.
Meh 3 dates is not that much yet. Maybe just try to get those numbers up first and see if you keep having the same issue.
Most of these girls think you're out of their league and/or are a player.
They do not feel like a relationship with you would be secure.
They fear you're going to pump&dump them, but also fear they'd catch feels before you moved on.
Or you're an absolute sperg outside of texting.
I feel like I give the opposite of that vibe though. It's not like I look like a model.
You don't have to look like a model to make a woman feel insecure.
It's mostly about how easily she thinks you could replace her.
Are you kidding, they go for the men who can and do easily replace them all the time.
Yes, they do that when they're horny and trying to fuck.
That is a completely different set of circumstances.
What the fuck are you talking about?
We're not talking about how to fuck low-self-esteem barflies.
>this random looking guy is going to replace me
>Whatever will I do?
>Oh I know, there were like 20 guys hotter than him in my DMs
Your PUA shit is so dated. I think even Roosh said it himself.
And those super good looking guys don't give women that impression?
They're good looking enough to be worth the experience. They're not relationship material, either.
Something came up. Stacy wanted me to do a little dance like a bitch for her and I'm not having it. Especially when I can just fuck some normie skank first night. So I slid into your date's DMs. Sorry about that, bro. She didn't even bother to mention you. I'll be done with her around 30 and then you can have her.
Yea guys trust me I'm 5'1 half somali half abo and missing one leg and get LAYEEEEEED with plenty of Stacie's, it's all in your game bro
anon don't listen to the demotivational stuff. both you and the other people are being respectful. keep going, you'll find someone who will be able to do the same for you.
I will not stop being respectful but I think I'm done with dating for a while.
>but I think I'm done with dating for a while
I think it's probably best for guys like us to live our life and if we happen upon someone we like going through our natural life then so be it. We are never going to find a girl in such an artificial dating environment where you are competing against models and one wrong is considered some red flag. The world is messed up, man. It's not point in wasting your time trying to peacock.
So interestingly enough, this was my exact experience on dating apps for about 5-6 months of dating, basically 1-2 dates a week.
I'm by no means as attractive as you, but in the 6th month, met a super cute girl way out of league, dated, and now she's my GF. Im mad lucky, and I think you can be too mate, just keep going
>basically 1-2 dates a week.
I don't think I would be able to manage that even if I was on 4 different apps. It's great though that you found someone.
Man, I bet she has all the power in that relationship. How scared are you that she leaves you end up being alone again for months throwing yourself at whores on dating apps? Lol.
Well, unless you are the gigachad women throw themselves at, you will not have more power than her in the relationship. She will always have way more options.
is constantly being worried that you are not doing enough in a relationship and catering to her every need really worth the piece of ass? I just don't see how modern men do it. I would want to blow my head off. Whores exist and they are usually cheaper than a gf.
I don't think so. Everything is stacked against you. She has no real reason to be loyal. That's why we see abominations like open relationships.
>constantly being worried that you are not doing enough in a relationship and catering to her every need
You don't have to do that.
You do if you're not genetically physically attractive, that is, tall. Compensatory mechanisms have to be employed somewhere (behaviorally, financially, status, etc.) or the relationship is nonviable long term.
Have you tried NOT exuding this little dick energy?
Why do you talk like your dad molested you? No one is buying your tough guy shtick.
If you have good sex with her you don't really need to do what you described to get "ass". Girls will happily cater to you
I had one FWB who would actively get angry when she'd come over because she didn't understand why she remembered me as being more attractive. And then we'd go grocery shopping and cook dinner and fuck a half dozen times throughout the course of the night and she wouldn't bring it up again for the rest of the weekend.
It's honestly been smooth and very balanced, and we're coming up to a year. Just tryna give the lads here some hope.
I think area matters alot. Ex. dating in LA is awful, but you date maybe an hour or 2 away, and it's a million times better.
if you're managing to get 1-2 dates a week you are easily in the top 10% of men on dating apps
doesn't matter, I've gotten 1-2 dates/week off apps in the past few months yet haven't gotten laid since August, why do you think I'm back on this damn board reeee
Oh well, going at that rate eventually you'll have to score right?
Back when I was bouncing back and forth between east and west coasts, I always found it hilarious that you'd have literal fashion models in NYC putting some work into their profiles and then SF would have some aposematic PCOS hambeest with a laundry list of demands.
girls like a cocvky fucker lol not sure what to tell ya hit the gym and start being more assertive
>just be chad lmao
Yea everyones gotta start somewhere
Lets be honest, for most of us in the west its hopeless.
I really want to go to Eastern Europe. I'm not saying I'm going to slay. I'm under no delusions. But my odds will be significantly higher to find someone. Women in the West are genuinely horrible.
They will be higher just because you have a passport from a better country.
I don't plan on returning to my country or marrying anyone. Just dating.
Eastern Europe has been westernized to a large extent. Women are the same here, maybe even more focused on the money.
Women here are not even focused on money unless you are a literal millionaire, bro. They are all focused on looks and nothing else. If they were focused on upper middle class, I would be doing fine.
I don't know how being treated like literal ATM is any good and I earn a lot.
Why do you type like such a homosexual. What does it mean to be too "forward" jeremy? Also, jannies don't delete this one it's actually relevant and you fags ignore all the e-girl spam.
I think she just wasn't looking for a relationship, something more casual.
crazy how dating is somehow more gay than actual homosexualry
>crazy how dating is somehow more gay than actual homosexualry
I have never seen more true words spoken on this board. No way men of the past did this homosexual dance.
Well what do you suggest men do now? It's either do this, be chad and get laid with no effort, or completely exit the dating market.
Honestly, they need to start by realizing women can never love them. Those are lies sold by Hollywood. Once they realize this they will realize women offer nothing outside of sex because they are not good companions (at least not the modern day Western ones). Then they will quickly realize that acquiring sex with women is actually very time consuming (time being your most valuable resource. Something you are never getting back) and money wasting (see picrel). Eventually they will come to find that actual whores are better looking than what they can get, cheaper, with less hassle and rejection.
I think the problem is that men are biologically hardwired to seek out the companionship of a woman.
>I think the problem is that men are biologically hardwired to seek out the companionship of a woman.
And I'm sorry but under this environment, that is not available to you. Unless maybe you get a single mom and in that case, she attaches her love for her child to you because you are floating them in life but isn't that pathetic?
Btw, I'll add that I don't think men actually want women's companionship. You have convinced yourself you want this. Maybe it's because you lack actual friends or you were psyoped by Hollywood to seek this but if you look at men with options, they don't want to be around women unless it's sexual. This is true of most of my friends. You would think Chad actually hates women the way he dogs them. To add to that, look at someone like Leonardo DiCaprio. The man gets a new gf at the slightest hint that she is aging. Does he really give a fuck about these women outside of sex? no. It's not natural to see women as companions. You are hunter. Your bros, the warriors, are your companion. The bitch back in the camp is who you fucked before going to bed. She could never understand your struggle.
You make a good point. But you have to realize a lot of men do not have their "bros and warriors" too. And even then, you do not meet them so often and don't spend as much time with them as if you had a gf who lives with you. So while friends are important, they can't really compensate for women, and there is also sexuality.
Do you know why women like men who are aloof and distant from them? Well, it's many reason but mostly it's because this was the natural state of men forever. Women's entire evolutionary objective is to maintain the ATTENTION (women are attention seekers for a reason) of a high value man. She is constantly competing against his bros for his attention. Why? Because if she lost his attention maybe another girl comes along and now she is without protection. Men today just give women all the attention. They take away her main evolutionary mating strategy and its no wonder she gets bored and spreads her "web" to other men.
Unironically life fuel. I thought women were shitty to me (talking about politics, talked about exes, showed up late, got on their phone) because I wasn't attractive enough to have them respect me. This implies they're just like that one way or another.
accurate, this applies to the 90% percentile trying to break into the 99%, like OP. chad doesn't have to do shit
Choose your fighter: dating advice edition.
Well you certainly mog me at least.
Hey OP, can you post some of those women?
I'm not going to post their pics but I thought this profile was pretty funny.
And this landwhale rejected you?
I didn't swipe on her (because of her bio) but plenty of girls like that have.
strange, we look similar and I have no trouble getting a second date, got a date next week with a girl, I dont think I can even be bothered meeting her lmao, need to be a playful dick to women, jokingly mean, I'm a 5'9 manlet and eventhough it somewhat difficult I'm doing better than a lot of dudes
how old are you mate? you look good i dont get it
is this your recent experiences? cause it used to be easier to date when i was young teenager but now its impossible at mid 20s
I'm 22. Yeah these are things that happened in the last few months. Well I heard it was a lot easier a couple of years back but it just seems kind of impossible nowadays.
Don't give up man you can definitely make it
I cant even get dates bro. Everytime i Ask a girl out on a dating app i either immediately get ghosted or sometimes stood up. Its brutal.
I wish I could give you advice but its not like getting the date and then getting rejected immediately after is much better.
Even if i got the date, im a manlet and pretty autistic in irl conversations. I talk like a corporate robot with a script in social interactions because my only positive form of social interaction came from working as a cashier and retail manager. I got stood up for the third time last night and at this point i give up, im just gonna accept that ill die alone and try to atleast get rich or something
Why don't you ask for some weird israeli arranged marriage?
>but the vibe was too forward for me
fuck, I feel ya dude
Quite clearly, this is all stemming from the vibes you give off and your taste in humor. You're doing better than most people on here (0 match losers). There is 3 paths from here:
1.) keep being "you" as you are now and hope for the best.
2.) improve your personality/ability to talk without scaring the hoes (i.e. keep your jokes that women wouldn't like to yourself).
3.) give up all together and become another LULZ tfw no gf poster.
Its your choice op.
>keep your jokes that women wouldn't like to yourself
I don't say weird incel jokes if that's what you're implying
well clearly you joking about stuff they do not find any sense of humor in lmao
I think they would find it funny if I was more their type physically.
>I think they would find it funny if I was more their type physically.
What do you mean by this? If you are op, you are quite attractive already. Everyone is to a certain extent. For males its the personality and assets/achievements in which can make or break your sucess. For instance, you can be an average looking indian man but be CEO of a major tech company and now you are desireable, or you can be a average fat dude who genuinley is hilarious and slays like there is no tommorow. There was also a study that showed having a degree makes you more desirable when dating.
Either get more achievements, assets or stop being retarded. The choice is yours.
>you can be an average looking indian man but be CEO of a major tech company and now you are desireable
You know that that's a different kind of attraction.
>different kind of attraction.
its an attraction to a man of high status. In which, you are not. It still stands as a fact that this man would get nothing if he had nothing to offer.
No, it's an attraction to material resources that he can provide. No woman is going to be actually attracted to that person if he is physically unattractive.
>just be a CEO bro it's so easy
>miss the point
your "point" is just as bad advice as "just b urself"
This guy is literally an r/redpill retard from 2013
real men don't spend time on the internet typing and texting women.
just some advice, nerded clown.
>just become a millionaire, bro
kek. I'll give you realistic advice. Get surgeries. You are already a solid 6/10. You can make it to an 8/10 with surgery.
>Do not post pictures of yourself on /LULZ/.
>Do not post threads asking for pictures of other users.
>All "rate me" and camwhoring threads belong on /soc/.
and out the window it went
go to wizchan homosexual
I think your problem is that you use dating apps as your main source of meeting women. You should strive to meet people IRL as much as possible and have a lifestyle such that if it doesn't work out with a girl, it doesn't affect your routine and wellbeing.
This guy mogs the absolute shit out of me AND goes on dates. I haven't got a genuine msg in about 4 years. I guess its over for good now. I cannot believe i have deluded myself with hope for this long.
What hope were you deluding yourself with?
If i better myself, things will improve.While things have improved for my well being over the years i never stopped to look at what i was up against in the current day. It appears it has gotten more difficult in orders of magnitude.
I cannot continue.
Well you could always get lucky and make it.
>white with blue eyes and 186cm tall
>sameish experience with online dating
>fuck this shit i am gonna look abroad
>treated like a walking god in any asian country
>women can actually cook especially in SEA
>90% of them thin
Yeah fuck this i am gonna go abroad and abuse my blue eyes and get me some woman there.
>6' blue eyes
>date indian girl
>she complains about how creepy indian dudes are
>fetishizes me for blue eyes and being tall
fr why do asian women in america complain about this it feels awesome
You handled your rejections well. They sound pretty basic and forgettable. Don't listen to the guys saying you need to be mean. It's TRUE that women are more attracted to negative personity traits like anger and abuse, but you should act how YOU want to act. Don't change who you are and who you want to be for a fucking toilet.
I don't really feel bad since it seems like you're talking to normie women, probably under 30. That demographic is pretty much subhuman to me, no independent thought, just stare at phone and have their beliefs and standards fed to them by the Internet. Don't call me arrogant because what I'm saying is true, I'd rather be alone than have to bear spending time with one of these fucking morons. You know what I'm talking about too, the way they act, talk, the things they're interested in, it's all a dime a dozen. Unfortunately, non-normie women that are actually interesting don't make themselves available except in rare cases and that's the real problem.
Don't worry man, you'll get there. And you're cute.
Please fuck off camwhoring nagger.
-t. everyone including the roasties
Why is everyone saying this guy looks ugly? I'm not even gay and I think he's conventionally attractive. Better with the beard, I'd maybe trim the hair down but I think it works with the look he's trying to go for. The issue is he's a theater kid trying to date normal people and they're scared of anyone who can properly express their emotions.
Don't know the full situation but it looks like you are too desperate and forward. Act like you don't give a fuck about their existence. Maybe that would work out for you.
>You can be confident and dominant without being a dick
The act of being dominant, is being a dick. You can be confident and not be a dick. But you can't be dominant not be one
>You have to go on 100s of first dates before you meet someone that'd like you
Absolutely ridiculous that this shit is considered normal now
didnt read the thread so i dont know if its been suggested but op you need to try IRL. you look good enough and while you arent tall, you arent short either.
nvm im retarded i didnt read that you tried irl. but you are good looking to the point where i think you might be socially retarded and thats why you are unsuccesful irl. but maybe the sub-8 theory is real at this point, if you arent an 8 or above youre fucked.
That's rough bro.
Oh, lose the picture of the cat. Real insta-no from a lot of women.
At least you got "no" replies.
Usually it's just ghosting or dragging you along.
i've used tinder until it said "there are no more profiles in your area" and had 4 matches.
>be me several years ago, about to give up
>just go all out and ask the most beautiful girl I saw that month out on a date
>we hit it off, she constantly wants to have sex with me
>we get married, I get motivated to get better and better jobs, move up to Senior SWE
>start having kids, she inherits a few million dollars from her wealthy aunt
>move into her aunts fancy house in a nice neighborhood, pay no bills other than utilities and taxes
>get offer from company to have a paid PhD as incentive to keep me
Its literally that easy robots. And to think I almost joined the french foreign legion.
I never had success on the apps. But i got approached by a roastie on a party.
Long story short i was really shy and even though she followed me around i mostly ignored her.
One day i decided to tell her that i would like to take a look on her appartment ( obviously sexual connotation). She fucking told me that she doesnt have time and now she doesnt follow me around anymore. Fuck im pissed off. Is this world even real ? Is this hell ?
seeing those messages is the equivalent of the job rejection messages. makes me kek. relationship fags btfo
Post pics of your face on /soc/ or on a lookism forum and ask for honest feedback on what you can improve (non-surgically)
Post pics of your physique on LULZ or a lifting forum and do the same
Pick a set of realistic goals for the next six months, and you should climb at least ten percentiles in attractiveness from achieving them
Then get new, thoughtfully-selected profile pics and retry
Unless you truly radiate high levels of loneliness/self-hatred/desperation, this approach should get plenty of mid women genuinely interested in you
If that is your problem, try practicing radical acceptance of your situation:
Even if it seems ridiculous, pretend you're doing an acting exercise playing a character who accepts their situation and doesn't hate themselves yet is still somewhat dark and brooding but not threatening or a downer
Then gradually increase the amount of time you spend getting in character and flesh out the character's traits/mannerisms/thought patterns
Consider and play out how your character would think about your situation and would respond to questions regarding his life
When you can convincingly and naturally get into character for several hours, you're ready to date
>just be someone else dude
>there, that easy
Honestly, its impressive that you got that many "not interested" texts. Most people would just ghost you. You might be an alright guy
Well if you can't get a gf its over for me