>Be me, 5'6, ugly, loser, socially awkward, dumb
>Somehow end up in a relationship with a beautiful and charismatic girl
>She loses attraction to me over time
>I fuck up once and she used it as an excuse to dump me for some chad who's taller, fitter, richer, and overall just better than me in every way.
>She blocks me on everything and tells me she doesn't want anything to do with me
I seriously was considering suicide a couple days ago. Now that I have a taste of what it's like to be chad I don't think I can go back to my miserable old empty life. I can't even go out in public without thinking about how inferior I feel to most men I see walk past. There's no point in living like this. Anyone else feel the same? I had one opportunity at life and I had to be born into some shit body with a shit mind. How do you deal with these feelings?
How do you deal with these feelings?
Do something you enjoy until you get in a clearer state of mind. You're down in the dumps right now and not thinking straight. Also, comparing yourself to other men is a 100% guaranteed way to be miserable for the rest of your fucking life. Only compare yourself to who you were 2 weeks ago.
Go through real problems. After going hungry for a while and not being sure if I would be alive after 2019, shit like a girl dumping you for a guy who IS superficially better than you in every way is a fucking drop in the puddle.
Go for a run. Go punch the dirt if you're mad. Go ball up in a corner and cry if you're sad. Then move on and get to working on more important things than your emotions.
Permanently damaged my leg, dislocated my shoulder which also permanently weakened it, totaled my car, lost my job, and almost died from alcoholism in 2019. With essentially zero support from friends or family.
Relationship troubles are nothing. They feel like everything, but they're really nothing. Try to remember what you actually have.
Best advice in this shitty thread.
Also op if that's you, you're not bad looking. Get a better haircut, dress better, take care of your mind so you won't be making such a sad expression etc
Fucking yourself up more to cope with existing trauma is the worst advice you could give.
I'm not telling the homosexual to get hit by a truck like I did to fucking forget that his GF dumped him for an upgrade.
I'm asking the homosexual to remember that there are worse things that being dumped. Feels like the end of the world. But hey, at least he didn't get hit by a truck and lose control of his leg.
And in my case, at least it wasn't both legs. Or shoulders. Least I didn't die in the wreck. Least I didn't die from lack of food or too much booze.
Things can be much worse. Remember that. So it may seem like the end of the world right now, but so long as you are alive, have food, and a safe place to sleep it really fucking isn't and should be reminded of that.
I just have a true ego where when a girl stops talking to me I feel bad for her.
Get a better asian haircut
>waahh waah my life is over because I lost the hottest girl I could find
And here I was going to say you were cute OP, never mind you wouldn't look in my direction anyways,.
Of course he's going to feel like that. Being with a hot girl in unforgettable.
>Be me, 5'6, ugly, loser, socially awkward, dumb
>Somehow end up in a relationship with a beautiful and charismatic girl
>She loses attraction to me over time
>I fuck up once and she used it as an excuse to dump me for some chad who's taller, fitter, richer, and overall just better than me in every way.
>She blocks me on everything and tells me she doesn't want anything to do with me
Take all this as a closed door and do something else
like a closed store
no time to lose on what hurt you
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>Now that I have a taste of what it's like to be chad I don't think I can go back to my miserable old empty life.
You were never a Chad. The fact is that this girl found you attractive for reasons particular to her. You were never a Chad because your self esteem came from the validation of a single woman, your object of desire, the thing that feeds you insecurities, you "became" a "Chad" because what you thought other person thought of you, Chad is not like that. Chad is Chad because of what he thinks of himself and while Chad also has the validation of others it's because it supports what he already thinks of himself. You thought you were a loser than never deserved a hot girl and when you got her you didn't think that maybe you weren't a loser, instead you thought that you were a lucky loser. That's your issue. You think yourself as a victim and a loser.
I understand why you're upset but honestly the bulk of it is based on shit that you can't change so it's not worth being upset about. She won't last with mr chad either
Nothing just happens. Whether I am humiliated, ignored, stolen from, Jesus reigns forever and ever and he is worthy of all praise. I don't waste my opportunities to give God the most pure worship untainted by favorable outcomes. These situations are valuable.
You have the jawline, the lips, the eyes, no wrinkles or fine lines, and your hair needs improvement but it's not the worst. If you put in effort you can be very attractive.
is this you?you're actually good looking man you just need a haircut and you're golden
also you got in a relationship with a beautiful and charismatic girl which means you're capable of getting with a beautiful charismatic girl!you should be proud of yourself and live everyday knowing that you did it before and can do it again
>also you got in a relationship with a beautiful and charismatic girl which means you're capable of getting with a beautiful charismatic girl!
Its weird that a lot of dudes feel like they’ve lost everything when they fumble a bad bitch, the fact she was into you in the first place should boost your ego. Women are really fickle and can lose attraction to you over the stupidest shit, through her social media I’ve concluded that the reason one girl stopped talking to me cold turkey was because “I liked her back”. She was also vaguely mentally unwell so that explains that
fr i dont understand this perspective,every achivement i acomplish with women i remember as a victory and something im capable of,my ego gets boosted and i get better at handling women
youre perspective is out of whack and you have more going for you than you know its corny but you really need to look at the bright side
You get over it over time. You realize it was just an illusion, and you were living in a dream. Back to reality.
You're pretty good looking bro. You remind me of Joseph Gordon Levitt