ATOGA - Ask The Opposite Gender Anything


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  1. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    Women would Pokémon still be number 1 if the games didn't remove so much content over the years including the freaking Pokémon?

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      Yawn

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      Maybe? It is annoying that they keep adding new features, then dropping them and never touching them again. And I thought the whole point of adding new Pokémon each generation was to have a huge variety to catch, not a small subset.

      Women if a guy you were interested in was 24 and had never been in a relationship before and was a virgin how much of a turn off is that?

      It’s not a turnoff, just something to consider if we get together.

      For anyone to answer, but please state gender.
      What do you think of terms like "game", "rizz", "pull", or "play" used in the context of dating?

      F. Giga cringe.

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        >It is annoying that they keep adding new features, then dropping them and never touching them again
        do they still have the berry bushes you can plant?
        I haven't played one in ages

        • 2 days ago
          Anonymous

          I don't think so :/

        • 2 days ago
          Anonymous

          Are you saying Ruby & Sapphire aren't the new pokemon games anymore

          • 2 days ago
            Anonymous

            I mean, they might be again when they get re-re-released
            >21 years ago
            aint no way
            AINT NO FUCKING WAY

            • 2 days ago
              Anonymous

              >21 years ago
              I have a clear memory of the kid next door showing me the new Pokemon game, Silver.
              Then waking up for school some time later and seeing an ad on a CRT TV about the awesome new Pokemon, Ruby. Then the internet was crazy about how bad Pokemon got with Diamond, half the kids grew out but we were entering our teens already anyway. Then smartphones popped up, and we could play Emerald on our phones. Then I was sitting in the middle of nowhere with a gun, playing Emerald on my phone to pass time. Growing old hurts in a sweet way.

  2. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    Women if a guy you were interested in was 24 and had never been in a relationship before and was a virgin how much of a turn off is that?

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      Sounds perfect to me

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        why

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      Not for me. Would want someone with roughly similar experience

  3. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    For anyone to answer, but please state gender.
    What do you think of terms like "game", "rizz", "pull", or "play" used in the context of dating?

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      F
      Words fail to express how retarded it truly is.

  4. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    Men, what kind of girlfriend would appeal to you the most and why?

    Imagine they all love and respect you exactly the same. From left to right:
    1. She is taller than you
    2. She is your height (give or take 1-2 inches)
    3. She is noticeably smaller than you

    Bonus: Please state how tall you are and if you would describe yourself as dominant, submissive or neutral in a relationship.

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      5'5 neutral, I have no height preference as long as it's not extreme. If I had to choose I would pick 2.

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      M
      I'd pick taller

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      3>1>2
      6'6
      neutral or soft switch

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      They all have identical appeal to me.
      My oneitis is taller than me.
      The last girl I crushed on was a full head shorter than me.
      And when I envision a girl in my imagination, I envision her at my height so I can look her in the eyes.
      I will never care about height as much as women do.

      I am neutral with some submissive tendencies but not enough for femdom.

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      My height or smaller. Could be open to taller. 6ft3. Neutral to dominant.

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      I’d want her to be around my height
      I’m 6’1
      Tbh the perfect height would be her forehead reaches where my lips are so I can give her forehead kisses easily.

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        [...]
        Oh and I’m dominant but fine with switching roles.

        Are you handsome too? So far you sound hot.

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        male pickme

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      3 smaller
      6'2
      neutral-dominant

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      I’d want her to be around my height
      I’m 6’1
      Tbh the perfect height would be her forehead reaches where my lips are so I can give her forehead kisses easily.

      Oh and I’m dominant but fine with switching roles.

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      im 5'9 in nordic country and like girls who are tall like similar height to mine or even taller
      why do you ask?

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        >why do you ask?
        Demoralization fuel for short women who are more than three inches shorter than their boyfriends.

        • 2 days ago
          Anonymous

          your pic and the question usually just shits on short guys and not women ...

          • 2 days ago
            Anonymous

            That picture cuts both ways. If a girl is more than three inches shorter than her boyfriend, then her boyfriend is disappointed with her body and wishes she were taller. Heightism hurts everyone.

            • 2 days ago
              Anonymous

              one reason i want a taller girl is bc ive already had a small one and im small myself so it would balance me out, idk why any tall guy would want a tall girl they will only create giants

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      F, 2. 1 is logistic nightmare in bed. Same goes for 3 to lesser extent but I'm not that tall so a guy significantly shorter than me would most likely have some genetic issues.

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        Oops got 1 and 3 mixed up. Meant to say too tall is a logistic nightmare. Too short relative to me is likely a birth defect.

        • 2 days ago
          Anonymous

          >Meant to say too tall is a logistic nightmare.

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        Is sex the easiest and most comfortable when both people are the same height or close?

        >t. virgin

        • 2 days ago
          Anonymous

          Yeah, most positions work best when you're relatively similar in height. The only people I know who are obsessed with tall guys are either virgins or mentally unstable/have weird size fetish. Also it's easier to talk to people your own height. I hated having to crane my neck to talk to one of my exes who was a good head taller than me.

          • 2 days ago
            Anonymous

            How tall are you and what height would your ideal bf be?

            • 2 days ago
              Anonymous

              I'm 5'3". Ideally 5'6" so I can still wear heels without catching flack for it, but anywhere from 5'0" to 5'6" is good. 5'7" is probably the max before I start losing attraction. Anything above that is a literal pain in the neck. Pretty sure below 5'0" is like dwarfism so uh not my cup of tea either.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                im calling bullshit that you wouldnt date someone 5'8+
                did a tall guy traumatize you?

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                I have dated guys that tall and taller. Like I said it was a pain having to look up to talk to them and I always found any physical intimacy was like playing twister.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                i mean im short dude myself, i just say it bc this feels similar as tall girls saying they need a tall guy
                with some imaginations im pretty sure ever height can find solutions to sex
                a tall guy can easily grab you up and fuck you in the air or you can just sit on the meat mountain of him
                etc

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                You're fascinating.
                Usually small women are OBSESSED with super tall men, even more so than taller women.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                Haha thanks I guess? Usually those women are projecting (see mentally unwell) or virgins. I have lots of examples in my own friend group and when they whine about it, I just eyeroll. The ones in happy long term relationships are the ones who care as much and most of their bfs are close to their height. I honestly think the average woman does not care but there's a lot of confirmation bias in online communities.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                >sually those women are projecting (see mentally unwell)
                the problem is this is most women nowadays, as a young short guy its really not easy to get demoralized by this bc its literally trendy to just be this tall or the girl feels like she hasn accomplished her mental checkmark

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                I think you might just be looking for or seeing a lot of confirmation biases especially if you're online a lot. I haven't seen much of this among my friends esp those who are dateable. Unfortunately physical trends are always gonna be a thing but not everyone follows them. Being curvy and having big boobs was the trend for me growing up and still is. I am neither of those so I grew up feeling really shitty about myself until I started dating and realized most guys didn't care and there were a lot of guys who preferred the opposite. I guess what I'm trying to say is I get where you're coming from but don't get too hung up on it. Being hung up on your insecurities is way more off putting than actually having those features you're insecure about.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                ii like myself a lot actually, i think i look way cooler than other taller dudes, as im a pretty twink with cool athletic body and pretty face, i just feel underappreciated.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                Well you honestly sound just like my type haha. Hope you find someone to appreciate you.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                honestly think i look really good but get constantly rejected

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                Where are you located? Maybe it has to do with the demographics/culture around you.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                white country
                but i mean im not mini and if anything i should be more interesting since nearly everyone here is tall

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                >white country
                Are you not white?

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                i am would post pic but not fond of getting memed

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                Oh then idk
                Bring short doesn’t make exotic just like having a 3rd nipple as a guy doesn’t

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                no im not im literally white and blonde lol, im not tiny either im just not a huge ogre like many here are. im pretty twink maxxed

                That's fair but now I'm so curious.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                >white country
                Are you not white?

                Are you a minority? If everyone else is tall like you said, maybe it's just the cultural taste is skewed in a participant direction.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                no im not im literally white and blonde lol, im not tiny either im just not a huge ogre like many here are. im pretty twink maxxed

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                >im literally white and blonde
                There was a 5’6 Norwegian poster with super long blond hair here who was a total fuck boy and they are tall as fuck over there.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                You sound very much unlike all the women near me. Where are you from?

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                Canada.

                i mean im short dude myself, i just say it bc this feels similar as tall girls saying they need a tall guy
                with some imaginations im pretty sure ever height can find solutions to sex
                a tall guy can easily grab you up and fuck you in the air or you can just sit on the meat mountain of him
                etc

                Yeah I mean some weird niche positions become available but a lot of normal positions are off the table. Like we could never 69 or kiss in missionary. I don't wanna look at someone's chest the whole time. I might as well put on Netflix at that point.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                >Canada
                So close and yet so far. You seem like a nice person, so I hope you find what you're looking for.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                Thanks, haha. Hope you do too anon.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                I have dated guys that tall and taller. Like I said it was a pain having to look up to talk to them and I always found any physical intimacy was like playing twister.

                Based.

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        Oops got 1 and 3 mixed up. Meant to say too tall is a logistic nightmare. Too short relative to me is likely a birth defect.

        Now I'm all mixed up. Who's reaching from the high shelves at the supermarket and who's carrying the baby?

        • 2 days ago
          Anonymous

          Whoever is taller, otherwise just don't be so awkward and get a customer service person? I mean I shop alone most of the time and I'm like 5'3" and have no issues with it. And you can take turns carrying the baby. I find most women despite being weaker overall carry weight when using their hips more comfortably than men.

          • 2 days ago
            Anonymous

            >And you can take turns carrying the baby.
            Mpreggers, we're back in the game.

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      I'm a sexual sadist (and I mean that in a literal way) so I've never really thought about height at all. I guess I'd prefer a smaller petite girl or same height, taller would be difficult to work with but I've never been in that situtation so I don't know. I'm about 5'9 and I'd say I'm pretty aggressive and mean spirited in a sexual relationship, in a romantic one (and I try not to mix the two) I'm pretty neutral.

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        Your sadism and sexual power becomes neutral and chill when you love the person?

        • 2 days ago
          Anonymous

          Funny how that works right? It's difficult being in a loving relationship while fantasizing about violently raping her (or worse). I still think about it from time to time, but try to just suppress it or find an outlet (usually cheating or porn). When it comes to romance I like to be with girls who aren't super sexual or anything and I'll go vanilla for them and them only. I try not to mix love and sex too much, as weird as that sounds.

          • 2 days ago
            Anonymous

            It does sound weird. I'm glad my boyfriend is very romantic and sensitive but also can become a sadistic beast for sex.

            • 2 days ago
              Anonymous

              >sadistic beast for sex.
              Elaborate

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                He is very gentle, sensitive and loving day-to-day. But sexually he acts more like a predator, someone who devours me, pins me down, enjoys inflicting pain and putting restraints on me. But I'm a huge bottom and also masochist, so he is feeding on my horny and joy. He's just perfect.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                Have other guys also caused you sexual pain?

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                I was a virgin before he became my boyfriend. Because I'm a bottom I really enjoy that, to be just owned (in a sexual sense) by one man and one man only forever. In a way I find it less dominant if a man has sex with a girl that other men already had their fun with, so it would ruin my fantasy a bit.

                He actually was a virgin too but he's very gifted concerning his sexual skills. Some people are probably born talented?

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous
              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                >the only way to get a virgin girl as a virgin is to be a sadist
                It's so fucking over

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                He is only sadistic sexually and mostly because gets pleasure from the fact that I get turned on by it. Outside of that, he is extremely kind and nice. In over 5 years he has not raised his voice or ever insulted me or hurt me even when I was acting crazy or mean because of some mental health and health issues I went through at times.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                I meant in the sexual sense
                The most dominant fantasy I have is neck kissing, shut your stupid fucking mouth, it's fucking over for me

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                I guess you're right, it's over for you.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                You say that but you don't realize you actually mean it

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                >The most dominant fantasy I have is neck kissing
                Holy shit imagine being this much of a beta

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                >imagine being this much of a beta
                How about I shove a hot iron in your ass homosexual, stop worrying about the sexual fantasies of other men

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                Holy hell, when did /atoga/ grow a proper spine?

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                I'm not doing it for sexual pleasure I'm doing it for emotional pleasure

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                Does he slap your face in bed?

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                Yes he slaps my face but that doesn't mean all women enjoy it we communicated a lot before we ever even had sex

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                >we communicated a lot before we ever even had sex
                how do you even bring this shit up before having regular sex for the first time

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                Does he call you his whore?

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                Femanon pls spare me i was doing so good

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                Sorry!

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                Why do femanons always seem to have the perfect bf?
                Never gonna live up to that standard

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                Why can you not live up to that? Perhaps not the sexual part (if it is not what you truly enjoy) but the other qualities you can work on such as being loving, great at communication and such.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                I'm an autist
                It's not within our capabilities

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                Perhaps try to find a girl who is also autistic or on the spectrum? Or maybe a MTF transwoman? I know most people aren't into that, but these kind of people are often autistic.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                I wonder how that works actually. I could never imagine being in a loving relationship with a woman and sharing my sexuality with her. I try my best not to mix the two.

                NTA but in what ways are you sexually sadistic? Have you ever been in a relationship with a masochist girl?

                In the psychiatric sense. I can only really get erect/orgasm when it involves seeing someone/something hurting. Gender, race, hell even species and age don't really matter to me. I have pretty common rape and dismemberment fantasies, decapitation fantasies, hanging someone while jerking off etc. Thankfully, I get therapy to manage it.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                Was it something you developed as a teen or adult, or something you were aware of since childhood? It must be difficult to deal with, I'm glad you find therapy helpful.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                I can't say for sure. I felt it come on as a teen. I was molested by a teacher during my early teen years and a few years after I had violent fantasies of fucking other boys. One time, I remember a bunch of school kids secretly watching slasher films and freaking out at a kill scene but I got erect and after that vanilla porn just didn't work. That really freaked me out and I had really bad feelings of guilt and shame. Even with professional help, I really wish I wasn't this way.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                >I had violent fantasies of fucking other boys.
                Gay

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                I'm sorry that happened, anon, sincerely. I can only imagine how difficult it must be to deal with all that, but it sounds like you're doing a good job managing it.

          • 2 days ago
            Anonymous

            NTA but in what ways are you sexually sadistic? Have you ever been in a relationship with a masochist girl?

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      2, being the same size helps with physical comparability. Hand holding is easy with both having theirs hands hanging lose, eye level is same.

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      Similar height is optimal for romance.
      Taller is more fun to have sex with in nearly every way, ESPECIALLY if she is more submissive.
      Shorter I struggle to take seriously at face value.

      I am 178 cm

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        >Taller is more fun to have sex with in nearly every way
        Are you sure? Another anon said sex with people who are a lot taller or smaller than you is a logistic nightmare.

    • 2 days ago
      Exhibanon

      I think all sizes are great in their own ways. But if I had to pick, I'd go smaller.
      >how tall you are
      5'10".
      >if you would describe yourself as dominant, submissive or neutral
      Submissive.

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        you want to get subbed by a smaller female? lol makes you laugh imagining a small female in a leather costume wipping you with a leash kek bad anon bad

        • 2 days ago
          Exhibanon

          Yes, laugh, that's definitely what it makes me do. Definitely.

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      2>>>>>3>1
      I'm 182 cm tall
      Dominant-neutral
      My ideal would be for her to be as tall as I am since I love tall women, and being smaller than her would bother me.

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      I'd prefer she was noticeably smaller. I'm 5'7" and I know there are 5'0" - 5'3" women out there, HIT ME UP.

      I am dominant in bed but neutral outside of it.

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        Isn't sex very difficult if she is 5'0 and you are 5'7?

        • 2 days ago
          Anonymous

          how does height even matter in doggie

          • 2 days ago
            Anonymous

            It still matters how aligned ur bodies are

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      M 180cm
      About the same is better
      I prefer them to be diligent too
      Having sex with girls under 160cm kill my back. Even worse when they are weak lazy cunts and I have to do all the work

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      Noticeably smaller please. I’m 5’9
      I just love hugging girls and wrapping them in my embrace

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      1 or 2 honestly
      simply because 3 is overrated
      5'10, dominant to neutral

  5. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    not married females what's your excuse for not being virgins?

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      I‘m a slut

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        ew

        • 2 days ago
          Anonymous

          It gets worse

          Oh wait i forgot i‘m actually still married

          • 2 days ago
            Anonymous

            Eh, that makes it not as bad, at least she's moved on from her slut phase
            I still wouldn't want her so I'm glad she found someone who's accepting of that

            • 2 days ago
              Anonymous

              It‘s the other way around and i‘m moving on from trying to play a good girl when i‘m a slut by nature.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                >married & wanting to become a slut
                AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA YOU'RE EVEN WORSE THAN I IMAGINED

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                Terribly sorry
                But you got it all wrong, i‘ve always been a slut, j just didn‘t accept it and tried ti larp as a decent girl. I‘m not becoming anything, i‘m just stopping the fucking circus.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                can't you just be slutty with your man?

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                I tried and it worked for about 3 years but sluts just aren‘t meant to be held captive. It‘s not their natural habitat and they‘ll die eventually.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                sad but understandable I guess
                hope you find some dudes into it to have a fun time with

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                Thank you anon. I hope that not all women are like me and there is one for you that actually will stay till death does you apart.

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      Oh wait i forgot i‘m actually still married

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      still a foreveralone virgin

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      I am not married and I am a virgin.

  6. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    Ladies, general thoughts on guys who work from home who do the cooking and cleaning?

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      Normal

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      My bro works from home. Doesn't do either. Not a good sign for a male.

  7. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    Men how many of you have never received affection from a woman?

    Women how many of you have never received affection from a man?

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      I have never received affection from women

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      >Men how many of you have never received affection from a woman?
      Never. but I've never put any attempt into trying to get it.

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      I receive a lot of affection from women and when I get no I become very frustrated and this usually ruins my approaches

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        btw anybody knows how to deal with this? Literally when I feel like some girl ignores me or rather talk or dance with someone else I get extremely nervous and come off as some retard

  8. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    Which online vidya games have the highest amount of female players?

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      candy crush, minecraft

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      All the "I'm not like the other girls" girls play shooters.

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      valorant has an absurd amount
      other than that, more casual social games are pretty likely, like animal crossing or minecraft. Probably wow too

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        >Probably wow too
        Every girl on wow is married

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      FFXIV

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        ffxiv
        valorant
        league

        [...]
        someone said this other than me and it's so shocking.... omg... are people coming around to the fact that girls play mmos? finally....? am i free.....?

        >ffxiv
        Yes, there's a lot of catgirls, but how many are actually played by women?

        • 2 days ago
          Anonymous

          M
          I would probably make a catgirl if I played it. So likely not many.

        • 2 days ago
          Anonymous

          ohh my goodness gracious here we go
          i play a catgirl, hooha and badonkers intact... i know plenty of girls who play too, a lot of them being my friends and streamer girls always play catgirls
          you know, even a lot of male chars are girls too right..?

          >league
          No shot

          i've met plenty of other girls from league, they're REALLY easy to pick out you know....? we're very stereotypical... we all play mage support or toxic ahri/katarinas

          • 2 days ago
            Anonymous

            >hooha and badonkers intact
            Would you say you have ginormous badonkers?

            • 2 days ago
              Anonymous

              She sounds tiny and flat to me

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                >tiny
                yes, unfortunately
                >flat
                god i wish!

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                Ok, ginormous badonkers confirmed then
                You have vaulted to the top of the femanon tier list, congrats!

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                >i wish
                Why do titcows never appreciate what they have?

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                Not her, but if it makes you feel better, I absolutely love my boobs.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                my back hurt friend
                buying clothes really hard
                i always look fat
                bras are always ugly for us
                everyone should appreciate their bodies though, i hope i will someday!

                Sorry, no boob talk from biological women please, we're discussing trannies for the millionth time.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                my back hurt friend
                buying clothes really hard
                i always look fat
                bras are always ugly for us
                everyone should appreciate their bodies though, i hope i will someday!

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                Yeah, and being short makes it worse. Every pretty dress I find that fits my bust also seems to assume I have supermodel height and huge hips :/

                [...]
                Sorry, no boob talk from biological women please, we're discussing trannies for the millionth time.

                Oh my bad, please continue.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                >Yeah, and being short makes it worse. Every pretty dress I find that fits my bust also seems to assume I have supermodel height and huge hips :/
                YEAH it's the worst, like half the clothes i buy i just look like a shapeless blob because of how awful the clothing world is for bigger chested women or just unflattering

                [...]
                Sorry, no boob talk from biological women please, we're discussing trannies for the millionth time.

                >Sorry, no boob talk from biological women please, we're discussing trannies for the millionth time.
                i get a pass because i'm always called trans for playing xiv here

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                It's funny how men talk here about their life being a suffering while women's biggest problem is their clothes doesn't fit them perfectly

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                hmm? everyone in the world has their struggles, just because we're talking about clothes due to the topic of conversation doesn't mean we don't have other struggles
                we're all human friend!

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                what serious struggles do girls have

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                >Sexually assaulted by a male family member at 8
                >Groomed as a preteen by an older man, with a sprinkle of physical abuse
                >Raped as an older teen by a man
                >Forced out of highschool after a rumor circulated that I had an affair with one of the male teachers, had to get my GED
                >Stalked for years by a former acquaintance, house broken into numerous times, constantly scared for my life. Police did nothing
                >In college one of my professors sexually harassed me, felt as if my success in my program was held in his hands
                >Constant discrimination in my male-dominated field of work
                >General daily catcalling, constantly feel unsafe when alone in public
                >Lack of research into health problems faced by exclusively women leads to struggles in seeking medical care
                >Women's rights being stepped on and infringed upon by (male) tranny activists on a daily basis
                Get over yourself. Everyone in this thread, even with all of our problems, live better lives than the majority of the world. You are so sheltered to think only your problems matter, and that only your life is hard

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                stop being a whore sleeping around your family and male teachers

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                Do women with BPD ever get tired of lying about how many times they've been raped and stalked?

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                >See women don't have problems, it's all lies
                Okay schizo

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                >playing xiv
                Wait, the plz play ff14 girl has giant tits?

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                The WoW girl does too

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                God yes

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                How do you know that?

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                isn’t it the tyedye girl?

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                Who?

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      Animal Crossing or Sims

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      ffxiv
      valorant
      league

      FFXIV

      someone said this other than me and it's so shocking.... omg... are people coming around to the fact that girls play mmos? finally....? am i free.....?

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        >league
        No shot

  9. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    I received a hickey on my deltoid, am I now considered personal property?

  10. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    If a guy is so used to being alone are relationships difficult?

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      yes

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      It'll surely depend on the girl he gets with but in my personal experience there are some things that will seem unnecessary/weird but that actually do make sense. Like for example texting when you got somewhere safely

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      They can be.

      I received a hickey on my deltoid, am I now considered personal property?

      Yes. Please report to your owner.

  11. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    When will euthanasia laws become available to General public. I can't another 40 years of life

  12. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    Women will say they don't all like dominant men and they aren't a monolith and then when it's time to talk about sexual fantasies it's all about being dominated and how masochistic they are

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      sue me

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        maybe admit all of you DO like dominant men and stop this myth of women with different tastes
        every romance story aimed at women is essentially about the same guy

        • 2 days ago
          Anonymous

          No, I won't admit it

          • 2 days ago
            Anonymous

            fuck off brat I'm no tamer

            • 2 days ago
              Anonymous

              The meaning of life is to play with each other

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                what's the point of fighting with you if I'm just gonna win every single time ever
                all this extra effort

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                You can't win against me dummy

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                im your daddy you can never win

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                You're a woman, you're born to lose
                All I gotta do is show a little bit if my strength and your stupid masochistic ass will fold instantly

                big words but as soon as I look at you like pic rel you will all be very sorry

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                Not them, but anime faces don't work on me because I don't care about anime.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                Well I don't have one irl

                >the only way for me to lose is if you cry
                Wow this fight is so exciting

                admit it you wouldn't stand a cute girl crying

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                Yeah I guess I'd feel bad but that's a pretty lame fucking victory

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                for you

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                God damn just shut up and be submissive already I've fucking had it
                You don't make the submission better you just make the process more annoying

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                I'm dominant in a different way, an emotionally manipulative way

                too bad for you as i know its just your act and you secretly want to be dommed so i would only penetrate you harder

                please no

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                what i see your ass is gaping might aswell fill it

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                that's something that I would definitely wouldn't let anyone

                >I'm dominant
                No, you're not
                No woman is

                sure

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                well its not like you get to decide
                oups my bad

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                enjoy clawing you all around and biting and never talk to you ever again

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                sounds good

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                not really

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                yes it would be kewl id obviously only do it when youre already in exctasy from pussy penetration and then put it in your butt when your feelings arent in this world anymore so you wouldnt even realise. i can manipulate you better hehe

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                >I'm dominant
                No, you're not
                No woman is

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                >the only way for me to lose is if you cry
                Wow this fight is so exciting

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                too bad for you as i know its just your act and you secretly want to be dommed so i would only penetrate you harder

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                You're a woman, you're born to lose
                All I gotta do is show a little bit if my strength and your stupid masochistic ass will fold instantly

        • 2 days ago
          Anonymous

          it's not a myth i'm a switch and love submissive guys but i have anxiety so i can't approach them much

          • 2 days ago
            Anonymous

            >I'm a switch
            yeah you're a bottom who gets mad sometimes

            • 2 days ago
              Anonymous

              Lmao

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                even you agree
                you don't like submissive or shy or virgin men so shut up

            • 2 days ago
              Anonymous

              i don't think i really get mad actually and i don't really consider that being more dominant either, seems like more of a bratty sub thing

              i've also mostly gone out with submissive men but i just don't approach them very well so it's a slow process. i definitely prefer them but i can't cold approach / ask people out easily so i have to keep trying to make plans with men who see a girl message them and ask them to hang out constantly and think "oh there's no way she likes me, we're just friends". more dominant men will sometimes just ask after a little while so it's easymode and i don't mind the other role hence switch.

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      Very incel’y here today

  13. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    Women, how many of you are masochists?

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      I can be all the modes. Masochistic, sadistic and loving. Depends on my mood.

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      all of them

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      I always say I don't consider myself a masochist because I don't enjoy pain for the sake of pain. I probably do fit the definition though.

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        So I could slap you while having sex but you don't want it all the time?

        • 2 days ago
          Anonymous

          I do love rough sex, but yeah not 100% of the time.

  14. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    How do I apologize to my roommates for my poor behavior? I keep projecting my negativity and resentment onto them, and thus I'm making them uncomfortable and probably crossing some boundaries?

    I've become really uncomfortable with my own behavior as well, and I think I owe them an apology. How should I go about that?

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      "Hey guys, I'm really sorry for how I've been acting lately. I'm really struggling with X and Y and I've realized I'm taking it out on you at home. I'll try to be better from now on and avoid doing W and Z"

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      Just keep it casual, like "I know I've been weird lately, sorry about that"
      Even the smallest apology goes a long way

  15. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    Women who DON'T want to be dominated, how would you like a man to treat you?

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      >Women who DON'T want to be dominated
      anon talking to air right now

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      In the bedroom? I want him to be loving and passionate. No desire to hurt, no desire to humiliate me.

      How often do you argue with your bf/gf?

      Almost never, we argued three or four times in 5 years.

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      Like a queen.

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        With a beheading?

        • 2 days ago
          Anonymous

          Not a French queen!

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      Normal

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      i like praise and guys who are very vocal and eager / can clearly show that they're into what's happening

      i also like rough sex but not necessarily in a dominating way if that makes any sense e.g. sitting on top while he's forced to thrust up or scratching / biting him / pulling his hair while he's going at it

      but tbf i also don't mind getting dommed i think i just usually prefer not

  16. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    How often do you argue with your bf/gf?

  17. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    >porn sex is too rough and makes men believe women liked to be abused during sex
    Also women
    >please beat the shit out of me

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      women don't like it when men know what they like

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      women don't like it when men know what they like

      Correct.

      Only the boyfriend should know the truth, and only after he has earned the right to know the truth and demonstrated that he is trustworthy. All others should live in ignorance.

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        We know you all like to get choked, slapped, and manhandled in bed
        Cry about it you stupid bitch

  18. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    [...]

    My friends invited me to go out tonight but I'm building a house in the sims.

  19. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    [...]

    >Trying to get him to unlearn all the stuff he's "learned" from porn is pretty fucking tedious

    This is such a stupid take. There are certain things that are valid, like positions that are for camera angles not real sex. But the rest of it is just
    >waaaa, I don't want to do the things men find hot, and I get to be the arbiter of what both genders want during sex! anything else is just porn brain washing!

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      "Men try to choke women without asking" is valid too.

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        >inb4 "all women like that"

        • 2 days ago
          Anonymous

          Men need to learn about the first C of CNC.

        • 2 days ago
          Anonymous

          Show me a woman who doesn't
          Do YOU not like it? Oh wait, yes you fucking do.

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        That's fair. I hate it especially (as a guy) because I like touching the girl's neck, but not in like a choky way at all, and now a bunch of girls are super averse to it initially because they just assume the choke is coming because every guy does it now.

        • 2 days ago
          Anonymous

          Why are you with girls who’ve been choked in the first place?

          • 2 days ago
            Anonymous

            Because I have sex with non-virgins.

          • 2 days ago
            Anonymous

            Why are you worrying about what another man does in his bedroom? Do you think about him a lot?

        • 2 days ago
          Anonymous

          Yeah, it's a vicious cycle. But it can work to your advantage, since women are relieved when you act like a normal goddamn person

          • 2 days ago
            Anonymous

            I’m going to give a woman a sense of security only to treat her like shit so she’s too invested to leave.

  20. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    Women, do you check the weather for humidity to anticipate titty sweat? Guys do it to be ready for dick + balls sweat.

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      I'm too flat for this to be a problem.

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        You can support the other women by carrying their towels.

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        you still have sweat glands on your chest, which can cause embarrassing "transparent top" issues

        • 2 days ago
          Anonymous

          Oh huh, I've never actually had that but I'm like cold 99% of the time.

        • 2 days ago
          Anonymous

          Every girl knows not to wear a white top over a dark bra, anon.

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      >Guys do it to be ready for dick + balls sweat.
      I’ve literally never checked a weather report in my life

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      I always anticipate dick and balls sweat.

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      I check the weather daily in general, so I suppose that includes sweat on all areas of my body, including my boobs, yes.

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      Not for titty sweat, for skin care

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        you do try to minimize sweat and sun exposure in general though, right? so if it's a hot and humid day, you might just stay indoors to keep your skin healthy and glowing

        • 2 days ago
          Anonymous

          No I dress accordingly and apply skin care. I don’t let weather stop me from going outside unless it’s stormy

          • 2 days ago
            Anonymous

            Good. Too many anons here (of both genders) just sit inside all day, soft and pale as the day they were born.

            • 2 days ago
              Anonymous

              I guess. I recommend outside hobbies

  21. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    girls, what does it feel like to desire a dick in you? what does your pussy feel like when you want someone to fuck you? and whats it like having this feeling in public? just saying

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      You feel distinctly "empty" and can feel your heartbeat throbbing down there. In public it's mostly just annoying, since I know it's not visible to anyone else. Unless they look closely at my nipples.

  22. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    Why do small inconveniences ruin my entire day and put me in an extremely nasty mood?

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      Do we have two AI imageposters in the thread now?

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        The hands... always the hands.

        Yup.

        The hands being fucked up are less noticeable if it's an animation

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      Because you are probably at wit's end and have a ton of other unaddressed stressors in your life, so you stub your toe and then all the anger about how you shouldn't have dropped out of school or whatever manifests and you're like
      >why did I just get so mad because I stubbed my toe?

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      Autism unironically

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      The hands... always the hands.

  23. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    Please state gender. When you have a crush on someone, how often do you think about them?

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      Male. Every day. For years.

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      F. All day, every day.

  24. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    If there's someone for everyone why are there more incels than femcels?

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      There's not someone for everyone
      Only for women

      Women are not aroused by nor do they respect shy or virgin men

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        Stop watching Wheat Waffles and go outside chud

        • 2 days ago
          Anonymous

          >go outside
          >women aren't aroused by shy or virgin men so I get nobody and die alone
          WOAH

          • 2 days ago
            Anonymous

            >if women aren't aroused at the sight of me, it's impossible to date one
            ...

            • 2 days ago
              Anonymous

              I guess I'm a bad person for wanting my partner to respect and be attracted to me

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                >getting turned on by someone means you respect them
                ...........

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                Women don't get turned on by men they don't respect
                Otherwise they'd have fetishes besides getting manhandled and choked and whatnot

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                Oh I see, the alternate reality /atoga/ is leaking again

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                It is reality
                I'd like to see a woman who isn't like what I said

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      Men are more close-minded and refuse to consider women who might be "the one" for them.

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        bullshit

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      I have no source besides "I made it up" but I'm convinced the male to female birth rate is like 2:1 in humans and in olden days wars and dangerous jobs fixed it but now those are less common so a bunch of men are forever alone.
      I go to any event be it brewery opening, football game, gym and the ratio is always 2:1 or more.

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      there's not someone for many people obviously, more men are born and women are picky

      Stop watching Wheat Waffles and go outside chud

      prove him wrong

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        >prove him wrong
        Okay then. My 5’6 friend from Europe is autistic and introverted, spends all day in his room doing cool shit. He got in an LDR with a girl from America. She ended up flying over to meet him and they had sex. Dude is not a chad, “bad boy” or whatever by any means and got laid. The red/black pill is bullshit

        • 2 days ago
          Anonymous

          and in exchange for your friend there are other thousand guys that won't get laid ever, much less have a long term gf, thus there is not someone for everyone

          • 2 days ago
            Anonymous

            Yeah because they don’t bother to meet people or just work on their confidence. I used to share the same thoughts as you until I did a lot of reading that made me question those beliefs. Stop trying to throw a pity party and just focus on your academic/career goals, get involved in activities you’re interested in both online and in-person so you can meet people.

            • 2 days ago
              Anonymous

              so you admit that there can't be someone for everybody

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                You get out what you put in. That’s what I’m saying. If you care about finding someone, then put the work in

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                but there can't be someone for everyone, not enough women exist for the numbers to work and there must be competition to get the available ones

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                >more competition to get available women
                This is only true for around the age of 18-25, statistically.

                However, looking at the statistics like this makes no sense because you have to account for gay men, aro ace men, etc. And I’m willing to guess there are more non-straight men than non-straight women.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                fags and the like are around 2% of the global population they don't count for this

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                Reports say that 15% of Gen Z identifies as LGBT if I remember correctly. That’s the most of any generation.

                >And I’m willing to guess there are more non-straight men than non-straight women.
                What would make you think that?

                I think men are more likely to question their sexuality and identity. Why do you think MtF is more common than FtM transgender?

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                >Reports say that 15% of Gen Z identifies as LGBT if I remember correctly. That’s the most of any generation.
                It’s girls saying they’re bi retard

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                in the US, and that in the most faggy cities with propaganda 24/7. In the rest of the world they're still are an anomaly

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                There are more lesbians than gay men and there probably 10000x more bi women than bi men
                Women have been proven to be naturally bi

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                >I think men are more likely to question their sexuality and identity.
                You are a stupid idiot
                >Why do you think MtF is more common than FtM transgender?
                Because no woman wants to be a man

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                >Because no woman wants to be a man
                Some do. FTMs exist.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                What would be the point? They would just be dykes

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                >ok they exist but I call them something else

                A woman killed herself when she did a experiment to see what being a man is like.
                Women can’t handle being men.

                >ok they exist but look at this ancient news story

                Look at those goalposts go!

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                I think you don't understand trannies. It's not about wanting to be something, it's about feeling like you ARE something and your body doesn't match that.
                Friend dated a FtM and boy was she a fucking MESS

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                A woman killed herself when she did a experiment to see what being a man is like.
                Women can’t handle being men.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                41%of men pretending to be women do too.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                >41%
                It’s 52% now
                Hopefully it’ll reach 100% Allah willing

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                This

                41%of men pretending to be women do too.

                Trannies are just mentally ill. How much longer do you plan on bringing that one point up? It's every other thread
                If you want an excuse for being a sad, pathetic little man with no life, find a better one than "this one experiment proves men have it so hard!!!"

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                >ok they exist but I call them something else

                [...]
                >ok they exist but look at this ancient news story

                Look at those goalposts go!

                She wasn’t a tranny she was a straight woman that wanted to see what life was like as a man.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                Then why did you even bring it up?

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                She died via assisted suicide due to an illness 15 years after she stopped dressing up as a man.
                Why do you guys lie like this?

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                The sides have reversed. Men are the ones who believe their feelings over facts now. They're silly, emotional creatures.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                Must be their period.

                Yes, mental illness because living as a man seriously fucked her up. It's in her book read it

                No, not mental illness. You're making this shit up.
                She had struggled with depression for a decade before she dressed up as a man for her experiment. She died 15 years after the experiment ended, through assisted suicide.
                While she didn't speak positively of her experience as a man and left with new appreciation for being a woman, that's not the cause of her death.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                >No, not mental illness. You're making this shit up.
                >She had struggled with depression for a decade before she dressed up as a man for her experiment. She died 15 years after the experiment ended, through assisted suicide.
                >While she didn't speak positively of her experience as a man and left with new appreciation for being a woman, that's not the cause of her death.
                Yeah that's a lie lol

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                No, it's not. She was depressed for a decade before she did her experiment. She killed herself 15 years after the experiment ended. Through assisted suicide, which generally is reserved for people with terminal illness in Switzerland.

                Making up that "oh women can't handle being a man, this woman tried for a year and then killed herself" is just taking advantage of this woman's pain and of her death. It's shitty. Stop.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                >Vincent was described as a libertarian who was critical of postmodernism and multiculturalism.[3] She did not believe that transgender people were the sex they identified as, leading her to be accused of bigotry.[3] In an article for The Village Voice, she wrote: "[Transsexuality] signifies the death of the self, the soul, that good old-fashioned indubitable 'I' so beloved of Descartes, whose great adage 'I think, therefore I am' has become an ontological joke on the order of 'I tinker, and there I am.'"[11]
                Holy based. It's so sad she was bullied and had to kill herself

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                >Making up that "oh women can't handle being a man, this woman tried for a year and then killed herself" is just taking advantage of this woman's pain and of her death. It's shitty. Stop.
                >The mental strain of maintaining a false identity during the making of Self-Made Man ultimately caused a depressive breakdown, leading Vincent to admit herself to a locked psychiatric facility.[13] [14]
                Lol you're so retarded

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                I know it's very hard to read, but in the same wikipedia article you quoted:
                >In Voluntary Madness (2008), Vincent details her decade-long history with treatment-resistant depression

                So, as I said - was depressed for a decade, did the experiment in 2006, had a depressive breakdown, lived her life for 15 years, died by assisted suicide in 2022.
                Saying that she became depressed and killed herself because of the experiment is disingenuous.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                >Saying that she became depressed and killed herself because of the experiment is disingenuous.
                No one was saying that retard. You're gaslighting hard lol

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                It's pretty much an exact quote of what the person I was replying to said, you fucking retard lmao

                To quote:

                A woman killed herself when she did a experiment to see what being a man is like.
                Women can’t handle being men.

                >A woman killed herself when she did a experiment to see what being a man is like.

                Um, excuse me, sweatie, but do you know what website you're on? Do you know what board you're on? Do you know what thread you're in?

                Letting the rest of your life be defined by a distressing period of time 15 years earlier is the norm here.

                Kek, I'm sorry for trying to be reasonable, never again.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                Like I said, the men here are emotional creatures. You can’t logic them out of beliefs they didn’t logic themselves into.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                >It's pretty much an exact quote of what the person I was replying to said, you fucking retard lmao
                I would say you look up what "exact quote" means before you fuck off to r*ddit kiddo. Let the grown ups have a discussion here will ya

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                Um, excuse me, sweatie, but do you know what website you're on? Do you know what board you're on? Do you know what thread you're in?

                Letting the rest of your life be defined by a distressing period of time 15 years earlier is the norm here.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                Yes, mental illness because living as a man seriously fucked her up. It's in her book read it

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                >Because no woman wants to be a man
                Some do. FTMs exist.

                Going from animal crossing to playing dark souls and your machine gets fried if you die

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                >Because no woman wants to be a man
                But MtFs change their gender identity because they feel it’s a better representation of who they are and they want to express themselves that way. I don’t see why that couldn’t be the case for FtM transgenders as well. They do it despite knowing that they’ll put up with a ton of transphobic people like you.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                >better representation of who they are and they want to express themselves that way.
                Why do I have to acknowledge their expression?

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                If you lack any sort of decency, you don’t have to. I can’t imagine transphobia being a very attractive trait though.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                >I can’t imagine transphobia being a very attractive trait though.
                I can't imagine cutting your dick off or having meat from your butt formed into a penis because you're fucked in the head being an attractive trait either lol

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                I wouldn’t want a wife with pro trans values
                If she has a trans friend and puts our children around them I’ll slap her face with a belt

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                >I wouldn’t want a wife with pro trans values
                >If she has a trans friend and puts our children around them I’ll slap her face with a belt
                Based

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                issue is just like feminism, trans stuff effectively got hijacked
                I don't have an issue with the concept (though the operations are gruesome), I have an issue with the people who hijacked it

                I think very few people are truly transgender

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                Your opinion is noted, doctor.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                >And I’m willing to guess there are more non-straight men than non-straight women.
                What would make you think that?

            • 2 days ago
              Anonymous

              >get involved in activities you’re interested in both online and in-person so you can meet people.
              That sounds exhausting, I hate meeting people

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      >If there's someone for everyone
      any female that tells you this hates you and wants you to suffer in the long run by believing this cope

  25. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    Why are catgirls so universally loved?

  26. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    [...]

    You have some chubby thighs

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      NTA but I've probably got thicker thighs than half the girls ITT
      and I'm a dude
      And I'm not even fat

      nature is weird man

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        Uhm don't guys normally have bigger thighs than girls? Do you have Marfans or live in a marine park or something?

  27. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    [...]

    >socks and sandals
    anon...

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      im at my house dude, its normal to wear

      [...]
      You have some chubby thighs

      im 100% athletic maxxed

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        Who the fuck wears jeans at home?

        • 2 days ago
          Anonymous
          • 2 days ago
            Anonymous

            Why???? That’s so uncomfortable
            You should wear a mini skirt for easy lesbo access

            • 2 days ago
              Anonymous

              I'm really not a mini skirt kind of person! Skirts in general are fine, though. Jeans are just easy to pull on, and they make my butt look great. Even if I'm home alone, that's a confidence booster.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                Who the fuck wears jeans at home?

                eh i wear jeans bc im not a NEET who stays home all day long, i had to go outside still

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                >they make my butt look great. Even if I'm home alone, that's a confidence booster
                Why are females so vain?

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                it's been proven to improve your mood and self-confidence to take care of your appearance
                you don't feel very good rolling out of bed and watching anime all day, do you?

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        [...]
        i have a six pack and never had anything else my entire life

        Damn sorry you're getting grief for the pic. You look fine from what I can see. Unless you have some serious personality issues, I'd just chalk it up to the culture of your area.

        • 2 days ago
          Anonymous

          i dont see how im not in trend tho, i look way cooler than other dudes id say.

          • 2 days ago
            Anonymous

            Looking cooler has nothing to do with it. If the popular taste is super tall beefy guys then you're gonna be at a disadvantage.

            >pretty popular irl and literally everyone he meets says he's cute
            so a cutecel?

            Nah, he actually isn't pilled and actually has a decent personality.

            im aware but im still sort of surprised, like on what are these girls on there swiping at all

            Probably very superficial things. Online dating is like a meat market. Idk why anyone does it tbh.

            • 2 days ago
              Anonymous

              >Nah, he actually isn't pilled and actually has a decent personality.
              still haven't heard about bitches

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                I literally said he does fine irl? It's just online dating where it's a shit show. I don't think online dating has worked out for anyone I know except the few that are extremely superficial and vain.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                popular can mean a lot of thing

            • 2 days ago
              Anonymous

              >Probably very superficial things
              yes but thats the thing, i meet the criteria as im easily better looking than the other guys. im not tiny and very pretty face too
              >Idk why anyone does it tbh.
              tbh i got bored of being single, but it was a bad idea shouldve stayed inrl

              NTA but I just saw your pic in the archive. You look good. Anons here are just really negative and want to put everyone down.

              i know man ive been on adv before, every thread here that gets posted about girl advice etc most guys here just say no its over dont do it etc

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                >im not tiny
                Yeah but in online dating, people are retarded. They automatically swipe if a person doesn't meet one small superficial criteria.

                >i got bored of being single, but it was a bad idea shouldve stayed inrl

                I'm decently confident with dating irl and I would never go online because I don't think my self esteem could handle it. I've seen it take down people for more confident and better looking/put together than me.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                my pics arent great thats the only argument you could give me, or maybe that i look too unconventional
                otherwise if i swipe on the apps if anything i feel like most girls on there look shittier than me so smth is off to me

            • 2 days ago
              Anonymous

              >Idk why anyone does it tbh.
              Because I don't know a better alternative

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                Tbf I live in a metropolitan city so I guess if I lived in the sticks I'd be desperate to try anything too.

                my pics arent great thats the only argument you could give me, or maybe that i look too unconventional
                otherwise if i swipe on the apps if anything i feel like most girls on there look shittier than me so smth is off to me

                Get a couple people to look over your photos and bio maybe? Also are you using the right dating apps or has this been your experience with all of them? I know some apps are more popular among different demographics.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                i dont think anything here is popular exept tinder and bumble
                my pics are def not great and low effort, but i dont think it should matter this much as id think you should still be able to tell if one looks good or not but maybe im wrong.
                if some girl only has a few bad selfies but i can tell she looks good i would def still swipe
                i dont think bio matters either lol

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                You remember the dress colour meme? People are stupid. Get better photos senpai. Bio def matters. It doesn't have to Pulitzer prize winning shit but it helps people get a cursory read on compatibility. Ngl it sounds like you're not putting a whole lot of effort into your profile and that could be a big reason why you're getting nothing.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                >Ngl it sounds like you're not putting a whole lot of effort into your profile
                thats obviously true but imo thats what online dating is for i dont want to put a lot of work into this, might aswell just stay inrl, it was just a quick try and delete, but i admit still kinda bothered me bc i thought id get a bit more. i dont see myself making a portfolio of pics of myself kek
                idk honestly

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                Can't complain too much if you didn't put in any actual effort.

                >You remember the dress colour meme?
                and no actually idk what you mean here

                The blue or gold dress meme. I think it's literally called "The dress" on Wikipedia.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                It was and still is gold and white but in the shadow so it has a blue hue. Anyone who has every studies how to paint shadows knows this entry level bullshit.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                >The blue or gold dress meme. I think it's literally called "The dress"
                ok i remember it, but whats it supposed to show?
                >Can't complain too much if you didn't put in any actual effort.
                idk man if a girl has low effort profile and pics but shes hot every dude will still swipe thats my thinking
                maybe i just look shit in my pics idk

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                >ok i remember it, but whats it supposed to show?
                That people can have working eyes and yet be too stupid to process what they see. Case in point

                It was and still is gold and white but in the shadow so it has a blue hue. Anyone who has every studies how to paint shadows knows this entry level bullshit.

                >every dude will still swipe
                A lot of guys esp those who do online dating will swipe right on anything because they're desperate. Most people don't online date if they can get irl dates fine. Also yeah your photos are probably shit if you're even half as decent looking as you claim to be. I cringe when it comes to taking any selfies but you have to be more vain with online dating. That's just how the game works.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                my photos probably are shit, but imo you can still tell i look good- idk from my perspective i dont get it. maybe they all just want some average normie who looks the same as anyone else

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                You keep saying you're good looking but no one can tell if your photos are bad. Plus bad photos look low effort and that's a minus on its own. I'm just gonna leave it at that unless you have something else to say besides "I know I look good why won't girl appreciate me boohoo."

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                girls have shitty selfie pics too and i still can tell who looks good and who doesnt. but ok

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                why are you surprised women have to put less effort into dating?

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                i feel quite gay making pics of myself that arent low effort but maybe one day i will try lol
                but seriously i dont see how it would change this much, its still me

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                because low effort shows you don't care and if faced with a lot of options why would someone go for the person that doesn't seem to care

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                i dont get your logic, its fucking tinder pics nobody gives a fuck, most these girls have shitty pics themselves
                just bc my pics arent instagram story tier doesnt mean i dont care about a girl or anything. i like the low effort pics bc any more effort and i feel like a gay homosexual who makes pics of himself as a hobby tbh, but im probably wrong

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                read this post every day you wake up & you'll start to realize why girls don't want you, anon

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                i think its pretty based you are just a crab in a bucket gaslighting people for no reason bc youre bitter, ive literally said nothing wrong, its 100% true

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                >bro why would I put in effort, that shit's gay
                >just cause I don't put in effort doesn't show I don't care or whatever, I just don't care
                I truly hope you realize anon, because you're just going to suffer if you continue like this & end up even more spiteful than you already are

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                just because i havnt made a portfolia of instagram shots doesnt mean idc
                i dont see how theres anything wrong with this statement.
                do you honestly think the guys shooting themselves countless pics and are on instagram are the good guys who truly care?

                get real

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                >making even the smallest effort to appeal to women feels gay
                Woah… THIS is the insight into the male mind I come to /atoga/ for…

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                men making pics of themselves is kinda gay you can tell me whatever you want

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                my pics are low effort but you can still see me i dont see the big deal, and like ive said why do you care so much when most of the girls have low effort pics too?

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                >Walking definition of false consensus bias

                Your personality is annoying. I solved the mystery.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                has nothing to do with personality when you dont get matches in the first place mate/girly

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                They can probably sense it from your bio/pics.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                yes im sure gymcel keep seething

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                >You remember the dress colour meme?
                and no actually idk what you mean here

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                >Tbf I live in a metropolitan city so I guess if I lived in the sticks I'd be desperate to try anything too.
                I live in a decently large city but I still don't have a fucking clue

  28. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    [...]

    You should come visit Canada sometime.

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      dating apps just skewed with my head as im not getting a lot there and idk why when i look at other dudes

  29. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    [...]

    That's not a very stylish look, if it's representative of how you would normally be dressed. Other than that, fine.

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      i dont know how people can say this when most dudes dress like literally trash and the same like everyone else.

  30. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    [...]

    I dont believe its a 10/10 but why a fat ugly bitch literally all she would have to do is put down the fucking fork

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      You don't need a fork to eat Cheetos

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        yeah you need those knuckle tweezers

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        yeah you need those knuckle tweezers

        Or just use chopsticks???

        dating apps just skewed with my head as im not getting a lot there and idk why when i look at other dudes

        Dating apps are cancer. I know a guy who is pretty popular irl and literally everyone he meets says he's cute but he has shit luck on dating apps because he's "short".

        • 2 days ago
          Anonymous

          >pretty popular irl and literally everyone he meets says he's cute
          so a cutecel?

        • 2 days ago
          Anonymous

          im aware but im still sort of surprised, like on what are these girls on there swiping at all

  31. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    [...]

    i have a six pack and never had anything else my entire life

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      Post 6pack or you gay

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        no people are way too crab in a bucket here. my six pack also looks very good. i have nothing to prove here, people will only seethe
        if anything im skinny, i look more than neymar body wise than anything else

        • 2 days ago
          Anonymous

          NTA but I just saw your pic in the archive. You look good. Anons here are just really negative and want to put everyone down.

          • 2 days ago
            Anonymous

            Agreed, I just thought the footwear was questionable lmao

        • 2 days ago
          Anonymous

          >my six pack also looks very good.
          That would have been more impressive than what you actually posted.

          • 2 days ago
            Anonymous

            i posted six pack pics when i was a teen baby
            since ive grown up ive learned to behave
            nobody wants to see sixpacks pics exept maybe gays, maybe some horny girls too idk but i generally thought they are cringe and a 'showoff'

  32. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    As a female what age is it really over...when do males start losing interest in you, 20?

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      30

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      depends, at 35 it's totally over

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      I‘m 34 and it never stopped.

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        I can confirm that is really attractive and easily grabs my interest.

        • 2 days ago
          Anonymous

          Hehe <3

          • 2 days ago
            Anonymous

            I'm turning 34 this year and I mean it. Girls around my age are really truly beautiful. And that means (You).

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      I'm 31 and college kids still stare at my ass.

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      Depends a on how well looks hold, but mid 30s in general.

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      I'm 29, engaged and still get asked out almost every time I go out on my own.

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        Its over if you are male

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      for sex it can last a lot, for serious relationship it's about 25

  33. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    [...]

    >And here's that athletic man I was telling you about...

  34. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    Ladies. Would you trust someone who used to be kind of a player but has changed?

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      That’s literally every woman’s dream guy

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      Depends. If you were a player until a week ago, no. If it was something you did 10 years ago, maybe.

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        10 years is about right. Maybe more like 7 or 8.

        • 2 days ago
          Anonymous

          Then depends on how much of a degenerate you were. "I fucked prostitutes in thailand while high on crack" doesn't get a pass, but "at 19 I had a fling during spring break" does.

          • 2 days ago
            Anonymous

            If thailand is a 10, and had a fling during spring break at 19 is a 1, then maybe a soft 6.

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      depends on what exactly we mean by "player" but if we mean in that leading on a bunch of girls sort of manipulative way then probably not. especially if i knew him in that context beforehand, i feel like i'd have a bad impression and wouldn't be able to shake that so i wouldn't trust him.

  35. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    I love women

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      I love men

  36. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    How can I tell if I'm being a nuisance to her in DMs or if she's just waiting a move or something

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      if you have to ask you're probably a nuisance

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        I first assumed this, but she answers me alright in posts and things.
        We even talk smooth sometimes, but it usually ends with me asking something and that's it, she won't answer me until I bring another topic some days later. Her unpredictability really puzzles me.

  37. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    How come late bloomer guys don’t get a free pass for being a fuck boy in their 20’s?

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      nobody exept famous celebrities get a pass on being a fuck boy and even they can fuck up if they arent careful

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      It makes no sense for me to invest in a relationship with a guy who wants casual sex.

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        What if he just fucked a few girls for a year to get it out of his system?

        • 2 days ago
          Anonymous

          Not my guy. We clearly don't see sex the same way if he thinks that's acceptable behaviour lol

          • 2 days ago
            Anonymous

            Ew you're manwhoreshaming it's a yuck from me
            It's 2023 you know...

  38. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    Why are so many non-black men into blacked pics like pic related? What's so hot about women being banged by black men? If you're not black, doesn't this bring a sense of being cucked? Also what's so hot about pics like pic related? They're literally just pics of famous women with the word "blacked" added on top of them.

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      this fetish immediately went away when i regained some self esteem

  39. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    Women? How are you so soft?
    I just wanna squish you

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      Milk and honey and sugar and spice.

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        bullshit femoid answer

        Somehow she must attract Chad's attention

        based and redpilled

        • 2 days ago
          Anonymous

          <3

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      Somehow she must attract Chad's attention

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        Some of you men even through text give off the most vile, filthy energy. Like I can just feel how annoyed I'd be by your presence even through just a few typed words on a screen

        • 2 days ago
          Anonymous

          honestly if you were left invisible your entire life by the opposite sex and have to see constant sex on tv and porn and girls bawwwwing over chad dick youd be exactly the same kek

          • 2 days ago
            Anonymous

            God, I hope not. I think I'd rather try to improve my situation instead of crying online.

            • 2 days ago
              Anonymous

              This. Really getting annoyed by the anon crying about how nobody wants a shy virgin

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                You just don't get it. Women don't want him because his social skills are lacking and he doesn't have the confidence he wishes he had.
                It has nothing to do with the fact that he never leaves the house. Or that he never even speaks to women. Or his radical views. Or his lack of hobbies. Or his lack of grooming. Or the general disdain for all women he has. Or his out of control mental illness. Or the fact that he has no aspirations in life. It's all out of his control.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                You clearly don't know what desperation feels like

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                No I totally get it anon. Nothing has ever been your fault. All of your problems are caused by other people. You do not need to take any accountability for the state of your life king. Keep on wallowing.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                You can tell this to any marginalized group

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                >calling men a marginalized group
                LOL

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                The moid victim complex has reached a hilarious new low.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                >thinking about men as a homogeneous group

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                >that he never even speaks to women.
                How do I speak to women?

            • 2 days ago
              Anonymous

              You can't change genes

              I think I wouldn't blame media and porn I chose to consume for all of my problems
              I would probably strive to be a better person instead of wallowing in my misery and taking the easy way out by blaming everyone else, no accountability for my own actions
              But that requires more introspection than 9/10 men here are capable of

              same delusion

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                >None of it is my fault
                >Everything is beyond my control
                >Somehow all of my ancestors managed to procreate up until this point, leading to my birth
                >But it's still GENES
                Somehow your genes didn't work against literally one single person in your family lineage, but they cause all of your problems? Thanks for the laugh.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                Yeah because the child is the exact copy of the parents

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                Are you implying that forced relationships weren’t a thing?
                No shit ugly guys got laid when they can do what they want

            • 2 days ago
              Anonymous

              uh nta but ive literally just shown you a pic and still get basically nothing on apps. the reality of male dating just sucks and id say i look good and im not a shy incel or anything

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                You short
                Call you tiny Tim

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                im not that short and i look better anyways. just bc some dude is taller doesnt make him better

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                Ok tiny tim

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                shoo shoo bitter gymcel

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                >apps
                lol

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                >lol
                make a gameplan for a male on how to get a girl

          • 2 days ago
            Anonymous

            I think I wouldn't blame media and porn I chose to consume for all of my problems
            I would probably strive to be a better person instead of wallowing in my misery and taking the easy way out by blaming everyone else, no accountability for my own actions
            But that requires more introspection than 9/10 men here are capable of

            • 2 days ago
              Anonymous

              its literally in every netflix film, unless youre an ascetic monk you can hardly avoid it. i find your take hypocritical too. like the girls constantly have bfs and get fucked no surprise they dont complain or dont watch porn lol

        • 2 days ago
          Anonymous

          thanks for the compliment

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      Genetics, diet, sleep, and a shitton of lotion.

  40. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    [...]

    I did do laundry, vaccumed and did the dishes twice. Does that count?

  41. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    How's life on easy mode today, girls?

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      Pretty comfy ngl

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      >women are afraid to walk alone at night
      >women may get hurt by guys who don’t take rejection well
      >women have to deal with constant unwanted attention and catcalling from creepy dudes

      I’m sure easy mode is going very well for them, Anon.

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        >I’m sure easy mode is going very well for them, Anon.
        And here we have the white knight, the shiny savior of distressed maidens on the internet

        • 2 days ago
          Anonymous

          It’s called having empathy, which probably sounds like a foreign concept to you. Believe it or not, women go through problems in life that are just as difficult as men’s, if not worse.

          • 2 days ago
            Anonymous

            >It’s called having empathy, which probably sounds like a foreign concept to you. Believe it or not, women go through problems in life that are just as difficult as men’s, if not worse.
            Lol you know that the "Save 10 Maidens get 1 Sex free" card isn't real don't you?

          • 2 days ago
            Anonymous

            This simp behavior is why no one will ever take male problems seriously
            Did you know just how bad the education system is for men? How fewer men make it to college and even less graduate? Starting salary for women is more than for men
            Not to mention men are attacked and die more often than women

            • 2 days ago
              Anonymous

              Fewer men go to college because they dominate the trades and military. Women tend to end up in white-collar jobs, most of which require a college education.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                Or the education system fits women much more

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                Don't try to reason with the retard. He just needs an excuse as to why he can't move on from his minimum wage job or talk to a real woman outside his house

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                >because they dominate the trades and military.
                No because trades are dirty and military is dangerous and that's nothing a women would condescend to. Holy retarded lol

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                A lot of this looks more like it's a effect than a cause
                Plus given the fact trade jobs are dying off you're basically limiting men to a dying industry

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                >Fewer men go to college because they dominate the trades and military
                Except both of these fields are seeing shortfalls of young men applying because more young men are simply dropping out of society

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                >more young men are simply dropping out of society
                Exactly, no pussy=no reason

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                Scary how true it is

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                >more young men are simply dropping out of society
                Exactly, no pussy=no reason

                I’d be happy to fuck soldiers to improve morale, but I’d be called a whore for doing it :/

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                Sadly this is very true. You men did this to yourself with your damn slut shaming.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                [...]
                I’d be happy to fuck soldiers to improve morale, but I’d be called a whore for doing it :/

                meanwhile in reality the more slutting is encouraged the fewer men actually have sex

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                Trust the plan.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                I’m confused. Who do I fuck? Which boys need my pussy the most?

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                the ones that get it less
                but females are hypergamic and when they sleep around they go with the same guys

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                >the ones that get it less
                Prisoners in solitary confinement don’t get any. Should I start with them?

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                least hybristophilic woman

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                Yes. Doing god‘s work.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                That's because you would be a whore
                No one wants your rotten used pussy

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                >in my head, you’re icky!
                Why not imagine pretty girls instead? You’ll be happier.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                you're supposed to fuck ONE soldier to give him morale

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                Aaaand here we have the issue. Y men always have to be so greedy? There isn‘t that much sunshine pussy to go around. Share a little with your brothers to strengthen morals.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                Why do you need to sample all the dicks?

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                I don‘t need to sample any dicks. I just want to make as many dicks as possible happy and satisfied because there‘s too much pain and hate in this world and wayyy too little pleasure and love. If i limit myself to only making one man feel pleasure and loved, what a waste that would be.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                Other men can get other women to please them

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                Apparently not because they are too proud and cold hearted and prude to make a man feel loved and valued and experiencing pleasure. Ofc that doesn‘t apply to all women but to enough for there to be oceans of frustrated and bitter men. They seem to only see the bad in men and completely look over just how amazing men can be. God i love men.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                >I just want to make as many dicks as possible happy
                Unfortuntately you will never be a woman and most soldiers aren't gay so

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                hopping on my dick won't make me happy anon

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                I don‘t remember having sat on your dick yet so how could you possibly know?

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                Why do you imagine your pussy to be so extraordinary. Even the worlds best nut would not make me fulfilled past that moment

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                You‘ll know when you feel it.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                You'll never get the chance unless you trick me into thinking you'll stick around and you don't seem like the kinda girl that would spend the time on that

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                No i don‘t feel any urge to manipulate or coax a man into sleeping with me. If you don‘t want to then that‘s perfectly fine. Then this experience wasn‘t meant for you.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                now I wonder if you're the anon from earlier who I wished best of luck finding guys into that stuff

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                Yes i am

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                oh no no no
                at least soldiers likely fit the bill pretty well what with deployments making long relationships harder on them

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                But then all the other soldiers will be jealous 🙁

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                Women end up in college because of diversity quotas and they stay in college because they fuck sugar daddies for tuition and professors for grades

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                None of what you are saying is true. Women don't need sugar daddies or professors to graduate. More women than men are graduating college, and the difference is even greater with masters and doctoral degrees.

                There was an article not long ago about how admission offices have a "secret" where they actually are picking more men than women to balance out the gender ratio

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                Men still outnumber women in stem which are the only worthwhile degrees

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                Men only outnumber women in non-biology-related STEM.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                And why do you think thats true? Women are dumb as rocks. Men are way smarter. So where does their advantage come from? Oh right having a pussy.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                It’s true because the data proves it. Quit whining about your imaginary persecution.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                Every other girl is turning their holes into money now. Even if it's as innocuous as having her bf pay her rent. You need a reality check.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                If men and women are supposed to be equal, why aren't people campaigning to fix this?

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                Men have to be willing to get a college education, so maybe start there.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                Millions of dollars are spent trying to get girls into college

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                maybe men would get college educations if they'd actually get accepted for them or receive scholarship money to be able to afford it

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                Women don't fuck their way to getting good grades in college, you ignorant moron. If you actually went to school yourself you wouldn't be saying this shit.

          • 2 days ago
            Anonymous

            >Believe it or not, women go through problems in life that are just as difficult as men’s, if not worse
            Cap

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        Things that happen one in a billion times

        • 2 days ago
          Anonymous

          I recommend searching “Woman walking in the streets of NYC” on YouTube. The problems I mentioned are not as rare as you are saying.

          • 2 days ago
            Anonymous

            >I recommend searching “Woman walking in the streets of NYC” on YouTube. The problems I mentioned are not as rare as you are saying.
            A guy would've been murdered instead lol

            • 2 days ago
              Anonymous

              By another man

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                So? Men where I live (supposedly a very safe country) are 3 times more likely to be victim of a violent crime than women. Now fuck off into your liberal pl*bbit bubble cunt

          • 2 days ago
            Anonymous

            I watched that video, all the guys who cat called her were… how do I say this, shaded in.

          • 2 days ago
            Anonymous

            That video is racist

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        why do you need to walk alone at night?

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        are afraid to walk alone at night
        Yeah, because I'm such a big strong man I don't have anything to worry about
        if a dude pulls a knife I'll just flex and he'll run away. If 5 dudes jump me I'll just present my penis and they'll be cool

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        have to deal with constant unwanted attention and catcalling from creepy dudes
        you know this doesn't work because guys like this, right?
        >b-but you wouldn't like it if it's an ugly girl
        I like it when any girl does it, hell I like it when 90 year old grandmothers do it

        • 2 days ago
          Anonymous

          This, some nerdy ugly chick in a frog hat smiled at me in the street and made me so happy

          • 2 days ago
            Anonymous

            >in a frog hat
            cute

            • 2 days ago
              Anonymous

              Yes she was very cute and when I realized it's a frog hat I snickered she realized why I did it and went flow blown smiling. Was a great day.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                And this is exactly why i will never stop flirting with random strangers.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                We literally just passed each other

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                you didn't go to talk to her, did you anon...

                It’s a legitimate problem for women because a lot of men just want them for their bodies. A lot of men don’t take no for an answer.

                yeah atoga sadly has shown me that this is more real than I thought it was because I've never actually seen it happen around me

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                >you didn't go to talk to her, did you anon...
                We were just walking down the street in different directions so of course didn't go

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                >doesn't even think it's worth the time
                what the hell anon, how fucking popular are you

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                What, randomly stopping her do you think she would enjoyed it?

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                >I snickered she realized why I did it and went flow blown smiling
                I don't think she would have minded if you at least approached her anon. Even if she was busy she could have simply mentioned that

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous
        • 2 days ago
          Anonymous

          It’s a legitimate problem for women because a lot of men just want them for their bodies. A lot of men don’t take no for an answer.

          • 2 days ago
            Anonymous

            >A lot of men don’t take no for an answer.
            Unfortunately you aren't either. You were told to fuck off and still you are here. Distressing. Help. Gender police!

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        All these things are rare (men are significantly more likely to be victims of stranger assaults) and if you think women don't like that "unwanted attention" just look at all the 30+ year old journalists who start crying about how they miss being catcalled.
        Meanwhile, women get sex on demand, relationship whenever they want, privileges in education, guaranteed good jobs for showing the slightest bit of competence, free money for existing, legal benefits, the woman are wonderful effect, etc. etc.

        • 2 days ago
          Anonymous

          Most women don’t even want casual sex. I will concede that those who do want it DO have easy access to it because men are thirsty and outnumber women in bars, parties, clubs, and dating apps.

          • 2 days ago
            Anonymous

            >Most women don’t even want casual sex
            Holy shit it's not the fucking 00s anymore. No one is fooled by the "oh, women want relationships, men are the ones who just want to fuck" lie anymore. Most (as in over half) women have regular casual sex when not in a relationship.

  42. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    [...]

    Uh ok but i don‘t have a mess so there‘s nothing to clean otherwise.

  43. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    [...]

    I'm never in my room except to lift & sleep, so no

  44. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    [...]

    Nope
    My mom has been a hoarder since I was born and I've always lived in a mess

  45. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    where do I redeem my atoga-coins for a gf?

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      You have to become friends with the jannies to trade the in for ip‘s.

  46. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    >slapfight hours
    Wake me when it’s over.

  47. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    >deliberately walk alone in an unsafe area at night in a shithole city
    >buahh it's your fault I'm an oppressed wahhmen

  48. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    Oh neat it‘s pain olympics time. Yawn. Can we go back schizo and hornyposting pls?

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      fuck off to /gif/ or something

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        Make me

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      >hornyposting
      I like women. Also, I LIKE women.

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        And i LIKE men

        • 2 days ago
          Anonymous

          Now that we have the horniness out of the way, should we try schizoposting too?

          • 2 days ago
            Anonymous

            Yes. You go first. I‘ll go with it.

            • 2 days ago
              Anonymous

              I just wanted to apologize if I've ever made you uncomfortable. I know it's awkward and complicated, and I don't judge you if you've changed your mind. It's okay.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                No you never have. I‘ve been in a weird mood all week. Now i‘m sick and about to start my period so it‘s not exactly manic posting time. It will come back again. Our time will come.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                I told you I would start to worry after a week, and I'm always honest with you. I asked a few questions, but one was more important than the others, and I'm worried that the answer won't be an easy one to overcome. I hope you understand why this time I would be more anxious than usual.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                I feel like we‘d have to try what happens if we do this somewhere else.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                I can always try to be your friend, and I'd rather try that than try nothing. But I did get what you sent, and I thank you for trusting me.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                I hope you can trust me too.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                It's not a choice that I can make, it's not an attempt that I can fail. I'll always trust you implicitly and automatically because of who you are and how you are. But you're probably going to bed soon, so I'll be content to wish you a good night and sweet dreams for now.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                I really should go to sleep. I hope you‘ll reach out soon. Take care<3

  49. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    God I love seeing society collapse because men were given the middle finger for at least 20 years and decided to give the middle finger back.
    And all women and Sois do is blame men even more. Lol I love it. Women truly deserve to suffer.

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      okay enlightened brother, what did women do that caused this?

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      No, incel. Women are fine with more men being lonely because they have low EQs, and no emotional availability

  50. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    janny will just let this outright shitflinging misogyny fest go but god forbid you post anime people with your post huh

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      Cry

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      I've heard the opposite, supposedly there's a janny that baits misogyny then bans anyone that pops up

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        The majority of my bans have been tranny ranting related. Not saying it's indicative of who monitors these threads but it is a coincidence

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        No hes an autistic who bans people for off topic because you forgot your question mark on your post or replied to the wrong person

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      >misogyny
      Fuck your mommy

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      No one likes pedos

      No, incel. Women are fine with more men being lonely because they have low EQs, and no emotional availability

      >Women are fine
      Tell this the women who won't find a plumber any more to fix their toilet or a roofer to fix their roof or a mechanic to fix their car or a soldier to protect them. THEN we see how fine they are lol

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      what's wrong with misogyny

  51. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    Women, I love your soft tummies, big butts, and wide hips. I want to wrap my arms around you when you’re sitting in my lap and give you and play with each other’s tongues.

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      I love everything about men.

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      Is it ok if my tummy is a little less soft because I have abs?

  52. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    i love men.. my bf just woke up oh hell yes

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      Hell yes

  53. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    Fact: not enough men die in wars

  54. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    Girls, how do you feel about guys being so visually when it comes to being aroused? Does it bother you to feel like putting on a show is important? Or anything like that.

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      I feel lucky that I’m straight. Turning on a guy is easy, but I’d have no idea how to flirt with women.

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      I don’t really feel like it’s “putting on a show” tbqh, I just pretty myself up in the morning and go about my day looking hot

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      Honestly my bf gets a boner whenever he sees my tits and also just from me doing shit like washing the dishes, bending over, eating or laughing a lot. Men are so easy to turn that I feel kinda bad for them.

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      it does kinda bother me ngl but i'm not gonna hold it against them personally. i just want to feel appreciated for who i am and knowing about how visual it is sometimes somehow makes me feel bad about myself.

      it's kinda just weird to think about for me because of the way i think about guys. it's a little sad to think i might not be appreciated in the same sort of way by them e.g. i notice a lot of little habits and mannerisms i find cute and it's sad that they might not see things like that in me, and i often do little things that i think they'd appreciate and haven't really felt appreciated for

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      That's like the one time I actually feel like I'm "living on easy mode"
      2 seconds of jiggling my boobs and my guy is ready to fuck

  55. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    >feel angry
    >want to incelpost
    >remember the feeling of touching a girl’s soft, warm thigh
    >feel better
    >post positively instead
    🙂

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      Nice blog fag where can I unsubscribe

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      Such is the magic of a woman‘s warmth.

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      the feeling of touching a girl’s soft, warm thigh
      I wish you incelposted instead...

  56. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    Where are all the single women? I'm pretty sure they don't exist

  57. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    Femanons if you were a nerdy not that good looking girl walking down the street in a frog hat, and you smiled on a random kinda good looking and well dressed guy who were walking from the opposite direction, then he would smile back and when he realize your frog hat he would visible snicker on it and it would make you so happy that you go full blown smiling, would you stop for him and don't mind if he wanted to talk or even flirt with you?

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      i probably wouldn't stop but then would go "wait i should've probably said something" to myself in my head afterwards

      not sure how i'd feel about flirting since kinda depends on the execution and could be a bit uncomfortable but wouldn't mind if he asked me to talk then asked for socials after a bit

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        maybe flirting wasn't the best word for it but this approachly chatty

  58. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    Women, how important is the profile view of a man's face in in their attractiveness?

    How much would it matter to you if someone looked good from the front but not the side?

  59. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    >become friends with a girl
    >she expresses feeling in an argument
    >she pulls away suddenly
    >she wants to remain friends because "her head is fucked"
    >she remains flirty
    >says maybe when the time is right

    >gets with another guy

    Like am I somewhat reasoned for being upset? I kept asking why she "pulled away" so quickly and she kept saying no reason over and over again. She totally turned toxic and just threw me out.

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      peak woman moment

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        >she saw me with a female friend of mine
        >still got jealous
        >would always spite me when she was out with her new boyfriend (hold her hand in front of me)
        >I did all I could to end things with her on good terms
        >became bitterly depressed, thought I'm destined to be lonely forever if I'm having this much trouble socialsing
        >her tiktok has a bunch of posts about how happy and lovely her 2022 was and her lovely boyfriend

        >they broke up
        >she nuked half of her instagram and pulled her tiktok down

        Lose the battle, win the war.

        • 2 days ago
          Anonymous

          you won what?

          • 2 days ago
            Anonymous

            someone is a cunt and ended up getting karma or something

            • 2 days ago
              Anonymous

              sure

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      that's just females being mentally ill, cut with her

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      She was about ready to settle for you, but then a more attractive guy came along

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        > but then a more attractive guy came along

        fair I wasn't read for dating at the time, I just wish I used my head rather than my heart and was smart about it

  60. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    These threads prove that women deserve their hatred

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      How so?

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      I agree. As long as they aren't doing violence, women should be allowed to hate others as they please.

  61. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    State gender, age, body count
    >your 3 worst physical traits?
    >your 3 best physical traits?

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      F
      20
      0
      >your 3 worst physical traits?
      big thighs
      big chest
      big nose
      >your 3 best physical traits?
      small waist
      long thick hair
      pale skin

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        this must be a b8

        • 2 days ago
          Anonymous

          no, i just really hate myself!

          • 2 days ago
            Anonymous

            why

            • 2 days ago
              Anonymous

              i hate my body and think i'm ugly

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                Yeah I can understand, people hate big tits and thighs and small waists, long thick hair, pale skin

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                they surely hate women that aren't thin/flat
                people definitely hate big thighs, that's why so many men seek women with thigh gaps

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                >chocolate is popular, so that proves people hate vanilla

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous
              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                and why do you hate it

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      F, 29, 2
      >your 3 worst physical traits?
      I have a bit of a fivehead, my legs are too thick and my hair is pretty fine.
      >your 3 best physical traits?
      I have the skin of a porcelain doll, really pretty eyes and very nice tits.

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        post tits pls mommy

        • 2 days ago
          Anonymous

          Shut up simp

          • 2 days ago
            Anonymous

            mommy

        • 2 days ago
          Anonymous

          Just for you anon.

          • 2 days ago
            Anonymous

            post titties mommy or i ll break into your home and penetrate you

            • 2 days ago
              Anonymous

              NTA but here‘s some mommy milkers to soothe your thirst for the moment.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                you saved her this time

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                Phew
                Good night thirsty boi

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      M,24,4
      borderline manlet, thin wrist, dunno
      athletic, long limbs compared to my height, were complimented several times on my face

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      >State gender, age, body count
      m, 26, 1
      >>your 3 worst physical traits?
      slight hook nose, thin, need contacts
      >>your 3 best physical traits?
      thick wavy hair, fairly tall and high shoulder-to-waist ratio

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      M
      25
      2
      Manlet, a little chubby, left eyelid sits kinda low compared to right
      My eyes, my clavicle bones, my butt

    • 2 days ago
      Exhibanon

      M27, 0
      >your 3 worst physical traits?
      Loose skin, nose, lips.
      >your 3 best physical traits?
      Eyes, hair, genitals.

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      Female, 24, 4
      >your 3 worst physical traits?
      No curves, ugly labia, thin lips & wish I was shorter
      >your 3 best physical traits?
      Decent legs, good skin, thick shiny hair

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        >wish I was shorter
        how tall are you?
        I don't think I've ever heard a girl say she wish she was smaller, even my 6'1 sis

        • 2 days ago
          Anonymous

          >my 6'1 sis
          Did you get to see her vagene?

        • 2 days ago
          Anonymous

          5'8" so nothing extreme, but I've always wanted to be smaller

          That's 4 physical traits, now you can't be shorter.

          You mean I get to change the others? Sweet.

          • 2 days ago
            Anonymous

            >5'8"
            Sexoooooo

            • 2 days ago
              Anonymous

              >5'8
              smol

              It seems to be one of those weird heights where I'm taller than most girls I know and feel like I stick out sometimes, but it's not tall enough to be really impressive lol

              Are you our resident former ballet student?

              I am! How are you, anon?

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                >5'8"
                >Former ballet student
                You don't happen to live somewhere in Europe and be single because you tickle my boxes hehe

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                I am single but unfortunately I don't live in Europe. I wish I did.

                you can still carry some of the weight by buying groceries, paying for activities that are your idea, etc. there are ways to sneak it, but generally dinner the dude wants to pay.

                Good point, and when I lived with my ex we did share expenses like groceries of course. Men are fairly generous tbh, it's something they don't get enough credit for.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                >I am single but unfortunately I don't live in Europe. I wish I did.
                Oh no
                There goes my dream of a tall ballet gf
                Sigh
                Now I'm sad

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                Don't be sad anon, I haven't danced for a few years so I'm technically not a ballet gf. I'm sad because I don't live in Europe. I envy you.

                i'm also 5'8" and have the same thought! like, i'm not tall enough to attract the crowd that likes tall girls or short enough to be cute. it's just an awkward middle height where i feel weird around groups of women and don't get much benefit.

                This is exactly it lol

                I want a pet fox.

                Do you want a pet fox?

                Foxes are so beautiful, and they move like cat dog creatures. I always want to pet them.

                It's better to be tall but not so tall it's "impressive"

                Thanks anon, I'll take your word for it

                It's tall enough to have amazing legs without looking weirdly skeletal and bony

                >without looking weirdly skeletal and bony
                I have the dreaded "2/10 pointy elbows and knees would not bang" lol

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                >Don't be sad anon, I haven't danced for a few years so I'm technically not a ballet gf. I'm sad because I don't live in Europe. I envy you.
                Why are you sad?
                I'll give you a hug

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                Haha, thanks anon <3

                Oh I didn't mean to be rude, I was thinking of this one girl I know who's tall AND severely underweight, so she looks like a Holocaust survivor... I'm sure your elbows and knees are lovely!

                No, you weren't rude at all! I just laugh at my elbows and knees sometimes, they always startle me when I see them in photos and it makes me think that meme.

                >I think I'm going to watch Wagner's Tristan und Isolde next, just in case I run into that other Anon who touts the superiority of opera.
                The anon is in the thread so watch your words please
                You will see me next at Bayreuth in the Tristan probably.

                You're going to Bayreuth? Have you been before? I'm jealous, I'd love to go someday.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                >You're going to Bayreuth? Have you been before? I'm jealous, I'd love to go someday.
                I have in 2018. I filled my order for this year and I'm pretty sure I'll get tickets
                It's... Ok. Many elitist pricks who don't attend for the music but just their egos. The singers are absolute top tier. The directors not so much unfortunately. They're destroying the d'oeuvre a lot by bringing in young "hip" directors who don't understand the material. I genuinely hope this year will be good. Unfortunately I have to go alone. Having someone knowledgeable to chat about the performance would be awesome but oh well

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                Oh I didn't mean to be rude, I was thinking of this one girl I know who's tall AND severely underweight, so she looks like a Holocaust survivor... I'm sure your elbows and knees are lovely!

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                >I don't live in Europe. I wish I did.
                What's stopping you?

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                I'm not a student and I don't any special skills. I travel as often as I can, but I'm just sure that moving there on my own is really feasible. Maybe someday.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                Isn't it pretty easy to come live in europe?

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                Only if you are not White.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                I haven't looked into EU regulations tbh. My sister went to school in the UK and lived there for a few years working after graduating, she had to constantly prove herself to immigration officials. Even after she got married, she had to keep meticulous documentation to prove the marriage wasn't a sham. I just assume it's equally difficult on the continent, plus I only have very rusty French so I don't see why anyone would want me lol

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                I'm doing well, and I'm glad I could see you again.

                I saw Romeo & Juliet at La Scala, and it was great, it's now one of my favorites. The leads were both gorgeous and talented, and I was a little weirded out when they played up Juliet's immaturity with her dolly and jumping on her nurse's lap, so I was surprised to find out that she's older than me. I was particularly fond of their dance together after the balcony, and at the end when he danced again with her body. Paris was perfectly lifeless and dull, Mercutio was a perfect peacock, and Tybalt was a perfect little shit. The synchronized sword fights were nice, but the music during Romeo's revenge fight against Tybalt was so lighthearted and whimsical-- what the hell was Prokofiev thinking? Anyway, I enjoyed myself, so thank you for the recommendation.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                I'm so glad you enjoyed it! I know what you mean about the music during the fight between Romeo and Tybalt, though I think it's meant to portray a sort of frantic mood and a contrast to Tybalt's death scene, which is quite heavy and dramatic. Anyways, I really am happy to hear you liked it. Let me know what operas or other ballets have caught your eye, I'm always looking to add things to my watch list.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                I think I'm going to watch Wagner's Tristan und Isolde next, just in case I run into that other Anon who touts the superiority of opera. That'll take me a few days though since it's so long and I have so little free time. As for ballet, I think I'll watch Swan Lake soon, because that one has been sitting in my backlog forever and ever. And of course, I'm keeping Mayerling and L'Histoire de Manon in my back pocket for a rainy day, based on your recommendation. What about you, are you looking forward to anything soon?

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                >I think I'm going to watch Wagner's Tristan und Isolde next, just in case I run into that other Anon who touts the superiority of opera.
                The anon is in the thread so watch your words please
                You will see me next at Bayreuth in the Tristan probably.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                There is nothing to say to you except "I'm sorry". I'm sorry you only appreciate German opera and don't appreciate Italian opera.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                >Italian opera.
                That's not Opera it's childs play. Sorry anon

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                Is that a reference to Amadeus? I love that movie.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                Oh, mind if I ask which Swan Lake? Which company and which lead dancers? Wagner is magnificent, I hope to see a Wagner live someday. I don't have anything concrete yet, but I might finally get a chance to go to La Scala for an opera in April, there's doing an obscure Italian Baroque opera I'd be interested in seeing but I'll have to see. Nothing really queued for video right now, sadly. Maybe I should check out Tristan & Isolde, I've never watched it all the way through.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                This is the Swan Lake that I've chosen, but I'm all ears if you know a better one (or if you dislike this ending):

                >In this production of the best loved classical ballet 'Swan Lake' the naturally gifted Yulia Makhalina dances the challenging role of Odette/Odile while the part of Prince Siegfried is danced by Igor Zelensky. This classic Kirov production includes the familiar happy ending in the final act where Siegfried fights and ultimately defeats the evil magician von Rothbart and at dawn is reunited with Odette.

                And here is the Tristan und Isolde that I plan on watching:

                Not only does it have subtitles, but one of the top comments is timestamps so I can split it up and come back to it over several days.

                I hope your plans for a trip work out and you have a good time.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                Oh, that will be good. Old school Kirov, you can't go wrong. I just checked out the ending, that's the type of ending I'm most familiar with. I really love this ABT version with Gillian Murphy and Angel Corella. The ending is far more...dramatic lol but it's a great production and I just love the lead dancers. The Kirov will be excellent too though!

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                Thanks for this link, I'll save it for now, and at some point I'll watch it as well, so I can do a comparison like I did for the different performances of Rite of Spring. I don't know how much longer we'll both be sticking around /atoga/, but hopefully I'll be able to share my Tchaikovsky and Wagner thoughts with you soon.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                I'm sure I'll see you around, I hope you enjoy them all!

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                i'm also 5'8" and have the same thought! like, i'm not tall enough to attract the crowd that likes tall girls or short enough to be cute. it's just an awkward middle height where i feel weird around groups of women and don't get much benefit.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                Are you in Europe and single by any chance?
                I swear if I don't get a tall gf tonight I get really grumpy lol

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                single but not in europe, gl anon

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                Noohoooo
                Ah well

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                It's tall enough to have amazing legs without looking weirdly skeletal and bony

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                Not her, but I don't like having long legs. I always feel like I'm showing a mile of thigh.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                Your miles of thighs save lives.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                My ex was 5'8.5" and she turned me into legs and ass guy
                A pair of leggings or yoga pants on her... Jesus Christ almighty

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                how tall are you? did she have a bubblebutt? if yes im jelly

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                >how tall are you? did she have a bubblebutt? if yes im jelly
                I'm 5"10'
                Her butt was firm and trained from volleyball. It was not to big and not to skinny. It flowed perfectly into her long, perfect legs. Hmmm nomnom

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                >you will never slap a volleyball girl's ass like you're spiking a volleyball
                ._.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                She was funny, warm and extremely intelligent too. Unfortunately I was a retard and ruined it.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                Well yes, that's the upside, but it requires a bf.

                you could just dress without showing so mcuh legs or not?
                how tall are you? do you wish to be smaller?

                180cm. I don't wish my body was different, it's just awkward sometimes.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                >180cm
                >tall
                Basically a midget here in Ausfailia

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                >180cm
                Oh
                God
                Yes
                Please

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                >but it requires a bf.
                where do I apply?

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                I saw her first, she is mine

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                you could just dress without showing so mcuh legs or not?
                how tall are you? do you wish to be smaller?

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                It's better to be tall but not so tall it's "impressive"

          • 2 days ago
            Anonymous

            >5'8
            smol

          • 2 days ago
            Anonymous

            Are you our resident former ballet student?

            • 2 days ago
              Anonymous

              We have one of those?
              I know there was a pretty broadly skilled dancing anon that offered to teach me tango, but haven't seen a ballet dancer

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        That's 4 physical traits, now you can't be shorter.

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      Male, 20, 0
      >your 3 worst physical traits?
      israelitefro hair, shitty skin (allergies and rosacea), skinny
      >your 3 best physical traits?
      huge weiner that sees no use, nose, wide shoulders

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      M 28 1
      >3 worst
      eyes, nose, pinky finger (I know it'll get asked so: it has a giant fucking lump on the bottom/side)
      >3 best
      legs, hair, abs

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      F, 2x, 2
      >3 worst traits
      Piggy nose, cellulite, overweight
      >3 best
      Pretty smile, great hair, stupendous tits

  62. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    I compared my hands to a girl and mine were smaller. Now what?

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      was her cock bigger too?

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        Transition.

        You are sentenced to death for sodomy.

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      Transition.

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      i love doing this as a thinly veiled excuse to put hands together

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        Me too. Such a good way to initiate body contact.

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      You will be a cute femboy

  63. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    I'm a nerdy virgin guy, do I want
    >le aspie virgin gf where we both lose our virginities to each other
    or
    >older and/or more experienced woman who lovingly shows me the ropes and incorporates elements of gentle femdom into the experience
    always wanted the former but been thinking about the latter lately, seems kinda cool ngl

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      Why not both?

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        because it's physically impossible to lose my virginity to a virgin and a non virgin innit

        virgin guys don't get to choose

        bit mean lad xx

        • 2 days ago
          Anonymous

          Yes but how about both at the same time?

          • 2 days ago
            Anonymous

            because threesomes go against the whole idea of losing your v card to your one and only aspie virgin gf

            former

            howcomes

            hey cool i used to be that first one and am now slowly becoming that second one

            life works in wonderful ways

        • 2 days ago
          Anonymous

          >bit mean lad xx
          also stop being nerdy

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      virgin guys don't get to choose

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      former

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      hey cool i used to be that first one and am now slowly becoming that second one

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      Neither option is realistic but the first one is more realistic. There are literally zero women who are going to "lovingly show you the ropes"

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        >Neither option is realistic
        idk lad maybe this is partial copium but I think I can still pull it off
        You know those girls that are like nerds in art hoe clothes that read manga, drink bubble tea and have Line friends stickers on their phones? Unless they have a long term bf they generally tend to be virgins, good job they're exactly my type too!

  64. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    Why do women think we feel safe walking in dangerous areas at night? Are they just projecting their own feelings about safety around big strong men onto us?

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      they're stupid

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      It's pretty much a the neighbour's grass is always greener effect. Both men and women think that it is so easy for the other and don't tend to think about the struggles of them.

  65. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    Ladies. What's the best place to order perfume from? Specifically my gf uses Louis Vuitton Attrape-Rêves. Do I just order it off their website or are there perfume online stores that are better/cheaper/faster?

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      got to LULZ fragrance general

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        thanks

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      I just get it from amazon

  66. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    Is this really what a toxic person is like? This video literally describes me.

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      Why do these animated blogs get so many fucking views?
      Why do they always talk in this condescending, pseudo-intellectual way?
      Why does she sound so fat?

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      This video could apply to anyone, the same way a horoscope could apply to anyone.
      >Do you sometimes feel jealous?
      >Do you find drama entertaining?
      >Wow, you must be a Sagittarius!
      This is the same type of video that convinces 80% of people they're autistic, or that their ex is a narcissist. Toxic is a really extreme term for something that we all have traits of. It means that you bring down a room as soon as you enter it, that you're unwilling to change, that you're like a poison to others - hence the word toxic. Everybody is flawed, but not everybody is toxic.

  67. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    How do Women actually feeling about paying for things in the relationship?

    Men, how do you feel about letting her pay for things?

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      In my experience men want to pay. When I was younger I used to insist on paying for myself, but I came to realize that was actually kind of rude and rejecting of the guy's generosity. It's much better to be gracious and sincerely appreciative.

      I wish we had a thread on /soc/ where all the femanons would post pics of themselves and we had a simpocalypse

      No, that would be a nightmare lol. But there is an atoga thread on soc where people can post pics if they want.

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        you can still carry some of the weight by buying groceries, paying for activities that are your idea, etc. there are ways to sneak it, but generally dinner the dude wants to pay.

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        huh? i only pay bc i think thats what girls expect if you want sex/be her bf etc
        if i knew girls didnt care id never pay lol

        • 2 days ago
          Anonymous

          It's still a nice gesture though

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      >Men, how do you feel about letting her pay for things?
      my gf makes a lot of money but I still mostly pay for the dinners. she grabs drinks sometimes. I don't really think about it much, tbh, I prefer to pay but I won't go out of my way too.. like if she makes a reservation for an activity using her card I don't try to pay for it myself, or if she buys tickets or something, but if we got to dinner I always grab the tab.

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      >How do Women actually feeling about paying for things in the relationship?
      I don't mind. I pay around 25% of the dates I go on with my boyfriend, but he makes significantly more than me.

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      F
      I like to pay for things because I do not want to be seen as a financial burden.

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        Thank you for existing

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      If she's not willing to contribute financially to the relationship in accordance with her ability, she's not worth it.
      I don't want to deal with the possibility they're just in it for the free dates and I also think it's a bad sign you somehow consider yourself someone that isn't independent or whatever you want to call it. I want there to be mutual respect in the relationship and I doubt I'd get that from some dainty little flower that just looks up to me as "the provider". I would not feel like I am dating a person.
      If you don't have a lot of money, that's perfectly fine. You could offer to pay for the drinks or desert or offer to take me out for coffee after. But if you don't put in the effort I'll just not bother either

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      M
      If I'm taking her out, she deserves it, and it's only right that I treat her. It's how it works. I'm the one going after her, and she's worth at least her tea for her time and the chance. It's just good manners.
      If we're in a relationship, we can draw some lines about sharing expenses, but I still want it to be this way with some things. It's on me if we're eating/drinking out, most driving expenses are on me, and I gift her whatever I feel like.
      That said, I have high standards and don't treat women I don't take seriously this way.

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      We arbitrarily trade off offering to pay for each other. It's just a gesture of goodwill. Nowadays it doesn't really matter in the end since we share bills. In the beginning he paid more often because I was spending a lot of gas to see him. But we never really went out on dates that cost money very often.

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      Female here, why do men like to pay even if a woman earn close to what he does?

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        Simple, provider mentality. A man's instinct is to provide for the ones he loves. More recently, people have started going beyond this and value equality in relationship more but there's still plenty of people like that around.
        They think if you pay, then you're somehow the boss in the relationship and that can emasculate them. I think the best course of action is to offer to pay, if he refuses it you accept it but at some later point treat him to something or do something nice for him (doesn't have to be big).
        This effectively covers all your bases

        • 2 days ago
          Anonymous

          >instinct
          weird way to spell learned behaviour and mindset

          • 2 days ago
            Anonymous

            >weird way to spell learned behaviour and mindset
            I don't know if it's a learned behavior. What do you think grug was doing thousands upon thousands of years ago

            • 2 days ago
              Anonymous

              I don't know I wasn't there, we can only assume what he did, which is strongly affected our current culture

  68. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    I wish we had a thread on /soc/ where all the femanons would post pics of themselves and we had a simpocalypse

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      I understand why societies have conscription now.

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      The /soc/ /atoga/ thread had a few toonme takers, but that's it.

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        >The /soc/ /atoga/ thread
        Link plz?

        • 2 days ago
          Anonymous

          [...]

          Ignore the faqqot OP

          • 2 days ago
            Anonymous

            I wish they'd post real pics but the two toons are cute lol

    • 2 days ago
      Exhibanon

      There are many threads on /soc/ for that.

  69. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    Girls, boys.
    You're on a date, and it becomes apparent that your date HATES all of her exes.

    What do you infer based on this?

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      I assume she's a hateful person and would be draining to hang out with

    • 2 days ago
      Exhibanon

      That we probably shouldn't go on a second date. Hateful people aren't very fun. I like people who focus on the positives of life.

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      The common denominator is him. Besides which, it's tacky to talk about ex's on a first date, let alone slag them off. I wouldn't be interested in a second date.

  70. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    F
    Why is it assumed that I’m on the search for a relationship if I have become a regular gym goer?

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      Because men think if you're near them without a visible boyfriend, you want their cock.

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        No, men are so desperate for pussy they'll try any single woman they can find.

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        Should I start wearing a wedding ring?
        I just want to focus on myself this year.

  71. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    Good night, ladies and gentlemen.

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      Sweet dreams anon <3

      I wish they'd post real pics but the two toons are cute lol

      I recognize both of them. Good to see our regulars are still around.

  72. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    >be me
    >mildly autistic and socially anxious
    >try to push myself out of my comfort zone by approaching girls I think are cute at my college library, nothing sleazy just compliment them on their shoes/shirt/etc then try to segue into asking them about their course from that
    >probably something like 100 approaches over 2 years
    >not in any fren circles so no positive reputation/social proof to make me look good
    There are rumours about me aren't there? I haven't heard anything but at this point it's probably inevitable

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      are there rumours about me frens?

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      Sounds like you're a friendly guy who gives compliments a lot?

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        Kinda yeah, but the fact that it's mostly girls could probably come off as creepy even tho I had no intention of being sleazy about it
        If my college had more guys I'd be awkwardly approaching guys too (in a looking for bros way not a bi way) but girls greatly outnumber guys where I'm at

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        Kinda yeah, but the fact that it's mostly girls could probably come off as creepy even tho I had no intention of being sleazy about it
        If my college had more guys I'd be awkwardly approaching guys too (in a looking for bros way not a bi way) but girls greatly outnumber guys where I'm at

        also I don't smile that much and am pretty overwhelmed in an autistic way so it probably looks weird as fuck

  73. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    Why do women expect us to do all the approaching and chasing and then complain about it all the time?

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      They don't.

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        they don't though. most women i talk to barely get approached

        I will disregard these posts.

        Because they're fucking lazy and they know how high value they are compared to men. The latter part is because they don't want the ugly/low-value men to approach them but have no effective means for stopping it, so just blanket discourage everyone (Chad will power through and do it anyway).

        I will accept this post because women bad.

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      they don't though. most women i talk to barely get approached

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      Because they're fucking lazy and they know how high value they are compared to men. The latter part is because they don't want the ugly/low-value men to approach them but have no effective means for stopping it, so just blanket discourage everyone (Chad will power through and do it anyway).

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      My gf approached me, though.

      And no, I am no ultracosmicchad.

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      i've actually been working on approaching guys more lately but i have anxiety and i get really nervous so i've been doing a fairly bad job

      recently tried to ask a guy out for the first time but pretty sure it just came off as wanting to be friends + he had to reschedule
      so things aren't going well for me but they're not going poorly

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        Just remember that men are dense, so you have to be twice as obvious as you think you're being

        • 2 days ago
          Anonymous

          i get that but i'm already super anxious so it's a lot of effort because i'll start physically shaking if i try too hard

          best i could muster up was along the lines of "hey, you seemed really nice when we met. do you wanna do something sometime?" which i dont think was clear enough and i only managed to do even that because it was just a message and in the middle of the night so i was sleepy AND i had someone else encourage me to try

          basically i am too much of an anxious wreck to be good at this and am fighting a losing battle

          • 2 days ago
            Anonymous

            But how can't you not have raging success? Are you ugly or fat?

            • 2 days ago
              Anonymous

              The "all women get sex on demand" meme was never funny

            • 2 days ago
              Anonymous

              no i'm just autistic and weird

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                Are you in Europe for a change (you're probably single lol)

          • 2 days ago
            Anonymous

            >hey, you seemed really nice when we met. do you wanna do something sometime?
            That's a VERY good start, you should be proud! And hey, even if he doesn't realise it's a date, every minute spent with a guy makes you mentally stronger to ask again.

            • 2 days ago
              Anonymous

              thank you ! hopefully i can get a bit better soon but if it doesn't work out then life goes on, i suppose. i didn't even make it to the hanging out part this time though but we'll see !

              Are you in Europe for a change (you're probably single lol)

              i'm the same as the second 5'8" girl who said gl anon and also have been in and out of this thread for a few hours today

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                Oh ok hehe
                Good luck talking to the guys. I can't imagine you don't have success.

          • 2 days ago
            Anonymous

            > hey, you seemed really nice when we met. do you wanna do something sometime?"
            this definitely sounds like a clear date invite to me. both men and women get creeped out if you’re too much too fast. you should say this exactly to the guy you like now.

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        Thank you for trying

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        You are the hero we need in these trying times, and all your efforts are greatly appreciated.

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        i get that but i'm already super anxious so it's a lot of effort because i'll start physically shaking if i try too hard

        best i could muster up was along the lines of "hey, you seemed really nice when we met. do you wanna do something sometime?" which i dont think was clear enough and i only managed to do even that because it was just a message and in the middle of the night so i was sleepy AND i had someone else encourage me to try

        basically i am too much of an anxious wreck to be good at this and am fighting a losing battle

        I think you need to be very specific with the words you use
        if you ask to go out somewhere, it sounds casual
        if you ask to do something, it sounds casual
        if you say you want to spend some time with me, suddenly my heart skips a beat

        hell, if you add "just the two to us" at the end of anything, it'll suddenly have a whole new connotation

        Because guys aren't used to girls approaching us, we will always assume it's platonic. Especially since it's become so heavily criticized to assume girls are flirting with us

        no i'm just autistic and weird

        we all are anon, at least you're trying
        shoutout to the anon who missed out on his chance with the cute frog hat girl

        • 2 days ago
          Anonymous

          yeah, i figured but i start feeling very !!!!!!!! if i feel like i'm coming on too strong to someone even if i'm not.
          i like the "could i spend some more time with u" thing more, i feel like on a good day i could pull that off. i just don't think i could manage a "do u want to go on a date" line. i thought i was just clear enough, but i can see how it sounds casual.
          also, i feel like i act a little too eager sometimes and that it comes off poorly. i met him when i was drunk and i think i offered to bake him cake like 3 times amongst other things.

          • 2 days ago
            Anonymous

            >i met him when i was drunk and i think i offered to bake him cake like 3 times amongst other things.
            cute

            Just remember that guys know the struggles so they won't fault you for tripping over yourself a little or being a bit shy about asking them out. Odds are high they've been there.

            >i just don't think i could manage a "do u want to go on a date" line.
            if you mean literally, yeah that does sound kinda awkward. Don't write of the "just the two of us" though. I feel like it's pretty casual to say but at the same time it's very clear in meaning. If you don't want to open with it, you can even add it after he starts assuming it's a group activity as some saving grace.
            Alternatively, don't be afraid to do things in a more relaxed setting with other people. I've never seen a guy that had the stigma of being against dating friends like I see occasionally being talked about with girls. This'll also allow you to get to know him better & should give you some chances to woo him or get closer to him. Even if he never realizes you're coming onto him you can still manage to capture his heart

            • 2 days ago
              Anonymous

              i feel like i implied there wouldn't be other people there but i see what u mean. i also don't know if i could pull of a "just the two of us" bc that feels a bit much for me somehow. like very uh.... intimate? i guess. i definitely did think i'd start showing up to more plans i knew he'd be at though. and the not dating friends stigma is silly, i i have only ever dated guys i was friends with first (which is part of why it feels so strange to ask someone out that i don't know incredibly well). i also definitely will see him sometime soon because i offered to lend him my old drawing tablet :)) i also wanted to offer to help him with math but he didn't mention that directly to me but it's a thing i remember him saying so it feels weird to bring it up out of nowhere. but if he ever complains again i have a new excuse !

              >i offered to bake him cake like 3 times amongst other things.
              so uhh... Did you?
              If a girl jokingly offered to bake me a cake and then actually showed up with some cake for me, I don't think I'd be dense enough to not realize it's something special.

              i mean, no but i was uh considering doing that, ngl. it feels like a bit much because i don't know him super well but i have been considering it. i am, however, out of eggs so i can't right now. maybe i'll go buy some eggs. i do actually have his address now because of the thing i mentioned in the above section.

              > hey, you seemed really nice when we met. do you wanna do something sometime?"
              this definitely sounds like a clear date invite to me. both men and women get creeped out if you’re too much too fast. you should say this exactly to the guy you like now.

              i said something almost like that but more nervous sounding (i think i started with a "sorry if this is weird but") and got something like "i'm down to hang out if u want" then really casual convo that felt very platonic and not like i did a good job being clear but maybe i'm wrong and it was clear and i'm just second-guessing too much

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                >bc that feels a bit much for me somehow. like very uh.... intimate?
                I mean yeah sure, but that's the point? If the way you're asking doesn't feel intimate it feels like a friendship invitation.

                >i am, however, out of eggs so i can't right now. maybe i'll go buy some eggs. i do actually have his address now because of the thing i mentioned in the above section.
                I wouldn't go deliver them, HOWEVER when he mentions coming to pick it up, it's a very good opportunity to give him some in a more casual way. It'll definitely feel less intimate than you bringing it just for him obviously but it seems like you'd be more comfortable with it that way. Can also drop a "remember when we were drunk?"

                Hope it ends up working out anon

          • 2 days ago
            Anonymous

            >i offered to bake him cake like 3 times amongst other things.
            so uhh... Did you?
            If a girl jokingly offered to bake me a cake and then actually showed up with some cake for me, I don't think I'd be dense enough to not realize it's something special.

  74. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    ladies. does your guys scruff/stubble bother you when he eats you out? i swear i shave really well but it's still kinda scratchy if you feel my face

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      The feeling of scratchy stubble on my skin drives me WILD. I can't get enough of it. But it's not good if it's like scratching actually on my pussy.

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        Holy shit wtf
        I swear girls are coomers and get off to the weirdest shit

        • 2 days ago
          Anonymous

          >wtf you like your genitals being stimulated? that's so weird

        • 2 days ago
          Anonymous

          wtf?
          Do you not like to feel girls faces, or their hair on your inner thigh?

          • 2 days ago
            Anonymous

            Not particularly no

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        No it's great

        my gf doesn't like, wat do?

        • 2 days ago
          Anonymous

          Work on a closer shave I guess

          • 2 days ago
            Anonymous

            literally impossible. i mean i use the good razors and stuff, i wonder if I just put a thin towel or something around her thighs. i just want to eat pussy :~~*(

            • 2 days ago
              Anonymous

              A towel might work!

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                I'm legit amazoning some baby towel things now lmao. she's gunna just shake her head...

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                It’s the thought that counts! A good lover tries his best to make it work.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                she's a new gf so still learning the ropes with her. It was so easy to make my last gf cum and this girl is way harder, she claims she only cummed four times in her last relationship of four years. I don't want to put pressure on her to cum, but, it's secretly going to be my mission to figure out how.

                I think next time we have sex I want to watch her masturbate or guide my hand, saw that on r*ddit.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                Get out normie

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                t-thanks

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                Does she use vibrators?

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                I don't know, I should ask her that. I'd be fine with her bringing that into the picture.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                How long have you been together?

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                two months, sex for only three weeks

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                [...]
                I should say we've been dating two months, and recently had sex (like 3 weeks)

                Ah gotcha that makes more sense. Sounds like you're in the fun initial exploration phase.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                Yeah, it is kinda fun but I'm nervous I won't be able to make her coom. Good news is she is honest when she doesn't like something, that way I'm not wasting my time and can make adjustments. She overall seems really happy though, so hopefully I'm not completely fucking up the sex.

                >watch her masturbate
                ehhhh
                >guide my hand
                much more likely

                >watch her masturbate
                >ehhhh
                What's wrong with that?

                It just seems more fetish-y to me, and it’s unlikely the average girl would be into it

                NTA but I'm surprised you think mutual masturbation isn't vanilla as hell

                i've already mentioned it to her and she didn't seemed opposed to either, i'd probably prefer a bit of a combo so I can see and feel what she likes. basically I want to get trained for what feels good to her.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                >but I'm nervous I won't be able to make her coom.
                How about instead of putting all that pressure on yourself (and her!), you focus on the goal of making her feel as good as possible and an orgasm is a pleasant surprise if she has one?

                It feels like a guy's experience with sex is really all about the destination. That is absolutely not the case with me. It'd kinda suck to have sex be always focused on my orgasm and not on the experience. If I wanted a fast quick orgasm I'd just hold a vibrator against my clit and wait for it to happen.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                I get that, thanks. Yeah, I mean our sessions are long and I think low pressure for her. She seems to be really enjoying herself.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                two months, sex for only three weeks

                I should say we've been dating two months, and recently had sex (like 3 weeks)

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                >watch her masturbate
                ehhhh
                >guide my hand
                much more likely

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                >watch her masturbate
                >ehhhh
                What's wrong with that?

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                It just seems more fetish-y to me, and it’s unlikely the average girl would be into it

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                NTA but I'm surprised you think mutual masturbation isn't vanilla as hell

            • 2 days ago
              Anonymous

              try going to an actual barber and having him do it
              if it's still scruffy something's fucked
              if he can make it smooth (he likely can), you can fix it

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      No it's great

  75. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    [...]

    Because this is /atoga/'s home. /soc/ is just a weird offshoot.

  76. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    My ear hurts what do I do?

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      Hurt the other ear so it evens out

  77. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    I want a pet fox.

    Do you want a pet fox?

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      I want to be able to visit someone else's pet fox. Keeping the little bastards seems like torture.

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      Not exactly related but went on a trip once & the place we stayed at had a fox regularly show up at night when we were sitting around campfire
      Pretty cute, it obviously never got close though & scrammed whenever anyone did even the slightest movement

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      Yes, very much. I love foxes. It's a fucking terrible idea to have them as pets, but I love them.

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        I'm a Bong and it's always sad seeing foxes on the streets because they're always malnourished and underfed

        • 2 days ago
          Anonymous

          I know, same. One of my life long dreams is having a fox sanctuary.

          • 2 days ago
            Anonymous

            aw that's sweet
            I'd pet the ones I come across but I worry they'd be diseased

            • 2 days ago
              Anonymous

              >I'd pet the ones I come across but I worry they'd be diseased
              That's the issue, they often are. That's why I don't really like the whole fox hype.

  78. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    Girls, would you date a nazi? Human race only please

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      >Human race only please
      wtf this is discriminatory towards elves

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      No

  79. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    Men and women, do you view women who dress and act feminine as lesser? And do you view and treat masculine women like you do men?

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      I respect her more for knowing her role. Women ARE lesser

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      This whole thing is predicated on the idea that the only respect a person should receive is based on whether they could beat you up or not

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      No, *I* feel lesser around feminine women. Suddenly I feel frumpy and unattractive compared to them.

  80. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    [...]

    make rice and i will too (i haven't eaten all day and should at least make dinner)
    report back in once ur rice is done, anon

  81. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    We should draw on a map in which country we are and if a m and live in the same country they must meet for a date, then we're gonna have atoga babies soon

  82. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    my cock is 6" and my gf says it is too big and hurts, what do? i can just not go as deep but she keeps saying my cock is huge, did her last boyfriend have a micropenis?

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      You're longer than all my exes, too. Is she having trouble with just the length, or is the girth a problem, too?

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        Do you date Asians or something?

        • 2 days ago
          Anonymous

          That's pretty much the only race I haven't dated, actually.

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        I think it's the length. she seems to like the girth. I'm kinda girthy but not like crazy girthy, I guess I don't know what to compare to.

        There's rubber donut cock rings that make it so you can't go too deep

        I'll look for that, thanks

        I'm also slightly over 6" and it's above average, dude. Mine is also about as much in girth. What you can do, is focus more on foreplay. If she's hot enough you can probably go for it, but go slowly at first.

        ah okay, yeah I've been taking it much slower when we first start. Do you like half stroke for the first 2-3 min or so and then gradually increase?

        • 2 days ago
          Anonymous

          >ah okay, yeah I've been taking it much slower when we first start. Do you like half stroke for the first 2-3 min or so and then gradually increase?
          Please tell me this isn't the foreplay

          • 2 days ago
            Anonymous

            nah, i'm not a retard. this is a long way into the production.

            >Do you like half stroke for the first 2-3 min
            Idk only had sex that one time and she was wet af. I just fingered her a bit, then half stroked like you said but slowly, eventually I got to fit it in.
            She was very sexually active though and not nervous at all, if your gf isn't that experienced and relaxed you should probably finger her more and make sure she's comfortable.

            cheers.

            • 2 days ago
              Anonymous

              >cheers
              Cheers, to my big but barely used dick. Let's drink to that. I miss that girl. I miss her.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                you'll get another one dude. i went a while in-between also.

        • 2 days ago
          Anonymous

          >Do you like half stroke for the first 2-3 min
          Idk only had sex that one time and she was wet af. I just fingered her a bit, then half stroked like you said but slowly, eventually I got to fit it in.
          She was very sexually active though and not nervous at all, if your gf isn't that experienced and relaxed you should probably finger her more and make sure she's comfortable.

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      There's rubber donut cock rings that make it so you can't go too deep

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      I'm also slightly over 6" and it's above average, dude. Mine is also about as much in girth. What you can do, is focus more on foreplay. If she's hot enough you can probably go for it, but go slowly at first.

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      What I'm even bigger and girls never said it's too big. Wtf

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      I think your girl is the exception
      do you have that monster girth perhaps?

      I haven't looked into EU regulations tbh. My sister went to school in the UK and lived there for a few years working after graduating, she had to constantly prove herself to immigration officials. Even after she got married, she had to keep meticulous documentation to prove the marriage wasn't a sham. I just assume it's equally difficult on the continent, plus I only have very rusty French so I don't see why anyone would want me lol

      >uk
      >europe
      oh no no no
      they don't know

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        >they don't know
        I know, I know. But from what superficial research I've done, the EU and even non-EU countries aren't really keen to take in people like me. I wish I had an Irish or Italian grandparent.

        >You're going to Bayreuth? Have you been before? I'm jealous, I'd love to go someday.
        I have in 2018. I filled my order for this year and I'm pretty sure I'll get tickets
        It's... Ok. Many elitist pricks who don't attend for the music but just their egos. The singers are absolute top tier. The directors not so much unfortunately. They're destroying the d'oeuvre a lot by bringing in young "hip" directors who don't understand the material. I genuinely hope this year will be good. Unfortunately I have to go alone. Having someone knowledgeable to chat about the performance would be awesome but oh well

        I can see that about the elitist snobs. I absolutely loath modernist productions, like where they put everyone in black spandex and the sets are just a big red disc or something. Traditional staging and costumes all the way, although I don't mind when they set things in the 1920s for example, as long as it looks beautiful. I'm sure you'll have a fantastic time regardless.

        • 2 days ago
          Anonymous

          Honestly a lot of people here don't speak the national language, it's kind of a joke. Unless you go to france you'll likely be able to get by pretty well with just english (at least if you stick to the somewhat larger cities).

          >aren't really keen to take in people like me.
          yeah I guess I underestimated how much harder it is if you're not already in the EU. Pretty much forced to get a job before you can come over & if you're unskilled like you mentioned odds are low.

          Don't worry if you fly over on a visit I'll marry you and put a baby in you so they can't send you back. If other people can do it so can we

          • 2 days ago
            Anonymous

            Are you in Nordic country? I know a couple of people who married and lived in Norway and I think Denmark, and they only spoke English and seemed to do fine. I always think of other parts of Europe as not being quite so English friendly but I could be wrong. Wherever you are, I'll let you know when I'm coming so we can have our cheeky wedding.

            • 2 days ago
              Anonymous

              I wasn't really talking about my specific country, but no. It's just that I speak a pretty small language & I get by pretty fine with english while traveling. Obviously you won't be able to expect everyone to speak it (especially older people) but you tend to be able to get by because people do their best to understand
              For one, I've seen a decent amount of asians speaking their native language within the family & English to others. And I'm not talking just people who are on vacation but people just doing weekly groceries & shit too.
              But yeah, czech, slovakia, germany, netherlands, belgium, etc. all seem pretty good with english (and obviously uk/ireland are good too). Like I mentioned earlier, France is a bit iffy because for some reason they really hate English so they kind of go out of their way to not speak it
              Some places will force you to learn one of the native languages to live there permanently though, for example in finland you have to learn either finnish or (for some reason) swedish. Turns out all the immigrants learn swedish because it's WAY easier to learn so there's a bunch of people in finland now that don't even speak finnish

              >Wherever you are, I'll let you know when I'm coming so we can have our cheeky wedding.
              good, they'll never see it coming

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      keked
      i bet if she would post here she would say her bf has a 9 inch cock
      girls are just retarded

  83. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    [...]

    And surprisingly, you are here yourself. Everything ok with your mental stability?

  84. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    How do I stop waking up hangry?

  85. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    [...]

    >I want to date and marry a mentally stable person
    Women say this, but don't mean it

  86. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    [...]

    >difference is I'm a tourist here
    I can tell from your r*ddit spacing

  87. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    Girls, how good are you at blowjobs?

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      Never tried it

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      Gud

  88. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    how do i talk about romance? i added a girl off LULZ who liked romance and even though i consider myself a romancefag i cant talk about it at all so i just kinda did the "what are your hobbies" thing and then she ghosted me after talking for a little, i deleted my account out of embarassment but discord waits 15 days to fully delete it and im too scared to log back in.

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      >i deleted my account out of embarassment but discord waits 15 days to fully delete it and im too scared to log back in.
      oh god you're so much of a spastic it's making me shiver
      > i cant talk about it at all
      just talk about which ones you've watched/read and liked and recommend some shit and try the shit she recommends and discuss ones you share
      I don't understand

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        >just talk about which ones you've watched/read
        i dont watch movies or read at all and im a shonentard

        • 2 days ago
          Anonymous

          This isn't the real you, right? This is someone else pretending to be you, right?

          Your problem isn't lacking romance, it's being braindead in general.

          • 2 days ago
            Anonymous

            >i dont watch movies or read at all and im a shonentard
            wait I'm confused
            wait HANG ON
            did you mean you were both romantic personalities? I'm fucking lost
            what do you mean you consider yourself a "romancefag"

            am I dreaming what the fuck is this

            thats not me retards its some autist

            • 2 days ago
              Anonymous

              So answer the questions? Why did you waste your cool down on this

            • 2 days ago
              Anonymous

              then respond before I enter the nuclear launch codes
              or are YOU the fake

            • 2 days ago
              Anonymous

              If that's your attitude, then I believe it is you. NEVER FORGET, on January 24th 2023 the good denizens of /atoga/ met an Anon who believes in True Love but won't read a fucking book.

        • 2 days ago
          Anonymous

          >i dont watch movies or read at all and im a shonentard
          wait I'm confused
          wait HANG ON
          did you mean you were both romantic personalities? I'm fucking lost
          what do you mean you consider yourself a "romancefag"

          am I dreaming what the fuck is this

          • 2 days ago
            Anonymous

            >what do you mean you consider yourself a "romancefag"
            He dreams of having a girl fall in love with him because he beat up the Bad Guys.

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      Ask her about what she likes about romance. You just talk about the meta of romance. Ask a lot of questions.
      Also do you mean romantic dates or the media genre of romance movies/books?

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        moreso the romantic relationship/dates aspect. ive watched a few romance movies before but what i meant is i cant "woo" a woman or whatever the word is. and im not a shonenspic either like the other guy.

        >i deleted my account out of embarassment but discord waits 15 days to fully delete it and im too scared to log back in.
        oh god you're so much of a spastic it's making me shiver
        > i cant talk about it at all
        just talk about which ones you've watched/read and liked and recommend some shit and try the shit she recommends and discuss ones you share
        I don't understand

        we talked for a little bit about that but it didnt go anywhere

        • 2 days ago
          Anonymous

          How did it come up that you were both into having a romance-style relationship? How did you two start talking anyway? What else did you talk about and how long have you been talking?

        • 2 days ago
          Anonymous

          so what the fuck did you mean when you said you were "a romancefag"
          why did you add her? was it literally just because "mmm female person me must talk to"
          If you don't have anything in common or you don't feel a connection, it's not weird to just let it fizzle out or say so. You don't have to fucking delete your account because it's fizzling out

  89. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    Different thread on /adv/ has me thinking.
    Women, how many sexual partners have you been with? Were they ONS, FWB and or LTR?

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      Seven, all in committed and exclusive relationships.

  90. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    I'm feeling extra schizo tonight.
    >State gender
    how do you feel about schizo guys?

  91. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    Why did women ruin journalism?

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      Journalists have always been scum.

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      What’s wrong with women masturbating? Don’t you want them to be horny? It’s healthy.

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        Nta, I hate coomers.
        Sex is meant to be a private, intimate thing between a man and a woman.

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        >What’s wrong with women masturbating? Don’t you want them to be horny?
        wait hang on
        aren't these opposites
        don't women get LESS horny if they masturbate more

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        Female coomers are just sick

        • 2 days ago
          Anonymous

          Horny girl “coomers” are fine. Having a high libido is fine. Having sex is fine. Are you still in the mentality of girls being icky or something?

          • 2 days ago
            Anonymous

            Don't let him find out about the fact girls also P-word

            • 2 days ago
              Anonymous

              Pillage?

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        If women are horny they'll fuck a lot of men which is bad

        • 2 days ago
          Anonymous

          if you stop masturbating eventually youll learn to control yourself and it really wont be much of a problem unless youre (maybe unconsciously) surrounding yourself with coomer shit

          • 2 days ago
            Anonymous

            Women shouldn't fuck a lot
            Women having high libidos is kinda bad because they'll fuck a lot, and if they're single that's bad

            • 2 days ago
              Anonymous

              >Women shouldn't fuck a lot
              Women should fuck as much as is reasonable. Fucking is great. Women being horny is great.

              Yes, monogamy is good, and having a partner who satisfies all your needs is ideal, but we live in a world where that can’t always be the case.

              Stop repressing women’s libido. It’s fucking creepy and gay.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                Women should only fuck a lot with one man
                Horny single women are bad

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                >Horny single women are bad
                And how are they supposed to find a fucking husband, retard?

                what, you think your pussy is going to seal shut if you don't use it regularly? or your boobs will deflate without regular groping?

                >STOP ENJOYING YOURSELF
                Sex is good.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                >And how are they supposed to find a fucking husband, retard?
                Not by fucking 100 men, that's for sure, which is what horny single women do

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                the original topic was about masturbation retard

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                Women can't keep it in their pants because any man would fuck them
                Coomer women are fine if they wouldn't fuck but they do

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                ahh the good old "girls snap their fingers and sex happens"
                great we're back here AGAIN, I sure missed it in that hour it wasn't being talked about

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                >ahh the good old "girls snap their fingers and sex happens"
                Yes, that's literally what happens. Any woman who isn't the bottom 5% can get dick about as fast as ordering a pizza.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                Guys, should I put pineapple on my free dicks??

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                Depends if you want to swallow or not

                Men are horny as fuck I don't know what to say
                Go and offer sex to any random as a woman and see how long it takes to get some dick
                Hell do it as a man in the gay area of town

                I think you're underestimating how many guys would turn it down
                Keep in mind, a chick that walks up to you & asks if you want to have sex LIKELY has done the same to many others

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                >I think you're underestimating how many guys would turn it down
                maybe some
                >Keep in mind, a chick that walks up to you & asks if you want to have sex LIKELY has done the same to many others
                if she's clean, body count is irrelevant to hookups

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                >body count is irrelevant to hookups
                yeah ok buddy

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                >I think you're underestimating how many guys would turn it down
                There was a video where a girl asked random guys if they'd fuck and half of them said yes
                1 in 2 is pretty good odds

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                There's a video of dudes asking girls if they want to make out & half of them said yes
                I wouldn't suggest you try it though

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                I want anchovies on my dick pizza.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                Men are horny as fuck I don't know what to say
                Go and offer sex to any random as a woman and see how long it takes to get some dick
                Hell do it as a man in the gay area of town

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                >ahh the good old "girls snap their fingers and sex happens"
                Why do women always play dumb with how fucking easy it is for them to get laid?

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                Since you think I'm a woman, I keep fucking snapping my fingers & nothing's happening
                are my fingers broke?

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                >Since you think I'm a woman, I keep fucking snapping my fingers & nothing's happening
                You're supposed to snap them on your phone with Tinder open, silly

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                >100 MEN
                And you wonder why you’re single.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                >I'm a bad person cause I don't want my wife to have fucked 100 men
                Holy reddit

                >How are you supposed to find a partner if you don’t have sex?
                you have forgotten a lot of people here are in la la land and thing the perfect relationship is two virgins getting married

                >a lot of people here are in la la land and thing the perfect relationship is two virgins getting married
                What is wrong with that though

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                >Yes, monogamy is good, and having a partner who satisfies all your needs is ideal, but we live in a world where that can’t always be the case
                homosexual cuck

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                Incel homosexual. How are you supposed to find a partner if you don’t have sex?

                >Shitting is great. Women shitting bed is great.
                >Yes, shitting once a day is good, and having a clean toilet to use each time is ideal, but we live in a world where that can't always be the case.
                >Stop encouraging Pajeet's constipation.
                Imagine if you felt this way for any other bodily need.

                >Sex is just a bodily need like shitting
                Pathetic.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                Go jack off to cuckold porn you fucking freak

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                >How are you supposed to find a partner if you don’t have sex?
                you have forgotten a lot of people here are in la la land and thing the perfect relationship is two virgins getting married

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                It’s childish, but I don’t necessarily hold it against them.

                >I'm a bad person cause I don't want my wife to have fucked 100 men
                Holy reddit
                [...]
                >a lot of people here are in la la land and thing the perfect relationship is two virgins getting married
                What is wrong with that though

                Lrn2reed

                ahh the good old "girls snap their fingers and sex happens"
                great we're back here AGAIN, I sure missed it in that hour it wasn't being talked about

                Incels everywhere.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                A woman being horny for one man she's in love with = good
                A woman being horny while having no man she's in love with = recipe for sluttery

                virgins with high libidos are a myth

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                >A woman being horny for one man she's in love with = good
                Sure.
                >A woman being horny while having no man she's in love with = recipe for sluttery
                Just you being mistrusting and hateful of women.

                You don’t want to start and keep a relationship out of ignorance or fear. Those always die.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                virgins with high libidos are not real anon
                you gotta choose one

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                >Shitting is great. Women shitting bed is great.
                >Yes, shitting once a day is good, and having a clean toilet to use each time is ideal, but we live in a world where that can't always be the case.
                >Stop encouraging Pajeet's constipation.
                Imagine if you felt this way for any other bodily need.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                Oh are we on day 7 of NoShit are we?

          • 2 days ago
            Anonymous

            I masturbate to keep my sex well and active for my bf

            • 2 days ago
              Anonymous

              what, you think your pussy is going to seal shut if you don't use it regularly? or your boobs will deflate without regular groping?

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                My sex drive is very much "use it or lose it". I pretty much go into hibernation if I don't have sex or masturbate for too long (on the scale of weeks usually). When I masturbate more, I initiate sex with my bf more.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                I was half-kidding, but damn that sucks
                Ok, enjoy your sexual maintenance then

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                I'm just glad I figured it out. It's not a particularly annoying thing to have to do. But not having a sex drive destroys relationships and I don't want that for either of us.

  92. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    Is there anything more pathetic than a grown ass man who believes in fairy tale shit like "true love" and "soulmates" and "the one"?

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      yeah, when the girl divorces him, takes half his shit and demands alimony

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        It's the SAHMs who take the most of your money in such a divorce due to "lost wages" and "missed career advancement", and yet LULZners always insist that their future wives should be SAHMs. Curious.

        • 2 days ago
          Anonymous

          nah, the working ones do too.

        • 2 days ago
          Anonymous

          I only want one of us to be stay at home when we have kids at an age where they need that constant presence. If she would like to advance her career I'd be perfectly fine with being the one to stay at home. I just don't want my child to grow up without a parent there with them.

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      Wow you're so edgy and brave I envy you

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        I really hope you aren't a man because that is the most effeminate response you could have come up with. Next you'll tell me I'm edgy because I don't wear a cock cage with a frilly dress.

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      More pathetic is a man who is constantly bitter about his wife and complaining about her

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        That man was the type of guy who fell for all those memes and is now bitter because he learnt the hard way.

        • 2 days ago
          Anonymous

          Usually they seem like the types who just go through the motions of what you're supposed to do. They rush it all and get married too young. They think that this is as good as it'll ever get. Men like this rarely have a "romantic" phase. They're too entrenched in being manly for that. Hell, they think expressing affection to his wife beyond sex is gay in the first place

          • 2 days ago
            Anonymous

            They're usually taught by their mothers that "you will find the perfect woman one day son!" and then they go through the motions like you said. They fall head over heels for the first woman who is interested in them, and decide this is fate, and then rush into it.

            • 2 days ago
              Anonymous

              That's not about believing in love, that's about being a poor judge of character and having zero self-insight

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                It's both.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                If love doesn't exist do you think relationships in general are doomed and worthless?

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                If love doesn't exist do you think relationships in general are doomed and worthless?

                I didn't say that "love doesn't exist", I said that "TRUE LOVE" doesn't exist.

          • 2 days ago
            Anonymous

            >Hell, they think expressing affection to his wife beyond sex is gay in the first place
            stop it stop it stop it
            I already have gotten a really bad impression of men in the few weeks I've been here
            I don't want to find out there's guys like that as well

            • 2 days ago
              Anonymous

              It's particularly a boomer thing but some younger guys have it too. It's less common in current generations than it used to be.

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      One who feels the need to drag others down to his level

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        (you)

        ATOGA really is simp central huh? "Men" brought up with overbearing mothers. YIKES.

        • 2 days ago
          Anonymous

          >"Men" brought up with overbearing mothers
          Try again, I grew up without one. Did your first gf just dump you?

          • 2 days ago
            Anonymous

            You literally believe in shit for teenage girls. You are feminized.

            • 2 days ago
              Anonymous

              >feminized
              lmao I wish you could say that to my face

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      (you)

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      Can you clarify what you mean by "soul mates", "the one", and "true love"? Some people have more or less extreme definitions. What do you find pathetic about it? What should men do instead? What advice do you have for a guy hung up on this?

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        >What do you find pathetic about it?
        It's the kind of thing, decades ago, only teenage girls took seriously. It shows how feminized boys have become that they grow up taking it seriously now.
        >What should men do instead? What advice do you have for a guy hung up on this?
        Realize that it's not real and that love is something you build and maintain. There is not a "twin flame" waiting out there for fate to bring you together, humans are much more flawed and selfish that you realize. Also learn to stop letting tingly feelings cloud your judgement.

        • 2 days ago
          Anonymous

          How come your ideas are facts, but ones you don't like are "tingly feelings"? Neither can be proven.

          • 2 days ago
            Anonymous

            >How come your ideas are facts, but ones you don't like are "tingly feelings"?
            I'm talking about how many idiots get into a relationship and allow
            >she makes me feel good
            to lead them to stupid decisions
            I wasn't making a claim about epistemology, not was I claiming that I am on the side of "facts".

            • 2 days ago
              Anonymous

              Oh, ok. Into the pile of opinionated loudmouths you go, then.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                awww baby too scared to accept that life isn't a fairy tale? go get pegged sissy boy

        • 2 days ago
          Anonymous

          In what ways do you see guys expressing this belief? What age group? What are the wrong actions to take? I assume the right actions are the build & maintain thing you mentioned. What does that look like?

          • 2 days ago
            Anonymous

            >In what ways do you see guys expressing this belief?
            You can see it here all the time for one, but it happens in teenage boys and young men the most.
            >What are the wrong actions to take?
            Simping is the most extreme one, rushing into a marriage or a job or some life circumstance, neglecting yourself and changing yourself because she makes him feel good.
            >What does that look like?
            First, men should focus on building themselves up. Maintain firm boundaries and do not let women be the main focus of your life. Discard the idea of oneitis and "I can't live without her". That doesn't mean just sleep around and don't give a fuck about women, but that love takes effort.

            • 2 days ago
              Anonymous

              >You can see it here all the time for one
              I've always seen people giving those guys a hard time. That's why the words simp, oneitis, cuck are all negative

              >First, men should focus on building themselves up.
              Sounds reasonable

              >Maintain firm boundaries and do not let women be the main focus of your life.
              What are some major boundary failures you often see?

              >but that love takes effort.
              What do you do?

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                >What are some major boundary failures you often see?
                Continually making concessions over a long period of time. The "man cave" really is the pinnacle of this. It says "my wife owns the whole house and I get to have one night to myself a week".

                >What do you do?
                All of the shit you normally do in a relationship. Don't get fat, lazy or stop working on yourself like so many married or LTR people do. Keep the passion alive.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                >All of the shit you normally do in a relationship.
                What if I'm a retard and don't know what those things are

                >Don't get fat, lazy or stop working on yourself like so many married or LTR people do
                Thanks, yeah. I try to be mindful of that

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      Cynics who want to bully strangers online into feeling as miserable as they do

  93. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    Women do you actually like sex scenes in movies? I as a male seem disgusted by the exploitation and I'm nowhere close to being a feminist simp

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      >I as a male seem disgusted by the exploitation
      u wat bro. You know they're not actually fucking right?

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        Usually it's young women who are trying to get some kind of acting gig so they get their tits out
        Can't imagine that was the goal when wanting to be an actress

        • 2 days ago
          Anonymous

          In the majority of sex scenes there's no tits out.
          I highly doubt willingness to get your tits out for a movie is a deciding factor in any respectable movie

          Maybe stop watching absolute dogshit

          • 2 days ago
            Anonymous

            >In the majority of sex scenes there's no tits out.
            Do you define sex scenes as just kissing?

            >Maybe stop watching absolute dogshit
            I do but people demand it for some reason
            I've never watched more than a like 5 minutes of Game of Thrones

            • 2 days ago
              Anonymous

              >Do you define sex scenes as just kissing?
              don't act like the majority of scenes don't have her still wearing a bra, covered with sheets or at an angle where you can't see shit & the guy is on top

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                Only on network television

        • 2 days ago
          Anonymous

          I've never seen the source for that
          It's unverifiable

          [...]
          Well as I said [...] plus 99% of nudity in media is just to get coomers to watch it

          So what you don't like is the actress being manipulated/coerced into something she doesn't want to do?

          • 2 days ago
            Anonymous

            No it's mostly because sex and nudity is almost always in poor taste
            Given that fact plus the fact it's mostly done to appeal to coomers plus the fact most of the tits you see are from young desperate actresses creates the disgust

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      Exploitation? I don't know what you mean by that. It's usually awkward if I'm with anyone else, since it's an intimate activity and it feels inappropriate to watch with others.

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      I don't have the graph, but there was a survey that showed women (of all ages) were more likely to watch something if it had depicted sex scenes than men were

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        I'd imagine because women watch more romance. If people are having sex it means that even if the overall genre isn't romance, it's in a subplot.

        • 2 days ago
          Anonymous

          This is the only reason that makes sense to me. Sex scenes are uncomfortable in movies for almost everyone. Even watching with your SO, it's like the vibe isn't supposed to be horny. You're just chilling watching and movie and then it's an awkward sex scene that kills the vibe

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        I've never seen the source for that
        It's unverifiable

        Exploitation? I don't know what you mean by that. It's usually awkward if I'm with anyone else, since it's an intimate activity and it feels inappropriate to watch with others.

        Well as I said

        >I as a male seem disgusted by the exploitation
        u wat bro. You know they're not actually fucking right?

        plus 99% of nudity in media is just to get coomers to watch it

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      No, I'd rather watch a gory murder scene

  94. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    Just bought a yam and acted like it's a potato so I tried to make it into french fries, what am I in for?

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      isn't that how you make sweet potato fries?

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        I don't know, I'm in Eastern Europe and we don't eat that I just saw it in the supermarket. What am I in for? It's already in my pan.

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        N...No, those are made with sweet potatoes...

        • 2 days ago
          Anonymous

          What's the difference? I've bought both and they taste the same. But I've only had orange yams, not white.

          • 2 days ago
            Anonymous

            The difference is that a sweet potato is a sweet potato, but I yam what I yam.

          • 2 days ago
            Anonymous

            The terms are often used interchangeably, so I honestly don't know the difference lol

            I cut them like potatoes and I'm frying them in the pan with oil.
            [...]
            Pic rel is what I bought, was I scammed?

            That looks like yams to me

            • 2 days ago
              Anonymous

              [...]
              Looks the same as the sweet potatoes in my cupboard

              How are you making them? Do you have a deep frier? When I've done them oven style, they're soft and break easy so you'll need to eat them with a fork but still delicious

              Damn, you guys weren't joking about "sweet". What do you eat these fries with, just salt? Too sweet for mayonnaise I think.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                Balsamic vinegar

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                Have you never had sweet potatoes at all? Yeah I love em enough that salt is usually plenty. But I'll throw whatever spices I have at them. Paprika is a common one I do. Onion and/or garlic is great as well. Ketchup would work I guess but I don't keep any, it doesn't really interest me. Mayo would be fine idk why you don't think it'd work. I've never dipped my fries straight into mayo though. I'll use it as a sauce bads

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                No, first time. I don't have anything but spicy red pepper, I will drink beer.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                Spicy red pepper would be great

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      How are you making them? Do you have a deep frier? When I've done them oven style, they're soft and break easy so you'll need to eat them with a fork but still delicious

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        I cut them like potatoes and I'm frying them in the pan with oil.

        N...No, those are made with sweet potatoes...

        Pic rel is what I bought, was I scammed?

        • 2 days ago
          Anonymous

          The terms are often used interchangeably, so I honestly don't know the difference lol

          [...]
          That looks like yams to me

          Looks the same as the sweet potatoes in my cupboard

  95. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    >What’s wrong with women masturbating? Don’t you want them to be horny? It’s healthy.

  96. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    Wait, yams and sweet potatoes aren't the same thing?

  97. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    Should I just open my text to a girl with asking her if she wants to go to the movies this weekend (we talked about movies when we met and she said she was looking to go), or should I do the needful and open with some smalltalk first? It feels like it'd be a waste of time but maybe I'm just a utility texter who prefers talking about stuff in-person.

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      How familiar are you with her?
      Movies tend to be pretty bad first dates unless it's paired with something afterwards because it doesn't really let you get to know eachother. More suited for a few dates in

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        Nta yeah don't take the poor girl to a big dark room where you can't talk right after meeting.

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        >we talked about movies when we met
        Tell us more about when you met

        My plan was to take her to the movies and then get shakes afterwards.

        >we talked about movies when we met
        Tell us more about when you met

        We met last weekend on a uni trip to the state's capital. She's studying abroad from Japan. We walked around the city together a bunch and chatted a lot on the bus. She likes movies and she likes animated stuff (Disney and Ghibli) so I thought I'd take her to see Puss in Boots. I'll see her again in 2 weeks for a winter retreat trip though.

        • 2 days ago
          Anonymous

          >My plan was to take her to the movies and then get shakes afterwards.
          It could work but I think it only works if you're both REALLY into the movie

        • 2 days ago
          Anonymous

          Since you already have spent time with her a movie sounds good. You've done the correct thing to go out for something afterwards too. Since you're probably going to a matinee, prepare yourself for a bunch of kids in the audience.

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      >we talked about movies when we met
      Tell us more about when you met

  98. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    Is it weird if a man:
    >Doesn't care for size difference in a relationship
    >Doesn't like when women are childish and cutesy and the man has to play daddy
    Because this feels more normal than not.
    I don't like when women play dumb or incompetent or want to 'play' on my protective instincts or whatever.

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      Depends on what you want instead

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        A woman who is mature, responsible and adult.

        • 2 days ago
          Anonymous

          Okay I asked since sometimes guys who say what you said go the other extreme and want a mommy gf

          • 2 days ago
            Anonymous

            I had an inkling you were getting at that. Why?

            • 2 days ago
              Anonymous

              What do you mean, why?

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                Do you have a bad experience with mommy dudes or somethin?

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                Yes, on adv

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                Why assume all people with a kink are the same though?

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                If you ended up wanting a mommy gg I would ask further questions to determine if you were an annoying one or not.
                The annoying ones are annoying in the same way that the girls you originally mentioned are.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                I mean it's pretty obvious most women won't be into the mommy type because it's not the relationship they're looking for
                I don't see how this confuses you

                It's like asking a girl if she wants a little baby diaper boy just because she doesn't want her husband to be dominant in the relationship

  99. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    why does it seem like all the regular foids have bfs and all the regular moids are sad and single?

    >t.I spend too much time here

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      Because men are disposable.

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      A lot of the femanons at least say they're single
      I know this because I'm keeping track of them all in my little notebook to figure out where to move to to optimize my chances of an atoga gf

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      Because you ignore all the single foids and not-single moids. There's plenty of both.

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      Because it's easier for women to stop being alone

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      Only two, three including Sweet, have bfs.

  100. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    How can you even call a guy a yandere if you realize he's a yandere before it's too late
    That's just being clingy and weird

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      I swear yandere stopped having the meaning it used to with how much I see it pop up nowadays in seemingly innocuous settings

  101. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    you fuckers told me to socialize to get a gf
    well I socialized, where is my gf

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      How did you socialize

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        met some guy from uni for 2 hours

        • 2 days ago
          Anonymous

          Ask him out on a date but remember to say no homo
          Congrats on the bf anon

          • 2 days ago
            Anonymous

            but they are all taller than me so big chances I'll be the bottom

            • 2 days ago
              Anonymous

              everyone knows that's determined by dick sizes, not height, anon

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                Is it real? A lot of guy approached me but always assumed I'm a top and never understood why, because from look I would consider myself a bottom

            • 2 days ago
              Anonymous

              Thats where you belong

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                oh no

        • 2 days ago
          Anonymous

          did you get his number?

          Gym crush saw me using LULZ on phone between sets. It's over isn't it?

          Just tell him you go on LULZ
          what is he going to do, cry you look at too many half naked men on the internet?

          • 2 days ago
            Anonymous

            Yes I have their numbers

          • 2 days ago
            Anonymous

            >Just tell him you go on LULZ
            her*
            And when people find out I'm using this site always assume I'm some lunatic schizo

            • 2 days ago
              Anonymous

              >And when people find out I'm using this site always assume I'm some lunatic schizo
              Well yeah, this is the dark web hideout for cybercriminals who steal bitcoins and explode vans

            • 2 days ago
              Anonymous

              And you're not?

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                good question

                Just tell her you're bisexual & love looking at half naked dudes on the internet, like LULZ
                problem solved

                LULZ has plenty of normal boards but pol & b just give it a bad wrap, so if you can get the chance to talk about it (aka you're not a spast) you can make them realize you're not as much of a loser as she thinks (you still are one tho, imagine browsing LULZ at the gym H O L Y)

                I usually read between sets

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                >I usually read between sets
                read a book my african american
                don't do things you don't want to be seen doing in public. It's such a basic rule. I did not open LULZ a single time when I was at college

                I wonder if she even noticed what it was though, please tell me you were on a sfw board like adv at least & didn't scroll past a few dicks along the way

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                I was scrolling adv, and I meant reading book on my phone by reading

            • 2 days ago
              Anonymous

              Just tell her you're bisexual & love looking at half naked dudes on the internet, like LULZ
              problem solved

              LULZ has plenty of normal boards but pol & b just give it a bad wrap, so if you can get the chance to talk about it (aka you're not a spast) you can make them realize you're not as much of a loser as she thinks (you still are one tho, imagine browsing LULZ at the gym H O L Y)

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                >imagine browsing LULZ at the gym H O L Y
                Have to keep refreshing the thread to check for new (You)s. I wouldn't want to miss any-- would you???

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                this I'm such a (You) homosexual

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                this I'm such a (You) homosexual

                We have both male and female posters who browse /atoga/ while naked. Use that knowledge as you wish.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                Is this true? Are there any naked femanon rn?

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                I only browse atoga in my panties if that counts

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                Even better

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                Aren't you cold, ma'am? I can see your nipples going all pointy.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                I never feel better than when in the cold to be honest

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                Horrifying. You could be joining me under the covers right now. Instead I'll have to keep myself warm alone. 🙁

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                how are you not fucking FREEZING
                also why would you sit around in panties instead of comfy pajama pants in the first place.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                What would atoga be doing in your panties?

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                Where else would it be?

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                Not my problem. I'm only interested in women who wear clothing. It's too cold to be naked.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                >check atoga before I turn off light in bed & check atoga right after I wake up
                I guess I don't get to talk but still

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                I know that feel. There are some legitimately interesting people in this thread who aren't in the same time zone as me, and I'm liable to get a (You) at a time that's not convenient for me.

  102. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    Gym crush saw me using LULZ on phone between sets. It's over isn't it?

  103. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    So I had a bit of a shitty night with my class. We were doing a meet up at a bar and I came in late. My friends were sitting near my ex gf. The only free seat was literally right next to her. I sat down and said hi to her. She acted like she didn't know me and picked up her bag and went to another table. It hurt me really bad and ruined my night.
    After our breakup she said she wanted to be friends and I waited a couple of weeks to give distance an messaged her like a friend asking how she was doing and to show I felt no ill will towards her. We messaged each other back and forth for like a week and then I thought I did my job and we stopped.
    I want to give her the benefit of the doubt and suggest she was just going to talk to other people but the fact it was immediately when I got there... idk
    Did I do something wrong? I feel like shit

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      Maybe one of her friends convinced her that you're human scum and not worth talking to

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        Her best friend was fine talking to me though. She stayed at the table I was at and everything

        • 2 days ago
          Anonymous

          I, uh... hmm. I dunno then. Maybe she was just in a bad mood. You know how women can be. I'm sure it's nothing you did.

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      Everyone says "let's be friends" after a break up. It just means "I don't plan to be actively hostile to you." It doesn't mean she actually wants to spend time with you. It would be best to avoid her. Especially in a bar where she might get the chance to meet new guys, and her ex right there is awkward

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        I mean I'm perfectly fine with not spending time with her but I thought we could at least acknowledge each other in a "hello [name] sense" yknow

        • 2 days ago
          Anonymous

          Well looks like she's not, sorry Anon. If you get put in this position again, give her a quick hi and then turn to greet one of your other friends. You can also just stand behind your other friends in a lot of bar settings. How long exactly has it been since the break up?

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      >After our breakup she said she wanted to be friends
      I mean... What is she supposed to say "I hope we never meet again"? "I want to be enemies"?
      Very few relationships end & turn into actual friendships, though apparently for lesbians it's common?

      But why the fuck were your friends sitting with your ex and why the fuck did not a single one of them make a spot so you didn't have to sit next to your ex
      What fucking retards are you friends with

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        tbh i wasn't really expecting to see her tonight as she never really went out to these class meetups and I dunno why my friends sat with her.

        Well looks like she's not, sorry Anon. If you get put in this position again, give her a quick hi and then turn to greet one of your other friends. You can also just stand behind your other friends in a lot of bar settings. How long exactly has it been since the break up?

        See I was just trying to say hello just to be polite and then just talk to my friends and other classmates. We broke up in the start of November. I just dunno why I'm so upset, by all accounts I shouldn't be.

        • 2 days ago
          Anonymous

          Maybe she was taken off guard and felt nervous and awkward and just froze up?

          • 2 days ago
            Anonymous

            >Maybe she was taken off guard and felt nervous and awkward and just froze up?
            Maybe its this. I suppose I did appear out of nowhere as her back was turned to me when I came over and sat down

            you handled it well you shouldn’t be embarrassed. she is definitely embarrassed about it now and she should be honestly.

            its not embarrassment that Im feeling. I think I still have feelings for her and to have her do this just hurt me a lot. Like our relationship meant fuck all to her. I dont think she was embarrassed as she seemed happy to be talking to her other friends whenever I glanced in her direction.
            Maybe its just me being drunk thats making me dwell on it

            • 2 days ago
              Anonymous

              >as she seemed happy to be talking to her other friends
              What would she look like if she was embarrassed?

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                Yeah youre right i dont know what I was thinking when I wrote that.
                I shouldn't be letting her live in my head after this night

        • 2 days ago
          Anonymous

          you handled it well you shouldn’t be embarrassed. she is definitely embarrassed about it now and she should be honestly.

  104. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    Do you wear condoms in a relationship?

    Would you take bc for men if it meant your gf doesn't have to suffer?

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      No we’ll just have kids

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        You gonna have kids every year? What if she decides against that? After all she does all the work. Guess you are mormon.

        • 2 days ago
          Anonymous

          She wants lots of kids already, she says 10, idk if we’ll have that many though.

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      >Do you wear condoms in a relationship?
      khhv
      >Would you take bc for men if it meant your gf doesn't have to suffer?
      I'd prefer if neither of us has to use that shit. If we have to engage in other ways to get off, I'm willing to.

  105. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    it makes me sad that men really don't care about marriage anymore, very happy to have a bf that wants to be married

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      Bait Hours are over, this is Legitimate Discussion Time.

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        not interested in bait, it's common knowledge that men are done with marriage, truly sad but it is what it is, just showing appreciation for the man i have that does that

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      Is it a surprise? If the relationship goes bad, it is legally a death sentence for the man.

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      Honestly I don't feel like it would add anything plus to our relationship

  106. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    Why do people constantly judge me and assume me as some fragile useless child, when I hustle they are surprised I managed to do anything on my own yet expect me to because I am not a child yet still treat me like one and want to do things for me? It doesn't make any sense. People think I am an actual bunny, a cute fluffy empty headed bunny who doesn't care about anything. Does this mean I'm just too cute to be taken seriously?

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      Not sure if I read this correctly but
      I think success in women, like REAL success, is emasculating to a lot of men because they're raised with the idea that men run the world yada yada yada. When women are successful, men will look for excuses as to why that is "oh she just got it because she's pretty" or "I bet she's sleeping with the boss". But when you make it on your own it's hard to find any argument like that, so all that's left is surprise at the fact you got "lucky"

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      Are you short and thin?

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        Yes thin but not short I am the average height of women 166cm (5'5)

        • 2 days ago
          Anonymous

          Usually hear this from small woman who are not really look adult. Guess you can't really do against it but learn to live with it.

  107. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    why are the moids here so smarmy?

  108. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    State gender
    Have you ever been bullied?
    And if yes are you still angry because of it?

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      F
      Yes
      More like angry at myself for letting such warms bully me. Not angry at them, they are not worth it snd do not exist in my life anymore.

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        M
        Yes
        No

        Asking this only because I used to be a bully in elementary school back then. And now happen to meet sometimes with the kid (now man) who were mainly bullied, and turns out his life wasn't turned out great, like he goes to psychiatrist and other shit. Would there be any point in talking with him about it?

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      M
      Yes
      No

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      m
      yes, A LOT
      no, I'm more angry that I let myself bully others.

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      F
      >Have you ever been bullied?
      of course
      >And if yes are you still angry because of it?
      No it's whatever, still a bit traumatized from childhood abuse but that's something beyond bullying that lives in your subconscious

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