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Women would Pokémon still be number 1 if the games didn't remove so much content over the years including the freaking Pokémon?
Yawn
Maybe? It is annoying that they keep adding new features, then dropping them and never touching them again. And I thought the whole point of adding new Pokémon each generation was to have a huge variety to catch, not a small subset.
It’s not a turnoff, just something to consider if we get together.
F. Giga cringe.
>It is annoying that they keep adding new features, then dropping them and never touching them again
do they still have the berry bushes you can plant?
I haven't played one in ages
I don't think so :/
Are you saying Ruby & Sapphire aren't the new pokemon games anymore
I mean, they might be again when they get re-re-released
>21 years ago
aint no way
AINT NO FUCKING WAY
>21 years ago
I have a clear memory of the kid next door showing me the new Pokemon game, Silver.
Then waking up for school some time later and seeing an ad on a CRT TV about the awesome new Pokemon, Ruby. Then the internet was crazy about how bad Pokemon got with Diamond, half the kids grew out but we were entering our teens already anyway. Then smartphones popped up, and we could play Emerald on our phones. Then I was sitting in the middle of nowhere with a gun, playing Emerald on my phone to pass time. Growing old hurts in a sweet way.
Women if a guy you were interested in was 24 and had never been in a relationship before and was a virgin how much of a turn off is that?
Sounds perfect to me
why
Not for me. Would want someone with roughly similar experience
For anyone to answer, but please state gender.
What do you think of terms like "game", "rizz", "pull", or "play" used in the context of dating?
F
Words fail to express how retarded it truly is.
Men, what kind of girlfriend would appeal to you the most and why?
Imagine they all love and respect you exactly the same. From left to right:
1. She is taller than you
2. She is your height (give or take 1-2 inches)
3. She is noticeably smaller than you
Bonus: Please state how tall you are and if you would describe yourself as dominant, submissive or neutral in a relationship.
5'5 neutral, I have no height preference as long as it's not extreme. If I had to choose I would pick 2.
M
I'd pick taller
3>1>2
6'6
neutral or soft switch
They all have identical appeal to me.
My oneitis is taller than me.
The last girl I crushed on was a full head shorter than me.
And when I envision a girl in my imagination, I envision her at my height so I can look her in the eyes.
I will never care about height as much as women do.
I am neutral with some submissive tendencies but not enough for femdom.
My height or smaller. Could be open to taller. 6ft3. Neutral to dominant.
I’d want her to be around my height
I’m 6’1
Tbh the perfect height would be her forehead reaches where my lips are so I can give her forehead kisses easily.
Are you handsome too? So far you sound hot.
male pickme
3 smaller
6'2
neutral-dominant
Oh and I’m dominant but fine with switching roles.
im 5'9 in nordic country and like girls who are tall like similar height to mine or even taller
why do you ask?
>why do you ask?
Demoralization fuel for short women who are more than three inches shorter than their boyfriends.
your pic and the question usually just shits on short guys and not women ...
That picture cuts both ways. If a girl is more than three inches shorter than her boyfriend, then her boyfriend is disappointed with her body and wishes she were taller. Heightism hurts everyone.
one reason i want a taller girl is bc ive already had a small one and im small myself so it would balance me out, idk why any tall guy would want a tall girl they will only create giants
F, 2. 1 is logistic nightmare in bed. Same goes for 3 to lesser extent but I'm not that tall so a guy significantly shorter than me would most likely have some genetic issues.
Oops got 1 and 3 mixed up. Meant to say too tall is a logistic nightmare. Too short relative to me is likely a birth defect.
>Meant to say too tall is a logistic nightmare.
Is sex the easiest and most comfortable when both people are the same height or close?
>t. virgin
Yeah, most positions work best when you're relatively similar in height. The only people I know who are obsessed with tall guys are either virgins or mentally unstable/have weird size fetish. Also it's easier to talk to people your own height. I hated having to crane my neck to talk to one of my exes who was a good head taller than me.
How tall are you and what height would your ideal bf be?
I'm 5'3". Ideally 5'6" so I can still wear heels without catching flack for it, but anywhere from 5'0" to 5'6" is good. 5'7" is probably the max before I start losing attraction. Anything above that is a literal pain in the neck. Pretty sure below 5'0" is like dwarfism so uh not my cup of tea either.
im calling bullshit that you wouldnt date someone 5'8+
did a tall guy traumatize you?
I have dated guys that tall and taller. Like I said it was a pain having to look up to talk to them and I always found any physical intimacy was like playing twister.
i mean im short dude myself, i just say it bc this feels similar as tall girls saying they need a tall guy
with some imaginations im pretty sure ever height can find solutions to sex
a tall guy can easily grab you up and fuck you in the air or you can just sit on the meat mountain of him
etc
You're fascinating.
Usually small women are OBSESSED with super tall men, even more so than taller women.
Haha thanks I guess? Usually those women are projecting (see mentally unwell) or virgins. I have lots of examples in my own friend group and when they whine about it, I just eyeroll. The ones in happy long term relationships are the ones who care as much and most of their bfs are close to their height. I honestly think the average woman does not care but there's a lot of confirmation bias in online communities.
>sually those women are projecting (see mentally unwell)
the problem is this is most women nowadays, as a young short guy its really not easy to get demoralized by this bc its literally trendy to just be this tall or the girl feels like she hasn accomplished her mental checkmark
I think you might just be looking for or seeing a lot of confirmation biases especially if you're online a lot. I haven't seen much of this among my friends esp those who are dateable. Unfortunately physical trends are always gonna be a thing but not everyone follows them. Being curvy and having big boobs was the trend for me growing up and still is. I am neither of those so I grew up feeling really shitty about myself until I started dating and realized most guys didn't care and there were a lot of guys who preferred the opposite. I guess what I'm trying to say is I get where you're coming from but don't get too hung up on it. Being hung up on your insecurities is way more off putting than actually having those features you're insecure about.
ii like myself a lot actually, i think i look way cooler than other taller dudes, as im a pretty twink with cool athletic body and pretty face, i just feel underappreciated.
Well you honestly sound just like my type haha. Hope you find someone to appreciate you.
honestly think i look really good but get constantly rejected
Where are you located? Maybe it has to do with the demographics/culture around you.
white country
but i mean im not mini and if anything i should be more interesting since nearly everyone here is tall
>white country
Are you not white?
i am would post pic but not fond of getting memed
Oh then idk
Bring short doesn’t make exotic just like having a 3rd nipple as a guy doesn’t
That's fair but now I'm so curious.
Are you a minority? If everyone else is tall like you said, maybe it's just the cultural taste is skewed in a participant direction.
no im not im literally white and blonde lol, im not tiny either im just not a huge ogre like many here are. im pretty twink maxxed
>im literally white and blonde
There was a 5’6 Norwegian poster with super long blond hair here who was a total fuck boy and they are tall as fuck over there.
You sound very much unlike all the women near me. Where are you from?
Canada.
Yeah I mean some weird niche positions become available but a lot of normal positions are off the table. Like we could never 69 or kiss in missionary. I don't wanna look at someone's chest the whole time. I might as well put on Netflix at that point.
>Canada
So close and yet so far. You seem like a nice person, so I hope you find what you're looking for.
Thanks, haha. Hope you do too anon.
Based.
Now I'm all mixed up. Who's reaching from the high shelves at the supermarket and who's carrying the baby?
Whoever is taller, otherwise just don't be so awkward and get a customer service person? I mean I shop alone most of the time and I'm like 5'3" and have no issues with it. And you can take turns carrying the baby. I find most women despite being weaker overall carry weight when using their hips more comfortably than men.
>And you can take turns carrying the baby.
Mpreggers, we're back in the game.
I'm a sexual sadist (and I mean that in a literal way) so I've never really thought about height at all. I guess I'd prefer a smaller petite girl or same height, taller would be difficult to work with but I've never been in that situtation so I don't know. I'm about 5'9 and I'd say I'm pretty aggressive and mean spirited in a sexual relationship, in a romantic one (and I try not to mix the two) I'm pretty neutral.
Your sadism and sexual power becomes neutral and chill when you love the person?
Funny how that works right? It's difficult being in a loving relationship while fantasizing about violently raping her (or worse). I still think about it from time to time, but try to just suppress it or find an outlet (usually cheating or porn). When it comes to romance I like to be with girls who aren't super sexual or anything and I'll go vanilla for them and them only. I try not to mix love and sex too much, as weird as that sounds.
It does sound weird. I'm glad my boyfriend is very romantic and sensitive but also can become a sadistic beast for sex.
>sadistic beast for sex.
Elaborate
He is very gentle, sensitive and loving day-to-day. But sexually he acts more like a predator, someone who devours me, pins me down, enjoys inflicting pain and putting restraints on me. But I'm a huge bottom and also masochist, so he is feeding on my horny and joy. He's just perfect.
Have other guys also caused you sexual pain?
I was a virgin before he became my boyfriend. Because I'm a bottom I really enjoy that, to be just owned (in a sexual sense) by one man and one man only forever. In a way I find it less dominant if a man has sex with a girl that other men already had their fun with, so it would ruin my fantasy a bit.
He actually was a virgin too but he's very gifted concerning his sexual skills. Some people are probably born talented?
>the only way to get a virgin girl as a virgin is to be a sadist
It's so fucking over
He is only sadistic sexually and mostly because gets pleasure from the fact that I get turned on by it. Outside of that, he is extremely kind and nice. In over 5 years he has not raised his voice or ever insulted me or hurt me even when I was acting crazy or mean because of some mental health and health issues I went through at times.
I meant in the sexual sense
The most dominant fantasy I have is neck kissing, shut your stupid fucking mouth, it's fucking over for me
I guess you're right, it's over for you.
You say that but you don't realize you actually mean it
>The most dominant fantasy I have is neck kissing
Holy shit imagine being this much of a beta
>imagine being this much of a beta
How about I shove a hot iron in your ass homosexual, stop worrying about the sexual fantasies of other men
Holy hell, when did /atoga/ grow a proper spine?
I'm not doing it for sexual pleasure I'm doing it for emotional pleasure
Does he slap your face in bed?
Yes he slaps my face but that doesn't mean all women enjoy it we communicated a lot before we ever even had sex
>we communicated a lot before we ever even had sex
how do you even bring this shit up before having regular sex for the first time
Does he call you his whore?
Femanon pls spare me i was doing so good
Sorry!
Why do femanons always seem to have the perfect bf?
Never gonna live up to that standard
Why can you not live up to that? Perhaps not the sexual part (if it is not what you truly enjoy) but the other qualities you can work on such as being loving, great at communication and such.
I'm an autist
It's not within our capabilities
Perhaps try to find a girl who is also autistic or on the spectrum? Or maybe a MTF transwoman? I know most people aren't into that, but these kind of people are often autistic.
I wonder how that works actually. I could never imagine being in a loving relationship with a woman and sharing my sexuality with her. I try my best not to mix the two.
In the psychiatric sense. I can only really get erect/orgasm when it involves seeing someone/something hurting. Gender, race, hell even species and age don't really matter to me. I have pretty common rape and dismemberment fantasies, decapitation fantasies, hanging someone while jerking off etc. Thankfully, I get therapy to manage it.
Was it something you developed as a teen or adult, or something you were aware of since childhood? It must be difficult to deal with, I'm glad you find therapy helpful.
I can't say for sure. I felt it come on as a teen. I was molested by a teacher during my early teen years and a few years after I had violent fantasies of fucking other boys. One time, I remember a bunch of school kids secretly watching slasher films and freaking out at a kill scene but I got erect and after that vanilla porn just didn't work. That really freaked me out and I had really bad feelings of guilt and shame. Even with professional help, I really wish I wasn't this way.
>I had violent fantasies of fucking other boys.
Gay
I'm sorry that happened, anon, sincerely. I can only imagine how difficult it must be to deal with all that, but it sounds like you're doing a good job managing it.
NTA but in what ways are you sexually sadistic? Have you ever been in a relationship with a masochist girl?
2, being the same size helps with physical comparability. Hand holding is easy with both having theirs hands hanging lose, eye level is same.
Similar height is optimal for romance.
Taller is more fun to have sex with in nearly every way, ESPECIALLY if she is more submissive.
Shorter I struggle to take seriously at face value.
I am 178 cm
>Taller is more fun to have sex with in nearly every way
Are you sure? Another anon said sex with people who are a lot taller or smaller than you is a logistic nightmare.
I think all sizes are great in their own ways. But if I had to pick, I'd go smaller.
>how tall you are
5'10".
>if you would describe yourself as dominant, submissive or neutral
Submissive.
you want to get subbed by a smaller female? lol makes you laugh imagining a small female in a leather costume wipping you with a leash kek bad anon bad
Yes, laugh, that's definitely what it makes me do. Definitely.
2>>>>>3>1
I'm 182 cm tall
Dominant-neutral
My ideal would be for her to be as tall as I am since I love tall women, and being smaller than her would bother me.
I'd prefer she was noticeably smaller. I'm 5'7" and I know there are 5'0" - 5'3" women out there, HIT ME UP.
I am dominant in bed but neutral outside of it.
Isn't sex very difficult if she is 5'0 and you are 5'7?
how does height even matter in doggie
It still matters how aligned ur bodies are
M 180cm
About the same is better
I prefer them to be diligent too
Having sex with girls under 160cm kill my back. Even worse when they are weak lazy cunts and I have to do all the work
Noticeably smaller please. I’m 5’9
I just love hugging girls and wrapping them in my embrace
1 or 2 honestly
simply because 3 is overrated
5'10, dominant to neutral
not married females what's your excuse for not being virgins?
I‘m a slut
ew
It gets worse
Eh, that makes it not as bad, at least she's moved on from her slut phase
I still wouldn't want her so I'm glad she found someone who's accepting of that
It‘s the other way around and i‘m moving on from trying to play a good girl when i‘m a slut by nature.
>married & wanting to become a slut
AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA YOU'RE EVEN WORSE THAN I IMAGINED
Terribly sorry
But you got it all wrong, i‘ve always been a slut, j just didn‘t accept it and tried ti larp as a decent girl. I‘m not becoming anything, i‘m just stopping the fucking circus.
can't you just be slutty with your man?
I tried and it worked for about 3 years but sluts just aren‘t meant to be held captive. It‘s not their natural habitat and they‘ll die eventually.
sad but understandable I guess
hope you find some dudes into it to have a fun time with
Thank you anon. I hope that not all women are like me and there is one for you that actually will stay till death does you apart.
Oh wait i forgot i‘m actually still married
still a foreveralone virgin
I am not married and I am a virgin.
Ladies, general thoughts on guys who work from home who do the cooking and cleaning?
Normal
My bro works from home. Doesn't do either. Not a good sign for a male.
Men how many of you have never received affection from a woman?
Women how many of you have never received affection from a man?
I have never received affection from women
>Men how many of you have never received affection from a woman?
Never. but I've never put any attempt into trying to get it.
I receive a lot of affection from women and when I get no I become very frustrated and this usually ruins my approaches
btw anybody knows how to deal with this? Literally when I feel like some girl ignores me or rather talk or dance with someone else I get extremely nervous and come off as some retard
Which online vidya games have the highest amount of female players?
candy crush, minecraft
All the "I'm not like the other girls" girls play shooters.
valorant has an absurd amount
other than that, more casual social games are pretty likely, like animal crossing or minecraft. Probably wow too
>Probably wow too
Every girl on wow is married
FFXIV
>ffxiv
Yes, there's a lot of catgirls, but how many are actually played by women?
M
I would probably make a catgirl if I played it. So likely not many.
ohh my goodness gracious here we go
i play a catgirl, hooha and badonkers intact... i know plenty of girls who play too, a lot of them being my friends and streamer girls always play catgirls
you know, even a lot of male chars are girls too right..?
i've met plenty of other girls from league, they're REALLY easy to pick out you know....? we're very stereotypical... we all play mage support or toxic ahri/katarinas
>hooha and badonkers intact
Would you say you have ginormous badonkers?
She sounds tiny and flat to me
>tiny
yes, unfortunately
>flat
god i wish!
Ok, ginormous badonkers confirmed then
You have vaulted to the top of the femanon tier list, congrats!
>i wish
Why do titcows never appreciate what they have?
Not her, but if it makes you feel better, I absolutely love my boobs.
Sorry, no boob talk from biological women please, we're discussing trannies for the millionth time.
my back hurt friend
buying clothes really hard
i always look fat
bras are always ugly for us
everyone should appreciate their bodies though, i hope i will someday!
Yeah, and being short makes it worse. Every pretty dress I find that fits my bust also seems to assume I have supermodel height and huge hips :/
Oh my bad, please continue.
>Yeah, and being short makes it worse. Every pretty dress I find that fits my bust also seems to assume I have supermodel height and huge hips :/
YEAH it's the worst, like half the clothes i buy i just look like a shapeless blob because of how awful the clothing world is for bigger chested women or just unflattering
>Sorry, no boob talk from biological women please, we're discussing trannies for the millionth time.
i get a pass because i'm always called trans for playing xiv here
It's funny how men talk here about their life being a suffering while women's biggest problem is their clothes doesn't fit them perfectly
hmm? everyone in the world has their struggles, just because we're talking about clothes due to the topic of conversation doesn't mean we don't have other struggles
we're all human friend!
what serious struggles do girls have
>Sexually assaulted by a male family member at 8
>Groomed as a preteen by an older man, with a sprinkle of physical abuse
>Raped as an older teen by a man
>Forced out of highschool after a rumor circulated that I had an affair with one of the male teachers, had to get my GED
>Stalked for years by a former acquaintance, house broken into numerous times, constantly scared for my life. Police did nothing
>In college one of my professors sexually harassed me, felt as if my success in my program was held in his hands
>Constant discrimination in my male-dominated field of work
>General daily catcalling, constantly feel unsafe when alone in public
>Lack of research into health problems faced by exclusively women leads to struggles in seeking medical care
>Women's rights being stepped on and infringed upon by (male) tranny activists on a daily basis
Get over yourself. Everyone in this thread, even with all of our problems, live better lives than the majority of the world. You are so sheltered to think only your problems matter, and that only your life is hard
stop being a whore sleeping around your family and male teachers
Do women with BPD ever get tired of lying about how many times they've been raped and stalked?
>See women don't have problems, it's all lies
Okay schizo
>playing xiv
Wait, the plz play ff14 girl has giant tits?
The WoW girl does too
God yes
How do you know that?
isn’t it the tyedye girl?
Who?
Animal Crossing or Sims
ffxiv
valorant
league
someone said this other than me and it's so shocking.... omg... are people coming around to the fact that girls play mmos? finally....? am i free.....?
>league
No shot
I received a hickey on my deltoid, am I now considered personal property?
If a guy is so used to being alone are relationships difficult?
yes
It'll surely depend on the girl he gets with but in my personal experience there are some things that will seem unnecessary/weird but that actually do make sense. Like for example texting when you got somewhere safely
They can be.
Yes. Please report to your owner.
When will euthanasia laws become available to General public. I can't another 40 years of life
Women will say they don't all like dominant men and they aren't a monolith and then when it's time to talk about sexual fantasies it's all about being dominated and how masochistic they are
sue me
maybe admit all of you DO like dominant men and stop this myth of women with different tastes
every romance story aimed at women is essentially about the same guy
No, I won't admit it
fuck off brat I'm no tamer
The meaning of life is to play with each other
what's the point of fighting with you if I'm just gonna win every single time ever
all this extra effort
You can't win against me dummy
im your daddy you can never win
big words but as soon as I look at you like pic rel you will all be very sorry
Not them, but anime faces don't work on me because I don't care about anime.
Well I don't have one irl
admit it you wouldn't stand a cute girl crying
Yeah I guess I'd feel bad but that's a pretty lame fucking victory
for you
God damn just shut up and be submissive already I've fucking had it
You don't make the submission better you just make the process more annoying
I'm dominant in a different way, an emotionally manipulative way
please no
what i see your ass is gaping might aswell fill it
that's something that I would definitely wouldn't let anyone
sure
well its not like you get to decide
oups my bad
enjoy clawing you all around and biting and never talk to you ever again
sounds good
not really
yes it would be kewl id obviously only do it when youre already in exctasy from pussy penetration and then put it in your butt when your feelings arent in this world anymore so you wouldnt even realise. i can manipulate you better hehe
>I'm dominant
No, you're not
No woman is
>the only way for me to lose is if you cry
Wow this fight is so exciting
too bad for you as i know its just your act and you secretly want to be dommed so i would only penetrate you harder
You're a woman, you're born to lose
All I gotta do is show a little bit if my strength and your stupid masochistic ass will fold instantly
it's not a myth i'm a switch and love submissive guys but i have anxiety so i can't approach them much
>I'm a switch
yeah you're a bottom who gets mad sometimes
Lmao
even you agree
you don't like submissive or shy or virgin men so shut up
i don't think i really get mad actually and i don't really consider that being more dominant either, seems like more of a bratty sub thing
i've also mostly gone out with submissive men but i just don't approach them very well so it's a slow process. i definitely prefer them but i can't cold approach / ask people out easily so i have to keep trying to make plans with men who see a girl message them and ask them to hang out constantly and think "oh there's no way she likes me, we're just friends". more dominant men will sometimes just ask after a little while so it's easymode and i don't mind the other role hence switch.
Very incel’y here today
Women, how many of you are masochists?
I can be all the modes. Masochistic, sadistic and loving. Depends on my mood.
all of them
I always say I don't consider myself a masochist because I don't enjoy pain for the sake of pain. I probably do fit the definition though.
So I could slap you while having sex but you don't want it all the time?
I do love rough sex, but yeah not 100% of the time.
How do I apologize to my roommates for my poor behavior? I keep projecting my negativity and resentment onto them, and thus I'm making them uncomfortable and probably crossing some boundaries?
I've become really uncomfortable with my own behavior as well, and I think I owe them an apology. How should I go about that?
"Hey guys, I'm really sorry for how I've been acting lately. I'm really struggling with X and Y and I've realized I'm taking it out on you at home. I'll try to be better from now on and avoid doing W and Z"
Just keep it casual, like "I know I've been weird lately, sorry about that"
Even the smallest apology goes a long way
Women who DON'T want to be dominated, how would you like a man to treat you?
>Women who DON'T want to be dominated
anon talking to air right now
In the bedroom? I want him to be loving and passionate. No desire to hurt, no desire to humiliate me.
Almost never, we argued three or four times in 5 years.
Like a queen.
With a beheading?
Not a French queen!
Normal
i like praise and guys who are very vocal and eager / can clearly show that they're into what's happening
i also like rough sex but not necessarily in a dominating way if that makes any sense e.g. sitting on top while he's forced to thrust up or scratching / biting him / pulling his hair while he's going at it
but tbf i also don't mind getting dommed i think i just usually prefer not
How often do you argue with your bf/gf?
>porn sex is too rough and makes men believe women liked to be abused during sex
Also women
>please beat the shit out of me
women don't like it when men know what they like
Correct.
Only the boyfriend should know the truth, and only after he has earned the right to know the truth and demonstrated that he is trustworthy. All others should live in ignorance.
We know you all like to get choked, slapped, and manhandled in bed
Cry about it you stupid bitch
My friends invited me to go out tonight but I'm building a house in the sims.
>Trying to get him to unlearn all the stuff he's "learned" from porn is pretty fucking tedious
This is such a stupid take. There are certain things that are valid, like positions that are for camera angles not real sex. But the rest of it is just
>waaaa, I don't want to do the things men find hot, and I get to be the arbiter of what both genders want during sex! anything else is just porn brain washing!
"Men try to choke women without asking" is valid too.
>inb4 "all women like that"
Men need to learn about the first C of CNC.
Show me a woman who doesn't
Do YOU not like it? Oh wait, yes you fucking do.
That's fair. I hate it especially (as a guy) because I like touching the girl's neck, but not in like a choky way at all, and now a bunch of girls are super averse to it initially because they just assume the choke is coming because every guy does it now.
Why are you with girls who’ve been choked in the first place?
Because I have sex with non-virgins.
Why are you worrying about what another man does in his bedroom? Do you think about him a lot?
Yeah, it's a vicious cycle. But it can work to your advantage, since women are relieved when you act like a normal goddamn person
I’m going to give a woman a sense of security only to treat her like shit so she’s too invested to leave.
Women, do you check the weather for humidity to anticipate titty sweat? Guys do it to be ready for dick + balls sweat.
I'm too flat for this to be a problem.
You can support the other women by carrying their towels.
you still have sweat glands on your chest, which can cause embarrassing "transparent top" issues
Oh huh, I've never actually had that but I'm like cold 99% of the time.
Every girl knows not to wear a white top over a dark bra, anon.
>Guys do it to be ready for dick + balls sweat.
I’ve literally never checked a weather report in my life
I always anticipate dick and balls sweat.
I check the weather daily in general, so I suppose that includes sweat on all areas of my body, including my boobs, yes.
Not for titty sweat, for skin care
you do try to minimize sweat and sun exposure in general though, right? so if it's a hot and humid day, you might just stay indoors to keep your skin healthy and glowing
No I dress accordingly and apply skin care. I don’t let weather stop me from going outside unless it’s stormy
Good. Too many anons here (of both genders) just sit inside all day, soft and pale as the day they were born.
I guess. I recommend outside hobbies
girls, what does it feel like to desire a dick in you? what does your pussy feel like when you want someone to fuck you? and whats it like having this feeling in public? just saying
You feel distinctly "empty" and can feel your heartbeat throbbing down there. In public it's mostly just annoying, since I know it's not visible to anyone else. Unless they look closely at my nipples.
Why do small inconveniences ruin my entire day and put me in an extremely nasty mood?
Do we have two AI imageposters in the thread now?
Yup.
The hands being fucked up are less noticeable if it's an animation
Because you are probably at wit's end and have a ton of other unaddressed stressors in your life, so you stub your toe and then all the anger about how you shouldn't have dropped out of school or whatever manifests and you're like
>why did I just get so mad because I stubbed my toe?
Autism unironically
The hands... always the hands.
Please state gender. When you have a crush on someone, how often do you think about them?
Male. Every day. For years.
F. All day, every day.
If there's someone for everyone why are there more incels than femcels?
There's not someone for everyone
Only for women
Women are not aroused by nor do they respect shy or virgin men
Stop watching Wheat Waffles and go outside chud
>go outside
>women aren't aroused by shy or virgin men so I get nobody and die alone
WOAH
>if women aren't aroused at the sight of me, it's impossible to date one
...
I guess I'm a bad person for wanting my partner to respect and be attracted to me
>getting turned on by someone means you respect them
...........
Women don't get turned on by men they don't respect
Otherwise they'd have fetishes besides getting manhandled and choked and whatnot
Oh I see, the alternate reality /atoga/ is leaking again
It is reality
I'd like to see a woman who isn't like what I said
Men are more close-minded and refuse to consider women who might be "the one" for them.
bullshit
I have no source besides "I made it up" but I'm convinced the male to female birth rate is like 2:1 in humans and in olden days wars and dangerous jobs fixed it but now those are less common so a bunch of men are forever alone.
I go to any event be it brewery opening, football game, gym and the ratio is always 2:1 or more.
there's not someone for many people obviously, more men are born and women are picky
prove him wrong
>prove him wrong
Okay then. My 5’6 friend from Europe is autistic and introverted, spends all day in his room doing cool shit. He got in an LDR with a girl from America. She ended up flying over to meet him and they had sex. Dude is not a chad, “bad boy” or whatever by any means and got laid. The red/black pill is bullshit
and in exchange for your friend there are other thousand guys that won't get laid ever, much less have a long term gf, thus there is not someone for everyone
Yeah because they don’t bother to meet people or just work on their confidence. I used to share the same thoughts as you until I did a lot of reading that made me question those beliefs. Stop trying to throw a pity party and just focus on your academic/career goals, get involved in activities you’re interested in both online and in-person so you can meet people.
so you admit that there can't be someone for everybody
You get out what you put in. That’s what I’m saying. If you care about finding someone, then put the work in
but there can't be someone for everyone, not enough women exist for the numbers to work and there must be competition to get the available ones
>more competition to get available women
This is only true for around the age of 18-25, statistically.
However, looking at the statistics like this makes no sense because you have to account for gay men, aro ace men, etc. And I’m willing to guess there are more non-straight men than non-straight women.
fags and the like are around 2% of the global population they don't count for this
Reports say that 15% of Gen Z identifies as LGBT if I remember correctly. That’s the most of any generation.
I think men are more likely to question their sexuality and identity. Why do you think MtF is more common than FtM transgender?
>Reports say that 15% of Gen Z identifies as LGBT if I remember correctly. That’s the most of any generation.
It’s girls saying they’re bi retard
in the US, and that in the most faggy cities with propaganda 24/7. In the rest of the world they're still are an anomaly
There are more lesbians than gay men and there probably 10000x more bi women than bi men
Women have been proven to be naturally bi
>I think men are more likely to question their sexuality and identity.
You are a stupid idiot
>Why do you think MtF is more common than FtM transgender?
Because no woman wants to be a man
>Because no woman wants to be a man
Some do. FTMs exist.
What would be the point? They would just be dykes
>ok they exist but I call them something else
>ok they exist but look at this ancient news story
Look at those goalposts go!
I think you don't understand trannies. It's not about wanting to be something, it's about feeling like you ARE something and your body doesn't match that.
Friend dated a FtM and boy was she a fucking MESS
A woman killed herself when she did a experiment to see what being a man is like.
Women can’t handle being men.
41%of men pretending to be women do too.
>41%
It’s 52% now
Hopefully it’ll reach 100% Allah willing
This
Trannies are just mentally ill. How much longer do you plan on bringing that one point up? It's every other thread
If you want an excuse for being a sad, pathetic little man with no life, find a better one than "this one experiment proves men have it so hard!!!"
She wasn’t a tranny she was a straight woman that wanted to see what life was like as a man.
Then why did you even bring it up?
She died via assisted suicide due to an illness 15 years after she stopped dressing up as a man.
Why do you guys lie like this?
The sides have reversed. Men are the ones who believe their feelings over facts now. They're silly, emotional creatures.
Must be their period.
No, not mental illness. You're making this shit up.
She had struggled with depression for a decade before she dressed up as a man for her experiment. She died 15 years after the experiment ended, through assisted suicide.
While she didn't speak positively of her experience as a man and left with new appreciation for being a woman, that's not the cause of her death.
>No, not mental illness. You're making this shit up.
>She had struggled with depression for a decade before she dressed up as a man for her experiment. She died 15 years after the experiment ended, through assisted suicide.
>While she didn't speak positively of her experience as a man and left with new appreciation for being a woman, that's not the cause of her death.
Yeah that's a lie lol
No, it's not. She was depressed for a decade before she did her experiment. She killed herself 15 years after the experiment ended. Through assisted suicide, which generally is reserved for people with terminal illness in Switzerland.
Making up that "oh women can't handle being a man, this woman tried for a year and then killed herself" is just taking advantage of this woman's pain and of her death. It's shitty. Stop.
>Vincent was described as a libertarian who was critical of postmodernism and multiculturalism.[3] She did not believe that transgender people were the sex they identified as, leading her to be accused of bigotry.[3] In an article for The Village Voice, she wrote: "[Transsexuality] signifies the death of the self, the soul, that good old-fashioned indubitable 'I' so beloved of Descartes, whose great adage 'I think, therefore I am' has become an ontological joke on the order of 'I tinker, and there I am.'"[11]
Holy based. It's so sad she was bullied and had to kill herself
>Making up that "oh women can't handle being a man, this woman tried for a year and then killed herself" is just taking advantage of this woman's pain and of her death. It's shitty. Stop.
>The mental strain of maintaining a false identity during the making of Self-Made Man ultimately caused a depressive breakdown, leading Vincent to admit herself to a locked psychiatric facility.[13] [14]
Lol you're so retarded
I know it's very hard to read, but in the same wikipedia article you quoted:
>In Voluntary Madness (2008), Vincent details her decade-long history with treatment-resistant depression
So, as I said - was depressed for a decade, did the experiment in 2006, had a depressive breakdown, lived her life for 15 years, died by assisted suicide in 2022.
Saying that she became depressed and killed herself because of the experiment is disingenuous.
>Saying that she became depressed and killed herself because of the experiment is disingenuous.
No one was saying that retard. You're gaslighting hard lol
It's pretty much an exact quote of what the person I was replying to said, you fucking retard lmao
To quote:
>A woman killed herself when she did a experiment to see what being a man is like.
Kek, I'm sorry for trying to be reasonable, never again.
Like I said, the men here are emotional creatures. You can’t logic them out of beliefs they didn’t logic themselves into.
>It's pretty much an exact quote of what the person I was replying to said, you fucking retard lmao
I would say you look up what "exact quote" means before you fuck off to r*ddit kiddo. Let the grown ups have a discussion here will ya
Um, excuse me, sweatie, but do you know what website you're on? Do you know what board you're on? Do you know what thread you're in?
Letting the rest of your life be defined by a distressing period of time 15 years earlier is the norm here.
Yes, mental illness because living as a man seriously fucked her up. It's in her book read it
Going from animal crossing to playing dark souls and your machine gets fried if you die
>Because no woman wants to be a man
But MtFs change their gender identity because they feel it’s a better representation of who they are and they want to express themselves that way. I don’t see why that couldn’t be the case for FtM transgenders as well. They do it despite knowing that they’ll put up with a ton of transphobic people like you.
>better representation of who they are and they want to express themselves that way.
Why do I have to acknowledge their expression?
If you lack any sort of decency, you don’t have to. I can’t imagine transphobia being a very attractive trait though.
>I can’t imagine transphobia being a very attractive trait though.
I can't imagine cutting your dick off or having meat from your butt formed into a penis because you're fucked in the head being an attractive trait either lol
I wouldn’t want a wife with pro trans values
If she has a trans friend and puts our children around them I’ll slap her face with a belt
>I wouldn’t want a wife with pro trans values
>If she has a trans friend and puts our children around them I’ll slap her face with a belt
Based
issue is just like feminism, trans stuff effectively got hijacked
I don't have an issue with the concept (though the operations are gruesome), I have an issue with the people who hijacked it
I think very few people are truly transgender
Your opinion is noted, doctor.
>And I’m willing to guess there are more non-straight men than non-straight women.
What would make you think that?
>get involved in activities you’re interested in both online and in-person so you can meet people.
That sounds exhausting, I hate meeting people
>If there's someone for everyone
any female that tells you this hates you and wants you to suffer in the long run by believing this cope
Why are catgirls so universally loved?
You have some chubby thighs
NTA but I've probably got thicker thighs than half the girls ITT
and I'm a dude
And I'm not even fat
nature is weird man
Uhm don't guys normally have bigger thighs than girls? Do you have Marfans or live in a marine park or something?
>socks and sandals
anon...
im at my house dude, its normal to wear
im 100% athletic maxxed
Who the fuck wears jeans at home?
Why???? That’s so uncomfortable
You should wear a mini skirt for easy lesbo access
I'm really not a mini skirt kind of person! Skirts in general are fine, though. Jeans are just easy to pull on, and they make my butt look great. Even if I'm home alone, that's a confidence booster.
eh i wear jeans bc im not a NEET who stays home all day long, i had to go outside still
>they make my butt look great. Even if I'm home alone, that's a confidence booster
Why are females so vain?
it's been proven to improve your mood and self-confidence to take care of your appearance
you don't feel very good rolling out of bed and watching anime all day, do you?
Damn sorry you're getting grief for the pic. You look fine from what I can see. Unless you have some serious personality issues, I'd just chalk it up to the culture of your area.
i dont see how im not in trend tho, i look way cooler than other dudes id say.
Looking cooler has nothing to do with it. If the popular taste is super tall beefy guys then you're gonna be at a disadvantage.
Nah, he actually isn't pilled and actually has a decent personality.
Probably very superficial things. Online dating is like a meat market. Idk why anyone does it tbh.
>Nah, he actually isn't pilled and actually has a decent personality.
still haven't heard about bitches
I literally said he does fine irl? It's just online dating where it's a shit show. I don't think online dating has worked out for anyone I know except the few that are extremely superficial and vain.
popular can mean a lot of thing
>Probably very superficial things
yes but thats the thing, i meet the criteria as im easily better looking than the other guys. im not tiny and very pretty face too
>Idk why anyone does it tbh.
tbh i got bored of being single, but it was a bad idea shouldve stayed inrl
i know man ive been on adv before, every thread here that gets posted about girl advice etc most guys here just say no its over dont do it etc
>im not tiny
Yeah but in online dating, people are retarded. They automatically swipe if a person doesn't meet one small superficial criteria.
>i got bored of being single, but it was a bad idea shouldve stayed inrl
I'm decently confident with dating irl and I would never go online because I don't think my self esteem could handle it. I've seen it take down people for more confident and better looking/put together than me.
my pics arent great thats the only argument you could give me, or maybe that i look too unconventional
otherwise if i swipe on the apps if anything i feel like most girls on there look shittier than me so smth is off to me
>Idk why anyone does it tbh.
Because I don't know a better alternative
Tbf I live in a metropolitan city so I guess if I lived in the sticks I'd be desperate to try anything too.
Get a couple people to look over your photos and bio maybe? Also are you using the right dating apps or has this been your experience with all of them? I know some apps are more popular among different demographics.
i dont think anything here is popular exept tinder and bumble
my pics are def not great and low effort, but i dont think it should matter this much as id think you should still be able to tell if one looks good or not but maybe im wrong.
if some girl only has a few bad selfies but i can tell she looks good i would def still swipe
i dont think bio matters either lol
You remember the dress colour meme? People are stupid. Get better photos senpai. Bio def matters. It doesn't have to Pulitzer prize winning shit but it helps people get a cursory read on compatibility. Ngl it sounds like you're not putting a whole lot of effort into your profile and that could be a big reason why you're getting nothing.
>Ngl it sounds like you're not putting a whole lot of effort into your profile
thats obviously true but imo thats what online dating is for i dont want to put a lot of work into this, might aswell just stay inrl, it was just a quick try and delete, but i admit still kinda bothered me bc i thought id get a bit more. i dont see myself making a portfolio of pics of myself kek
idk honestly
Can't complain too much if you didn't put in any actual effort.
The blue or gold dress meme. I think it's literally called "The dress" on Wikipedia.
It was and still is gold and white but in the shadow so it has a blue hue. Anyone who has every studies how to paint shadows knows this entry level bullshit.
>The blue or gold dress meme. I think it's literally called "The dress"
ok i remember it, but whats it supposed to show?
>Can't complain too much if you didn't put in any actual effort.
idk man if a girl has low effort profile and pics but shes hot every dude will still swipe thats my thinking
maybe i just look shit in my pics idk
>ok i remember it, but whats it supposed to show?
That people can have working eyes and yet be too stupid to process what they see. Case in point
>every dude will still swipe
A lot of guys esp those who do online dating will swipe right on anything because they're desperate. Most people don't online date if they can get irl dates fine. Also yeah your photos are probably shit if you're even half as decent looking as you claim to be. I cringe when it comes to taking any selfies but you have to be more vain with online dating. That's just how the game works.
my photos probably are shit, but imo you can still tell i look good- idk from my perspective i dont get it. maybe they all just want some average normie who looks the same as anyone else
You keep saying you're good looking but no one can tell if your photos are bad. Plus bad photos look low effort and that's a minus on its own. I'm just gonna leave it at that unless you have something else to say besides "I know I look good why won't girl appreciate me boohoo."
girls have shitty selfie pics too and i still can tell who looks good and who doesnt. but ok
why are you surprised women have to put less effort into dating?
i feel quite gay making pics of myself that arent low effort but maybe one day i will try lol
but seriously i dont see how it would change this much, its still me
because low effort shows you don't care and if faced with a lot of options why would someone go for the person that doesn't seem to care
i dont get your logic, its fucking tinder pics nobody gives a fuck, most these girls have shitty pics themselves
just bc my pics arent instagram story tier doesnt mean i dont care about a girl or anything. i like the low effort pics bc any more effort and i feel like a gay homosexual who makes pics of himself as a hobby tbh, but im probably wrong
read this post every day you wake up & you'll start to realize why girls don't want you, anon
i think its pretty based you are just a crab in a bucket gaslighting people for no reason bc youre bitter, ive literally said nothing wrong, its 100% true
>bro why would I put in effort, that shit's gay
>just cause I don't put in effort doesn't show I don't care or whatever, I just don't care
I truly hope you realize anon, because you're just going to suffer if you continue like this & end up even more spiteful than you already are
just because i havnt made a portfolia of instagram shots doesnt mean idc
i dont see how theres anything wrong with this statement.
do you honestly think the guys shooting themselves countless pics and are on instagram are the good guys who truly care?
get real
>making even the smallest effort to appeal to women feels gay
Woah… THIS is the insight into the male mind I come to /atoga/ for…
men making pics of themselves is kinda gay you can tell me whatever you want
my pics are low effort but you can still see me i dont see the big deal, and like ive said why do you care so much when most of the girls have low effort pics too?
>Walking definition of false consensus bias
Your personality is annoying. I solved the mystery.
has nothing to do with personality when you dont get matches in the first place mate/girly
They can probably sense it from your bio/pics.
yes im sure gymcel keep seething
>You remember the dress colour meme?
and no actually idk what you mean here
>Tbf I live in a metropolitan city so I guess if I lived in the sticks I'd be desperate to try anything too.
I live in a decently large city but I still don't have a fucking clue
You should come visit Canada sometime.
dating apps just skewed with my head as im not getting a lot there and idk why when i look at other dudes
That's not a very stylish look, if it's representative of how you would normally be dressed. Other than that, fine.
i dont know how people can say this when most dudes dress like literally trash and the same like everyone else.
I dont believe its a 10/10 but why a fat ugly bitch literally all she would have to do is put down the fucking fork
You don't need a fork to eat Cheetos
yeah you need those knuckle tweezers
Or just use chopsticks???
Dating apps are cancer. I know a guy who is pretty popular irl and literally everyone he meets says he's cute but he has shit luck on dating apps because he's "short".
>pretty popular irl and literally everyone he meets says he's cute
so a cutecel?
im aware but im still sort of surprised, like on what are these girls on there swiping at all
i have a six pack and never had anything else my entire life
Post 6pack or you gay
no people are way too crab in a bucket here. my six pack also looks very good. i have nothing to prove here, people will only seethe
if anything im skinny, i look more than neymar body wise than anything else
NTA but I just saw your pic in the archive. You look good. Anons here are just really negative and want to put everyone down.
Agreed, I just thought the footwear was questionable lmao
>my six pack also looks very good.
That would have been more impressive than what you actually posted.
i posted six pack pics when i was a teen baby
since ive grown up ive learned to behave
nobody wants to see sixpacks pics exept maybe gays, maybe some horny girls too idk but i generally thought they are cringe and a 'showoff'
As a female what age is it really over...when do males start losing interest in you, 20?
30
depends, at 35 it's totally over
I‘m 34 and it never stopped.
I can confirm that is really attractive and easily grabs my interest.
Hehe <3
I'm turning 34 this year and I mean it. Girls around my age are really truly beautiful. And that means (You).
I'm 31 and college kids still stare at my ass.
Depends a on how well looks hold, but mid 30s in general.
I'm 29, engaged and still get asked out almost every time I go out on my own.
Its over if you are male
for sex it can last a lot, for serious relationship it's about 25
>And here's that athletic man I was telling you about...
Ladies. Would you trust someone who used to be kind of a player but has changed?
That’s literally every woman’s dream guy
Depends. If you were a player until a week ago, no. If it was something you did 10 years ago, maybe.
10 years is about right. Maybe more like 7 or 8.
Then depends on how much of a degenerate you were. "I fucked prostitutes in thailand while high on crack" doesn't get a pass, but "at 19 I had a fling during spring break" does.
If thailand is a 10, and had a fling during spring break at 19 is a 1, then maybe a soft 6.
depends on what exactly we mean by "player" but if we mean in that leading on a bunch of girls sort of manipulative way then probably not. especially if i knew him in that context beforehand, i feel like i'd have a bad impression and wouldn't be able to shake that so i wouldn't trust him.
I love women
I love men
How can I tell if I'm being a nuisance to her in DMs or if she's just waiting a move or something
if you have to ask you're probably a nuisance
I first assumed this, but she answers me alright in posts and things.
We even talk smooth sometimes, but it usually ends with me asking something and that's it, she won't answer me until I bring another topic some days later. Her unpredictability really puzzles me.
How come late bloomer guys don’t get a free pass for being a fuck boy in their 20’s?
nobody exept famous celebrities get a pass on being a fuck boy and even they can fuck up if they arent careful
It makes no sense for me to invest in a relationship with a guy who wants casual sex.
What if he just fucked a few girls for a year to get it out of his system?
Not my guy. We clearly don't see sex the same way if he thinks that's acceptable behaviour lol
Ew you're manwhoreshaming it's a yuck from me
It's 2023 you know...
Why are so many non-black men into blacked pics like pic related? What's so hot about women being banged by black men? If you're not black, doesn't this bring a sense of being cucked? Also what's so hot about pics like pic related? They're literally just pics of famous women with the word "blacked" added on top of them.
this fetish immediately went away when i regained some self esteem
Women? How are you so soft?
I just wanna squish you
Milk and honey and sugar and spice.
bullshit femoid answer
based and redpilled
<3
Somehow she must attract Chad's attention
Some of you men even through text give off the most vile, filthy energy. Like I can just feel how annoyed I'd be by your presence even through just a few typed words on a screen
honestly if you were left invisible your entire life by the opposite sex and have to see constant sex on tv and porn and girls bawwwwing over chad dick youd be exactly the same kek
God, I hope not. I think I'd rather try to improve my situation instead of crying online.
This. Really getting annoyed by the anon crying about how nobody wants a shy virgin
You just don't get it. Women don't want him because his social skills are lacking and he doesn't have the confidence he wishes he had.
It has nothing to do with the fact that he never leaves the house. Or that he never even speaks to women. Or his radical views. Or his lack of hobbies. Or his lack of grooming. Or the general disdain for all women he has. Or his out of control mental illness. Or the fact that he has no aspirations in life. It's all out of his control.
You clearly don't know what desperation feels like
No I totally get it anon. Nothing has ever been your fault. All of your problems are caused by other people. You do not need to take any accountability for the state of your life king. Keep on wallowing.
You can tell this to any marginalized group
>calling men a marginalized group
LOL
The moid victim complex has reached a hilarious new low.
>thinking about men as a homogeneous group
>that he never even speaks to women.
How do I speak to women?
You can't change genes
same delusion
>None of it is my fault
>Everything is beyond my control
>Somehow all of my ancestors managed to procreate up until this point, leading to my birth
>But it's still GENES
Somehow your genes didn't work against literally one single person in your family lineage, but they cause all of your problems? Thanks for the laugh.
Yeah because the child is the exact copy of the parents
Are you implying that forced relationships weren’t a thing?
No shit ugly guys got laid when they can do what they want
uh nta but ive literally just shown you a pic and still get basically nothing on apps. the reality of male dating just sucks and id say i look good and im not a shy incel or anything
You short
Call you tiny Tim
im not that short and i look better anyways. just bc some dude is taller doesnt make him better
Ok tiny tim
shoo shoo bitter gymcel
>apps
lol
>lol
make a gameplan for a male on how to get a girl
I think I wouldn't blame media and porn I chose to consume for all of my problems
I would probably strive to be a better person instead of wallowing in my misery and taking the easy way out by blaming everyone else, no accountability for my own actions
But that requires more introspection than 9/10 men here are capable of
its literally in every netflix film, unless youre an ascetic monk you can hardly avoid it. i find your take hypocritical too. like the girls constantly have bfs and get fucked no surprise they dont complain or dont watch porn lol
thanks for the compliment
Genetics, diet, sleep, and a shitton of lotion.
I did do laundry, vaccumed and did the dishes twice. Does that count?
How's life on easy mode today, girls?
Pretty comfy ngl
>women are afraid to walk alone at night
>women may get hurt by guys who don’t take rejection well
>women have to deal with constant unwanted attention and catcalling from creepy dudes
I’m sure easy mode is going very well for them, Anon.
>I’m sure easy mode is going very well for them, Anon.
And here we have the white knight, the shiny savior of distressed maidens on the internet
It’s called having empathy, which probably sounds like a foreign concept to you. Believe it or not, women go through problems in life that are just as difficult as men’s, if not worse.
>It’s called having empathy, which probably sounds like a foreign concept to you. Believe it or not, women go through problems in life that are just as difficult as men’s, if not worse.
Lol you know that the "Save 10 Maidens get 1 Sex free" card isn't real don't you?
This simp behavior is why no one will ever take male problems seriously
Did you know just how bad the education system is for men? How fewer men make it to college and even less graduate? Starting salary for women is more than for men
Not to mention men are attacked and die more often than women
Fewer men go to college because they dominate the trades and military. Women tend to end up in white-collar jobs, most of which require a college education.
Or the education system fits women much more
Don't try to reason with the retard. He just needs an excuse as to why he can't move on from his minimum wage job or talk to a real woman outside his house
>because they dominate the trades and military.
No because trades are dirty and military is dangerous and that's nothing a women would condescend to. Holy retarded lol
A lot of this looks more like it's a effect than a cause
Plus given the fact trade jobs are dying off you're basically limiting men to a dying industry
>Fewer men go to college because they dominate the trades and military
Except both of these fields are seeing shortfalls of young men applying because more young men are simply dropping out of society
>more young men are simply dropping out of society
Exactly, no pussy=no reason
Scary how true it is
I’d be happy to fuck soldiers to improve morale, but I’d be called a whore for doing it :/
Sadly this is very true. You men did this to yourself with your damn slut shaming.
meanwhile in reality the more slutting is encouraged the fewer men actually have sex
Trust the plan.
I’m confused. Who do I fuck? Which boys need my pussy the most?
the ones that get it less
but females are hypergamic and when they sleep around they go with the same guys
>the ones that get it less
Prisoners in solitary confinement don’t get any. Should I start with them?
least hybristophilic woman
Yes. Doing god‘s work.
That's because you would be a whore
No one wants your rotten used pussy
>in my head, you’re icky!
Why not imagine pretty girls instead? You’ll be happier.
you're supposed to fuck ONE soldier to give him morale
Aaaand here we have the issue. Y men always have to be so greedy? There isn‘t that much sunshine pussy to go around. Share a little with your brothers to strengthen morals.
Why do you need to sample all the dicks?
I don‘t need to sample any dicks. I just want to make as many dicks as possible happy and satisfied because there‘s too much pain and hate in this world and wayyy too little pleasure and love. If i limit myself to only making one man feel pleasure and loved, what a waste that would be.
Other men can get other women to please them
Apparently not because they are too proud and cold hearted and prude to make a man feel loved and valued and experiencing pleasure. Ofc that doesn‘t apply to all women but to enough for there to be oceans of frustrated and bitter men. They seem to only see the bad in men and completely look over just how amazing men can be. God i love men.
>I just want to make as many dicks as possible happy
Unfortuntately you will never be a woman and most soldiers aren't gay so
hopping on my dick won't make me happy anon
I don‘t remember having sat on your dick yet so how could you possibly know?
Why do you imagine your pussy to be so extraordinary. Even the worlds best nut would not make me fulfilled past that moment
You‘ll know when you feel it.
You'll never get the chance unless you trick me into thinking you'll stick around and you don't seem like the kinda girl that would spend the time on that
No i don‘t feel any urge to manipulate or coax a man into sleeping with me. If you don‘t want to then that‘s perfectly fine. Then this experience wasn‘t meant for you.
now I wonder if you're the anon from earlier who I wished best of luck finding guys into that stuff
Yes i am
oh no no no
at least soldiers likely fit the bill pretty well what with deployments making long relationships harder on them
But then all the other soldiers will be jealous 🙁
Women end up in college because of diversity quotas and they stay in college because they fuck sugar daddies for tuition and professors for grades
None of what you are saying is true. Women don't need sugar daddies or professors to graduate. More women than men are graduating college, and the difference is even greater with masters and doctoral degrees.
There was an article not long ago about how admission offices have a "secret" where they actually are picking more men than women to balance out the gender ratio
Men still outnumber women in stem which are the only worthwhile degrees
Men only outnumber women in non-biology-related STEM.
And why do you think thats true? Women are dumb as rocks. Men are way smarter. So where does their advantage come from? Oh right having a pussy.
It’s true because the data proves it. Quit whining about your imaginary persecution.
Every other girl is turning their holes into money now. Even if it's as innocuous as having her bf pay her rent. You need a reality check.
If men and women are supposed to be equal, why aren't people campaigning to fix this?
Men have to be willing to get a college education, so maybe start there.
Millions of dollars are spent trying to get girls into college
maybe men would get college educations if they'd actually get accepted for them or receive scholarship money to be able to afford it
Women don't fuck their way to getting good grades in college, you ignorant moron. If you actually went to school yourself you wouldn't be saying this shit.
>Believe it or not, women go through problems in life that are just as difficult as men’s, if not worse
Cap
Things that happen one in a billion times
I recommend searching “Woman walking in the streets of NYC” on YouTube. The problems I mentioned are not as rare as you are saying.
>I recommend searching “Woman walking in the streets of NYC” on YouTube. The problems I mentioned are not as rare as you are saying.
A guy would've been murdered instead lol
By another man
So? Men where I live (supposedly a very safe country) are 3 times more likely to be victim of a violent crime than women. Now fuck off into your liberal pl*bbit bubble cunt
I watched that video, all the guys who cat called her were… how do I say this, shaded in.
That video is racist
why do you need to walk alone at night?
are afraid to walk alone at night
Yeah, because I'm such a big strong man I don't have anything to worry about
if a dude pulls a knife I'll just flex and he'll run away. If 5 dudes jump me I'll just present my penis and they'll be cool
have to deal with constant unwanted attention and catcalling from creepy dudes
you know this doesn't work because guys like this, right?
>b-but you wouldn't like it if it's an ugly girl
I like it when any girl does it, hell I like it when 90 year old grandmothers do it
This, some nerdy ugly chick in a frog hat smiled at me in the street and made me so happy
>in a frog hat
cute
Yes she was very cute and when I realized it's a frog hat I snickered she realized why I did it and went flow blown smiling. Was a great day.
And this is exactly why i will never stop flirting with random strangers.
We literally just passed each other
you didn't go to talk to her, did you anon...
yeah atoga sadly has shown me that this is more real than I thought it was because I've never actually seen it happen around me
>you didn't go to talk to her, did you anon...
We were just walking down the street in different directions so of course didn't go
>doesn't even think it's worth the time
what the hell anon, how fucking popular are you
What, randomly stopping her do you think she would enjoyed it?
>I snickered she realized why I did it and went flow blown smiling
I don't think she would have minded if you at least approached her anon. Even if she was busy she could have simply mentioned that
It’s a legitimate problem for women because a lot of men just want them for their bodies. A lot of men don’t take no for an answer.
>A lot of men don’t take no for an answer.
Unfortunately you aren't either. You were told to fuck off and still you are here. Distressing. Help. Gender police!
All these things are rare (men are significantly more likely to be victims of stranger assaults) and if you think women don't like that "unwanted attention" just look at all the 30+ year old journalists who start crying about how they miss being catcalled.
Meanwhile, women get sex on demand, relationship whenever they want, privileges in education, guaranteed good jobs for showing the slightest bit of competence, free money for existing, legal benefits, the woman are wonderful effect, etc. etc.
Most women don’t even want casual sex. I will concede that those who do want it DO have easy access to it because men are thirsty and outnumber women in bars, parties, clubs, and dating apps.
>Most women don’t even want casual sex
Holy shit it's not the fucking 00s anymore. No one is fooled by the "oh, women want relationships, men are the ones who just want to fuck" lie anymore. Most (as in over half) women have regular casual sex when not in a relationship.
Uh ok but i don‘t have a mess so there‘s nothing to clean otherwise.
I'm never in my room except to lift & sleep, so no
Nope
My mom has been a hoarder since I was born and I've always lived in a mess
where do I redeem my atoga-coins for a gf?
You have to become friends with the jannies to trade the in for ip‘s.
>slapfight hours
Wake me when it’s over.
>deliberately walk alone in an unsafe area at night in a shithole city
>buahh it's your fault I'm an oppressed wahhmen
Oh neat it‘s pain olympics time. Yawn. Can we go back schizo and hornyposting pls?
fuck off to /gif/ or something
Make me
>hornyposting
I like women. Also, I LIKE women.
And i LIKE men
Now that we have the horniness out of the way, should we try schizoposting too?
Yes. You go first. I‘ll go with it.
I just wanted to apologize if I've ever made you uncomfortable. I know it's awkward and complicated, and I don't judge you if you've changed your mind. It's okay.
No you never have. I‘ve been in a weird mood all week. Now i‘m sick and about to start my period so it‘s not exactly manic posting time. It will come back again. Our time will come.
I told you I would start to worry after a week, and I'm always honest with you. I asked a few questions, but one was more important than the others, and I'm worried that the answer won't be an easy one to overcome. I hope you understand why this time I would be more anxious than usual.
I feel like we‘d have to try what happens if we do this somewhere else.
I can always try to be your friend, and I'd rather try that than try nothing. But I did get what you sent, and I thank you for trusting me.
I hope you can trust me too.
It's not a choice that I can make, it's not an attempt that I can fail. I'll always trust you implicitly and automatically because of who you are and how you are. But you're probably going to bed soon, so I'll be content to wish you a good night and sweet dreams for now.
I really should go to sleep. I hope you‘ll reach out soon. Take care<3
God I love seeing society collapse because men were given the middle finger for at least 20 years and decided to give the middle finger back.
And all women and Sois do is blame men even more. Lol I love it. Women truly deserve to suffer.
okay enlightened brother, what did women do that caused this?
No, incel. Women are fine with more men being lonely because they have low EQs, and no emotional availability
janny will just let this outright shitflinging misogyny fest go but god forbid you post anime people with your post huh
Cry
I've heard the opposite, supposedly there's a janny that baits misogyny then bans anyone that pops up
The majority of my bans have been tranny ranting related. Not saying it's indicative of who monitors these threads but it is a coincidence
No hes an autistic who bans people for off topic because you forgot your question mark on your post or replied to the wrong person
>misogyny
Fuck your mommy
No one likes pedos
>Women are fine
Tell this the women who won't find a plumber any more to fix their toilet or a roofer to fix their roof or a mechanic to fix their car or a soldier to protect them. THEN we see how fine they are lol
what's wrong with misogyny
Women, I love your soft tummies, big butts, and wide hips. I want to wrap my arms around you when you’re sitting in my lap and give you and play with each other’s tongues.
I love everything about men.
Is it ok if my tummy is a little less soft because I have abs?
i love men.. my bf just woke up oh hell yes
Hell yes
Fact: not enough men die in wars
Girls, how do you feel about guys being so visually when it comes to being aroused? Does it bother you to feel like putting on a show is important? Or anything like that.
I feel lucky that I’m straight. Turning on a guy is easy, but I’d have no idea how to flirt with women.
I don’t really feel like it’s “putting on a show” tbqh, I just pretty myself up in the morning and go about my day looking hot
Honestly my bf gets a boner whenever he sees my tits and also just from me doing shit like washing the dishes, bending over, eating or laughing a lot. Men are so easy to turn that I feel kinda bad for them.
it does kinda bother me ngl but i'm not gonna hold it against them personally. i just want to feel appreciated for who i am and knowing about how visual it is sometimes somehow makes me feel bad about myself.
it's kinda just weird to think about for me because of the way i think about guys. it's a little sad to think i might not be appreciated in the same sort of way by them e.g. i notice a lot of little habits and mannerisms i find cute and it's sad that they might not see things like that in me, and i often do little things that i think they'd appreciate and haven't really felt appreciated for
That's like the one time I actually feel like I'm "living on easy mode"
2 seconds of jiggling my boobs and my guy is ready to fuck
>feel angry
>want to incelpost
>remember the feeling of touching a girl’s soft, warm thigh
>feel better
>post positively instead
🙂
Nice blog fag where can I unsubscribe
Such is the magic of a woman‘s warmth.
the feeling of touching a girl’s soft, warm thigh
I wish you incelposted instead...
Where are all the single women? I'm pretty sure they don't exist
Femanons if you were a nerdy not that good looking girl walking down the street in a frog hat, and you smiled on a random kinda good looking and well dressed guy who were walking from the opposite direction, then he would smile back and when he realize your frog hat he would visible snicker on it and it would make you so happy that you go full blown smiling, would you stop for him and don't mind if he wanted to talk or even flirt with you?
i probably wouldn't stop but then would go "wait i should've probably said something" to myself in my head afterwards
not sure how i'd feel about flirting since kinda depends on the execution and could be a bit uncomfortable but wouldn't mind if he asked me to talk then asked for socials after a bit
maybe flirting wasn't the best word for it but this approachly chatty
Women, how important is the profile view of a man's face in in their attractiveness?
How much would it matter to you if someone looked good from the front but not the side?
>become friends with a girl
>she expresses feeling in an argument
>she pulls away suddenly
>she wants to remain friends because "her head is fucked"
>she remains flirty
>says maybe when the time is right
>gets with another guy
Like am I somewhat reasoned for being upset? I kept asking why she "pulled away" so quickly and she kept saying no reason over and over again. She totally turned toxic and just threw me out.
peak woman moment
>she saw me with a female friend of mine
>still got jealous
>would always spite me when she was out with her new boyfriend (hold her hand in front of me)
>I did all I could to end things with her on good terms
>became bitterly depressed, thought I'm destined to be lonely forever if I'm having this much trouble socialsing
>her tiktok has a bunch of posts about how happy and lovely her 2022 was and her lovely boyfriend
>they broke up
>she nuked half of her instagram and pulled her tiktok down
Lose the battle, win the war.
you won what?
someone is a cunt and ended up getting karma or something
sure
that's just females being mentally ill, cut with her
She was about ready to settle for you, but then a more attractive guy came along
> but then a more attractive guy came along
fair I wasn't read for dating at the time, I just wish I used my head rather than my heart and was smart about it
These threads prove that women deserve their hatred
How so?
I agree. As long as they aren't doing violence, women should be allowed to hate others as they please.
State gender, age, body count
>your 3 worst physical traits?
>your 3 best physical traits?
F
20
0
>your 3 worst physical traits?
big thighs
big chest
big nose
>your 3 best physical traits?
small waist
long thick hair
pale skin
this must be a b8
no, i just really hate myself!
why
i hate my body and think i'm ugly
Yeah I can understand, people hate big tits and thighs and small waists, long thick hair, pale skin
they surely hate women that aren't thin/flat
people definitely hate big thighs, that's why so many men seek women with thigh gaps
>chocolate is popular, so that proves people hate vanilla
and why do you hate it
F, 29, 2
>your 3 worst physical traits?
I have a bit of a fivehead, my legs are too thick and my hair is pretty fine.
>your 3 best physical traits?
I have the skin of a porcelain doll, really pretty eyes and very nice tits.
post tits pls mommy
Shut up simp
mommy
Just for you anon.
post titties mommy or i ll break into your home and penetrate you
NTA but here‘s some mommy milkers to soothe your thirst for the moment.
you saved her this time
Phew
Good night thirsty boi
M,24,4
borderline manlet, thin wrist, dunno
athletic, long limbs compared to my height, were complimented several times on my face
>State gender, age, body count
m, 26, 1
>>your 3 worst physical traits?
slight hook nose, thin, need contacts
>>your 3 best physical traits?
thick wavy hair, fairly tall and high shoulder-to-waist ratio
M
25
2
Manlet, a little chubby, left eyelid sits kinda low compared to right
My eyes, my clavicle bones, my butt
M27, 0
>your 3 worst physical traits?
Loose skin, nose, lips.
>your 3 best physical traits?
Eyes, hair, genitals.
Female, 24, 4
>your 3 worst physical traits?
No curves, ugly labia, thin lips & wish I was shorter
>your 3 best physical traits?
Decent legs, good skin, thick shiny hair
>wish I was shorter
how tall are you?
I don't think I've ever heard a girl say she wish she was smaller, even my 6'1 sis
>my 6'1 sis
Did you get to see her vagene?
5'8" so nothing extreme, but I've always wanted to be smaller
You mean I get to change the others? Sweet.
>5'8"
Sexoooooo
It seems to be one of those weird heights where I'm taller than most girls I know and feel like I stick out sometimes, but it's not tall enough to be really impressive lol
I am! How are you, anon?
>5'8"
>Former ballet student
You don't happen to live somewhere in Europe and be single because you tickle my boxes hehe
I am single but unfortunately I don't live in Europe. I wish I did.
Good point, and when I lived with my ex we did share expenses like groceries of course. Men are fairly generous tbh, it's something they don't get enough credit for.
>I am single but unfortunately I don't live in Europe. I wish I did.
Oh no
There goes my dream of a tall ballet gf
Sigh
Now I'm sad
Don't be sad anon, I haven't danced for a few years so I'm technically not a ballet gf. I'm sad because I don't live in Europe. I envy you.
This is exactly it lol
Foxes are so beautiful, and they move like cat dog creatures. I always want to pet them.
Thanks anon, I'll take your word for it
>without looking weirdly skeletal and bony
I have the dreaded "2/10 pointy elbows and knees would not bang" lol
>Don't be sad anon, I haven't danced for a few years so I'm technically not a ballet gf. I'm sad because I don't live in Europe. I envy you.
Why are you sad?
I'll give you a hug
Haha, thanks anon <3
No, you weren't rude at all! I just laugh at my elbows and knees sometimes, they always startle me when I see them in photos and it makes me think that meme.
You're going to Bayreuth? Have you been before? I'm jealous, I'd love to go someday.
>You're going to Bayreuth? Have you been before? I'm jealous, I'd love to go someday.
I have in 2018. I filled my order for this year and I'm pretty sure I'll get tickets
It's... Ok. Many elitist pricks who don't attend for the music but just their egos. The singers are absolute top tier. The directors not so much unfortunately. They're destroying the d'oeuvre a lot by bringing in young "hip" directors who don't understand the material. I genuinely hope this year will be good. Unfortunately I have to go alone. Having someone knowledgeable to chat about the performance would be awesome but oh well
Oh I didn't mean to be rude, I was thinking of this one girl I know who's tall AND severely underweight, so she looks like a Holocaust survivor... I'm sure your elbows and knees are lovely!
>I don't live in Europe. I wish I did.
What's stopping you?
I'm not a student and I don't any special skills. I travel as often as I can, but I'm just sure that moving there on my own is really feasible. Maybe someday.
Isn't it pretty easy to come live in europe?
Only if you are not White.
I haven't looked into EU regulations tbh. My sister went to school in the UK and lived there for a few years working after graduating, she had to constantly prove herself to immigration officials. Even after she got married, she had to keep meticulous documentation to prove the marriage wasn't a sham. I just assume it's equally difficult on the continent, plus I only have very rusty French so I don't see why anyone would want me lol
I'm doing well, and I'm glad I could see you again.
I saw Romeo & Juliet at La Scala, and it was great, it's now one of my favorites. The leads were both gorgeous and talented, and I was a little weirded out when they played up Juliet's immaturity with her dolly and jumping on her nurse's lap, so I was surprised to find out that she's older than me. I was particularly fond of their dance together after the balcony, and at the end when he danced again with her body. Paris was perfectly lifeless and dull, Mercutio was a perfect peacock, and Tybalt was a perfect little shit. The synchronized sword fights were nice, but the music during Romeo's revenge fight against Tybalt was so lighthearted and whimsical-- what the hell was Prokofiev thinking? Anyway, I enjoyed myself, so thank you for the recommendation.
I'm so glad you enjoyed it! I know what you mean about the music during the fight between Romeo and Tybalt, though I think it's meant to portray a sort of frantic mood and a contrast to Tybalt's death scene, which is quite heavy and dramatic. Anyways, I really am happy to hear you liked it. Let me know what operas or other ballets have caught your eye, I'm always looking to add things to my watch list.
I think I'm going to watch Wagner's Tristan und Isolde next, just in case I run into that other Anon who touts the superiority of opera. That'll take me a few days though since it's so long and I have so little free time. As for ballet, I think I'll watch Swan Lake soon, because that one has been sitting in my backlog forever and ever. And of course, I'm keeping Mayerling and L'Histoire de Manon in my back pocket for a rainy day, based on your recommendation. What about you, are you looking forward to anything soon?
>I think I'm going to watch Wagner's Tristan und Isolde next, just in case I run into that other Anon who touts the superiority of opera.
The anon is in the thread so watch your words please
You will see me next at Bayreuth in the Tristan probably.
There is nothing to say to you except "I'm sorry". I'm sorry you only appreciate German opera and don't appreciate Italian opera.
>Italian opera.
That's not Opera it's childs play. Sorry anon
Is that a reference to Amadeus? I love that movie.
Oh, mind if I ask which Swan Lake? Which company and which lead dancers? Wagner is magnificent, I hope to see a Wagner live someday. I don't have anything concrete yet, but I might finally get a chance to go to La Scala for an opera in April, there's doing an obscure Italian Baroque opera I'd be interested in seeing but I'll have to see. Nothing really queued for video right now, sadly. Maybe I should check out Tristan & Isolde, I've never watched it all the way through.
This is the Swan Lake that I've chosen, but I'm all ears if you know a better one (or if you dislike this ending):
>In this production of the best loved classical ballet 'Swan Lake' the naturally gifted Yulia Makhalina dances the challenging role of Odette/Odile while the part of Prince Siegfried is danced by Igor Zelensky. This classic Kirov production includes the familiar happy ending in the final act where Siegfried fights and ultimately defeats the evil magician von Rothbart and at dawn is reunited with Odette.
And here is the Tristan und Isolde that I plan on watching:
Not only does it have subtitles, but one of the top comments is timestamps so I can split it up and come back to it over several days.
I hope your plans for a trip work out and you have a good time.
Oh, that will be good. Old school Kirov, you can't go wrong. I just checked out the ending, that's the type of ending I'm most familiar with. I really love this ABT version with Gillian Murphy and Angel Corella. The ending is far more...dramatic lol but it's a great production and I just love the lead dancers. The Kirov will be excellent too though!
Thanks for this link, I'll save it for now, and at some point I'll watch it as well, so I can do a comparison like I did for the different performances of Rite of Spring. I don't know how much longer we'll both be sticking around /atoga/, but hopefully I'll be able to share my Tchaikovsky and Wagner thoughts with you soon.
I'm sure I'll see you around, I hope you enjoy them all!
i'm also 5'8" and have the same thought! like, i'm not tall enough to attract the crowd that likes tall girls or short enough to be cute. it's just an awkward middle height where i feel weird around groups of women and don't get much benefit.
Are you in Europe and single by any chance?
I swear if I don't get a tall gf tonight I get really grumpy lol
single but not in europe, gl anon
Noohoooo
Ah well
It's tall enough to have amazing legs without looking weirdly skeletal and bony
Not her, but I don't like having long legs. I always feel like I'm showing a mile of thigh.
Your miles of thighs save lives.
My ex was 5'8.5" and she turned me into legs and ass guy
A pair of leggings or yoga pants on her... Jesus Christ almighty
how tall are you? did she have a bubblebutt? if yes im jelly
>how tall are you? did she have a bubblebutt? if yes im jelly
I'm 5"10'
Her butt was firm and trained from volleyball. It was not to big and not to skinny. It flowed perfectly into her long, perfect legs. Hmmm nomnom
>you will never slap a volleyball girl's ass like you're spiking a volleyball
._.
She was funny, warm and extremely intelligent too. Unfortunately I was a retard and ruined it.
Well yes, that's the upside, but it requires a bf.
180cm. I don't wish my body was different, it's just awkward sometimes.
>180cm
>tall
Basically a midget here in Ausfailia
>180cm
Oh
God
Yes
Please
>but it requires a bf.
where do I apply?
I saw her first, she is mine
you could just dress without showing so mcuh legs or not?
how tall are you? do you wish to be smaller?
It's better to be tall but not so tall it's "impressive"
>5'8
smol
Are you our resident former ballet student?
We have one of those?
I know there was a pretty broadly skilled dancing anon that offered to teach me tango, but haven't seen a ballet dancer
That's 4 physical traits, now you can't be shorter.
Male, 20, 0
>your 3 worst physical traits?
israelitefro hair, shitty skin (allergies and rosacea), skinny
>your 3 best physical traits?
huge weiner that sees no use, nose, wide shoulders
M 28 1
>3 worst
eyes, nose, pinky finger (I know it'll get asked so: it has a giant fucking lump on the bottom/side)
>3 best
legs, hair, abs
F, 2x, 2
>3 worst traits
Piggy nose, cellulite, overweight
>3 best
Pretty smile, great hair, stupendous tits
I compared my hands to a girl and mine were smaller. Now what?
was her cock bigger too?
You are sentenced to death for sodomy.
Transition.
i love doing this as a thinly veiled excuse to put hands together
Me too. Such a good way to initiate body contact.
You will be a cute femboy
I'm a nerdy virgin guy, do I want
>le aspie virgin gf where we both lose our virginities to each other
or
>older and/or more experienced woman who lovingly shows me the ropes and incorporates elements of gentle femdom into the experience
always wanted the former but been thinking about the latter lately, seems kinda cool ngl
Why not both?
because it's physically impossible to lose my virginity to a virgin and a non virgin innit
bit mean lad xx
Yes but how about both at the same time?
because threesomes go against the whole idea of losing your v card to your one and only aspie virgin gf
howcomes
life works in wonderful ways
>bit mean lad xx
also stop being nerdy
virgin guys don't get to choose
former
hey cool i used to be that first one and am now slowly becoming that second one
Neither option is realistic but the first one is more realistic. There are literally zero women who are going to "lovingly show you the ropes"
>Neither option is realistic
idk lad maybe this is partial copium but I think I can still pull it off
You know those girls that are like nerds in art hoe clothes that read manga, drink bubble tea and have Line friends stickers on their phones? Unless they have a long term bf they generally tend to be virgins, good job they're exactly my type too!
Why do women think we feel safe walking in dangerous areas at night? Are they just projecting their own feelings about safety around big strong men onto us?
they're stupid
It's pretty much a the neighbour's grass is always greener effect. Both men and women think that it is so easy for the other and don't tend to think about the struggles of them.
Ladies. What's the best place to order perfume from? Specifically my gf uses Louis Vuitton Attrape-Rêves. Do I just order it off their website or are there perfume online stores that are better/cheaper/faster?
got to LULZ fragrance general
thanks
I just get it from amazon
Is this really what a toxic person is like? This video literally describes me.
Why do these animated blogs get so many fucking views?
Why do they always talk in this condescending, pseudo-intellectual way?
Why does she sound so fat?
This video could apply to anyone, the same way a horoscope could apply to anyone.
>Do you sometimes feel jealous?
>Do you find drama entertaining?
>Wow, you must be a Sagittarius!
This is the same type of video that convinces 80% of people they're autistic, or that their ex is a narcissist. Toxic is a really extreme term for something that we all have traits of. It means that you bring down a room as soon as you enter it, that you're unwilling to change, that you're like a poison to others - hence the word toxic. Everybody is flawed, but not everybody is toxic.
How do Women actually feeling about paying for things in the relationship?
Men, how do you feel about letting her pay for things?
In my experience men want to pay. When I was younger I used to insist on paying for myself, but I came to realize that was actually kind of rude and rejecting of the guy's generosity. It's much better to be gracious and sincerely appreciative.
No, that would be a nightmare lol. But there is an atoga thread on soc where people can post pics if they want.
you can still carry some of the weight by buying groceries, paying for activities that are your idea, etc. there are ways to sneak it, but generally dinner the dude wants to pay.
huh? i only pay bc i think thats what girls expect if you want sex/be her bf etc
if i knew girls didnt care id never pay lol
It's still a nice gesture though
>Men, how do you feel about letting her pay for things?
my gf makes a lot of money but I still mostly pay for the dinners. she grabs drinks sometimes. I don't really think about it much, tbh, I prefer to pay but I won't go out of my way too.. like if she makes a reservation for an activity using her card I don't try to pay for it myself, or if she buys tickets or something, but if we got to dinner I always grab the tab.
>How do Women actually feeling about paying for things in the relationship?
I don't mind. I pay around 25% of the dates I go on with my boyfriend, but he makes significantly more than me.
F
I like to pay for things because I do not want to be seen as a financial burden.
Thank you for existing
If she's not willing to contribute financially to the relationship in accordance with her ability, she's not worth it.
I don't want to deal with the possibility they're just in it for the free dates and I also think it's a bad sign you somehow consider yourself someone that isn't independent or whatever you want to call it. I want there to be mutual respect in the relationship and I doubt I'd get that from some dainty little flower that just looks up to me as "the provider". I would not feel like I am dating a person.
If you don't have a lot of money, that's perfectly fine. You could offer to pay for the drinks or desert or offer to take me out for coffee after. But if you don't put in the effort I'll just not bother either
M
If I'm taking her out, she deserves it, and it's only right that I treat her. It's how it works. I'm the one going after her, and she's worth at least her tea for her time and the chance. It's just good manners.
If we're in a relationship, we can draw some lines about sharing expenses, but I still want it to be this way with some things. It's on me if we're eating/drinking out, most driving expenses are on me, and I gift her whatever I feel like.
That said, I have high standards and don't treat women I don't take seriously this way.
We arbitrarily trade off offering to pay for each other. It's just a gesture of goodwill. Nowadays it doesn't really matter in the end since we share bills. In the beginning he paid more often because I was spending a lot of gas to see him. But we never really went out on dates that cost money very often.
Female here, why do men like to pay even if a woman earn close to what he does?
Simple, provider mentality. A man's instinct is to provide for the ones he loves. More recently, people have started going beyond this and value equality in relationship more but there's still plenty of people like that around.
They think if you pay, then you're somehow the boss in the relationship and that can emasculate them. I think the best course of action is to offer to pay, if he refuses it you accept it but at some later point treat him to something or do something nice for him (doesn't have to be big).
This effectively covers all your bases
>instinct
weird way to spell learned behaviour and mindset
>weird way to spell learned behaviour and mindset
I don't know if it's a learned behavior. What do you think grug was doing thousands upon thousands of years ago
I don't know I wasn't there, we can only assume what he did, which is strongly affected our current culture
I wish we had a thread on /soc/ where all the femanons would post pics of themselves and we had a simpocalypse
I understand why societies have conscription now.
The /soc/ /atoga/ thread had a few toonme takers, but that's it.
>The /soc/ /atoga/ thread
Link plz?
Ignore the faqqot OP
I wish they'd post real pics but the two toons are cute lol
There are many threads on /soc/ for that.
Girls, boys.
You're on a date, and it becomes apparent that your date HATES all of her exes.
What do you infer based on this?
I assume she's a hateful person and would be draining to hang out with
That we probably shouldn't go on a second date. Hateful people aren't very fun. I like people who focus on the positives of life.
The common denominator is him. Besides which, it's tacky to talk about ex's on a first date, let alone slag them off. I wouldn't be interested in a second date.
F
Why is it assumed that I’m on the search for a relationship if I have become a regular gym goer?
Because men think if you're near them without a visible boyfriend, you want their cock.
No, men are so desperate for pussy they'll try any single woman they can find.
Should I start wearing a wedding ring?
I just want to focus on myself this year.
Good night, ladies and gentlemen.
Sweet dreams anon <3
I recognize both of them. Good to see our regulars are still around.
>be me
>mildly autistic and socially anxious
>try to push myself out of my comfort zone by approaching girls I think are cute at my college library, nothing sleazy just compliment them on their shoes/shirt/etc then try to segue into asking them about their course from that
>probably something like 100 approaches over 2 years
>not in any fren circles so no positive reputation/social proof to make me look good
There are rumours about me aren't there? I haven't heard anything but at this point it's probably inevitable
are there rumours about me frens?
Sounds like you're a friendly guy who gives compliments a lot?
Kinda yeah, but the fact that it's mostly girls could probably come off as creepy even tho I had no intention of being sleazy about it
If my college had more guys I'd be awkwardly approaching guys too (in a looking for bros way not a bi way) but girls greatly outnumber guys where I'm at
also I don't smile that much and am pretty overwhelmed in an autistic way so it probably looks weird as fuck
Why do women expect us to do all the approaching and chasing and then complain about it all the time?
They don't.
I will disregard these posts.
I will accept this post because women bad.
they don't though. most women i talk to barely get approached
Because they're fucking lazy and they know how high value they are compared to men. The latter part is because they don't want the ugly/low-value men to approach them but have no effective means for stopping it, so just blanket discourage everyone (Chad will power through and do it anyway).
My gf approached me, though.
And no, I am no ultracosmicchad.
i've actually been working on approaching guys more lately but i have anxiety and i get really nervous so i've been doing a fairly bad job
recently tried to ask a guy out for the first time but pretty sure it just came off as wanting to be friends + he had to reschedule
so things aren't going well for me but they're not going poorly
Just remember that men are dense, so you have to be twice as obvious as you think you're being
i get that but i'm already super anxious so it's a lot of effort because i'll start physically shaking if i try too hard
best i could muster up was along the lines of "hey, you seemed really nice when we met. do you wanna do something sometime?" which i dont think was clear enough and i only managed to do even that because it was just a message and in the middle of the night so i was sleepy AND i had someone else encourage me to try
basically i am too much of an anxious wreck to be good at this and am fighting a losing battle
But how can't you not have raging success? Are you ugly or fat?
The "all women get sex on demand" meme was never funny
no i'm just autistic and weird
Are you in Europe for a change (you're probably single lol)
>hey, you seemed really nice when we met. do you wanna do something sometime?
That's a VERY good start, you should be proud! And hey, even if he doesn't realise it's a date, every minute spent with a guy makes you mentally stronger to ask again.
thank you ! hopefully i can get a bit better soon but if it doesn't work out then life goes on, i suppose. i didn't even make it to the hanging out part this time though but we'll see !
i'm the same as the second 5'8" girl who said gl anon and also have been in and out of this thread for a few hours today
Oh ok hehe
Good luck talking to the guys. I can't imagine you don't have success.
> hey, you seemed really nice when we met. do you wanna do something sometime?"
this definitely sounds like a clear date invite to me. both men and women get creeped out if you’re too much too fast. you should say this exactly to the guy you like now.
Thank you for trying
You are the hero we need in these trying times, and all your efforts are greatly appreciated.
I think you need to be very specific with the words you use
if you ask to go out somewhere, it sounds casual
if you ask to do something, it sounds casual
if you say you want to spend some time with me, suddenly my heart skips a beat
hell, if you add "just the two to us" at the end of anything, it'll suddenly have a whole new connotation
Because guys aren't used to girls approaching us, we will always assume it's platonic. Especially since it's become so heavily criticized to assume girls are flirting with us
we all are anon, at least you're trying
shoutout to the anon who missed out on his chance with the cute frog hat girl
yeah, i figured but i start feeling very !!!!!!!! if i feel like i'm coming on too strong to someone even if i'm not.
i like the "could i spend some more time with u" thing more, i feel like on a good day i could pull that off. i just don't think i could manage a "do u want to go on a date" line. i thought i was just clear enough, but i can see how it sounds casual.
also, i feel like i act a little too eager sometimes and that it comes off poorly. i met him when i was drunk and i think i offered to bake him cake like 3 times amongst other things.
>i met him when i was drunk and i think i offered to bake him cake like 3 times amongst other things.
cute
Just remember that guys know the struggles so they won't fault you for tripping over yourself a little or being a bit shy about asking them out. Odds are high they've been there.
>i just don't think i could manage a "do u want to go on a date" line.
if you mean literally, yeah that does sound kinda awkward. Don't write of the "just the two of us" though. I feel like it's pretty casual to say but at the same time it's very clear in meaning. If you don't want to open with it, you can even add it after he starts assuming it's a group activity as some saving grace.
Alternatively, don't be afraid to do things in a more relaxed setting with other people. I've never seen a guy that had the stigma of being against dating friends like I see occasionally being talked about with girls. This'll also allow you to get to know him better & should give you some chances to woo him or get closer to him. Even if he never realizes you're coming onto him you can still manage to capture his heart
i feel like i implied there wouldn't be other people there but i see what u mean. i also don't know if i could pull of a "just the two of us" bc that feels a bit much for me somehow. like very uh.... intimate? i guess. i definitely did think i'd start showing up to more plans i knew he'd be at though. and the not dating friends stigma is silly, i i have only ever dated guys i was friends with first (which is part of why it feels so strange to ask someone out that i don't know incredibly well). i also definitely will see him sometime soon because i offered to lend him my old drawing tablet :)) i also wanted to offer to help him with math but he didn't mention that directly to me but it's a thing i remember him saying so it feels weird to bring it up out of nowhere. but if he ever complains again i have a new excuse !
i mean, no but i was uh considering doing that, ngl. it feels like a bit much because i don't know him super well but i have been considering it. i am, however, out of eggs so i can't right now. maybe i'll go buy some eggs. i do actually have his address now because of the thing i mentioned in the above section.
i said something almost like that but more nervous sounding (i think i started with a "sorry if this is weird but") and got something like "i'm down to hang out if u want" then really casual convo that felt very platonic and not like i did a good job being clear but maybe i'm wrong and it was clear and i'm just second-guessing too much
>bc that feels a bit much for me somehow. like very uh.... intimate?
I mean yeah sure, but that's the point? If the way you're asking doesn't feel intimate it feels like a friendship invitation.
>i am, however, out of eggs so i can't right now. maybe i'll go buy some eggs. i do actually have his address now because of the thing i mentioned in the above section.
I wouldn't go deliver them, HOWEVER when he mentions coming to pick it up, it's a very good opportunity to give him some in a more casual way. It'll definitely feel less intimate than you bringing it just for him obviously but it seems like you'd be more comfortable with it that way. Can also drop a "remember when we were drunk?"
Hope it ends up working out anon
>i offered to bake him cake like 3 times amongst other things.
so uhh... Did you?
If a girl jokingly offered to bake me a cake and then actually showed up with some cake for me, I don't think I'd be dense enough to not realize it's something special.
ladies. does your guys scruff/stubble bother you when he eats you out? i swear i shave really well but it's still kinda scratchy if you feel my face
The feeling of scratchy stubble on my skin drives me WILD. I can't get enough of it. But it's not good if it's like scratching actually on my pussy.
Holy shit wtf
I swear girls are coomers and get off to the weirdest shit
>wtf you like your genitals being stimulated? that's so weird
wtf?
Do you not like to feel girls faces, or their hair on your inner thigh?
Not particularly no
my gf doesn't like, wat do?
Work on a closer shave I guess
literally impossible. i mean i use the good razors and stuff, i wonder if I just put a thin towel or something around her thighs. i just want to eat pussy :~~*(
A towel might work!
I'm legit amazoning some baby towel things now lmao. she's gunna just shake her head...
It’s the thought that counts! A good lover tries his best to make it work.
she's a new gf so still learning the ropes with her. It was so easy to make my last gf cum and this girl is way harder, she claims she only cummed four times in her last relationship of four years. I don't want to put pressure on her to cum, but, it's secretly going to be my mission to figure out how.
I think next time we have sex I want to watch her masturbate or guide my hand, saw that on r*ddit.
Get out normie
t-thanks
Does she use vibrators?
I don't know, I should ask her that. I'd be fine with her bringing that into the picture.
How long have you been together?
two months, sex for only three weeks
Ah gotcha that makes more sense. Sounds like you're in the fun initial exploration phase.
Yeah, it is kinda fun but I'm nervous I won't be able to make her coom. Good news is she is honest when she doesn't like something, that way I'm not wasting my time and can make adjustments. She overall seems really happy though, so hopefully I'm not completely fucking up the sex.
i've already mentioned it to her and she didn't seemed opposed to either, i'd probably prefer a bit of a combo so I can see and feel what she likes. basically I want to get trained for what feels good to her.
>but I'm nervous I won't be able to make her coom.
How about instead of putting all that pressure on yourself (and her!), you focus on the goal of making her feel as good as possible and an orgasm is a pleasant surprise if she has one?
It feels like a guy's experience with sex is really all about the destination. That is absolutely not the case with me. It'd kinda suck to have sex be always focused on my orgasm and not on the experience. If I wanted a fast quick orgasm I'd just hold a vibrator against my clit and wait for it to happen.
I get that, thanks. Yeah, I mean our sessions are long and I think low pressure for her. She seems to be really enjoying herself.
I should say we've been dating two months, and recently had sex (like 3 weeks)
>watch her masturbate
ehhhh
>guide my hand
much more likely
>watch her masturbate
>ehhhh
What's wrong with that?
It just seems more fetish-y to me, and it’s unlikely the average girl would be into it
NTA but I'm surprised you think mutual masturbation isn't vanilla as hell
try going to an actual barber and having him do it
if it's still scruffy something's fucked
if he can make it smooth (he likely can), you can fix it
No it's great
Because this is /atoga/'s home. /soc/ is just a weird offshoot.
My ear hurts what do I do?
Hurt the other ear so it evens out
I want a pet fox.
Do you want a pet fox?
I want to be able to visit someone else's pet fox. Keeping the little bastards seems like torture.
Not exactly related but went on a trip once & the place we stayed at had a fox regularly show up at night when we were sitting around campfire
Pretty cute, it obviously never got close though & scrammed whenever anyone did even the slightest movement
Yes, very much. I love foxes. It's a fucking terrible idea to have them as pets, but I love them.
I'm a Bong and it's always sad seeing foxes on the streets because they're always malnourished and underfed
I know, same. One of my life long dreams is having a fox sanctuary.
aw that's sweet
I'd pet the ones I come across but I worry they'd be diseased
>I'd pet the ones I come across but I worry they'd be diseased
That's the issue, they often are. That's why I don't really like the whole fox hype.
Girls, would you date a nazi? Human race only please
>Human race only please
wtf this is discriminatory towards elves
No
Men and women, do you view women who dress and act feminine as lesser? And do you view and treat masculine women like you do men?
I respect her more for knowing her role. Women ARE lesser
This whole thing is predicated on the idea that the only respect a person should receive is based on whether they could beat you up or not
No, *I* feel lesser around feminine women. Suddenly I feel frumpy and unattractive compared to them.
make rice and i will too (i haven't eaten all day and should at least make dinner)
report back in once ur rice is done, anon
We should draw on a map in which country we are and if a m and live in the same country they must meet for a date, then we're gonna have atoga babies soon
my cock is 6" and my gf says it is too big and hurts, what do? i can just not go as deep but she keeps saying my cock is huge, did her last boyfriend have a micropenis?
You're longer than all my exes, too. Is she having trouble with just the length, or is the girth a problem, too?
Do you date Asians or something?
That's pretty much the only race I haven't dated, actually.
I think it's the length. she seems to like the girth. I'm kinda girthy but not like crazy girthy, I guess I don't know what to compare to.
I'll look for that, thanks
ah okay, yeah I've been taking it much slower when we first start. Do you like half stroke for the first 2-3 min or so and then gradually increase?
>ah okay, yeah I've been taking it much slower when we first start. Do you like half stroke for the first 2-3 min or so and then gradually increase?
Please tell me this isn't the foreplay
nah, i'm not a retard. this is a long way into the production.
cheers.
>cheers
Cheers, to my big but barely used dick. Let's drink to that. I miss that girl. I miss her.
you'll get another one dude. i went a while in-between also.
>Do you like half stroke for the first 2-3 min
Idk only had sex that one time and she was wet af. I just fingered her a bit, then half stroked like you said but slowly, eventually I got to fit it in.
She was very sexually active though and not nervous at all, if your gf isn't that experienced and relaxed you should probably finger her more and make sure she's comfortable.
There's rubber donut cock rings that make it so you can't go too deep
I'm also slightly over 6" and it's above average, dude. Mine is also about as much in girth. What you can do, is focus more on foreplay. If she's hot enough you can probably go for it, but go slowly at first.
What I'm even bigger and girls never said it's too big. Wtf
I think your girl is the exception
do you have that monster girth perhaps?
>uk
>europe
oh no no no
they don't know
>they don't know
I know, I know. But from what superficial research I've done, the EU and even non-EU countries aren't really keen to take in people like me. I wish I had an Irish or Italian grandparent.
I can see that about the elitist snobs. I absolutely loath modernist productions, like where they put everyone in black spandex and the sets are just a big red disc or something. Traditional staging and costumes all the way, although I don't mind when they set things in the 1920s for example, as long as it looks beautiful. I'm sure you'll have a fantastic time regardless.
Honestly a lot of people here don't speak the national language, it's kind of a joke. Unless you go to france you'll likely be able to get by pretty well with just english (at least if you stick to the somewhat larger cities).
>aren't really keen to take in people like me.
yeah I guess I underestimated how much harder it is if you're not already in the EU. Pretty much forced to get a job before you can come over & if you're unskilled like you mentioned odds are low.
Don't worry if you fly over on a visit I'll marry you and put a baby in you so they can't send you back. If other people can do it so can we
Are you in Nordic country? I know a couple of people who married and lived in Norway and I think Denmark, and they only spoke English and seemed to do fine. I always think of other parts of Europe as not being quite so English friendly but I could be wrong. Wherever you are, I'll let you know when I'm coming so we can have our cheeky wedding.
I wasn't really talking about my specific country, but no. It's just that I speak a pretty small language & I get by pretty fine with english while traveling. Obviously you won't be able to expect everyone to speak it (especially older people) but you tend to be able to get by because people do their best to understand
For one, I've seen a decent amount of asians speaking their native language within the family & English to others. And I'm not talking just people who are on vacation but people just doing weekly groceries & shit too.
But yeah, czech, slovakia, germany, netherlands, belgium, etc. all seem pretty good with english (and obviously uk/ireland are good too). Like I mentioned earlier, France is a bit iffy because for some reason they really hate English so they kind of go out of their way to not speak it
Some places will force you to learn one of the native languages to live there permanently though, for example in finland you have to learn either finnish or (for some reason) swedish. Turns out all the immigrants learn swedish because it's WAY easier to learn so there's a bunch of people in finland now that don't even speak finnish
>Wherever you are, I'll let you know when I'm coming so we can have our cheeky wedding.
good, they'll never see it coming
keked
i bet if she would post here she would say her bf has a 9 inch cock
girls are just retarded
And surprisingly, you are here yourself. Everything ok with your mental stability?
How do I stop waking up hangry?
>I want to date and marry a mentally stable person
Women say this, but don't mean it
>difference is I'm a tourist here
I can tell from your r*ddit spacing
Girls, how good are you at blowjobs?
Never tried it
Gud
how do i talk about romance? i added a girl off LULZ who liked romance and even though i consider myself a romancefag i cant talk about it at all so i just kinda did the "what are your hobbies" thing and then she ghosted me after talking for a little, i deleted my account out of embarassment but discord waits 15 days to fully delete it and im too scared to log back in.
>i deleted my account out of embarassment but discord waits 15 days to fully delete it and im too scared to log back in.
oh god you're so much of a spastic it's making me shiver
> i cant talk about it at all
just talk about which ones you've watched/read and liked and recommend some shit and try the shit she recommends and discuss ones you share
I don't understand
>just talk about which ones you've watched/read
i dont watch movies or read at all and im a shonentard
This isn't the real you, right? This is someone else pretending to be you, right?
Your problem isn't lacking romance, it's being braindead in general.
thats not me retards its some autist
So answer the questions? Why did you waste your cool down on this
then respond before I enter the nuclear launch codes
or are YOU the fake
If that's your attitude, then I believe it is you. NEVER FORGET, on January 24th 2023 the good denizens of /atoga/ met an Anon who believes in True Love but won't read a fucking book.
>i dont watch movies or read at all and im a shonentard
wait I'm confused
wait HANG ON
did you mean you were both romantic personalities? I'm fucking lost
what do you mean you consider yourself a "romancefag"
am I dreaming what the fuck is this
>what do you mean you consider yourself a "romancefag"
He dreams of having a girl fall in love with him because he beat up the Bad Guys.
Ask her about what she likes about romance. You just talk about the meta of romance. Ask a lot of questions.
Also do you mean romantic dates or the media genre of romance movies/books?
moreso the romantic relationship/dates aspect. ive watched a few romance movies before but what i meant is i cant "woo" a woman or whatever the word is. and im not a shonenspic either like the other guy.
we talked for a little bit about that but it didnt go anywhere
How did it come up that you were both into having a romance-style relationship? How did you two start talking anyway? What else did you talk about and how long have you been talking?
so what the fuck did you mean when you said you were "a romancefag"
why did you add her? was it literally just because "mmm female person me must talk to"
If you don't have anything in common or you don't feel a connection, it's not weird to just let it fizzle out or say so. You don't have to fucking delete your account because it's fizzling out
Different thread on /adv/ has me thinking.
Women, how many sexual partners have you been with? Were they ONS, FWB and or LTR?
Seven, all in committed and exclusive relationships.
I'm feeling extra schizo tonight.
>State gender
how do you feel about schizo guys?
Why did women ruin journalism?
Journalists have always been scum.
What’s wrong with women masturbating? Don’t you want them to be horny? It’s healthy.
Nta, I hate coomers.
Sex is meant to be a private, intimate thing between a man and a woman.
>What’s wrong with women masturbating? Don’t you want them to be horny?
wait hang on
aren't these opposites
don't women get LESS horny if they masturbate more
Female coomers are just sick
Horny girl “coomers” are fine. Having a high libido is fine. Having sex is fine. Are you still in the mentality of girls being icky or something?
Don't let him find out about the fact girls also P-word
Pillage?
If women are horny they'll fuck a lot of men which is bad
if you stop masturbating eventually youll learn to control yourself and it really wont be much of a problem unless youre (maybe unconsciously) surrounding yourself with coomer shit
Women shouldn't fuck a lot
Women having high libidos is kinda bad because they'll fuck a lot, and if they're single that's bad
>Women shouldn't fuck a lot
Women should fuck as much as is reasonable. Fucking is great. Women being horny is great.
Yes, monogamy is good, and having a partner who satisfies all your needs is ideal, but we live in a world where that can’t always be the case.
Stop repressing women’s libido. It’s fucking creepy and gay.
Women should only fuck a lot with one man
Horny single women are bad
>Horny single women are bad
And how are they supposed to find a fucking husband, retard?
>STOP ENJOYING YOURSELF
Sex is good.
>And how are they supposed to find a fucking husband, retard?
Not by fucking 100 men, that's for sure, which is what horny single women do
the original topic was about masturbation retard
Women can't keep it in their pants because any man would fuck them
Coomer women are fine if they wouldn't fuck but they do
ahh the good old "girls snap their fingers and sex happens"
great we're back here AGAIN, I sure missed it in that hour it wasn't being talked about
>ahh the good old "girls snap their fingers and sex happens"
Yes, that's literally what happens. Any woman who isn't the bottom 5% can get dick about as fast as ordering a pizza.
Guys, should I put pineapple on my free dicks??
Depends if you want to swallow or not
I think you're underestimating how many guys would turn it down
Keep in mind, a chick that walks up to you & asks if you want to have sex LIKELY has done the same to many others
>I think you're underestimating how many guys would turn it down
maybe some
>Keep in mind, a chick that walks up to you & asks if you want to have sex LIKELY has done the same to many others
if she's clean, body count is irrelevant to hookups
>body count is irrelevant to hookups
yeah ok buddy
>I think you're underestimating how many guys would turn it down
There was a video where a girl asked random guys if they'd fuck and half of them said yes
1 in 2 is pretty good odds
There's a video of dudes asking girls if they want to make out & half of them said yes
I wouldn't suggest you try it though
I want anchovies on my dick pizza.
Men are horny as fuck I don't know what to say
Go and offer sex to any random as a woman and see how long it takes to get some dick
Hell do it as a man in the gay area of town
>ahh the good old "girls snap their fingers and sex happens"
Why do women always play dumb with how fucking easy it is for them to get laid?
Since you think I'm a woman, I keep fucking snapping my fingers & nothing's happening
are my fingers broke?
>Since you think I'm a woman, I keep fucking snapping my fingers & nothing's happening
You're supposed to snap them on your phone with Tinder open, silly
>100 MEN
And you wonder why you’re single.
>I'm a bad person cause I don't want my wife to have fucked 100 men
Holy reddit
>a lot of people here are in la la land and thing the perfect relationship is two virgins getting married
What is wrong with that though
>Yes, monogamy is good, and having a partner who satisfies all your needs is ideal, but we live in a world where that can’t always be the case
homosexual cuck
Incel homosexual. How are you supposed to find a partner if you don’t have sex?
>Sex is just a bodily need like shitting
Pathetic.
Go jack off to cuckold porn you fucking freak
>How are you supposed to find a partner if you don’t have sex?
you have forgotten a lot of people here are in la la land and thing the perfect relationship is two virgins getting married
It’s childish, but I don’t necessarily hold it against them.
Lrn2reed
Incels everywhere.
A woman being horny for one man she's in love with = good
A woman being horny while having no man she's in love with = recipe for sluttery
virgins with high libidos are a myth
>A woman being horny for one man she's in love with = good
Sure.
>A woman being horny while having no man she's in love with = recipe for sluttery
Just you being mistrusting and hateful of women.
You don’t want to start and keep a relationship out of ignorance or fear. Those always die.
virgins with high libidos are not real anon
you gotta choose one
>Shitting is great. Women shitting bed is great.
>Yes, shitting once a day is good, and having a clean toilet to use each time is ideal, but we live in a world where that can't always be the case.
>Stop encouraging Pajeet's constipation.
Imagine if you felt this way for any other bodily need.
Oh are we on day 7 of NoShit are we?
I masturbate to keep my sex well and active for my bf
what, you think your pussy is going to seal shut if you don't use it regularly? or your boobs will deflate without regular groping?
My sex drive is very much "use it or lose it". I pretty much go into hibernation if I don't have sex or masturbate for too long (on the scale of weeks usually). When I masturbate more, I initiate sex with my bf more.
I was half-kidding, but damn that sucks
Ok, enjoy your sexual maintenance then
I'm just glad I figured it out. It's not a particularly annoying thing to have to do. But not having a sex drive destroys relationships and I don't want that for either of us.
Is there anything more pathetic than a grown ass man who believes in fairy tale shit like "true love" and "soulmates" and "the one"?
yeah, when the girl divorces him, takes half his shit and demands alimony
It's the SAHMs who take the most of your money in such a divorce due to "lost wages" and "missed career advancement", and yet LULZners always insist that their future wives should be SAHMs. Curious.
nah, the working ones do too.
I only want one of us to be stay at home when we have kids at an age where they need that constant presence. If she would like to advance her career I'd be perfectly fine with being the one to stay at home. I just don't want my child to grow up without a parent there with them.
Wow you're so edgy and brave I envy you
I really hope you aren't a man because that is the most effeminate response you could have come up with. Next you'll tell me I'm edgy because I don't wear a cock cage with a frilly dress.
More pathetic is a man who is constantly bitter about his wife and complaining about her
That man was the type of guy who fell for all those memes and is now bitter because he learnt the hard way.
Usually they seem like the types who just go through the motions of what you're supposed to do. They rush it all and get married too young. They think that this is as good as it'll ever get. Men like this rarely have a "romantic" phase. They're too entrenched in being manly for that. Hell, they think expressing affection to his wife beyond sex is gay in the first place
They're usually taught by their mothers that "you will find the perfect woman one day son!" and then they go through the motions like you said. They fall head over heels for the first woman who is interested in them, and decide this is fate, and then rush into it.
That's not about believing in love, that's about being a poor judge of character and having zero self-insight
It's both.
If love doesn't exist do you think relationships in general are doomed and worthless?
I didn't say that "love doesn't exist", I said that "TRUE LOVE" doesn't exist.
>Hell, they think expressing affection to his wife beyond sex is gay in the first place
stop it stop it stop it
I already have gotten a really bad impression of men in the few weeks I've been here
I don't want to find out there's guys like that as well
It's particularly a boomer thing but some younger guys have it too. It's less common in current generations than it used to be.
One who feels the need to drag others down to his level
ATOGA really is simp central huh? "Men" brought up with overbearing mothers. YIKES.
>"Men" brought up with overbearing mothers
Try again, I grew up without one. Did your first gf just dump you?
You literally believe in shit for teenage girls. You are feminized.
>feminized
lmao I wish you could say that to my face
(you)
Can you clarify what you mean by "soul mates", "the one", and "true love"? Some people have more or less extreme definitions. What do you find pathetic about it? What should men do instead? What advice do you have for a guy hung up on this?
>What do you find pathetic about it?
It's the kind of thing, decades ago, only teenage girls took seriously. It shows how feminized boys have become that they grow up taking it seriously now.
>What should men do instead? What advice do you have for a guy hung up on this?
Realize that it's not real and that love is something you build and maintain. There is not a "twin flame" waiting out there for fate to bring you together, humans are much more flawed and selfish that you realize. Also learn to stop letting tingly feelings cloud your judgement.
How come your ideas are facts, but ones you don't like are "tingly feelings"? Neither can be proven.
>How come your ideas are facts, but ones you don't like are "tingly feelings"?
I'm talking about how many idiots get into a relationship and allow
>she makes me feel good
to lead them to stupid decisions
I wasn't making a claim about epistemology, not was I claiming that I am on the side of "facts".
Oh, ok. Into the pile of opinionated loudmouths you go, then.
awww baby too scared to accept that life isn't a fairy tale? go get pegged sissy boy
In what ways do you see guys expressing this belief? What age group? What are the wrong actions to take? I assume the right actions are the build & maintain thing you mentioned. What does that look like?
>In what ways do you see guys expressing this belief?
You can see it here all the time for one, but it happens in teenage boys and young men the most.
>What are the wrong actions to take?
Simping is the most extreme one, rushing into a marriage or a job or some life circumstance, neglecting yourself and changing yourself because she makes him feel good.
>What does that look like?
First, men should focus on building themselves up. Maintain firm boundaries and do not let women be the main focus of your life. Discard the idea of oneitis and "I can't live without her". That doesn't mean just sleep around and don't give a fuck about women, but that love takes effort.
>You can see it here all the time for one
I've always seen people giving those guys a hard time. That's why the words simp, oneitis, cuck are all negative
>First, men should focus on building themselves up.
Sounds reasonable
>Maintain firm boundaries and do not let women be the main focus of your life.
What are some major boundary failures you often see?
>but that love takes effort.
What do you do?
>What are some major boundary failures you often see?
Continually making concessions over a long period of time. The "man cave" really is the pinnacle of this. It says "my wife owns the whole house and I get to have one night to myself a week".
>What do you do?
All of the shit you normally do in a relationship. Don't get fat, lazy or stop working on yourself like so many married or LTR people do. Keep the passion alive.
>All of the shit you normally do in a relationship.
What if I'm a retard and don't know what those things are
>Don't get fat, lazy or stop working on yourself like so many married or LTR people do
Thanks, yeah. I try to be mindful of that
Cynics who want to bully strangers online into feeling as miserable as they do
Women do you actually like sex scenes in movies? I as a male seem disgusted by the exploitation and I'm nowhere close to being a feminist simp
>I as a male seem disgusted by the exploitation
u wat bro. You know they're not actually fucking right?
Usually it's young women who are trying to get some kind of acting gig so they get their tits out
Can't imagine that was the goal when wanting to be an actress
In the majority of sex scenes there's no tits out.
I highly doubt willingness to get your tits out for a movie is a deciding factor in any respectable movie
Maybe stop watching absolute dogshit
>In the majority of sex scenes there's no tits out.
Do you define sex scenes as just kissing?
>Maybe stop watching absolute dogshit
I do but people demand it for some reason
I've never watched more than a like 5 minutes of Game of Thrones
>Do you define sex scenes as just kissing?
don't act like the majority of scenes don't have her still wearing a bra, covered with sheets or at an angle where you can't see shit & the guy is on top
Only on network television
So what you don't like is the actress being manipulated/coerced into something she doesn't want to do?
No it's mostly because sex and nudity is almost always in poor taste
Given that fact plus the fact it's mostly done to appeal to coomers plus the fact most of the tits you see are from young desperate actresses creates the disgust
Exploitation? I don't know what you mean by that. It's usually awkward if I'm with anyone else, since it's an intimate activity and it feels inappropriate to watch with others.
I don't have the graph, but there was a survey that showed women (of all ages) were more likely to watch something if it had depicted sex scenes than men were
I'd imagine because women watch more romance. If people are having sex it means that even if the overall genre isn't romance, it's in a subplot.
This is the only reason that makes sense to me. Sex scenes are uncomfortable in movies for almost everyone. Even watching with your SO, it's like the vibe isn't supposed to be horny. You're just chilling watching and movie and then it's an awkward sex scene that kills the vibe
I've never seen the source for that
It's unverifiable
Well as I said
plus 99% of nudity in media is just to get coomers to watch it
No, I'd rather watch a gory murder scene
Just bought a yam and acted like it's a potato so I tried to make it into french fries, what am I in for?
isn't that how you make sweet potato fries?
I don't know, I'm in Eastern Europe and we don't eat that I just saw it in the supermarket. What am I in for? It's already in my pan.
N...No, those are made with sweet potatoes...
What's the difference? I've bought both and they taste the same. But I've only had orange yams, not white.
The difference is that a sweet potato is a sweet potato, but I yam what I yam.
The terms are often used interchangeably, so I honestly don't know the difference lol
That looks like yams to me
Damn, you guys weren't joking about "sweet". What do you eat these fries with, just salt? Too sweet for mayonnaise I think.
Balsamic vinegar
Have you never had sweet potatoes at all? Yeah I love em enough that salt is usually plenty. But I'll throw whatever spices I have at them. Paprika is a common one I do. Onion and/or garlic is great as well. Ketchup would work I guess but I don't keep any, it doesn't really interest me. Mayo would be fine idk why you don't think it'd work. I've never dipped my fries straight into mayo though. I'll use it as a sauce bads
No, first time. I don't have anything but spicy red pepper, I will drink beer.
Spicy red pepper would be great
How are you making them? Do you have a deep frier? When I've done them oven style, they're soft and break easy so you'll need to eat them with a fork but still delicious
I cut them like potatoes and I'm frying them in the pan with oil.
Pic rel is what I bought, was I scammed?
Looks the same as the sweet potatoes in my cupboard
>What’s wrong with women masturbating? Don’t you want them to be horny? It’s healthy.
Wait, yams and sweet potatoes aren't the same thing?
Should I just open my text to a girl with asking her if she wants to go to the movies this weekend (we talked about movies when we met and she said she was looking to go), or should I do the needful and open with some smalltalk first? It feels like it'd be a waste of time but maybe I'm just a utility texter who prefers talking about stuff in-person.
How familiar are you with her?
Movies tend to be pretty bad first dates unless it's paired with something afterwards because it doesn't really let you get to know eachother. More suited for a few dates in
Nta yeah don't take the poor girl to a big dark room where you can't talk right after meeting.
My plan was to take her to the movies and then get shakes afterwards.
We met last weekend on a uni trip to the state's capital. She's studying abroad from Japan. We walked around the city together a bunch and chatted a lot on the bus. She likes movies and she likes animated stuff (Disney and Ghibli) so I thought I'd take her to see Puss in Boots. I'll see her again in 2 weeks for a winter retreat trip though.
>My plan was to take her to the movies and then get shakes afterwards.
It could work but I think it only works if you're both REALLY into the movie
Since you already have spent time with her a movie sounds good. You've done the correct thing to go out for something afterwards too. Since you're probably going to a matinee, prepare yourself for a bunch of kids in the audience.
>we talked about movies when we met
Tell us more about when you met
Is it weird if a man:
>Doesn't care for size difference in a relationship
>Doesn't like when women are childish and cutesy and the man has to play daddy
Because this feels more normal than not.
I don't like when women play dumb or incompetent or want to 'play' on my protective instincts or whatever.
Depends on what you want instead
A woman who is mature, responsible and adult.
Okay I asked since sometimes guys who say what you said go the other extreme and want a mommy gf
I had an inkling you were getting at that. Why?
What do you mean, why?
Do you have a bad experience with mommy dudes or somethin?
Yes, on adv
Why assume all people with a kink are the same though?
If you ended up wanting a mommy gg I would ask further questions to determine if you were an annoying one or not.
The annoying ones are annoying in the same way that the girls you originally mentioned are.
I mean it's pretty obvious most women won't be into the mommy type because it's not the relationship they're looking for
I don't see how this confuses you
It's like asking a girl if she wants a little baby diaper boy just because she doesn't want her husband to be dominant in the relationship
why does it seem like all the regular foids have bfs and all the regular moids are sad and single?
>t.I spend too much time here
Because men are disposable.
A lot of the femanons at least say they're single
I know this because I'm keeping track of them all in my little notebook to figure out where to move to to optimize my chances of an atoga gf
Because you ignore all the single foids and not-single moids. There's plenty of both.
Because it's easier for women to stop being alone
Only two, three including Sweet, have bfs.
How can you even call a guy a yandere if you realize he's a yandere before it's too late
That's just being clingy and weird
I swear yandere stopped having the meaning it used to with how much I see it pop up nowadays in seemingly innocuous settings
you fuckers told me to socialize to get a gf
well I socialized, where is my gf
How did you socialize
met some guy from uni for 2 hours
Ask him out on a date but remember to say no homo
Congrats on the bf anon
but they are all taller than me so big chances I'll be the bottom
everyone knows that's determined by dick sizes, not height, anon
Is it real? A lot of guy approached me but always assumed I'm a top and never understood why, because from look I would consider myself a bottom
Thats where you belong
oh no
did you get his number?
Just tell him you go on LULZ
what is he going to do, cry you look at too many half naked men on the internet?
Yes I have their numbers
>Just tell him you go on LULZ
her*
And when people find out I'm using this site always assume I'm some lunatic schizo
>And when people find out I'm using this site always assume I'm some lunatic schizo
Well yeah, this is the dark web hideout for cybercriminals who steal bitcoins and explode vans
And you're not?
good question
I usually read between sets
>I usually read between sets
read a book my african american
don't do things you don't want to be seen doing in public. It's such a basic rule. I did not open LULZ a single time when I was at college
I wonder if she even noticed what it was though, please tell me you were on a sfw board like adv at least & didn't scroll past a few dicks along the way
I was scrolling adv, and I meant reading book on my phone by reading
Just tell her you're bisexual & love looking at half naked dudes on the internet, like LULZ
problem solved
LULZ has plenty of normal boards but pol & b just give it a bad wrap, so if you can get the chance to talk about it (aka you're not a spast) you can make them realize you're not as much of a loser as she thinks (you still are one tho, imagine browsing LULZ at the gym H O L Y)
>imagine browsing LULZ at the gym H O L Y
Have to keep refreshing the thread to check for new (You)s. I wouldn't want to miss any-- would you???
this I'm such a (You) homosexual
We have both male and female posters who browse /atoga/ while naked. Use that knowledge as you wish.
Is this true? Are there any naked femanon rn?
I only browse atoga in my panties if that counts
Even better
Aren't you cold, ma'am? I can see your nipples going all pointy.
I never feel better than when in the cold to be honest
Horrifying. You could be joining me under the covers right now. Instead I'll have to keep myself warm alone. 🙁
how are you not fucking FREEZING
also why would you sit around in panties instead of comfy pajama pants in the first place.
What would atoga be doing in your panties?
Where else would it be?
Not my problem. I'm only interested in women who wear clothing. It's too cold to be naked.
>check atoga before I turn off light in bed & check atoga right after I wake up
I guess I don't get to talk but still
I know that feel. There are some legitimately interesting people in this thread who aren't in the same time zone as me, and I'm liable to get a (You) at a time that's not convenient for me.
Gym crush saw me using LULZ on phone between sets. It's over isn't it?
So I had a bit of a shitty night with my class. We were doing a meet up at a bar and I came in late. My friends were sitting near my ex gf. The only free seat was literally right next to her. I sat down and said hi to her. She acted like she didn't know me and picked up her bag and went to another table. It hurt me really bad and ruined my night.
After our breakup she said she wanted to be friends and I waited a couple of weeks to give distance an messaged her like a friend asking how she was doing and to show I felt no ill will towards her. We messaged each other back and forth for like a week and then I thought I did my job and we stopped.
I want to give her the benefit of the doubt and suggest she was just going to talk to other people but the fact it was immediately when I got there... idk
Did I do something wrong? I feel like shit
Maybe one of her friends convinced her that you're human scum and not worth talking to
Her best friend was fine talking to me though. She stayed at the table I was at and everything
I, uh... hmm. I dunno then. Maybe she was just in a bad mood. You know how women can be. I'm sure it's nothing you did.
Everyone says "let's be friends" after a break up. It just means "I don't plan to be actively hostile to you." It doesn't mean she actually wants to spend time with you. It would be best to avoid her. Especially in a bar where she might get the chance to meet new guys, and her ex right there is awkward
I mean I'm perfectly fine with not spending time with her but I thought we could at least acknowledge each other in a "hello [name] sense" yknow
Well looks like she's not, sorry Anon. If you get put in this position again, give her a quick hi and then turn to greet one of your other friends. You can also just stand behind your other friends in a lot of bar settings. How long exactly has it been since the break up?
>After our breakup she said she wanted to be friends
I mean... What is she supposed to say "I hope we never meet again"? "I want to be enemies"?
Very few relationships end & turn into actual friendships, though apparently for lesbians it's common?
But why the fuck were your friends sitting with your ex and why the fuck did not a single one of them make a spot so you didn't have to sit next to your ex
What fucking retards are you friends with
tbh i wasn't really expecting to see her tonight as she never really went out to these class meetups and I dunno why my friends sat with her.
See I was just trying to say hello just to be polite and then just talk to my friends and other classmates. We broke up in the start of November. I just dunno why I'm so upset, by all accounts I shouldn't be.
Maybe she was taken off guard and felt nervous and awkward and just froze up?
>Maybe she was taken off guard and felt nervous and awkward and just froze up?
Maybe its this. I suppose I did appear out of nowhere as her back was turned to me when I came over and sat down
its not embarrassment that Im feeling. I think I still have feelings for her and to have her do this just hurt me a lot. Like our relationship meant fuck all to her. I dont think she was embarrassed as she seemed happy to be talking to her other friends whenever I glanced in her direction.
Maybe its just me being drunk thats making me dwell on it
>as she seemed happy to be talking to her other friends
What would she look like if she was embarrassed?
Yeah youre right i dont know what I was thinking when I wrote that.
I shouldn't be letting her live in my head after this night
you handled it well you shouldn’t be embarrassed. she is definitely embarrassed about it now and she should be honestly.
Do you wear condoms in a relationship?
Would you take bc for men if it meant your gf doesn't have to suffer?
No we’ll just have kids
You gonna have kids every year? What if she decides against that? After all she does all the work. Guess you are mormon.
She wants lots of kids already, she says 10, idk if we’ll have that many though.
>Do you wear condoms in a relationship?
khhv
>Would you take bc for men if it meant your gf doesn't have to suffer?
I'd prefer if neither of us has to use that shit. If we have to engage in other ways to get off, I'm willing to.
it makes me sad that men really don't care about marriage anymore, very happy to have a bf that wants to be married
Bait Hours are over, this is Legitimate Discussion Time.
not interested in bait, it's common knowledge that men are done with marriage, truly sad but it is what it is, just showing appreciation for the man i have that does that
Is it a surprise? If the relationship goes bad, it is legally a death sentence for the man.
Honestly I don't feel like it would add anything plus to our relationship
Why do people constantly judge me and assume me as some fragile useless child, when I hustle they are surprised I managed to do anything on my own yet expect me to because I am not a child yet still treat me like one and want to do things for me? It doesn't make any sense. People think I am an actual bunny, a cute fluffy empty headed bunny who doesn't care about anything. Does this mean I'm just too cute to be taken seriously?
Not sure if I read this correctly but
I think success in women, like REAL success, is emasculating to a lot of men because they're raised with the idea that men run the world yada yada yada. When women are successful, men will look for excuses as to why that is "oh she just got it because she's pretty" or "I bet she's sleeping with the boss". But when you make it on your own it's hard to find any argument like that, so all that's left is surprise at the fact you got "lucky"
Are you short and thin?
Yes thin but not short I am the average height of women 166cm (5'5)
Usually hear this from small woman who are not really look adult. Guess you can't really do against it but learn to live with it.
why are the moids here so smarmy?
State gender
Have you ever been bullied?
And if yes are you still angry because of it?
F
Yes
More like angry at myself for letting such warms bully me. Not angry at them, they are not worth it snd do not exist in my life anymore.
Asking this only because I used to be a bully in elementary school back then. And now happen to meet sometimes with the kid (now man) who were mainly bullied, and turns out his life wasn't turned out great, like he goes to psychiatrist and other shit. Would there be any point in talking with him about it?
M
Yes
No
m
yes, A LOT
no, I'm more angry that I let myself bully others.
F
>Have you ever been bullied?
of course
>And if yes are you still angry because of it?
No it's whatever, still a bit traumatized from childhood abuse but that's something beyond bullying that lives in your subconscious