>be me
>post op troony
>go on tinder and put that i'm trans in my bio
>men i meet up with seem less interested when they find out i have a vegana
why are men like this?
Relationships uncensored
>be me
>post op troony
>go on tinder and put that i'm trans in my bio
>men i meet up with seem less interested when they find out i have a vegana
why are men like this?
>fell for the srs meme
no refunds
flesh wound
no girldick?? might aswell go for a cis woman then. i mean a postop troony is basically a roastie with more than usual mental issues and more social stigma attached. its basically over
why would you get an axe wound LMAOOOO hons are moronic
Why would you call yourself trans if you got srs? Just take the trans part off your profile and you’re good!
bc i don't wanna trick straight men
Trick into what? You got srs, you are literally girl at that point
bc they should know that i used to be a man
why? if you have a vegana does it really matter anymore?
i can't get pregnant and i never got to be a little girl ;-;
why does that matter? its not like guys on dating apps are hooking up with you to get you pregnant and I don't see how having been a little girl would matter to them
i want bf not just random hookups
I think my point still stands. People don't date because they want to get the other person pregnant or because the other person was a little girl at some point. People can be superficial but they're not that superficial
>dating to start a family is superficial
anon, that's really not a very intelligent take
theres plenty of women who can't get pregnant (either naturally infertile or had uterine cancer)
and women who didn't get to be a little girl
(abusive parents, poverty, etc)
i think you're just getting interest from chasers who want a woman with a penis, and they're disappointed because of that.
someone who truly is worth keeping wouldn't care about what you have.
but like what do i do when stuff from the past gets brought up? what if they want to meet my family?
I mean Im sure you could come out to him eventually, if a guy really liked you hed be fine with it.
most probable scenario
>date boy for a while
>he thinks you're cis
>tell him you're trans
>1. he beats the shit out of you (possible death)
>2. you have been lying to me for weeks/months, even if i was okay with it you have lied to me for so much time i can't trust you *leaves*
those are the likeliest scenarios, the chances he actually stays are minimal
The "just lie" crowed are obvious meatsocks or trancels. Lies are a terrible foundation for a relationship 100% of the time.
if you think this would actually happen in the real world youve spent to much time on the internet. most men dont immediately jump to hatecrimes irl, any sensible troony would probably also test to see how the guy would react by mentioning troony shit beforehand and finding out his opinion on it. also its not lying
agree punching is to the extreme but any person would feel offended at their partner having lied to them for weeks/months and would indeed be mad and probably leave. also it is lying but i doubt we'll reach a consensus there, and most cisgendered straight men although some might claim to, will not be tolerant to having been lied to about this once it happens irl
most cisgendered straight men will not want to have sex with a transexual, pre or post op. you will find some though so aim for those instead
>most men dont immediately jump to hatecrimes irl
Agreed. I am the second poster there. I don't think a sane person would jump to a hatecrime but it is highly likely they would end the relationship. The only way lying "works" is if you've never been in a relationship, or if your "relationships" are merely brief sexual flings. Long term relationships built on the back of lies NEVER work.
i never said to lie, i'm just saying if you say you're trans and the person interested in you only dates you because they expect you to have a dick then they're a chaser and not worth your time for a long lasting relationship
>i never said to lie
Pretending you are cis because you have a neo-vegana is a lie. Our backgrounds shape us. Our story defines us. If I start dating a girl and she goes from "I'm normal teehee" to "well actually I'm infertile teehee" to "well actually I'm post-op trans teehee" I would break up with her because she has been dishonest at every step.
>the person interested in you only dates you because they expect you to have a dick then they're a chaser and not worth your time for a long lasting relationship
Sure anyone who reduces their partner to a set of genitals isn't worthwhile. But the conversation is more nuanced than "chaser bad, stealth good".
which is why i said
say you're trans
if they only dated you because they expected you to have a dick they're a chaser and not worth your time
i'm fricking repeating myself now because i already made my case and you're just a reading comprehension lacking moron who can't understand any sort of nuance. frick you
>say you're trans
Assuming you are the same person here
Then you said to come out to him eventually. This is what I was replying to, that is lying, I am saying to be upfront. If you agree with that then we are angerly agreeing.
that's not them dumbass
Then they shouldn't reply to the middle of a fully anonymous chain and expect not to be confused for someone in the middle moron.
or you could pay attention to very obvious differences in how people type
No.
That’s dumb as frick, unless you plan on dating the guy he doesn’t need to know up front. If it turns into more than a frick buddy then yeah you tell him, but there’s no need to tell him up front. It’s not like cis girls tell their ONS “oh by the way I’m infertile in case this turns into a relationship and you happen to want kids.”
Anyway you’ll realize she’s mtf the first time you frick her so it’s not like she’s keeping it secret.
>unless you plan on dating the guy
Good LORD this is the WHOLE POINT of my post. I was SPECIFICALLY talking about LTRs.
Then you’ll figure it out the first time you frick her and if you don’t, that’s your dumbass fault.
You don’t tell people shit the first time you frick outside of STDs. You have no idea if it’s gonna turn into a LTR, if you decide you like him enough to date him then you tell him. That’s not first frick info.
>Then you’ll figure it out the first time you frick her and if you don’t, that’s your dumbass fault.
Some truth to this for sure.
>You don’t tell people shit the first time you frick outside of STDs
Yes you should.
>You have no idea if it’s gonna turn into a LTR
If will never turn into a LTR if you lie upfront
>if you decide you like him enough to date him then you tell him
And then he breaks up with you because you lied to him.
>That’s not first frick info
It is if you want any hope of building a relationship.
Side note: no wonder tranners have so many problems with frivolous meaningless relationships if this is your dating strategy KEK
You’re so afraid of fricking a post op mtf and falling for her lmao
Not even cis people share that info on the first frick. Can you imagine if a cis women brought that up your first frick? “Hey, I have a functional female reproductive system and I want kids, so I need to know you have a functional male reproductive system and your sperm count is normal, you know, just in case this turns into a relationship.” You’d run for the fricking hills that this chick is already thinking about having kids with you lmao
So dump her. I mean you weren’t even dating yet, who gives a frick? One pay does not a relationship make. Nobody shares private info that early on, what if you suck in bed and she doesn’t want to date you? Why would she tell you shit when you’re a one night stand she doesn’t want to date?
>You’re so afraid of fricking a post op mtf and falling for her lmao
Sure, that's basically a worst case scenario because she has created a situation where I have to break up with her. If she had been honest up front, I could have possibly given her a legitimate shot, but if I can't trust her to be honest about her most basic features I can't trust her to be honest about anything.
>Hey, I have a functional female reproductive system and I want kids, so I need to know you have a functional male reproductive system and your sperm count is normal, you know, just in case this turns into a relationship
>implying cis people don't talk about long term plans before fricking
lol, lmao even
>You’d run for the fricking hills that this chick is already thinking about having kids with you lmao
I'd run for the hills because that's the most autistic conversation I've ever read, but I would absolutely bring up long term plans before fricking a girl.
>Why would she tell you shit when you’re a one night stand she doesn’t want to date?
I never said she had to for a one night stand, just a potential relationship. Or do you labor under the delusion that cis people approach these situations the exact same way?
Following up on the first point, I would break up with a ciswoman who KNEW she was infertile but lied early on about it too.
Not telling you up front isn’t the same as lying to you lmao no girl is telling you shit until she knows she actually likes you and might want to date you. And if you’re asking her up front if she’s infertile she definitely don’t want to date you, that’s weird as frick.
It’s hilarious that you think any of these chicks even WANT to carry your seed. I have a feeling your potential partner’s infertility is the least of your problem when it comes to dating lmao
>And if you’re asking her up front if she’s infertile she definitely don’t want to date you, that’s weird as frick
Again the autism of the tranner comes out.
Correct I would never ask that. I would ask what her long term plans are. Do you people even have a single conversation before fricking?
>It’s hilarious that you think any of these chicks even WANT to carry your seed
It's sad, although perhaps unsurprising given every response that you think relationships are purely physical experiences. But just FYI, this would be a major red flag to me as a straight cisman. If I meet a girl and she wants to frick before we talk about anything she will immediately be delegated to the "frick zone" not the "dating zone".
How are you breaking up with her when you’re not even dating?! lmao you’re delusional, you’re assuming that a) you were good in bed and b) you had a good enough personality that she even wants to date you. That’s why you don’t tell dudes in the first frick, because you don’t know if you even want to date him and if you don’t, he doesn’t need to know you’re business. If she does want to date you, then she’ll tell you. There’s no dumping at that point because you’re literally not together. It’s just a one night stand at that point, it ain’t that serious lol
>How are you breaking up with her when you’re not even dating?!
You do realize people "date" before fricking right? Or are you one of those meatsocks who consider fricking to be a handshake?
>lmao you’re delusional
Sorry friend, you are the one attempting to argue that lies lead to stable relationships.
>you’re assuming that a) you were good in bed and b) you had a good enough personality that she even wants to date you
Completely irrelevant to everything I've said.
>That’s why you don’t tell dudes in the first frick, because you don’t know if you even want to date him and if you don’t
Ah yes, you are a meatsock.
>he doesn’t need to know you’re business
If you want a LTR he does.
>It’s just a one night stand at that point, it ain’t that serious lol
LTRs =/= one night stands
I'm with these anons.
I'll freely date trans girls but if I found out a girl I was dating was trans and hadn't been up front about it I'd drop her immediately.
If she thinks she can decide what is important for you to know then who knows what other shit she'll hide from you.
someone who loves you for you and not your body alone would be open to listening to you
it's hard to find genuinely good people but i promise they're out there
how is it tricking them
Least braindwashed troony
You will never be a woman. Not even after surgery
ok
she's not a girl she's trans, good on OP for not lying.
first mistake
Because after surgery you lose what makes you special and highly attractive. Sorry but surgery for trannies is a scam and step backward. Why do you want to be a boring woman when you can be the upgraded form of woman? I really don’t understand this
Kys chasoid
What chaser like to play with, in order:
Penis > boy butt > vegana > whatever you call the result of the medical malpractice that was done to you
If I wanted to frick someone with a vegana, why would I go for someone with a frankengina instead of a regular girl with a regular vegana? You ruined the only thing that makes you hot.
t. chaser
dont respond to the porn addicts, just ignore them
Guys, you all need to understand that for a lot of, maybe most, straight guys, it *will* matter that his GF is a troony no matter how well she passes or how convincing her neovegana is or how good the sex is. If knowing she's biologically a mutilated male isn't enough to turn him off, concerns about her inability to bear children and her having to pretend at things like having periods or growing up as a female, and having to hide her past and her status as a troony from his friends and family, all that will scare him away. Some guys are open minded enough to accept it but many, maybe most, just don't want to deal with it when they can get a real biological woman and make their family proud. So what I'm saying is, if you're post-op, non-AGP, and looking to date guys, you've chosen a life of stealthpassing whether you like it or not. And if you're not stealthpassing then you should've kept your dick and dating is going to be a *lot* harder unless he's a desperate incel or something.
it's okay, I'm just not sure why you would chop your penis off
neo-vegana is physically repulsive. girldick is the superior option.
srs is repulsive
This is how straight men view it:
real vegana > dick (girl) > fake vegana
>asuming straight men like girl dick
all chasers are gay or bisexuals, the straight ones are just in the closet and come out soon enough
fake veganas are an eyesore and just can't match up to the real deal, sorry troon.
How are they an eyesore? How do they “not match up” to natal veganas?
They don’t look the same but theres nothing wrong with that. There’s some bomb ass looking neo pussy out there. It also doesn’t feel the same, not in a bad way or anything (well unless she swears she self lubricates and doesn’t need lube because then it feels like fine grit sandpaper) just different.
Some girls actually do self-lubricate, actually.
No you don’t and your pussy feels like sandpaper. Use lube.
>well unless she swears she self lubricates and doesn’t need lube because then it feels like fine grit sandpaper
lmao
"why does nobody want postops?"
>how are they an eyesore
rolling the dice, anon, maybe your surgeon is excellent at what he does and on top of his game when he operates, but there's a lot that can go wrong and it doesn't take very much at all to go from 'nice c**t' to 'what the frick happened down here'
>How do they "not match up"
first, i have to be extremely careful with your neovegana. too much force, too little lube and you risk very serious injury, especially if im above average size (im not, but many are)
natal veganas very seldom have that issue; i can beat on a bioc**t all goddamn day, but your neovegana just can't take the same degree of passionate, forceful sex
neoveganas don't autolubricate, pausing to apply and reapply lube really takes away from the spontaneity and passion
finally, the pelvic inlet is far narrower and the angles are much different, meaning that special positions are required for optimal penetration
i don't mean to be unkind anon but it is a lot more work for a considerably lesser payoff, in terms of physical stimulation
im a straight man, hence why i know all chasers are gay
Girld with pussies are plentiful. Girls with dicks are not. If they want a girl with a pussy, they’d go for a cis girl.
why do men on this website always say "might as well go with a cis woman instead at that point" as if they could get a cis woman at that point lol
>le chasers are undesirable maymay
I don't want girldick because I lack vegana, I want girldick because it's rare and bioholes are everywhere. Sucking a girldick is a human experience I have been deprived of my whole life and that drives me crazy!
The whole appeal of passing trans women is their wiener. They look like a woman, but they have a dick. Take away the dick and there’s no more appeal.
Chasers don’t go for mtfs because they can’t get cis girls. They go for mtfs because they want a girl with a wiener. If you don’t have a wiener, cis girls are the superior choice. Neopussy is subpar to cis pussy and doesn’t feel quite right.
Cis girls are everywhere, passable/attractive tranners are rare. I've cheated on cis girls for tranners before. But I wouldn't frick one without a dick, why bother at that point?
Based for telling men you're trans.
Sadly SRS is mostly a meme so most men see it as a dice roll on whether between your legs is something that resembles a pussy or a total horror show.
>on tinder
There's your problem, most guys on dating apps are gonna be losers who want hookups. If you want a good guy, start making male friends irl. If you find someone you genuinely connect with, they will be way more willing to accept any "imperfections." Being with someone you actually enjoy spending time with outside of just cooming makes for a way better relationship anyway.
If you're a girl with a dick, that's exotic and pretty hot. If you're post op trans, you just have a Frankenstein wound and honestly no thanks.
When do you tell them? Wait a few dates so they have emotional connection first
>tell them im trans
Stop, you're a full woman now that's you're post op
stop ruining your chances
They’ll figure it out the first time we have sex. Might as well be honest from the get go.
You've never seen an actual neo-vag, have you?
I have a neo vag. I love it and I don’t regret it at all, but it’s gotten me clocked more than once and it’s def not my scars (I got scar tattoos).
I'm sure it's something else that clocks you
I’m 100% passoid. Guys will take me out, buy me shit, be all over me, but then the minute we have sex ghost me. I thought it was cis guys being douchebags until one asked me mid thrust if I’m trans. I asked why he thought that and he said “it’s no big it just feels different.”
So no. It’s definitely my vag.
That's unfortunate
Still better than my previous option. It just sucks that I either have to be a transbian or date trans men or somehow find a guy who doesn’t give a shit I guess.
I'm a guy who doesn't care
but that's not relevant
Who was ur surgeon? Would you recommend
Surgeon doesn’t matter, even Suporn can’t perfectly replicate cis pussy. It feels different (the colon version is slightly better but not by much) it doesn’t fit dicks anywhere near as well, it’s not warm and soft and inviting. It’s still good and you should still get srs, just be prepared to get clocked if you’re tryna go stealth.
i mean... its pretty hard to go stealth when you have a dick too
you don’t have a “vegana”, you have a frankensteinesque open wound in mockery of one. no one fricking wants to put their dick in that.
Ask nicely and I’ll let you frick it anon.
I want to get a post op tranner and then never let her use her pussy