>at the bar
>flirting with the Barwoman
>she smiles, keep talking about our lives
>I tell her I'm an engineer fag but I've also done manual labor while in college
>She tells me she's been working bar and service
>I stay silent
>Asks me if I see someone these days
>I say that I'm single
>She keeps the conversation going
What do bros? Is this typical bar flirt for the tips or can I keep it going?
She's trying to upsell drinks to lonely losers like you retard.
>flirting with the bar maid
Retard
Nothing wrong with flirting with a bar maid as long as you realize it isn't real and won't lead to anything. Sometimes it just feels good to flirt even if you know it isn't real.
Bar maids are most of the time an ass full of problems and they are all not too mentally stable. Not saying one can't have fun, but its in most cases not worth the headaches
>hey can i see you again sometime?
that's it. if she says yes outside of work its real, if she says come back it's a ruse.
>i'll take things that never happend for 100 points.
Leave your moms basement for once homosexual
Show her this thread so she knows that you're asking for advice on how to win her she'll love it
ask for her number
Don't get too excited anon, she's just milking you for a big tip.
Ask her if she likes anal sex
You are getting fluffed for a tip, homey. Save your money and get a call girl.
ask her what she thinks about bgc
Simple. Ask her for her number. If she says anything other than yes and giving it to you. She's not interested. Ex bartender for years. Hooked up with a few. Most still tried to milk me for tips.
Forewarning bars are the worst places to meet women. You might get laid but she most likely has an STD and 99% mentally ill. Even if you managed to hook up and say she likes you, she's going to be hit on by every guy that comes into the bar, every night.
>asked for number
>she said "sure just don't lose it amongst the other girls you're texting"
>wrote it on a piece of paper with her name on it
>asked her if she wants to meet after work
>she said her shift ends at 7am, if u want to wait until then
>3 am now
What do?
Waiting until 7AM while drink for a girl to finish their night shift is incredibly creepy.
Assuming you actually got her number, go home and call her up another day.
Text her around 4 am. Ask if she's still on to meet. Meet up for breakfast or something. Talk to her. Get to know her some. If you're lucky and she's tired she may just have you come to her place instead.
Tips
>Do not pay for anything
>Do not validate her
Also what bar shift ends at 4am?
Friends telling me to hit the road cause it's too late. Should I drop them and go back and wait or go home?
Drop them. Go back home and wait if you're not tired. Text her around 4 or 5 to see if she's still on. Just text her once and don't blow up her phone. Also don't drink anymore.
go do your own thing, lazily text her to set up the 7am meetup. don't overtext it will only hurt you right now if she likes you - text to setup the meet then silence.
Also this
Set up to meet at least if she's down for 7am. She might want to fuck OP.
Wait or no then? She said if u can't wait we could another day
Well it sounds like she wants to do the 7am , I’m changing my stance go for it bro.
I wouldn't wait at the bar but drop your friends off and go home and chill. Hit her up with a text planning to meet at 7am. Just tell her your going to go home for a bit and will text her to meet up for breakfast or something when she gets off.
Waiting at the bar can be sketch. It can put her in a corner in case she's not feeling like going out and if she bails your just wasting your time. Also you're more likely to get bored and drunk.
Go home. Clean up. Grab some coffee or something and chill. That way if she does bail you're already comfy and no one's time is wasted. If she likes you she'll still meet up.
Also don't tell anyone. Even your friends. They'll fuck it up for you.
I wouldn’t wait until the end of her shift, that seems kind of weird. Take her out another night when she isn’t working.
She wants to fuck you after work.
>What do?
Meet her after work for whatever she wants, a drink, coffee, a meal, whatever, then fuck her.
Call her a filthy aids ridden nagger. If she laughs, she's a keeper. If she doesn't...weeeeeeell
>flag
>incelbait thread
fuck off
Did you explain to her that you are a navy seal that graduated at the top of your class etc? That's usually what I do when faced with confrontation.
not politics but I'm invested now
keep us updated bar bro
I told her I'm gonna drop my friends and come back.
I think you're messing up with that one but if she bails then just don't freak out and don't be an idiot and get drunk.
Should I go home instead and call at 7?
Yes. If she doesn't pick up, DON'T push it, either she calls back or doesn't. If doesn't call back, text in a week
I told you what to do
Go home. Shoot her a text when you get home to see if you she's still on for 7am. Text her once. Don't get pissed and blow up her phone if she doesn't text back right away. Don't drink any more and just be chill about it.
This is correct. Go home. Don't wait at bar and fuck it up.
Once a bartender flashed me her tits. She didn't fuck me, but they were nice tits.
>>I tell her I'm an engineer fag but I've also done manual labor while in college
Based, engineers who haven't been through the blue collar part of their degree are huge homosexuals and need to be executed.
Holy shit this board is so autistic. I'm leaving forever. Goodbye
Cool. See you tomorrow.