>be me 18yo
>same age girl in my college music class
>cute petite strawberry blonde girl with thick glasses, no makeup and a little plain but pretty 6 or 7/10
>doesn't have any friends and doesn't talk to anyone but doesn't do anything weird
>makes chiptune/game music and always gets the best grades and teachers praising her
>one time muster the courage to ask her to sample one of her songs, she agrees and sends me it over twitter
>follow her, her account is full of fanart for shit like kingdom hearts earthbound 2hu and kirby
>tweets about whatever she's playing or new art/music she made
>approach her a few times when we're doing live sound stuff, a bit aloof but polite and sweet. tweeted about my whore bpd gf dumping me and she asked if i was ok the next day and offered to talk if i wanted to
do i shoot my shot? our course is almost over but she seems genuinely nice and she's actually talented to
yeah, i know that seems like the obvious choice but i barely know anything about her. she only tweets about games and only has about 30 followers (all of which are either japanese fan accounts for the same games) and i'm her only follower that she knows irl (i think), but if she turns out to have a boyfriend i'd die on the spot. she goes straight home everyday and arrives to class early but always has headphones in or is on her switch, i've only really spoken to her five times or so in two years but she's always in the corner or by herself that it's hard to approach. nobody in our class hates her or anything but we pretty much agreed to not approach her because she purposefully isolates herself.
she also tweeted on ptsd awareness day that she had the condition from getting beaten/degraded by her family/classmates in childhood and it sucked so coming out of a relationship with a bpd crazy, i don't want her to end up as a psycho either.
>but i barely know anything about her
Do you have autism or some kind of brain damage? That's entirely the point of getting to know her
You are obviously interested in her, just go for it you moron
All it takes literally is just saying you like her / find her interesting / find her cute and you want to get to know her
ok i fucked up sorry
but i don't want to get rejected and only will approach if i know she'll accept me
no she's really thin it's almost worrying
>but i don't want to get rejected and only will approach if i know she'll accept me
That is where you are terribly mistaken
Proceeding like this increases your chance to fail to almost 100%
Be real with yourself, you want it, go get it
If you hit it off, good, otherwise you will barely remember this bitch 20 years from now for fucks sake
i'm shit scared because my ex turned out to be cruel but i have faith in this girl
the fact that she offered to talk to me when i was at my worst without a hint of mockery has stuck with me so i'll go for it just for that alone
if anything even if i get rejected at least my bitch ex's fat ass will get jealous that i'm moving on
>i'm shit scared because my ex turned out to be cruel
That's understandable my dude. Some people can hurt us and it takes time to heal. Absolutely do not cling to sadness, all we need is some decent people in our lives. This girl might be one, who knows?
I like to think I'm decent for giving you some advice as well, this could either blow up and you'd forget it faster than you realize or could bring you unbeliavably good experiences.
Don't be afraid, be assertive, get closer to her and show your intentions.
If you're not used to being assertive, stuff like this
How is this even a debate, go for it.
Shes fat isn't she?
You told us about her pros, but what are the cons? There must be something, otherwise you wouldn't hesitate to make a move.
>literally no friends aside from me (red flag?)
>doesn't speak to anyone and isolates herself
>very thin (not a con but maybe anorexic)
>ptsd could be a sign she's a crazy
>doesn't dress up and wears baggy clothing (not a bad thing, but could be a red flag for other issues)
>has drawn somewhat erotic art of pete kingdom hearts before
>have absolutely no idea of where she came from, what school she went to, any previous classmates etc. to get an idea of who she is
>uses LULZ because i've fucking seen her scrolling through the site
Talk with her, ask her out on dates without actually naming it a date (im going to xy, wanna come? have you seen the xy, you totally should, i'll show it to you). Try to get to know her a little bit better, before you pull the trigger all the way. If she turns out to be problematic, the dates weren't actually dates, you guys just hung out like friends.
thanks so much guys, i honestly really appreciate it. i'm going to trust that she's not a bitch (i have no reason to believe that other than fear), and i'm going to try and get close to her before we leave college. i think i'll invite her to see a movie, maybe cocaine bear or the mario movie once it's out? she likes nintendo a lot so i don't think she'd turn that down
>tweeted about my whore bpd gf dumping me
This is not the kind of bait you lay for getting new girls, my dude.
She is now a spy to make sure you're not a weirdo. (But you are and now everyone else will be informed)
if you won’t then i will, what’s her @
i'm going for it
Based anon, good luck, tell us what happens
thank you, hopefully we can get close even as friends because she seems cool
You're welcome, hope you get a girlfriend out of this anon
Red flag, she's definitely a dead fish asexual
i don't think so
she's drawn some lewd-ish stuff but nothing fully suggestive
she's definitely straight though