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Ask the opposite gender anything
Limited how do you pee with your tampon in edition

  1. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I never learned to use a tampon

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Why not?

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Scared it would get stuck

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Neither but I used one once recently because work provides them for free and I got caught out with a surprise period. It's really no big deal in the end (unless you have a hymen, in which case skip it).
      Not very comfy though.

      Scared it would get stuck

      Flashing back to the panic I had the first time I used a menstrual up and couldn't get it out lol. I did eventually, but god damn, I had to go about elbow deep and push like I was having a baby. Not something I'd be keen to have to do in a public toilet lol.
      At least tampons have string and don't have a suction seal.

      Pads/period undies all the way.

  2. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Men, is it true that you can taste with your balls?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Yes, that’s why we like to dunk our balls in champagne.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        I knew it! Can you taste pussy when you have sex though?

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          My balls don’t go in the pussy.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Supposedly

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Why don‘t you put the theory to the test?

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          I have a mouth to taste stuff.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Yes that's why we like to dip our balls in liquid morkite

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Mh yes, can you describe the taste?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >the women found out about nether sampling
      Thursdays are ruined forever, lads. Fucking internet.

  3. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    [...]

    fucking an ugly girl won’t kill you

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Maybe not, maybe it‘s aids

  4. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Femanons I got a 94% on my math test, can you please make a voca saying I’m a good boy and that you are proud of me?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Sorry willow, i got the rona, i sound like a demon.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        I’m not that guy

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Sure sure

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Femanon, I’m not this person you’re obsessed with, but even though you have Rona I would still really appreciate being called a good boy.

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              Ok, i believe you. Did you study hard or did you just wing it? Either way, you‘re a good boy but i won‘t make a voca.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                I have been studying since yesterday and today at the math center, whenever I got stuck I was getting help from the people there.
                Got it done once I felt I was good.

    • 2 months ago
      autism

      https://voca.ro/13Dd4JPiw4gt
      I haven't recorded a voca in so long, it took me four tries

      We ain’t never finding love are we
      Only the girls here will won’t they

      honestly at this point I just want to have my first kiss lmao

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        NTA but very wholesome/10

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Thank you

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Did you lose your aussie accent?

        • 2 months ago
          autism

          No, I still sound the same. You can hear it when I said 94, it's quite Australian to not pronounce the t.

          It's been a while since I've seen you, autism-chan! I hope you're doing well. I miss your kind words and lovely personality.

          Hi, nonna. I recognise your writing style. I'm doing really well. I've been cooking a lot more. I made pasta salad with basil pesto and feta the other day, and a few nights ago I made lasagne. I hope you're doing well, too.

          If you were a girl that worked extremely hard to get by, would you ever be interested in a privileged deadbeat retard?

          Deadbeat? No.

          Gf is a virgin and actually hot. Ever since NNN she has been learning about semen retention and thinks I should continue with it until we get married. Her reasoning is that because I have had sex with other women in the past that I have soul ties with them. She thinks that semen retention will build up my energy and break those ties the first time we have sex so we will bond together properly and all my love and energy will be transfered purely to her. She used Harry potter as an analogy and said it's like how Voldemort split his soul up into multiple objects. She thinks the same happens to people when they have multiple partners.

          Do you think there is some validity to it? It kind of makes sense to me because I was always somewhat hung up on my first and felt like she warped my perception of sex. Where back before I ever had sex, my idea of sex aligned a lot more to my current gfs views, but obviously I never met anyone like her back then.

          I'm a virgin, so take what I say with a grain of salt, but I worry that she's hyping up sex too much. When it actually happens, I worry that she'll feel disappointed or upset that she doesn't feel "all your love and energy" transfer to her. Ultimately it's up to you two whether you wait until marriage, but it's good to keep expectations realistic.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            I'm glad to hear you're doing well, and those dishes both sound amazing. I'm a big fan of Italian cuisine. I need to get back to cooking more, I've stopped doing it as much recently.
            I'm doing pretty much the same, work is going well but I've had zero success figuring out how to meet women. I even tried a few dating apps and had no luck.It's become a bit demoralizing to be honest.
            It's good to hear you're working on yourself, but don't stay in that mode too long or you might get stuck in it. Whatever you do though I wish you luck and happiness. If anyone deserves that, you do.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        It's been a while since I've seen you, autism-chan! I hope you're doing well. I miss your kind words and lovely personality.

  5. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Who else drives fast(er) when they listen to drum and bass/jungle?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I wish

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I drive faster when listening to classical music.

  6. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I hate that I love women.

  7. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Wtf girls, I just discovered that 90% of all hot women can be found shopping at bunnings on a weekend.

    Why are y'all in a hardware store when you don't have a bf to help you?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Cool bunnings warehouse ad

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I go to Bunnings like every couple of weeks and I don't think I've ever seen a hot person there, are you in a rich suburb?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Girls go to hardware stores for the manly men. There’s lots of them.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        I go to the hardware store to get supplies but ok.

        Should I write her?

        What will you write?

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          ask if she got home safe
          we never texted before

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Need more context. Did you just get her number?

  8. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    To other girls do you find that sex often starts out awkward with new partners or is something wrong?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Get comfortable and relaxed with each other

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I feel like the sexual tension is usually that strong that there‘s no room left for awkwardness. Idk if this is a red flag in your situation, could be factors that aren‘t inherently bad, like you both being very young/inexperienced or shy in general. What do you think is the reason for the awkwardness?

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        It's just that we messed around for a long time but neither of us really got off. I was with a guy for a year and things started awkward but I thought that was because we were virgins. New bf isn't a virgin but hasn't had a lot of sex

  9. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Why couldnt I just be normal like you guys and gals?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >on LULZ
      >in an atoga thread
      >thinks anyone here is normal
      Anon pls

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        I mean atleast you guys have had relationships. I havent ever kissed a girl and I am 23. Please give me a crumb of pity.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          >Please give me a crumb of pity
          I genuinely feel sorry for you. I can‘t imagine how painful your situation must be and i am not even sure if there‘s anything you could do about it.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            🙁

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Bro there are plenty of us 24yo+ KHVs here

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            we have a bunch of full on robe-and-hat wizards in here too

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              Based
              Will prolly be me someday kek...

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                Ugh i need to stop fetishizing wizards.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                They got pretty cool wands tho

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                Is that an innuendo?

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                Harry Potter Penis.

                Penis.

                I meant pic rel. I hate harry potter. Please never talk to me about it ever again.

                Harry Potter.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHH

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                All girls love Harry Potter tho...

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                I meant pic rel. I hate harry potter. Please never talk to me about it ever again.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Just put yourself out there, don’t worry about that stuff. The good thing is your situation is assumed to not exist so people won’t probably ask. You’re still young enough to turn the ship around.

  10. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    where can I get an honest rate? I feel like my hairline is receding and my shit looks are failing me but I want a second opinion from someone honest.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Nowhere lol
      Best you can do is here but we have mental problems so we're not normal people

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      /soc/ rate thread

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        thank you

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        thank you

        where can I find /soc/ threads?

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          LULZ.com/soc

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Nowhere lol
      Best you can do is here but we have mental problems so we're not normal people

      WheatWaffles will rate you objectively for a small fee based on his hyper autistic scale. Or you can just watch his videos about it and make the judgment and do the autistic math yourself. He has a lot of good stats and stuff, I stumbled across his channel from watching some meme channel and I really don't care about looks or dating or things incels care about, but he makes dull things interesting by applying data to them

  11. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    We ain’t never finding love are we
    Only the girls here will won’t they

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Girls will be desperate enough to settle for us in 5-10 years. Eventually, all those old women who tell you "oh wow, you're such a fine responsible young man, you're such a catch" will be right because we'll be dating old women, lol.

      No seriously though, I hope we'll find love. I'm not sure you and me will ever know what it's like to be someone's first choice, but at least we could potentially be loved. Right?

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        I’d rather not find love than be with used goods

        https://voca.ro/13Dd4JPiw4gt
        I haven't recorded a voca in so long, it took me four tries

        [...]
        honestly at this point I just want to have my first kiss lmao

        It’s not happening is it

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous
          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            On my grandmother’s daughter I’ve had enough

        • 2 months ago
          autism

          I'm still hopeful. I'm not dating right now because I'm focusing more on improving my mental health, so it won't happen any time soon.

          NTA but very wholesome/10

          mwah

          Thank you

          Nah thank you, I love calling cute men "good boy." (Only if they want me to.) Makes me feel warm and happy. I haven't had the opportunity to do it in a while and I missed the nice feelings.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            You a cute<3

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >Nah thank you, I love calling cute men "good boy." (Only if they want me to.) Makes me feel warm and happy. I haven't had the opportunity to do it in a while and I missed the nice feelings.
            I’d love to have someone who calls me a good boy, I’d call you a good girl too.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Doubt it

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        What do you doubt
        Are you agreeing or disagreeing

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          >Only the girls here will won’t they
          Doubt it, some do and some don't

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            But they’ll only be alone by choice

            I'm still hopeful. I'm not dating right now because I'm focusing more on improving my mental health, so it won't happen any time soon.

            [...]
            mwah

            [...]
            Nah thank you, I love calling cute men "good boy." (Only if they want me to.) Makes me feel warm and happy. I haven't had the opportunity to do it in a while and I missed the nice feelings.

            My mental state is unironically this bad because I haven’t dated yet

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              Or haven‘t you dated yet because your mental health is that bad?

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                I wouldn’t call being shy and awkward as a “bad mental state”

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                Why not? It‘s a sign that you lack confidence and a lack in confidence is a symptom of feeling like you‘re not good enough, not feeling good enough is basically the core of all mental illness.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                This poster is wrong, and believes in the just world fallacy.

                I wouldn’t call being shy and awkward as a “bad mental state”

                This poster knows what is up.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous
              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                NTA but I think for a lot of us here, we are in a bit of a catch-22.
                We lack confidence because we lack experience.
                But to get experience, we need confidence.

                Sort of like "need experience to get job, need job to get experience". Because employers, like girls and friends, have other options competing for the spot. So why choose the guy with no experience?
                We're struggling to find entry level jobs that will let us learn and practice a little.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                Yeah, i know, but as with a job, it‘s not going to work to wait around for someone to hire you with no experience, you‘d probably have to fake it to make it. Because it‘s the same problem, those who haven‘t been able to make the cut right away are mainly those who had a troubled background. Just like with entry level jobs, those that don‘t get them are those who have been struggling with stuff long before it came to looking for those first employments. For example, if you had to cope with an unhealthy family situation instead of being able to focus your energy on learning the basics of normal social interactions with your peers, you‘ll be falling behind more and more, feeling more and more like you‘re not like the others and thus becoming more and more awkward and shy. Nobody is shy just randomly, it‘s always that you‘ve assumed, observed and experienced that you‘re not functional at the same level as those you want to belong to.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                Yeah. It's just that anyone who can fake it... well they're not really faking it, they're just doing it. A good conversation, charming someone, making them feel good, that's not fake, it's real.

                And if you can't do it, who's going to cooperate with to fake it and pretend that you can?
                Well I have the answer to that, since I met a girl that liked me once. Now if only I can do that again...

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                I didn‘t mean it that serious with the faking it, i meant more that working on your mental health is basically trying to fake having had a healthy childhood so you can catch up with the rest and become somewhat functional.
                How did you do it the first time then?

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                Yeah I'm just in the stage where I've gotten my mental state right, but now I need to make up for 20 years of lost social skills.

                As for how I found people that liked me: I went to study abroad, lol.
                What a country we have here, man. I wish all I wanted in life was guns, money, and fast cars, I'd be fucking set.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                Well, that‘s already a step ahead of those who never get their mental state right.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                Yeah that's partly why I come here so much. I want to help my bros if I can. I hope we all make it out of the gutter.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                What do you think was the one thing that helped you make the most progress?

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                Acceptance and commitment. For a long time I was sort of living with the fantasy of suicide, that I would kill myself eventually and it would all be ok, or maybe one of the pills would finally work and cure me.

                I think for people like us, recovery starts when you accept that none of that is happening, that this is just your life now, and commit to living anyway. That's when I started giving up on pills, therapy, thoughts of suicide, thinking about mental health at all, really. Because there are no cures, and no ways out. This is just how I am now, and the only way to recover is to accept it and learn the skills to cope with it and live like this, in this body with this brain. And now I keep building my skillset, every day I get better at this.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                This is such a cope. Nobody normal ever had to deal with anything like this.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                Bruh. That's kinda obvious.
                Normal people have their normal, happy lives. We have different lives.
                Which is kinda why this thread exists, since women are pretty much all normal people and we have to figure out how to relate to them well if we're gonna date them.

              • 2 months ago
                autism

                Nobody normal, maybe. But abnormal people - i.e. sick people like myself and other anons itt - do have to deal with it. So we find ways to cope and live as best as we can. If you give up your life falls apart and you feel worse than before, so you keep trying.

                Acceptance and commitment. For a long time I was sort of living with the fantasy of suicide, that I would kill myself eventually and it would all be ok, or maybe one of the pills would finally work and cure me.

                I think for people like us, recovery starts when you accept that none of that is happening, that this is just your life now, and commit to living anyway. That's when I started giving up on pills, therapy, thoughts of suicide, thinking about mental health at all, really. Because there are no cures, and no ways out. This is just how I am now, and the only way to recover is to accept it and learn the skills to cope with it and live like this, in this body with this brain. And now I keep building my skillset, every day I get better at this.

                >This is just how I am now, and the only way to recover is to accept it and learn the skills to cope with it and live like this, in this body with this brain.
                Based. I‘ve come to the same conclusion and it‘s the most healing approach by far.

                [...]
                >Nobody normal ever had to deal with anything like this.
                That‘s the whole point.
                >This is such a cope.
                Obviously. But it‘s better to find a way to cope than to just give up.

                Based.

                Bruh. That's kinda obvious.
                Normal people have their normal, happy lives. We have different lives.
                Which is kinda why this thread exists, since women are pretty much all normal people and we have to figure out how to relate to them well if we're gonna date them.

                >women are pretty much all normal people
                KEK
                I understand what you're saying, but: One in four females (24.6%) had a 12-month mental disorder in 2020-21, compared with 18.0% of males. (Source: https://www.abs.gov.au/statistics/health/mental-health/national-study-mental-health-and-wellbeing/latest-release#prevalence-of-mental-disorders)

                Lol I made another thread about it last night and they said the same thing.

                She is just a no sex before marriage Christian. I was too before when I was young but my childhood/HS crush that I lost my v to made me feel like it was unrealistic to be. And that I would never have a relationship unless I manned up about it .

                My sister married her HS sweetheart as a virgin and my brother ended up getting a virgin despite him being a degenerate. Life just felt so unfair that girls I fell in love with were never virgins so i accepted it as the norm. Until this one and she was everything I dreamed of and always wanted

                [...]
                >I worry that she's hyping up sex too much. When it actually happens, I worry that she'll feel disappointed or upset that she doesn't feel "all your love and energy" transfer to her.

                You really think this could end up happening?

                Absolutely. I'm a kissless virgin but every non virgin I've talked to about sex has said the same thing: it was not life changing. It was fun, it was a little awkward, and it took some practice before it got really good.
                You hear the same sort of thing from teenage girls who just had their first kiss. Your first kiss is hyped up to be this magical moment - fireworks! Butterflies! And then they actually have their first kiss, and it's a bit wet. And she bumps noses with the guy, and maybe he tries to stick his tongue in her mouth.
                I think you two should talk to some mutual friends so she can get a more realistic picture of sex. She sounds like a romantic, which is nice, but I don't want her to get too caught up in a fantasy.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                Man I can't imagine sex for the first time with a girl who's also having her first time being anything but ecstatic. Like I don't even care how bad it is, it could be the worst sex anyone's ever had and I'd be laughing like an idiot, it's just such an amazing thing to get a chance to be with someone you love.

                At this age we're probably not getting that though, sadly. Girls are women now and have performance expectations, gotta have the right stamina, knowledge, finesse... But damn if it wouldn't be nice to find someone innocent and just enjoy being with her like we're the only ones in the world.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                Just wait till you have sex to actually make a baby for the very first time.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                >have sex to actually make a baby
                This is fun
                I am drunk
                The sound of 30mm auto cannon over your head is AMAZINg!
                The little bitty oranges that come in the net bag are great!
                Sleep tight /aoga/

                I wouldn‘t know, in german you use Freundin for both your girlfriend and your female friends and Freund for both your boyfriend and your male friends. Yes, it can cause confusion. Maybe they are also bi.

                those weird looking cats are great <3 I feed them all the time

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                >cats
                trash pandas

              • 2 months ago
                autism

                sleep well anon, sweet dreams
                mwah

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                >mwah

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                >The sound of 30mm auto cannon over your head is AMAZINg!

                Sleep tight silly trash panda.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                >If you give up your life falls apart and you feel worse than before, so you keep trying.
                >You're not trying — everything is falling apart.
                >You're trying — fuck you, it's crumbling anyway.
                I'm not really upset at this point. Just tired and disappointed.

                Anons, which would describe your current mode best?

                Autistic or Loneliness. Perhaps I'm just in a cycle and always move from one mood to another... Well, I guess I am.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                >This is just how I am now, and the only way to recover is to accept it and learn the skills to cope with it and live like this, in this body with this brain.
                Based. I‘ve come to the same conclusion and it‘s the most healing approach by far.

                This is such a cope. Nobody normal ever had to deal with anything like this.

                >Nobody normal ever had to deal with anything like this.
                That‘s the whole point.
                >This is such a cope.
                Obviously. But it‘s better to find a way to cope than to just give up.

            • 2 months ago
              autism

              I'm choosing not to date because I'm not mentally healthy. For me at least, I want to be in a place where I can be single happily. (I'm currently there, but I want to wait until next year to make it's not a fluke.) Being desperate for a relationship is not a good look.

              >Nah thank you, I love calling cute men "good boy." (Only if they want me to.) Makes me feel warm and happy. I haven't had the opportunity to do it in a while and I missed the nice feelings.
              I’d love to have someone who calls me a good boy, I’d call you a good girl too.

              Feels good man.

              I wouldn’t call being shy and awkward as a “bad mental state”

              I found that as a super shy autist the best remedy was just talking to people in person. I've been practising for a few years and I'm still quiet, but I can have a good conversation with most people.

  12. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Is there any way to befriend a man at the gym? It's going to sound stupid but how do I make friends at the gym in general, men or women? Women are usually in pairs or packs, always giggling about something. And I'm very shy about approaching a man who's doing his thing there, they seem focused and it's nice I don't want to disturb that. I look at them and smile but nobody has the guts to approach. When we talk about certain machines/spots, the discussion doesn't go beyond that.

    I'm in my 30s and have no friends. My coworkers don't cut it though I've tried. Everybody else is busy with a family. I'm asking about the gym because it's where I go daily and people there seem more active, I'd love to have someone to take walks with or explore the city/surroundings (whose idea of socializing/bonding doesn't revolve around sitting down and simply consuming)

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      you could ask for some training methods or his work out routine, probably if he has a specific eating schedule, if it seems right. If you see the guy more often you can simply start greeting him at some point, or begin talking about more private stuff, I don't know, how work sucked and training is a relief today. Don't force yourself, most of the time things will come naturally

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >, the discussion doesn't go beyond that.
      you have to push it beyond that. They won't, so you have to. If you want something you have to create it or take it. Life lesson for every man.

  13. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Post gender.
    Will you accept to opt into a mass suicide program when the call goes out? What kind of incentive would they have to offer to make it worthwhile for you?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      M. No. Rapture, suicide, teleportation, whatever. Someone has to stay behind to take care of the people left. And I volunteer for that. I'm not taking the easy way out, as long as there are people left suffering here I'll stay with them. I'll volunteer to be the last one out.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      ngl im absolutely down for that when I hit fourty and im still the same loser as I am currently.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      M
      No
      I will not become a martyr unless it will end all abortion, socialism, corruption, undue oppression, scamming, theft, violence, abuse, rape, war, murder, telemarketing, spam, pain, sickness, disability, itchiness, death, and taxation.

  14. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Femanons, do you think a guy who wears a Fanny pack is attractive?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Sure

  15. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Janny, please just permaban me. This is such a waste of time.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Dang, didn't know Jannys were so based.

  16. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    If you were a girl that worked extremely hard to get by, would you ever be interested in a privileged deadbeat retard?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Depends on the flavor of retardation.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        No, I still sound the same. You can hear it when I said 94, it's quite Australian to not pronounce the t.

        [...]
        Hi, nonna. I recognise your writing style. I'm doing really well. I've been cooking a lot more. I made pasta salad with basil pesto and feta the other day, and a few nights ago I made lasagne. I hope you're doing well, too.

        [...]
        Deadbeat? No.

        [...]
        I'm a virgin, so take what I say with a grain of salt, but I worry that she's hyping up sex too much. When it actually happens, I worry that she'll feel disappointed or upset that she doesn't feel "all your love and energy" transfer to her. Ultimately it's up to you two whether you wait until marriage, but it's good to keep expectations realistic.

        more of a delusional loser in a period of evolution into a real person

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Only if he were tall and handsome (8+/10 in the face.)

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >tall
        got it
        >handsome
        ehh, I’m okay

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Relaxing into a life of financial security and even modest luxury would be nice, but significant wealth makes me uncomfortable (eg if you'd describe your home as a mansion), and I don't think I could respect or maintain interest in someone who has no ambitions and is essentially a freeloader with inherited wealth or whatever.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Nah, that isn’t me. I’m a manchild that allowed his laziness and dumb depression to be enabled for far too long but I’m desperately trying to change it. By “privileged” I mean, most people like me would be on the streets if they didn’t have their family.

  17. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Just want to go out on a date with someone. Thats it.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      a/s/l?

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        23 Male Missouri

  18. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Girls would you ever be interested in a guy who works hard but doesn't make work his life and still makes lots of time for you and his hobbies and he's not a deadbeat?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      sure

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      yes please

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Girls standards are sky high

  19. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Gf is a virgin and actually hot. Ever since NNN she has been learning about semen retention and thinks I should continue with it until we get married. Her reasoning is that because I have had sex with other women in the past that I have soul ties with them. She thinks that semen retention will build up my energy and break those ties the first time we have sex so we will bond together properly and all my love and energy will be transfered purely to her. She used Harry potter as an analogy and said it's like how Voldemort split his soul up into multiple objects. She thinks the same happens to people when they have multiple partners.

    Do you think there is some validity to it? It kind of makes sense to me because I was always somewhat hung up on my first and felt like she warped my perception of sex. Where back before I ever had sex, my idea of sex aligned a lot more to my current gfs views, but obviously I never met anyone like her back then.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      No, she's mentally unstable, but because she's hot you will stay with her.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Lol I made another thread about it last night and they said the same thing.

        She is just a no sex before marriage Christian. I was too before when I was young but my childhood/HS crush that I lost my v to made me feel like it was unrealistic to be. And that I would never have a relationship unless I manned up about it .

        My sister married her HS sweetheart as a virgin and my brother ended up getting a virgin despite him being a degenerate. Life just felt so unfair that girls I fell in love with were never virgins so i accepted it as the norm. Until this one and she was everything I dreamed of and always wanted

        No, I still sound the same. You can hear it when I said 94, it's quite Australian to not pronounce the t.

        [...]
        Hi, nonna. I recognise your writing style. I'm doing really well. I've been cooking a lot more. I made pasta salad with basil pesto and feta the other day, and a few nights ago I made lasagne. I hope you're doing well, too.

        [...]
        Deadbeat? No.

        [...]
        I'm a virgin, so take what I say with a grain of salt, but I worry that she's hyping up sex too much. When it actually happens, I worry that she'll feel disappointed or upset that she doesn't feel "all your love and energy" transfer to her. Ultimately it's up to you two whether you wait until marriage, but it's good to keep expectations realistic.

        >I worry that she's hyping up sex too much. When it actually happens, I worry that she'll feel disappointed or upset that she doesn't feel "all your love and energy" transfer to her.

        You really think this could end up happening?

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          >my brother ended up getting a virgin despite him being a degenerate

          This always hurts.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      She sounds like she's into crystals and horoscopes.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Not at all, she is Christian and she opposes all that stuff.

        That's what I love about her most, I feel she really protects me spiritually and brought me back to my core beliefs. I love how we have a proper foundation for our relationship and isn't just sex. We are on the same page on a lot of things such as how we will raise our kids and our expectations. I've never loved anyone the way I do her and feel like my "soul ties" are already broken because of her. But wouldn't mind doing this to really make sure

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          The "soul ties" and "energy" she's talking about are just crystals and horoscopes for Christians.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            True. Spiritual ideas are all the same, just explained with different words. Hence why feeling like there‘s one right religion is peak retardation and violence and cruelty in the name of it is even worse.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Nobody normal, maybe. But abnormal people - i.e. sick people like myself and other anons itt - do have to deal with it. So we find ways to cope and live as best as we can. If you give up your life falls apart and you feel worse than before, so you keep trying.

            [...]
            [...]
            Based.

            [...]
            >women are pretty much all normal people
            KEK
            I understand what you're saying, but: One in four females (24.6%) had a 12-month mental disorder in 2020-21, compared with 18.0% of males. (Source: https://www.abs.gov.au/statistics/health/mental-health/national-study-mental-health-and-wellbeing/latest-release#prevalence-of-mental-disorders)

            [...]
            Absolutely. I'm a kissless virgin but every non virgin I've talked to about sex has said the same thing: it was not life changing. It was fun, it was a little awkward, and it took some practice before it got really good.
            You hear the same sort of thing from teenage girls who just had their first kiss. Your first kiss is hyped up to be this magical moment - fireworks! Butterflies! And then they actually have their first kiss, and it's a bit wet. And she bumps noses with the guy, and maybe he tries to stick his tongue in her mouth.
            I think you two should talk to some mutual friends so she can get a more realistic picture of sex. She sounds like a romantic, which is nice, but I don't want her to get too caught up in a fantasy.

            Man I can't imagine sex for the first time with a girl who's also having her first time being anything but ecstatic. Like I don't even care how bad it is, it could be the worst sex anyone's ever had and I'd be laughing like an idiot, it's just such an amazing thing to get a chance to be with someone you love.

            At this age we're probably not getting that though, sadly. Girls are women now and have performance expectations, gotta have the right stamina, knowledge, finesse... But damn if it wouldn't be nice to find someone innocent and just enjoy being with her like we're the only ones in the world.

            I don't know we kiss and if it leads to making out, our energy and chemistry gets pretty intense. To the point where she puts a stop to it cos it's getting sinful lmao

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          >meanwhile he‘s shitposting on LULZ.org
          It‘s all so tiresome.

  20. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Gender
    Why did humans transition from the hunter-gatherer lifestyle to a sedentary, agricultural-based one, especially when the former constituted the first 95% of human existence and the latter produced a drastic decline in living standards?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      All life operates on the principles of energy preservation. We are always going to try to get more of what we want with having to use less energy. We‘re just too intelligent for our own good and have become too good at getting all we need and want without having to lift a finger. Not saying that that‘s smart, but our brains are instinctively draw to go that route, even if our higher consciousness is trying to interfere and tell us to stop and reconsider. We‘re fueling our own extinction. Kind of ironic that being too evolved will make you go extinct too. That‘s probably also how previous civilizations ceased to exist.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      It's simple.
      I own all of this land now, and I forbid you from hunting or gathering on my land.
      Got it?

      Now how are you gonna eat? Well well well, I have just the deal for you: if you work for me and till my fields, I will let you have some of the grain.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Yeah and that too, greed and exploitation. But that is also just energy preservation at work. It‘s about wanting to hoard resources to make sure you always have plenty of supply and on top of it, make someone else lift their finger for your needs and wants.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      To add to what

      All life operates on the principles of energy preservation. We are always going to try to get more of what we want with having to use less energy. We‘re just too intelligent for our own good and have become too good at getting all we need and want without having to lift a finger. Not saying that that‘s smart, but our brains are instinctively draw to go that route, even if our higher consciousness is trying to interfere and tell us to stop and reconsider. We‘re fueling our own extinction. Kind of ironic that being too evolved will make you go extinct too. That‘s probably also how previous civilizations ceased to exist.

      said, transitioning away from hunter-gatherer living allows for specialization of labor, which allows us to produce ever more complex goods and services at reasonable costs.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      F
      Path of least resistance, something that we share with all living things.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Long story short?
      The israelites

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      M
      Some of us moved into areas that were too cold, where resources were no longer abundant (primarily during winter), where we had to plan ahead.

  21. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Scrotes will literally rather a mentally ill man who pretends he is a woman and behaves like a stereotype than a non-stacy woman. If you still have hope in men then i'm sorry for you you delusional bitch

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Not at all, guys go for trannies because they’re afraid of women

  22. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Why do women still call their friends girlfriend?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I wouldn‘t know, in german you use Freundin for both your girlfriend and your female friends and Freund for both your boyfriend and your male friends. Yes, it can cause confusion. Maybe they are also bi.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        How does that work for eg guys who have girlfriends but also have female friends? Or are opposite-sex friendships taboo?
        Does it create a bit of a 'who's on first' situation for the gays?

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          >Or are opposite-sex friendships taboo?
          No.
          It really doesn‘t work at all. You always have to clarify what you mean unless it‘s clear from context.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            That's hilarious.
            How do you clarify? Like, in english one might say "my girl friend - I mean, my friend who is a girl" but it doesn't sound like that'd work if there's no neutral word for friend.

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              You‘d say, „meine Freundin; also, nicht meine Freundin - Freundin, sonder einfach eine Freundin“. Kek, kind of saying „my gf, well, not THE GF but A GF“.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                I love it. Thank you for this nugget of knowledge, anon.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      We don’t since English is not our primary language

  23. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Ladies, do your feet ever get sweaty and stinky in your shoes?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Yes

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      It does after long hikes

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I swear i wanted to post a question itt about wether you‘re the kind of footfag who‘s into cute and clean feet or the stinky gross variation and if you had any idea why you’re into one or the other but i forgot.
      Also, i used to get stinky shoes but then i discovered personal hygiene and it‘s not a thing anymore.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        depends on the smell tbh, too clean and they aren't as exciting, but smelling really bad is disgusting. i just like them to smell like feet, not cheesy that's gross, and sometimes they smell like corn chips i dont like that either, but there is a certain smell that is hard to describe, just like feet i guess. one summer a friend of mine and i were walking around town and we sat down in a park, and she took her old converse off and she didnt have socks so her foot was just sort of warm and clammy and glistening and she jokingly put it on my face and i almost came in my pants. i was too embarrassed to tell her that i liked it because people will see you as a freak, but that was a great moment in my life.

  24. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Just came back from the club. Does it could if you've been getting rejections while you're drunk? I don't really mind them, I feel like it's just been life lessons/building character; getting out of my comfort zone, etc.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I mean yeah hitting on girls in the club when you're smashed is gonna be hit or miss kek, don't take it to heart

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Drunkard, it counts

        Based

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Drunkard, it counts

  25. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >At family gathering
    >Cousin's son is getting older (23)
    >He has a gf that I think he is serious with
    >Just talking relationships and red/green flags
    >Say that you should watch out for mental illness and not to marry someone on mental illness meds
    >Everyone acting like I said something wrong lmao

    Was I really wrong for that? I mean I admitted I used to be on meds for "depression". But said to be on meds for depression is just a mask and you need to find the root of the cause and resolve it. But when I was talking about mental illness or med I was talking more about bipolar or schizophrenia and more extreme stuff. Just pointed out that "loving" them isn't enough

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Bipolarfag here, yes I agree you should definitely watch out for mental illness when dating someone and you're not a bad person for not wanting to date someone mentally ill, not everyone is cut out for it and you're entitled to your preferences. I can be a handful and don't expect anyone to put up with me if they don't want to kek.
      However I think just blanketly saying "don't marry someone on mental illness meds" is a bit harsh and dismissive. Lots of people find treatment effective and are pretty stable on meds, and lots of couples make it work and have happy relationships regardless. At the end lf the day people are still people beyond their conditions. Also needless to say illnesses come in different shades, a lot of people's symptoms aren't that severe especially on the right meds.

      If it‘s me not texting back then it is 100% mental illness and i am currently having a breakdown.

      Mood

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      you’re not wrong, but that’s the kind of thing you mention in private

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Bipolarfag here, yes I agree you should definitely watch out for mental illness when dating someone and you're not a bad person for not wanting to date someone mentally ill, not everyone is cut out for it and you're entitled to your preferences. I can be a handful and don't expect anyone to put up with me if they don't want to kek.
        However I think just blanketly saying "don't marry someone on mental illness meds" is a bit harsh and dismissive. Lots of people find treatment effective and are pretty stable on meds, and lots of couples make it work and have happy relationships regardless. At the end lf the day people are still people beyond their conditions. Also needless to say illnesses come in different shades, a lot of people's symptoms aren't that severe especially on the right meds.
        [...]
        Mood

        Think I was too harsh? I honestly just want him to be good as everyone was in support of my brother marrying his wife (who has a bunch of MH issues Im sure now as my brother looks more and more drained as the years went on) despite all the obvious red flags but everyone was too supportive.

  26. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Is not answering texts for longer than a day ever a sign of anything but disinterest?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      If it‘s me not texting back then it is 100% mental illness and i am currently having a breakdown.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        So best to wait it out?

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          I don‘t know your situation but i‘d say in most cases, yes. Because if i‘m having a breakdown and someone texts me about why i don‘t text back, i feel even more pressured since i already am fully aware that i should have texted back two days ago and it will make me either text back despite not feeling it at all and then ghosting you later because i can‘t deal with that kind of additional stress in my life or i‘ll not text back ever again because i feel too guilty and embarrassed.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            hey bipolar girl, how are you <3

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              I got banned and i got the rona but otherwise i‘m thriving. What about you? I missed you <3

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                oh noo, you still got it? Rest up good, glad to hear you're thriving though!
                I'm good, staying with some buddies for a few days lol (I should probably stop shitposting and go join them again lol), laters

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                >I should probably stop shitposting
                Same. Being here just makes me even more unhinged. I should get myself banned again.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                I know that feel all too well lol. We should

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                I just need to avatarfag hard enough and i‘ll be released again. I can‘t seem to stay away if i‘m not actually banned, it‘s the only way.

  27. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Women, when you find a guy hot, what features are you noticing?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      His slutty little waist.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      your best one
      no kidding, it's been different for every guy. i've noticed thighs, eyes, abs and waist

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      That depends on the guy

  28. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    [...]

    >Why is it that there are several young, attractive women in my workplace
    idk but it drives my retard brain insane

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Based
      ADHDbrain forgot to finish my post kek

      Why is it that there are several young, attractive women in my workplace I get on well with, yet I have a crush on my manager almost double my age?
      Is it maybe cause of the perceived maturity, how she's in a senior position, but a bit motherly and wholesome? Can't really pin it down to one factor I guess.
      She lives alone with her cats and has these cute cat mugs and is always reading books. She opened up to me a bit about her anxiety/depression issues which I appreciated. She looks incredible for her age, has beautiful blue eyes and her voice is so soft and warm. She's so cute and funny and kind but I need to thinking about her kek I feel like a total creep

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Sounds like you need someone to make you feel like you can rest, recover, take shelter and heal and you‘re looking for a warm and gentle presence to be able to give you that.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          You could be right tbh dude. I've been doing pretty good recently but I got my own issues and I guess everyone liked someone they feel warm and safe around. My other co-workers are also generally sweet and caring though, maybe they just lack the milf factor lol

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >lack the milf factor
            Probably, yes. You‘d most likely would need a woman older than you to feel like you can let her take over, because she already has some life experience and maturity. It takes trust and courage to surrender to someone‘s protective care because you have to feel like they‘ll be capable of handling stuff for you if necessary. You probably don‘t feel like a girl your age or younger could be capable of taking over for you if you need someone to take over because you need to not function for a while and you can only go into recovering and healing mode fully if you feel like someone‘s watching over you and making sure your life doesn‘t go down the drain whilst you need to take a break from being capable and functional.

  29. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Is it wrong I find people with asperger's really frustrating to interact with?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Eh, it's understandable, but shows you don't have a huge amount of patience and empathy tbh

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >but shows you don't have a huge amount of patience and empathy tbh
        You'd be surpised actually. I just find their way of thinking very grating. And there's nothing more painful arguing with someone who has autism tbh.

  30. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Girls, I'd like to know something.
    I'm quite a distant person with people I don't know, and I seem "cold" (it's just how I am). I think this girl likes me but my attitude send her the signal I'm not interested.

    I think my attitude is a turn off for girls potentially interested by me. I may be mildly autistic or something.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Oh shit, I forgot the question : is it a turnoff?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Just talk to her and not socially inept angry crabs in a bucket online about it. Ask questions. Even if there’s nothing there and nothing comes of it, it’s a good experience and will make you feel good

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        I do talk to her sometimes.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Good. Keep going. If she likes you in that way, you’ll see. If she likes you but not in that way, being friendly with girls is good practice for the girl that is into you.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Will do. Thank you for your feedback.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Oh shit, I forgot the question : is it a turnoff?

      It's not so much that it's a turnoff, but if I get the sense that you're not interested I'm not gonna keep pushing the issue. If you want anything to happen, you've gotta give a little indication that you're into it.

  31. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Would you be my beast of burden?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Sorry, I can't right now, my pizza's burning

  32. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Women. Could you at least pretend like you're willing to take some responsibility for your actions?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      No thank you.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      it leads into a mess and i cant do that 🙁

  33. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    State gender,
    Would you want to be cremated, buried or put on a dakhma in proper zoroastrian tradition?

  34. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Anons, which would describe your current mode best?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      autistic grind

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Based. How does that look like in your case?

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          it ain’t pretty but it’s what has to happen. Needs to happen.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Give me the dirty details.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Definitely autistic.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Best mode <3

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I drive around LA at 2am with Nightcall blasting out of the car on repeat, you tell me.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Sounds like a sane balance between all four to be quiet frank with you my relative.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        im jealous that sounds fun anon

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          LA is fun when it's dead at night and there are very few people around.
          However most of the time it's packed with people running stop lights and red lights and turning in front of you at random times.
          I think of it as frogger on nightmare mode.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Absolutely based

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      All of them

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        H-hot

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Sorry I'm not gay

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Grind right now

  35. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Women how important are a man's leg muscles?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      As long as you don‘t look like you burst out of your pants or like a chicken, it‘s all kosher.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Seconding

      As long as you don‘t look like you burst out of your pants or like a chicken, it‘s all kosher.

  36. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Why don't all women use an IUD?
    Why continuously spend money on pills that are messing with your hormones?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Copper IUD masterrace reporting in. I really don‘t know. Maybe they still are afraid of the pain of getting it in/out and the heavier periods but i‘d take two days more of bleeding over fucking with my hormones any day.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        It affects periods? I'm curious, how?

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          I just got a new one two months ago after not having one for about two years. My periods went from 4 days of bleeding to 7 days. It‘s not exactly something i had hoped for but i can deal with it just fine. No changes in severity or pain though. I feel like that‘s because my body thinks there‘s still something that needs to get flushed out in there and thus keeps flooding. I don‘t really know the scientific reason.

          I swear I could feel the wire when fucking my ex, and it made me cringe (like, not the internet kind of cringe, actually cringe).

          Yes, that can absolutely happen. It means the string attached to it is too long. They usually leave it longer unless the woman‘s partner complains about being able to feel it because the longer it is the easier it will be to get it out again but they can definitely shorten it if it‘s noticeable.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >but they can definitely shorten it if it‘s noticeable.
            Good to know now. I just broke up with her instead.

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              >I just broke up with her instead
              bruh

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                I'm just kidding.
                I mean, I did break up with her. But not because of that.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Don't act like copper IUD's are completely harmless.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        They aren‘t but they are compared to any other form of bc.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        What harm can they do and what are the chances?

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Read about copper toxicity.
          IUD's can sometimes affect progesterone production negatively.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        I swear I could feel the wire when fucking my ex, and it made me cringe (like, not the internet kind of cringe, actually cringe).

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      IUDs are only recommended for women who have given birth already. Also they cause heavier and more painful periods, as well as increase the chance of infertility because they basically work by creating a constant small infection in your cervix. I think they are the reason why women who have previously had no issue becoming pregnant suddenly are infertile when trying for a second child.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        That‘s outdated. Nowadays, IUDS are also possible if you haven‘t given birth.
        They do, but i‘d rather have a constant small infection in my body than flood it with hormones that mimick a pregnancy on a daily basis. Seems like the smaller problem. Ofc there‘s risks, as with every form of bc, but it still feels like those of copper IUDS are the least problematic possible downsides. To each their own though. I know many women who had IUDS for years and had no issues getting pregnant after taking them out. Don‘t know the actual statistics though.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          >than flood it with hormones that mimick a pregnancy
          People say this a lot I don't believe its actually accurate. The pill does fuck with your hormones, by introducing high levels of estrogen into the body and lowering endogenous progesterone production, among other things.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        What infection? It doesn't work that way.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        what lol, my friend who has never given birth specifically got one because it makes periods nonexistent/more manageable (forgot which)

  37. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Girls. How do you feel about catgirls?
    Do you think they're adorable?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      adorable and very cute

      Girls how would you feel about living and travelling in the back of a Land Rover Defender 110.

      sounds like a wonderful life but i don’t think i could do it for long

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >sounds like a wonderful life but i don’t think i could do it for long
        What if you get a kid out of it?

  38. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Girls how would you feel about living and travelling in the back of a Land Rover Defender 110.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Makes me wet tbh wa.
      Can we avoid travelling through middle eastern countries though? I like my head on my shoulders.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I wouldn't mind as long as I have someone I love with me (and enough money)
      one of my exes was hellbent on living in a van I don't know if it ever happened though

  39. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    How to show/tell a girl that I car about her?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      If you truly care, she‘ll know because it will show.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        How?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      approach her when she's near a wall.
      Slam your hand against the wall next to her
      look her in the eyes and say
      >Aren't we close?
      Works every time.

      ?t=111

  40. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Is it not normal for guy with german blood to be proud of his ancestor's actions in ww2? Am i supposed to be ashamed?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I mean, you can be proud of your specific ancestor (your grandfather for example) who has done something you truly feel was a good thing to be done in the situation, but being proud of the general insanity of ww2 is a huge red flag. I get that there were some honorable core values that fueled all of it but no one in their right mind would believe that it went way too far and that it was poisoned from the start by not focusing solely on how to restore germany‘s greatness but by trying to find someone to blame and punish for it‘s downfall. It‘s fucking childish and immature. It wasn‘t anyone‘s fault in particular but instead of trying to find ways to reunite and rebuild together, they sperged out and wanted someone to pay. That was truly stupid. Ofc there‘s other aspects that were highly fucked up but i don‘t think i need to tell you since those are probably the things you feel proud of.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I wouldn't feel "ashamed" because it wasn't your doing, but I also wouldn't feel "proud" of all the murder either kek

      >lack the milf factor
      Probably, yes. You‘d most likely would need a woman older than you to feel like you can let her take over, because she already has some life experience and maturity. It takes trust and courage to surrender to someone‘s protective care because you have to feel like they‘ll be capable of handling stuff for you if necessary. You probably don‘t feel like a girl your age or younger could be capable of taking over for you if you need someone to take over because you need to not function for a while and you can only go into recovering and healing mode fully if you feel like someone‘s watching over you and making sure your life doesn‘t go down the drain whilst you need to take a break from being capable and functional.

      Maybe you're onto something lol. I mean I like the idea of taking care of and protecting her too, I still have those instincts, in most of my fantasies I'm the dominant one, and I don't like to burden others.
      But maybe there's a subconscious aspect that also yearns to be taken under her wing or something, or at least receive some motherly affection here and there lol, idk.
      I don't know why I don't find the girls my age attractive in the same way though. Maybe it's like the taboo aspect of age gaps, or I'm just coombrained, idk lol

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        I feel like the sanest relationship one can have when you‘re not yet fully healed is one where you take turns taking care of each other and protecting each other. It won‘t ever work if one has to be the capable and functional one all the time, that‘s straight up delusional. It has to be a dance of one having to take a break from trying to be healthier than they are and the other seamlessly taking over and then they might have phases of both feeling like they can do it, as well as phases where you‘d just both need to shut out the world and go into rat mode together. I think the most problematic idea is to get into a relationship thinking that there will be fixed roles. One being dominant, the other submissive. One being functional, the other needing to be fixed and rescued. That will only lead to resentment, burnout and disappointment. I don‘t see why you can‘t feel like the one protecting her from the world whilst also having a side of you that wants to be able to sink into her loving care if you need to. I imagine it like a soldier going to war to protect his family but needing her to tend to his wounds and nurse him back to health when he comes home from battle. I also believe that our coom brains are wiser than we give them credit. Seems like they are often trying to push us into a direction that we actually need to go to become whole again.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          >take turns taking care of each other and protecting each other
          Yeah, that'd be ideal I think, I wouldn't want something too one-sided, not fair on the other person either, relationship should be a joint effort imo
          >one protecting her from the world whilst also having a side of you that wants to be able to sink into her loving care if you need to
          That is the dream lol <3
          >coom brains are wiser than we give them credit. Seems like they are often trying to push us into a direction that we actually need to go to become whole again.
          You may have a point there...
          Quality post

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >That is the dream lol <3
            Hope dies last<3

  41. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Women, how important are a mans' arms and chest muscle?

  42. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I can't tell if i'm ugly or just have a shit personality
    I can fuck ugly girls easily and when it comes to hot girls i can get dates but closing with sex is like, really hard. I have to bring my a-game charisma and confidence wise
    I just watched a video of a chad saying how easily he fucks and how it comes naturally and saying if you don't fuck easily you're just ugly and it's not your fault. He showed tinder conversations and shit of him purposely acting retarded and women still liked him
    It made me feel really ugly

  43. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >Show gf my finger/toe nail jar and dandruff collection jar

    How fucked am I? She didn't find it impressive or at least laugh or find it funny.

  44. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Are 24 year old virgins still appealing to older women that like to train young men or am I too old now?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      You‘re good.

  45. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I showed my gf of six months/fiance my micropenis today. She giggled and said ''at least you have money''
    I said ''what?'' angrily because she always assured me it doesn't matter then she said she was just kidding
    She admitted it was smaller then she expected, i told her it was a bit on the smaller side so she said she was hoping i was just being humble about it
    Anyways she had a girl night out tonight, and i haven't heard from her, she wasn't supposed to be out all night and it's nearly dawn now. Are these related? Am i worrying too much? Is it over?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Weak bait. Try again.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Bruh why you engaged to this thot, sounds like she doesn't respect you at all

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >he fell for it

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          I'm just kidding.
          I mean, I did break up with her. But not because of that.

          I'm not good at sarcasm

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Are you gonna watch the /a/ toradora stream next month?

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              Might watch some lol

              Obviously. It‘s ok.

              Thank you surreal face

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Obviously. It‘s ok.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Well i'm not sure i should take it that seriously and she has promised she gave up the ho life for me. She's never blatantly disrespectful just hurts my feelings sometimes and apologizes when she sees i'm in tears or hurt by it

  46. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Femanons,
    Do you think i‘d burn my lips off if i put plumping lip gloss on and then seal it in with petroleum jelly?

  47. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I went to a music festish concert last night, and met this girl. I asked offered her a shoulder ride and she was reluctant but she said fuck it and did it. She was combing through my hair during it and stuff. Got her snap after and tagged her in the photo of it a friend I met there took and sent me.

    She just said ayeee and I just said lol I had a blast hope you did too. She said i did!! my first shoulder ride. And we exchanged one or two more lines. I last sent just a "are you from around here?" And she hasn't opened yet. It was like 1am.

    Anyways if/when she answers, is this a solid followup? I cant say ive entirely gauged her interest. I feel it leans positive but not overwhelming.

    "I'm closeby in X city. You enioyed playing with my hair huh haha. You're really beautiful, how about we go out sometime?"

    The hair comment Idk about. I feel it sorta reaffirms her interest in her mind if she was a little drunk at the time yk. But it also may just be unesecarry to say?
    Help me out, I'm an introvert breaking out please.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >is an “introvert”
      >attend a fetish music concert
      >had a good time and made friends
      You’re doing great anon. You seem to have it better than most here. You don’t need us

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        I know I'm doing great, but I usually have issue at this point.
        I just want second opinion on my comment.
        I can pull in the moment, but it's keeping them hooked/advancing afterwards I have issues with.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          The comment seemed fine to me. But in any case saying one slightly weird (she probably won’t think it was) comment isn’t a deal breaker. Just see how she reacts and if she seems weirded out don’t do it again

  48. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Should I write her?

  49. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Is it too much to tell a girl i went on one date with that she reminds me of my dead mother?

  50. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    is liking posts/following stories simping?

  51. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I told my dad that I would never date or marry a broke man and he got upset

    Why? This is what a DAD is supposed to encourage!!

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Depends what you meant by "broke" I guess
      It's understandable to want someone with good finances if you want a family

  52. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Would it be a bad idea to take one of my brother's antidepressants so that I can last longer in bed?

  53. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Was it bad that I told the guy im dating that i expect him to be a man… lead, pay for stuff? We aren’t bf and gf. Just going on dates. He still talks to me but I feel bad for being so frank about it

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Have you fucked him or sucked his dick yet?
      Have you made him a meal?

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        No to all 3
        I’m a virgin… and I don’t cook unless you’re my mom or brother

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          So why should he pay shit?

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            because he’s a man and I’m a woman who he finds attractive and interesting (his words)

            >I don’t cook
            literally worthless
            If you don't cock or put his cock in your holes you're not a girlfriend he's a orbiter

            I can cook. Why would I cook for someone who is nothing to me?

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              >interesting
              >who is nothing to me
              Ok so he's a beta male

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                What does this have to do with my question
                He’s a very happy go lucky normie, okay. Not everyone is andrew tate adjacent

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                >What does this have to do with my question
                You asked "is it bad"
                Now, honestly, is it bad because you want to keep this guy as a meal ticket or because you like him and didn't want to hurt his feelings?

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                I don’t know him enough to really like him. He’s kind but in a way I’m not used to because I’m a miserable bitch and he’s a very optimistic normie… so idk we will see what happens.

                He is rich but that’s not the only reason I care to continue going on dates.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                Ok so you're a man eater.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                No, I’m a LULZ poster and redditor… seriously

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                >Calls herself a reddit or unironically
                Fuck off

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                >man eater.
                Someone called?

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                What's the age difference?

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                4 years

                So he buys your time with free meals? Why do you go out with ppl that don't mean anything to you? Are you a prostitute or something?

                Because I go on dates with people to get to know them and see if I would like to invest into something more….

                >Calls herself a reddit or unironically
                Fuck off

                No

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                How old are you?

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                Almost 24

                >Because I go on dates with people to get to know them and see if I would like to invest into something more….
                Yes and he does the same he invests the same time why should he pay for you?

                Because he is a man and I’m a woman

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                >Because I go on dates with people to get to know them and see if I would like to invest into something more….
                Yes and he does the same he invests the same time why should he pay for you?

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              >because he’s a man and I’m a woman who he finds attractive and interesting (his words)
              That literally doesn't mean shit
              >I can cook. Why would I cook for someone who is nothing to me?
              So why do you go out with him if he is nothing to you? Are you some leech parasite who just wants free food? Poor guy

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                It actually means a lot.

                I go out with him because we are getting to know each other… he’s not my boyfriend so I don’t care about him at this point.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                So he buys your time with free meals? Why do you go out with ppl that don't mean anything to you? Are you a prostitute or something?

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          >I don’t cook
          literally worthless
          If you don't cock or put his cock in your holes you're not a girlfriend he's a orbiter

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      It's not "bad", but I wouldn't be down for something that one-sided

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Yes, it’s not the 50s anymore. Some women want all the advantages of getting better, “equal” opportunities yet still want a man to make more money and be the breadwinner. It just doesn’t work out like that a lot of times anymore.

  54. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Femanons, my penis is below average, it's not micro, but it's definitely not as big as you'd want it to be. Because of this, I know I won't be able to satisfy a girl even a little bit with it, are my mouth and fingers really the best way to make you cum if my penis is shitty?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      how below average are we talking?

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Well, I haven't measured it, only eyeballed it and assumed. The average in Australia is 5 inches and I know it's shorter than that, if I had to guess, I'd say it's about 3.5 erect, it may be a little longer once I cure my phimosis, but not by much, it's also not very girthy.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          >Australia
          Are you Asian?
          Maybe go for an Asian girl since you have a lot over there, although she might be disappointed in your lack of BWC
          are you fat by any chance?

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >Are you Asian?
            No, white as snow.
            >are you fat by any chance?
            Not really, 88kg 6'1", I'm tryna lose weight currently.

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              Damn bruh, that sucks.
              What's your girth like?
              If I were you I'd measure it, since porn brain might have you think average is tiny

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                >Damn bruh, that sucks.
                I know, that's why I asked the question in the first place, it makes me feel like shit knowing that I may as well never use my penis in sex.
                >What's your girth like?
                Not great, the toilet paper roll test is a challenge for me.
                >If I were you I'd measure it
                I'm a retard high school drop out that never passed a single math class, how would I do this?
                >porn brain might have you think average is tiny
                ?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Don't worry, I never get off to penetration alone, regardless of how big a dick could be. It's pretty much required for me to touch myself to get there, and I'll enjoy doing so while we have sex even if your dick is small.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        I've heard from a lot of women that women in general find it really difficult to get off from penetration alone. You having to touch yourself to finish makes me feel the same way as when girls ask to bring toys into the bedroom, it just means that I'm not good enough to make you cum and you need something else, it makes me very insecure and discouraged.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          If you understand it's extremely normal, why does it make you feel insecure?
          Also, sex is about more than orgasming. I can enjoy sex and masturbating without getting off. Especially with sex, it's all about the intimacy and enjoying being with the man I love.
          Please don't ruin sex for yourself AND your future gf by focusing so hard on aspects that both bum you out and don't actually matter much.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >If you understand it's extremely normal, why does it make you feel insecure?
            Just because it's normal doesn't make it hurt any less. Knowing that I'll never be enough to get my girlfriend off is really disheartening, surely you've gotta understand where I'm coming from.

            >Please don't ruin sex for yourself AND your future gf by focusing so hard on aspects that both bum you out and don't actually matter much.
            My future girlfriend is gonna wanna cum and I'm probably not gonna make her be able to do that, so what's the point in having sex with her?

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              I'm not trying to insult it discourage you by saying this, but your defeatist attitude and shitty assumptions leading you to give up before even trying are truly the most unattractive thing possible. Infinitely worse than anything that could possibly be wrong with your dick.
              Get over it and just be open to enjoying your bodies in a relationship without these preconceived notions of "good enough" or the obsession with orgasms.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                I know what you're saying, but if she needs other things just to cum than what's the point in me being there? It would be the same as me fucking a chick and then going to jerk off because her pussy wasn't good enough, what was the point of me fucking her in the first place? I could've just jerked off from the beginning and saved her from wasting her time and feeling embarrassed.

                >be open to enjoying your bodies in a relationship without these preconceived notions of "good enough" or the obsession with orgasms.
                I know I'll enjoy her body, but there's nothing to enjoy about mine. Also, what's the point in having sex if she never orgasms? It's just a waste of her time that's constantly leaving her disappointed.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                Sex is like 85% just about the emotional connection for me. You could have a microdick that's permanently limp and I'd still want to hold you and be close to you 24/7 while naked if I loved you. It's about fucking love and attraction, it's not just about penis in vagina and orgasms being had. For fucks sake, I get so demoralized when I think about the fact that this obsession with sex as a purely physical thing that can be failed must be common with guys nowadays. It makes me physically cringe.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                >You could have a microdick that's permanently limp and I'd still want to hold you and be close to you 24/7 while naked if I loved you.
                That's not sex.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                That's my fucking point. The penetration isn't what I care about when I'm with someone I fucking love. How dense are you?

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                Buddy, it's not me that's dense. I'm talking about penetration and sex and you're saying I'm dense because you're talking about cuddling.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                >purely physical thing that can be failed
                Also, yeah, sex can absolutely be failed, what are you talking about?

                Whatever. I'm never going through to you doomposting anons. It's not my job to try and make you realize your dumb thoughts on intimacy are the only things you should worry will ruin your physical relationships with women.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                Thanks for conceding, feels good to know that I won another internet argument because as soon as I came back with a real rebuttal you instantly conceded.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                It's not an argument and you didn't win. You'll continue to be sad and alone crying over your perfectly acceptable dick while people who have learned to be less neurotic will be out here enjoying the company of the people they love.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                >It's not an argument and you didn't win.
                Cope and cry harder.
                >You'll continue to be sad and alone crying over your perfectly acceptable dick
                I can guarantee you it's not, it's also great that I never even got a proper answer to my original question, but whatever.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                Sounds like you're the one stuck crying. I won't make fun of you for your dick like you want me to for some reason, but I can at least make fun of you for being an offputting defeatist who will be forever alone because of his own insecurities. You don't deserve to be happy alongside anyone until you learn to be happy with yourself.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                I can be happy with myself, but women will find it hard to be happy with me, that's just how it is. No woman is jumping for joy when they see my 3.5-inch cock, they're gonna pretend like they're happy though.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                You can't invalidate someone's feelings as "pretending" just because they don't fit your stupid headcanon.
                I'd like your dick if you were by bf based solely on your self deprecating description of it, and there's nothing you can do about it. So cry more.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                >headcanon.
                Oooh, bringing out the buzzwords now.

                Also, it's not hard to read people, there isn't a single woman that would prefer my small dick over one that was a little big bigger, even if they were my girlfriend. If my girlfriend had the choice to keep my dick the way it is or make it as big as she wanted, she would change the size.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                I think she'd want to change your shitty personality over your dick, if she only could change one thing. You're obsessing over the wrong thing.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                NTA but yes, you‘re right. But that‘s not a possibility and she‘s not there with you to get fucked silly by thundercocks, she‘s there to sleep with YOU and the body you have. I find it invalidating to tell people that things like that don‘t matter at all, but it seems like you‘re blowing it out of proportion. We all know very well what a perfect body would look like, and whilst there might be some slight taste variable, there‘s universal stuff we all prefer but that just aren‘t a deal breaker unless you‘re fucking a whore you paid for to specifically experience that thing and she doesn‘t have it. For example, if you always wanted to experience sex with a girl with a perfect innie, you can find a prostitute who has that and pay her. But then that is basically just real life porn. If you find a girl you absolutely love and that gets you insanely horny by just being around her but upon undressing you realize that she doesn‘t have the absolute perfect porn pussy, you most likely wouldn‘t recoil in horror and tell her to get the fuck out. I mean, you might but then you‘d be the most shallow asshole in existence since people have no control over the genitals they were born with and if you care more about the length of her inner labia than all the rest you have together then that‘s on you. Same in your case. Ofc we all know what the perfect dick looks like but most men don‘t have that. If she rejects you because of that, then that‘s on her. Doesn‘t mean she wouldn‘t find it a nice surprise to undress you and find the perfect dick hiding in your pants, not any less than you‘d be happy to find she has an immaculate pussy. You‘re right that if we could all have our own way, we‘d want our partners to all be perfect in every way. But that‘s fantasy. If you get hung up about this or get bitter about it, then you‘re just standing in your own way. We all can never be perfect in every way and we all have to just deal with it

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                What you just said is that yes people want their partner to have the perfect body, but they will just have to settle for less. Why should my partner be forced to settle for less and be less happy? They're always going to be disappointed because I'll never have what they want and in the end, they just have to put up with and tolerate what I have, and I think that's pretty shitty.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                Yes, they will have to just settle because everyone has to. Perfection is an illusion. If you think someone can only love you if you‘re perfect, you won‘t ever believe someone that they can love you because you‘ll never be perfect. Just like everyone else. Most people don‘t even think about which things they have to settle for to be with their partner, because it‘s just such an integral part of the human experience. Humans are pretty gross and imperfect from close up and if you can only let someone near you once you feel perfect, you‘ll never be ready. Nobody in their right mind expects another human being to be perfect because we all know how delusional that is. Just think about the people you know. Do you ever think about the fact your uncle has a weird toe nail? Maybe if he uses it on a family gathering to gross out your grandma, sure. But other than that? Most likely not. Does that make him someone to be avoided? Not really unless you‘re a foot fetishist and can only tolerate people with perfect feet in your vicinity. Or your sister who struggles with acne? Would you rather she has perfect skin? Sure. It would be nicer to look at. But do you like her more or less because of the condition of her skin? Does it mean you‘d rather save her out of a burning house if she had less pimples? I sure hope not because love goes deeper than physical imperfections. Do you hate your dad because he has a wart on his neck? Can you not enjoy joking with him because all you can think about is the wart?

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                This is actually pretty enlightening, thank you for putting it like this, anon, I appreciate it. Even though this has made me look at it differently, and has changed my perspective, I still do have an issue with the fact that I will never properly satisfy my girl because of how small my penis is, she will always leave sex being dissapointed and that makes me sad because I want her to enjoy herself as much as I'm enjoying myself, it sucks that she has to miss out on fun because I was born fucked up.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                >I still do have an issue with the fact that I will never properly satisfy my girl because of how small my penis is, she will always leave sex being dissapointed and that makes me sad because I want her to enjoy herself as much as I'm enjoying myself, it sucks that she has to miss out on fun because I was born fucked up.

                I understand and i think it‘s ok to mourn that. But we have to believe that someone‘s love goes way deeper than just physical pleasure. I could rattle off all the other ways you could sexually satisfy her but it won‘t change that you‘re right and it will never be the same. Maybe look at it from the point of view of her having to miss out on some sexual pleasure as part of the whole package deal of being with you. Sure, that sucks. But compare it to what she‘d have to settle for if she dated someone else. Maybe don‘t compare it to the highly curated packages public figures present, because it is literally their job to hide all their imperfections and perfect their good sides to make them seem like beacons of perfection to shine bright on the lowly population of mortals. Compared it to the other guys your age you went to school with. Or your neighbor, your cousin, your co workers. If she‘d date your brother, what would she have to settle for? That he doesn‘t wash his hands after going to the toilette? What about your co worker? That he has one of those yucky deeply fissured tongues? What about your former school mates? That they are smoking weed every day or survive on fast food and have the belly to show for it? We all miss out on some things by dating someone, because literally nobody is the whole package. Sure, there might be some that get very very close but they are the absolute exception and they usually only seem like that because they guard their imperfections more than others.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                I think it is important to acknowledge our own imperfections because everything else would be delusional. It would also be stupid af to demand a partner to act as if we were perfect when we know exactly that we are not. It won‘t ever help you if your future gf acted like you‘re hung like a horse. You‘d just feel mocked and invalidated and that she‘s not being honest. Which would be true. But the only thing that could redeem your confidence would be to actually experience her having intense orgasms from the sex you have together despite your dick not being the biggest. And it would be the same for her. You could tell her all day how perfect her boobs are when she‘s insecure about them being too saggy. It won‘t help. Because she too would feel like she cheated you out of having a gf with perfect boobs and it would make her feel like she got cheated out of experiencing what it feels like to have perfect boobs. But what would that be? She‘d feel cheated out of experiencing the joy of being able to give you pleasure by having the perfect body. The only healing would be her experiencing you being head over heels for her boobs, not because they are perfect but because they are HER‘S and because of the fact that she lets you play with them, which makes them become the most perfect boobs in your reality.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                >purely physical thing that can be failed
                Also, yeah, sex can absolutely be failed, what are you talking about?

  55. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Is the mall, museum, or bowling bad first date ideas?
    I have a solid amount of allergies and I was born with and I honestly hate eating out except for places like chipotle and stuff. I dont mind making compromises and eating out on future dates, but I also feel a bit odd revealing this to a girl before the first date. I feel like it may be a bit of a turn off for a lot of girls.

    I also just prefer to do something a bit more fun.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      They're all fine, but avoid the mall as a date if you're over 14. An actual activity like a museum or bowling or ice skating is fine.

      Also yeah, being a picky eater is unattractive, even if it's due to allergies, because we all know you're using them as an excuse.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Fair on the mall, and ok I'll try one of those.
        As far as picky eater yeah I get it. It's not exactly by choice. I don't think people realize how difficult it can actually be to eat out with allergies. So many places cook stuff on/in shared surfaces, use stupid ingredients you wouldn't ever expect, etc.

        I just hate feeling like an inconvenience to people and it makes me really uncomfortable. I even feel this way around family and coworkers. I don't care if I go there and order nothing but a drink. If I go its because I want the other person to enjoy it, and for me to connect with that person. Not for the food.
        I know it's unattractive and I hate it. But what can I do about it seriously?
        Like I said I'm ok with making compromises. But how do I even word that to someone I just met?

        It feels like a bad look to say like "I would prefer to do something fun for the first date and then we can discuss food options, I have some allergies and stuff so eating out isn't the easiest for me but I am totally willing to compromise if you are.
        Maybe I can word it differently but idk. I'd rather go out have fun and not say anything about dinner, show them a good time, THEN open up to them about that instead of throwing it all away before we even go on the first date.

  56. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I made pizza dough this morning and left it in the fridge to rise in time for dinner today.
    But I got hungry and ate a big chunk for lunch and now I feel bloated and heavy.
    Why did women do this to me?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      They’re so evil!

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >CARMELLA SHUT THE DOOOOOORRRRR

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        He never had the makings of a varsity athlete

  57. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >Been as NEET for years
    >Hated being alone, hated being seen with my low self image even more
    >Have friends but don't go out often
    >Start going to gym with one nearly daily for a few months
    >Also close to his girlfriend, talk almost every day since we have a lot in common
    >They are on vacation for the week and I don't want to bother them while they are
    >Feeling serious withdrawals from not hearing from them and not going to the gym, but not going to message them since I want to give them space to be a happy couple since they have not seen each other in person in a while
    Any ideas of how to get through this week with as little mental anguish as possible? Was thinking of living like I'm in a hyperbolic time chamber and just eating as healthy as possible and doing a lot of reading/sleeping

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Sounds like a plan
      Embrace sleep, reject the waking world

  58. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >talking with a girl
    >give her an ear and listen to her troubles
    >want unironically to ghost her next day
    Why girls are like this? Just stop talking...

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Because you decided to listen to her? If you don't wanna be a part of that, then just don't "give her an ear" and she won't talk to you.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >it's your fault!
        No, it's not. There's an amout I can handle. She exceeded it greatly. What happened to being tactful and understanding? Huh?

  59. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Will a girl think I'm leading her on if I wanna go on a date with her just to know what other people we knew have been up to?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Obviously. Why not just ask her to meet for coffee to catch up instead? Or is this you trying to use her to stalk another girl?

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >Why not just ask her to meet for coffee to catch up instead?
        Isn't that what a date is...

  60. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    [...]

    Oh my god what a retard. I think he thought that WOMEN think she’s attractive so he told you that to make you feel good.
    And then he forgot… LOL
    This is unironically something I’d do by mistake

  61. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Circumcised anons: how do you masturbate? I don't understand

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Grab it and move my hand up and down

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Isn't that painful from the friction?

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          No because there’s no friction. I retain my grip

  62. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    [...]

    Or maybe (and this is very unlikely) he’s playing mind games. You know the old “lower her confidence over the long term and keep her dependent” shtick.
    Does he seem like the type?

  63. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    What do femanons think of Hentai?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I usually hate it, but there is some good shit that specifically caters to certain fetishes.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        What's your fetish babygirl?

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          >babygirl
          Gag. Definitely not being called that.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Okay, princess.

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              That's just as bad. Go with Queen. And don't make it racial.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                ok cuckquean, what's your fetish?

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                It's killing (You).

                'Half-black queen' doesn't sound good in the first place.

                I'm less than half black, and that's my point. It doesn't apply.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                'Half-black queen' doesn't sound good in the first place.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I think it‘s generally a lot better than real porn because it minimizes the possibility of it having been produced by exploiting someone. (There‘s still a chance because you can also exploit hentai artists by paying them shit). I don‘t like that it makes it possible to produce any kind of porn and pretend like it makes it ok since it‘s not actual people involved. Like e-boi porn. That shit‘s disgusting. There also seems to be the chance of you going down the rabbit hole so deep, you can‘t escape anymore. It‘s drawn. You can cater to any fetish to a T. Real life sex might pale in comparison and it might also get you more fixated on specific fetishes that just aren‘t humanly possible. Like giantess stuff for example. If you got so far that some impossible fetish is all that can get you off anymore, you got a real problem. Unless you‘re absolutely 100% sure that you‘re going to stay an incel forever anyways, it seems a dangerous path to chose.

  64. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I wish 4chin had a music player thingy where we could all listen to music together.

  65. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    [...]

    Then it’s safe to assume he’s probably just a retard trying to be nice

  66. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >tfw no gf or friends to listen to songs with
    🙁

  67. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Reminder that apologizing to women shows them how weak you are and they'll think you're not worth air you're breathing.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I make mistakes and I’m not ashamed to admit it. If women really care (I doubt it) then that’s good because it filters out the exact people I don’t want in my life.
      Being a pushover on behalf of women is equally as bad as being an unrepentant asshole on behalf of them. Either way women are controlling your whole personality.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >women are controlling your personality
        >literally not giving a shit about women with no regrets for making woman sob
        This is your brain on estrogen.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          She‘s right though.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous
        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          You're coping so hard, holy shit.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Let me guess, you're also happy with Andrew Tate being unbanned on twitter?

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Lol, king Andrew Tate is so big that even banning him didn't help. He doesn't really need social media.

  68. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    no schizo shit, I'm muslim, if I pray more to god and repent will it actually help me not to kms? anyone here turned to religion after breakups or whatever you were going through?

  69. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >on this girl's bed about to put the moves on her a couple days ago
    >distracted by something coming up and not able to proceed
    >hasn't responded to or even looked at me on social media since
    >have met in the halls and been polite
    >haven't been able to have any proper conversation since
    Keep it mind, we're talking two to three days.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Women, what is going on and how do I proceed?

  70. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Why do women do this?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      seems more like a israelite is promoting it

  71. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I posted this in the tiher thread but it was near post limit

    I don't really know what to do or what to feel. How do I get over my childhood friend losing their virginity.

    Recently I realized I'm in love with them but they've hooked up with a new guy and they're fucking. Since I see her every other day I hear all about it and see hickies and such.

    The worst part is I have a fiance who I'm also in love with and it makes me feel like a piece of shit for being upset about this.

    I didn't really know where to post this but I need help from either gender

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Stop being retarded...? Also, stop being friends with this bitch. Politely cut them out of your life.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >The worst part is I have a fiance who I'm also in love with and it makes me feel like a piece of shit for being upset about this
      You are a piece of shit for being upset about this. Don't gloss over that determination.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      To add onto this I knew she really liked me and her current BF is basically just like me in terms of everything from looks to hobbies to almost personality

  72. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    What does it mean when a girl says that she envisioned me completely differently when we were chatting compared to how I look like in reality?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      At first i wanted to say that she thought you’re hot but you aren’t but upon further consideration, it could really go both ways. Chances are it‘s the first thought because why would she meet up with you if she thought you‘re ugly?

  73. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    what should I talk about when I’m on the phone with a guy? It’s a new guy… barely know him. Just been texting a bit

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Watch this video and then impress him with your knowledge

      This is the perfect Youtube video to capture the interest of a man with it's factoids
      Unless he is progressive or something I guess

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        He wouldn’t be into that
        Yeah he’s a progressive I believe

        Depends, do you plan on dating or rejecting? If dating, just do anything and possibly propose date ideas. If rejecting, rip the bandaid off quickly.

        I’m in the middle.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          If he's a cishet White man, he's not a progressive. He's pretending to be one because he thinks you are. You give him permission, he'll act.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            No. We spoke about politics and hes a lib
            I am way more conservative

            Talk to him about the best dildos for prostate stimulation then

            Hes not a fag

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              Is he israeli, bisexual, a pedophile?

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                None of those things

                Isn’t it weird that a liberal guy would consider dating a more trad girl idk

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                Weirder that you would consider him tbh

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                Why do u think that

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Talk to him about the best dildos for prostate stimulation then

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Depends, do you plan on dating or rejecting? If dating, just do anything and possibly propose date ideas. If rejecting, rip the bandaid off quickly.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      The single best advice that can be given for making friends is talking about what THEY are interested in.
      Gurage his interest in things and then talk to him about those things, he will like you a lot for it.
      A girl who I was talking to went out of her way to ask me about my League of Legends Ranked grind. NONE of my other friends did this, it made me like her a lot (I like her a lot for a lot of reasons, but that is an exemplar reason as to how she is and how good she is at making friends)
      Just like with most things in life, there is no silver bullet.
      >But I barely know him, how do I know what he likes?
      Ask him, ask things like
      >How was your day?
      >Anything exciting coming up for you?
      Shit like that and get them talking, people love talking and they really love talking about themselves.

  74. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I'm deeply infatuated with my friend, and I don't know what to do. I don't want to be a little cuckboy keeping her warm for a real man, but that's where it feels like I'm at. I know I'm going to be jealous too and probably blame her for it when it happens. I don't like this.

  75. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I kind of want an open relationship where she gives me hugs and cuddles and tells me she loves me and I don't really care who she has sex with.

  76. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Anon, why don‘t you eat carbs? Do you have an eating disorder?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I basically eat only carbs and also have an eating disorder

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Still better than falling for the keto scam.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          My mum has been on keto for nearly 2-3 months and has already lost 15 kilos, definitely not a scam.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            If she's losing that fast she either was/is huge or is also starving herself. Eating a caloric deficit is how people lose weight, not eating different foods.

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              >Eating a caloric deficit is how people lose weight, not eating different foods.
              /fitbro/ what you aren't taking into account is how ketosis enhances your bodies burning of calories, on Keto your body is burning fat in your sleep because it thinks you are in a mode that requires that.
              Keto isn't for everyone but there is real method to it. Its like people who say diet soda is a scam, it isn't going to fix your life but it has real effects that aren't just pseudoscience

              Why did my girlfriend still have her ex as an emergency contact? I found out recently, and she thought I wouldn't mind, since she had added me as an emergency contact too.
              But why have us both? He lives several towns away.

              Was their breakup bad or are they still friends?

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >definitely not a scam
            People undergoing chemo also lose weight. Losing weight is not a sure fire sign that you‘re getting healthier. Sure, it‘s good to lose weight if you need to, but it doesn‘t necessarily mean you‘re actually doing something that is beneficial to your body. I agree that it works well for weight loss, but it‘s going to fuck you over in the long term because it is neither healthy nor sustainable. There‘s way better ways to lose weight at the same rate. The biggest bonus to low carb is that it gets rid of the highly refined carbs like sweets or fast food. But taking out the healthy ones like potatoes, rice and fruit is mental.

  77. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Why did my girlfriend still have her ex as an emergency contact? I found out recently, and she thought I wouldn't mind, since she had added me as an emergency contact too.
    But why have us both? He lives several towns away.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      do you mean in her phone or in her medical records?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I wouldn't want to keep an ex as an emergency contact, but if I didn't have many friends around I'd totally want the security of having someone as the contact who knows/knew me well enough to be able to mention what I'm allergic to and what my health conditions are. An ex fills that role.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Why isn't it her mom

      To answer yours why would she put a fairly new romantic partner as her emergency contact? If she had no other option because she's not in her home country or whatever it would make sense that her ex is on the list.

  78. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    why do women do this?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      It feels good to celebrate a good run. Idc if it's cringey, I need the confidence boost. Fuck you.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Do you really celebrate a run? Why are you so weird? Do you lick your glasses too after running?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Why do women stretch?

      Can you lift your arms over your head? Can you touch your toes? Some people think mobility and flexibility have value because they move their bodies sometimes.

  79. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Women
    How much courage do you have to muster to “accidentally” touch a guy in general? I find that it happens from older women more freely than younger women by a large degree. I get the feeling a few different women my age are somewhat interested in me but they’re almost “hyper aware” of being close to me, pretty much to the point of being anxious and avoiding touching me. Guys are shit at reading subtleties

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      All my "accidental" touching is truly accidental. I don't realize how handsy I can get.
      What I'm mustering the courage for is putting myself in close situations around someone I like often enough that those sorts of accidents can happen in the first place. In general, I'm usually careful not to accidentally touch people and stay distant because it's rude to invade a stranger's personal space.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        I don‘t touch strangers.

        Ok fair about the stranger part, but I’m talking about a guy you decently know

        What?

        What are you confused about?

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          I touch everyone I decently know once I have the greenlight they're okay with it. I'm just like that, it's not indicative of anything beyond friendliness.

          Do you really celebrate a run? Why are you so weird? Do you lick your glasses too after running?

          How is that weird? I need multiple sources of motivation to get my ass exercising outside the house, so I take every little success I can. Why do you want to bully me?

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Now that I've read other anons answers to the question I get it.

          I don't do that. If I'm touching them because I'm trying to escalate flirting I want them to know it was intentional.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      What?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I don‘t touch strangers.

  80. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I payed for two lap dances for the first time in my life yesterday. It was a shit experience that I could've gotten for free from a girl if I got lucky in the club but man do I fucking love a woman's body and the way it moves.

    Definitely not something I'm going to do habitually, though. Do you go to the club often, /atoga/? What do you usually do, do you go with friends?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I‘m curious, how does that work? What does a woman do when giving a lap dance?

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Grind on my cock. Dry humping. All to the rhythm of the music. I definitely push the boundaries when I'm drunk and grabbed her hair, her tits, ass too.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          What did you pay for that? And do you actually just sit down? Isn‘t that awkward? Wouldn‘t it be better if you just danced together?

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Yes I paid for it... I did sit down but sometimes I got up and "took charge" grinding on her instead of her grinding on me. It wasn't awkward at all, and I guess it would be better if we danced together, it was free, and was a longer experience.

            For some reason, women at the strip club are very prude. They come there by themselves or with friends and say no to everything. So I got frustrated and payed for the lap dances before leaving.

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              >For some reason, women at the strip club are very prude. They come there by themselves or with friends and say no to everything. So I got frustrated and payed for the lap dances before leaving

              Is it not obvious to you that they're avoiding being confused for women who work at the club?

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                Yeah maybe I'm retarded. I just asked them if they want drinks/want to dance. Honestly I'm not pressed, didn't want this to sound like an incel post either.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        usually they just dance on you. it's fun. you can get extras at certain clubs. one time bought a girl a shot and she gave me a blowjob during the dance after that with no extra charge. ymmv

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          So it‘s basically just girls acting slutty and you paying them for it? And i have been a slut for free all this time? Kek

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >And i have been a slut for free all this time?
            yep. I've said many times I would rather be with an ex prostitute or a stripper than a regular slut. At least they respect their bodies enough to get paid for it, regular sluts literally do it for free

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              Eh, i‘d rather do it for free because i have insane demand avoidance and if i felt like i HAD to act slutty because someone paid me to, it would instantly make me not want to act slutty anymore at all and would suck all the fun out of it.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >And i have been a slut for free all this time?
            yep. I've said many times I would rather be with an ex prostitute or a stripper than a regular slut. At least they respect their bodies enough to get paid for it, regular sluts literally do it for free

            I do not see the issue with being a slut for free. If you like it, then why not?

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              Same

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              there's no issue. If you want to do it then go ahead. But If I had to choose between a girl who gets paid for her body and a girl who gets fucked for free I'd pick the one who gets paid

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                I just feel like if she charges for sex then there would be a higher chance of her doing it just for the money, even if the partner did not look or act ideally for her. I feel like girls who do it for free do it out of their own judgement of their partner. Idk, maybe an actual femal slut could chime in but I'd rather a slut who does it for free.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I love strip clubs. used to go all the time with friends but nobody wants to go anymore. so these days sometimes I'll just go by myself and drink at the bar. I treat it as a regular bar except there are super friendly naked girls walking around everywhere. hardly ever throw money on stage or get lap dances anymore

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Yeah the strippers were pretty nice. Also, that's a stupid diet.

  81. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    state gender,
    What was the last thing that made you cry?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      F. Tripped yesterday.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        As in, fell over?

        M
        My ex telling me that she liked someone else and that we can't fuck anymore

        Oof

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Yes. Scraped my knee up a bit.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Ouch. But did you actually cry from physical pain? Idk when the last time was i did that.

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              Things have honestly been pretty rough recently, and I was walking in after getting home from a pretty botched date, so overall I was due for a cry and the fall was just sort of the catalyst for it. I feel better now, at least.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          >Oof
          Yeah, I guess the strange thing is that she said she still wants to be friends. To this day, she's usually the person messaging me and initiating convos first. Idk what that means tbh.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Probably that she still wants to make sure that you haven‘t stopped simping yet.

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              Why would she do that? I just want happiness, we don't even see each other anymore. What would she gain from doing that?

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                Attention. Ego.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                >What would she gain from doing that?
                Validation. Feeling desired.
                [...]
                I see, that makes a lot of sense then. I hope you‘re having a better time now.

                Should I stop talking to her then? She's unusually interested in my hobbies now for some reason.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                Personally i see absolutely no point in being friends with an ex at all. But i also don‘t really have any male friends, so it would be weird. I could see it having some validity. For example, my brother and his ex have been part of the same friend group since middle school and so when they broke up, they remained friends because they had been friends long before they became a couple and just throwing all of that away because their relationship didn‘t work out seems excessive. Especially since they still spend a lot of time together due to being in the same friend group. But he‘d still go help her with moving and she‘d still come to his birthday party. In situations like this, it makes sense to me. But if you just keep contact for the sake of it, it‘s weird af and most likely either just trying to act polite or stringing each other along for the validation. I know it would be weird af if i was still in contact with any of my exes. I‘d only do that if i felt any need to make sure they never simp over anyone else harder than they do over me and that‘s really fucking inhuman and cruel. Like your ex is doing rn as it seems. Giving you little bread crumbs of attention because she knows very well that you‘ll notice and that it could lead to you getting your hopes up and that seems to be exactly what she‘s doing.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                Idk if she'd do that, but I kinda make it clear that I don't want to talk to her via the way in actually taking to her; giving her short responses with no emojis. Stuff like that. Like I said, she's always the one initiating convos and she's actually a church girl, doesn't go out on Fridays and usually just goes with friends on Saturday. I doubt she's seeing anyone too.

                [...]
                Whats the issue with just being her friend?

                No issue really. It's just a matter of respect and being able to move on. If I was talking to a girl interested in being in a relationship, I'd take it she'd find it weird that this woman is still trying to speak to me.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                >Oof
                Yeah, I guess the strange thing is that she said she still wants to be friends. To this day, she's usually the person messaging me and initiating convos first. Idk what that means tbh.

                Whats the issue with just being her friend?

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                Females are shitty friends.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                One of my greatest friends is female and she has shown more care and interest in my life than most of my male friends have. I don't think its as black and white as that.

                Idk if she'd do that, but I kinda make it clear that I don't want to talk to her via the way in actually taking to her; giving her short responses with no emojis. Stuff like that. Like I said, she's always the one initiating convos and she's actually a church girl, doesn't go out on Fridays and usually just goes with friends on Saturday. I doubt she's seeing anyone too.

                [...]
                No issue really. It's just a matter of respect and being able to move on. If I was talking to a girl interested in being in a relationship, I'd take it she'd find it weird that this woman is still trying to speak to me.

                As long as you set clear boundaries I don't see why they would care. If you broke up on ok terms then someone you could stomach being in an exclusive relationship for that long would probably make a great friend, they likely know you better than most other people as well.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                If she actually cared about you, she would fuck you.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                Why is sex the only metric by which you look at women?

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                because sex is the only metric by which women define men. how big their dick is, whats their dating history, why are they still a virgin etc etc

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                normally I don't like this incel stuff but the last girl I was talking to wanted to know all about the girlsI've dated and had sex with in the past. felt like she didn't care who I was or didn't care to learn about me at all. She only seemed to care about my dating history. felt a bit dehumanizing

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                right? its not incel stuff at all. its called asking the real quesitons. women hate it so they gave it a name and call anyone who brings it up an incel.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                Good for you
                Most of us don't care for that
                Rather have friends to shoot the shit and talk about that ludicrous display last night

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                >What would she gain from doing that?
                Validation. Feeling desired.

                Things have honestly been pretty rough recently, and I was walking in after getting home from a pretty botched date, so overall I was due for a cry and the fall was just sort of the catalyst for it. I feel better now, at least.

                I see, that makes a lot of sense then. I hope you‘re having a better time now.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      M
      My ex telling me that she liked someone else and that we can't fuck anymore

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      21M
      intrusive thoughts as I try to fall asleep, I've probably cried myself to sleep 9 times in the past 2 months over things that aren't even real, just extremely vivid imagination as I try to drift off into sleep. Things like worrying new friends don't like me or imagining myself giving a eulogy at funerals of people I care about.
      I try to drown it out by listening to youtube videos but it hardly works, sometimes it can take hour of this to fall asleep finally.
      There might be a few things wrong with me

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      M
      The thought of my parents discovering my body after I commit suicide
      It's really the only thing keeping me from doing it

  82. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Anons,
    If you had sons, what would you teach them that you wished your dad taught you growing up?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Don't be afraid of rejection. Tell her your true feelings if you like/love her. And also, to pursue music/engineering at a young age.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      My dad was very lenient on things he shouldn't have been (learning to drive, doing well in school, going out with friends) because I was dealing with an alcoholic mother in my teens and he was trying to soften the blow I guess, he also had that on his plate to deal with.
      He should have been more forceful with making sure I reached those milestones in life, it has set me back a few years that I am only now catching up on.
      Life can get rough but you can't just hide away in your room from the problems, they won't go away on their own and will only get worse.

  83. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Do the shy/spergy girls ignore handsome guys? I'd like to think i'm handsome and i've noticed a trend with the more spergy girls, it feels like they're trying to avoid looking at me or notice me on purpose. The more outgoing girls have no problem looking at me or talking to me face to face. Is this a thing or is it in my head? Like i've talked to these shy girls a couple times before and it went fine but if I see them again they act like they dont know me

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      We ignore everyone

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      See

      We ignore everyone

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Yeah, same as

      We ignore everyone

  84. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    This is like the third time that an outgoing guy wants to date me. Why do they do this? I’m not shy, I am a part time shut in.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      If you were male in that situation you'd get zero attention.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Yeah but I’m a woman so let’s focus on reality

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Yeah but I’m a woman so let’s focus on reality

      Take it from a male shut in who wants an outgoing GF. They will be good for you and you will be happier with a variety of things you do,

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >giving shy boys less chance and outgoing men more
        are you a fucking cuck?

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Jesse what the fuck are you talking about?

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            don't tell shy girls to go for outgoing guys, we have enough of those types of couples already, and those women were already gonna do that
            you're a shy shut in so you can understand the hardship but you wanna make it even harder because the shy girls are also going for the same outgoing guy the outgoing girls want

  85. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Does anyone wanna start reading 1984 with me? I'm almost done with the Bell Jar and will be starting it sometime next week. 🙂

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      How did you like The Bell Jar? I enjoyed it a lot even though I'm not the target audience (I'm a manlet, so she'd hate my guts and find me disgusting).

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        im loving it so far. im at the point where she's sitting on the breezeway and titillating the idea of writing a novel about elaine. i feel for her ngl. a huge part of this character feels exactly like its me.
        >she'd hate my guts and find me disgusting
        probably. although im exactly the guys she falls for, she'd probably be disgutsted by me as well cuz im not cool, or an overachiever like her.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I thought 1984 was kind of boring and lame

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        is it?? i mean yeah its dystopian n stuff, but its weirdly famous. a bit too much. so i wanted to try.

        Sure! I'm going to start reading it in the time I have allocated to reading fiction.

        yay! how do we keep up? if you dont mind me asking. u got discord/telegram?

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          I mean I'd still recommend it because it's so famous. It wasnt a bad book but I found it a bit bland. felt like I was reading a teenager write about society

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >felt like I was reading a teenager write about society
            damn. i'll need to research it a bit and see if i wanna spend my time on it.

            I have disc.

            >klostermann#6515

            [...]
            You need to BELIEVE. I think there are anons readin Dune rn but I haven't been active in keeping up with them.

            fren request SENT!

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              I'd say just read it. it's not very long

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                alrighty then
                >foid hvaing to experience what it feels like to fight your own fights

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                Yeah, i know why i avoid guys like you.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                Anyone else find this webm satisfying to watch?

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                Jannies just fucking ban me already i don‘t want to be tempted to come to a place where people like this are.

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              >fren request SENT!
              Nice 🙂

              Honestly though, I think The Bell Jar is the perfect book to start the Book Club with, because we can all laugh about how she's the typical female /atoga/ poster. And then maybe A Confederacy of Dunces, so we can all laugh about how he's the typical male /atoga/ poster.

              I haven't read '84 but really if we're having an /atoga/ book club I'd like for us to read a book we are engaged in. So if you think those suggestions are better then maybe we can do a straw pool or roll call to see which one /atoga/ would rather read.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Why does she look much more white than the average Asian?

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              Hapa

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                Damn I need to move to the west coast then

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                Is that where all the hapas are? I've been to california and it was nice the people all acted like insufferable homosexuals. I love hapas but I like how people act here on the east coast better

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            > felt like I was reading a teenager write about society
            I love how it puts most writing in perspective fast if i imagine it coming out of the mouth of someone i know. It takes the author off the pedestal, especially if it‘s a classic piece of literature that has been lauded to the moon and back. Kind of remembering that they are just humans like i am and they just had the audacity to put their schizo rambling on paper and ask for money to let me read it. Granted, i pirate it anyways but the whole idea of it makes me feel less inclined to just accept their ideas and puts me more in a „alright, let‘s see if you actually have anything of value to say“ mode.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          I have disc.

          >klostermann#6515

          [...]
          [...]
          We ain't ever gonna get that /atoga/ Book Club off the ground.

          You need to BELIEVE. I think there are anons readin Dune rn but I haven't been active in keeping up with them.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Honestly though, I think The Bell Jar is the perfect book to start the Book Club with, because we can all laugh about how she's the typical female /atoga/ poster. And then maybe A Confederacy of Dunces, so we can all laugh about how he's the typical male /atoga/ poster.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Sure! I'm going to start reading it in the time I have allocated to reading fiction.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Sure! I'm going to start reading it in the time I have allocated to reading fiction.

      is it?? i mean yeah its dystopian n stuff, but its weirdly famous. a bit too much. so i wanted to try.
      [...]
      yay! how do we keep up? if you dont mind me asking. u got discord/telegram?

      We ain't ever gonna get that /atoga/ Book Club off the ground.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Nope. Im currently reading The Passenger and it’s making mince meat out of me. I need a while

  86. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Men, do you like it if a woman calls you baby/babe? If not else what else should I call my bf besides his name

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I want a girl to call me baby boy

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Sure, but you could always come up with a pet name or something.

  87. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    How can I find a cute femcel soulmate?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I don't imagine most femcels are very cute anon

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Cute in spirit

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Making a mid femcel into a cute gymbunny is top tier fantasy

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          I 1000% agree but just keep in mind that changing people isn't easy. If shes skinny its doable but if shes fat I wouldn't expect to turn her into a gym-goer

          Is that where all the hapas are? I've been to california and it was nice the people all acted like insufferable homosexuals. I love hapas but I like how people act here on the east coast better

          There are way more Asians on the west than east coast just because the proximity for immigration from Asia, but I know what you mean. People here feel more genuine IMO, although I love the west coast geography and it honestly just has so much more to do.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Probably online dating but not the big websites like Tinder.
      They will be too skittish to go outside, so they will turn to online dating but they won't want to go for the basic shit.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I really don‘t know.

  88. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    How do I meet girls who treat me this way?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Well, you could meet one and pay her to say this. Or find a gf and tell her to tell you that.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        It's not simply about the words but the woman behind them. Paying a woman to rehearse some lines wouldn't do it.

  89. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Women are backing me into a corner and making me need to fuck
    Every single guy with a virgin wife here was a disgusting non virgin whore and every virgin has ended up with a whore because that’s the only one who’s date him
    I hate female creatures bruh

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      That sucks

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        It does

        It‘s not about virginity you imbecile, it‘s about confidence. Confident men are those that fuck, confident women are those who don‘t and that‘s why they end up together.

        Yeah yeah any excuse for the satanic nature of female creatures
        Hellfire awaits you two

        Honest to god question, why do you care if she has fucked other people before you?
        Like literally, why? Its not like it makes someone a whore unless they do whorish things like cheat or have an incredibly large amount of past partners.

        Because a woman shouldn’t have more sexual partners than her boyfriend or husband, it creates an unfair power dynamic

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          How does it create an unfair power dynamic?

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            More sexual partners = more power
            Woman holding the power in the relationship means she doesn’t respect him, which means that she won’t be faithful

            That doesn‘t scare me, i‘m already a demon. You should try it, it‘s a lot of fun.
            Also, pic rel. you get what you deserve.

            You should fear demons because you will suffer for eternity

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              >you will suffer for eternity

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                Inshallah may Allah punish you for a thousand eons

                No, but I don't think that is analogous with a real vagina on a person. A real vagina self cleans, and all the cells will replace themselves over time. Its the cunt of Theseus at that point.
                [...]
                Power in a relationship is only as powerful as the other person lets it be, if she starts trying to use her past partners as a weapon against you then you can exit the relationship, at which point she now has 0 power through her past relationships over you.

                knowledge is power and how do you get knowledge? Experience

                Are you the monk anon? Lmao

                Who’s that

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                Ah, i see, it is the other religionfag. Just know that i‘ll desecrate your dead body by burying it with a pig if i ever get the chance.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                You don't like Christians?

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                I don‘t like people who support organized religion in any way. You can be religious/spiritual without having to become part of a sect that has been the root of endless evil. At this point, we should just burn everything to the ground and start from scratch and not try to twist and bend old religious schools of thought to make them look less problematic than they obviously are. You can devout your life to urbi and orbi without giving your money to pedos. You can make a pilgrimage to mekka without mutilating your children. Why can‘t we just take the good parts and make something new and beautiful and discard all the cruel sewage? Why do we have to keep it alive and let it poison everything again and again?

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                To add, yeah i am fully aware that most people who subscribe to those religions don‘t do so despite them being problematic but specifically because they are and it fits their own problematic values and mindsets. That‘s why they should all be forbidden. How is it that we still all pretend and act as if that shit is ok in any way? Who tf came up with this religious freedom crap? I fucking hate it here. I want to go home.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                There‘s only one instance in which i‘d love to bring back hitler and it‘s if he‘d gas all muslims. Fucking pest.

                I’m not religious I said inshallah as a meme you redditor atheists

                Standards are fine. But preaching about it and making people sound lesser than you for it sounds insecure.

                I’m shaming non virgins going for virgins and vice versa

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                >I’m shaming non virgins going for virgins and vice versa

                And that's not coming from your insecurity. Ah, okay.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous
              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                There‘s only one instance in which i‘d love to bring back hitler and it‘s if he‘d gas all muslims. Fucking pest.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                >knowledge is power and how do you get knowledge? Experience
                A relationship is a transaction, that "power" only has as much value as the recipient gives it.
                In what tangible way does a women having sexual partners in her past give power over the male?
                And even if we concede it does, what if the male just doesn't fall for the baits she puts out through it? If she says her exes dicks were larger or they were better in bed and uses that as a weapon, just drop her and she now has nothing over you.

                What if all anons used a condom with your onahole?

                Again, I don't see how a onahole is analogous to a real vagina on a person. Its like comparing a real car to a controller you use to play Mario Kart with.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                Because it shows that she cares less for you than you do for her
                Past sexual partners means there’s more baggage

                The equivalent of rape for males is finding out your gf has been a whore/promiscuous in the past or is not a virgin. Discuss

                I don’t feel bad for non virgins with whores though
                In fact if you’re dating a virgin and you’re not one her virginity should be taken by someone else

                >I’m shaming non virgins going for virgins and vice versa

                And that's not coming from your insecurity. Ah, okay.

                And what if it is? You’re gonna shame me for being insecure you little cunt? I don’t want your preowned pussy

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                >And what if it is? You’re gonna shame me for being insecure you little cunt? I don’t want your preowned pussy

                Damn son, why you gotta be so sensitive? I'm not a woman and I didn't intend to make you feel ashamed. Fuck go get married or some shit before you shoot up a school dude.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                Marry WHO
                Women would rather die than be with a virgin when they’re pre used

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                Um, okay. Lol. Sucks for you then. I really don't see the point of your posts other than trying to get attention.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                I want the whores to stop going for the virgins
                Like which one do you think the woman’s gonna choose
                Women will really let the father of their children be a guy who did crack on a stripper and will cheat on them when she’s pregnant

                >Because it shows that she cares less for you than you do for her
                >Past sexual partners means there’s more baggage
                This might be the case, but this seems very dependent on the person instead of it being a baseline issue. It doesn't seem fair to judge all women based on a bad few harlots.
                [...]
                M
                Yeah it does seem weird, but that isn't necessarily indicative of anything awful.
                [...]
                Like what? Seems like an accurate critique
                Also holy shit when did I become such a liberal on this shit.
                [...]
                Then why ever be in a relationship at all?

                I don’t have to want a used pussy
                I’m not obligated to change my preferences because it makes you uncomfortable

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                Are you a schizo? Again, I really don't see the point of your posts.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                To shame virgin women with non virgin guys and non virgin women with virgin guys

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                But why in this thread? Haven't you noticed that this is the wrong thread for that?

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                What’s the right thread

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                You have an entire board for that, it's called /misc/.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                GIOYC

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                None. You should have never been born. You only exist because your dad taped your mom. This is why rape is evil. It has made it possible that creatures like you still exist when they should have gone extinct thousands of years ago. Why would men want to keep their inferior genes alive? Why be such a fucking selfish cunt and ruin it for all of humanity just because you need some power trip?

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                There are 72 posters ITT in total. Maybe 30% is female. Why not just set up a soap box in the flea market today and voice your opinions there?

                You'd be more effective in that setting, I'm sure.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                And get my ass beat?

                You have an entire board for that, it's called /misc/.

                What’s the point if everyone agrees with me already

                GIOYC

                Women aren’t there

                None. You should have never been born. You only exist because your dad taped your mom. This is why rape is evil. It has made it possible that creatures like you still exist when they should have gone extinct thousands of years ago. Why would men want to keep their inferior genes alive? Why be such a fucking selfish cunt and ruin it for all of humanity just because you need some power trip?

                Female creature’s nicest reaction to a virgin

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                Do you believe that you are winning converts and getting people to agree with you in this thread?

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                >And get my ass beat?
                So what? If you think what you're doing is righteous, then why not take the risk? Besides, you're not going to accomplish anything here. Again, you might as well go to GIOYC because that's what you need right now. And yes there are women there.

                Because nobody respects one who gets beat
                Might is right to most people

                Right. I fell for the bait. I‘ll shitpost until i get banned. Jesus fucking christ.

                Ok I don’t know what’s the meme

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                >what‘s the meme
                You are bb

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                Right. I fell for the bait. I‘ll shitpost until i get banned. Jesus fucking christ.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                >And get my ass beat?
                So what? If you think what you're doing is righteous, then why not take the risk? Besides, you're not going to accomplish anything here. Again, you might as well go to GIOYC because that's what you need right now. And yes there are women there.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                He‘s specifically after triggering for his entertainment. Ignore.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                >Because it shows that she cares less for you than you do for her
                >Past sexual partners means there’s more baggage
                This might be the case, but this seems very dependent on the person instead of it being a baseline issue. It doesn't seem fair to judge all women based on a bad few harlots.

                state gender
                would you find this guy weird?
                >28yo, not extremely handsome but full head of hair and likes to smile
                >jokes that he got kicked out an Ivy university but I know for a fact there's some truth to it because I found old facebook posts of him and a bunch of students from Yale
                >has a decent job, makes $20/hr but isn't specific about what he actually does aside from that he works in the accounting department of a livestock facility in a neighboring town
                >he has apparently owned his own house since his early 20s but claims that he just got a lucky deal
                >barely actually lives in the house, just uses it for storage and only sleeps there half the time
                >spends 90% of his time outside of work at his parents' house
                >claims its because he needs to take care of his parents but I'm skeptical of this because his mother is an active ICU nurse
                >once mentioned off hand that his father has a terminal illness but I've met his dad in passing and he seemed fine aside from a slight limp
                >doesn't seem to have any friends aside from his brother who seems mostly normal in comparison if a bit of NEET
                he just gives me weird vibes
                like he doesn't really seem to care about dating or have any romantic goals but still asked me to go out to dinner with him
                for reference, I know him because he's friends with a couple that throws house parties every month even though he never seems to talk to them; I think they might only be friends with his brother and this guy just tags along; he also never talked to me at these parties but we matched on Tinder

                M
                Yeah it does seem weird, but that isn't necessarily indicative of anything awful.

                Why are women like this?

                Like what? Seems like an accurate critique
                Also holy shit when did I become such a liberal on this shit.

                >I don't see how onahole is analogous to real vagina
                Come on... who are you kidding? Have you tried onahole? It's same thing.

                Then why ever be in a relationship at all?

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                >Also holy shit when did I become such a liberal on this shit

                im the same way lol. i was always moderately anti abortion. in the past few years i just stopped caring. im honestly 100% pro choice up to birth now, if you have a fetus you don't want, just kill it, by any means. its not a big deal.

                maybe its just me getting older though, having more sex, knowing people who had abortions and were fine, etc.

                me and gf on the same page now, if she gets pregnant, immedately get to clinic and abort it.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                You're just okay with casual murder?

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                It has "North Korea has better human rights" vibes

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                >then why ever be in a relationship?
                For financial gains.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                >I don't see how onahole is analogous to real vagina
                Come on... who are you kidding? Have you tried onahole? It's same thing.

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              Are you the monk anon? Lmao

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Because he's insecure. Men like this are insecure it's no mystery.

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              >”You’re insecure!”
              Stop shaming men for having fucking standards you used up cumrag

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                Standards are fine. But preaching about it and making people sound lesser than you for it sounds insecure.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          That doesn‘t scare me, i‘m already a demon. You should try it, it‘s a lot of fun.
          Also, pic rel. you get what you deserve.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      It‘s not about virginity you imbecile, it‘s about confidence. Confident men are those that fuck, confident women are those who don‘t and that‘s why they end up together.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Honest to god question, why do you care if she has fucked other people before you?
      Like literally, why? Its not like it makes someone a whore unless they do whorish things like cheat or have an incredibly large amount of past partners.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Would you share onahole with your fellow anons here? Nta

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          No, but I don't think that is analogous with a real vagina on a person. A real vagina self cleans, and all the cells will replace themselves over time. Its the cunt of Theseus at that point.

          More sexual partners = more power
          Woman holding the power in the relationship means she doesn’t respect him, which means that she won’t be faithful
          [...]
          You should fear demons because you will suffer for eternity

          Power in a relationship is only as powerful as the other person lets it be, if she starts trying to use her past partners as a weapon against you then you can exit the relationship, at which point she now has 0 power through her past relationships over you.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            What if all anons used a condom with your onahole?

  90. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Why did she force me into a pinky promise? It's really not that important..

  91. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I came here for Book Club hours, not Schizo Incel hours.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      There isn‘t any other hour itt

      Dang, didn't know Jannys were so based.

      I wish they‘d do it again.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I love books and the history of socialist countries, where's my government mandated bookworm gf?

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        She’s fucking an illiterate guy because women hate dating men with similar interests

  92. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    The equivalent of rape for males is finding out your gf has been a whore/promiscuous in the past or is not a virgin. Discuss

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Ughhh I share a gender with you... Why are men here so insecure??

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Then women who don't want to get raped are insecure too

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Well, yeah. I imagine that they feel not so secure about the idea of getting fucked by you.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Women??? Is this true???

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              Probably

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                Are there even any women here?

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                Fuck just go buy a onahole to fuck and leave this thread be ffs

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                Why would I do that when what I want is to troll women?

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous
  93. 2 months ago
    Anοnymous

    state gender
    would you find this guy weird?
    >28yo, not extremely handsome but full head of hair and likes to smile
    >jokes that he got kicked out an Ivy university but I know for a fact there's some truth to it because I found old facebook posts of him and a bunch of students from Yale
    >has a decent job, makes $20/hr but isn't specific about what he actually does aside from that he works in the accounting department of a livestock facility in a neighboring town
    >he has apparently owned his own house since his early 20s but claims that he just got a lucky deal
    >barely actually lives in the house, just uses it for storage and only sleeps there half the time
    >spends 90% of his time outside of work at his parents' house
    >claims its because he needs to take care of his parents but I'm skeptical of this because his mother is an active ICU nurse
    >once mentioned off hand that his father has a terminal illness but I've met his dad in passing and he seemed fine aside from a slight limp
    >doesn't seem to have any friends aside from his brother who seems mostly normal in comparison if a bit of NEET
    he just gives me weird vibes
    like he doesn't really seem to care about dating or have any romantic goals but still asked me to go out to dinner with him
    for reference, I know him because he's friends with a couple that throws house parties every month even though he never seems to talk to them; I think they might only be friends with his brother and this guy just tags along; he also never talked to me at these parties but we matched on Tinder

  94. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Why are women like this?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      If it's black it should have less rights

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Because we finally got to a point in history where we can decide to not carry your worthless seed to fruition and we‘ll make good use of that privilege of being able to be even more selective of who gets and doesn‘t get to be part of the next gene pool. Now we can also decide in hindsight if it turns out you‘re a worthless piece of shit after you had the privilege to cum inside us because that‘s when most men start to show their true face - once they got what they wanted and no longer are trying to seduce a woman by putting their best foot forward. It‘s hilarious and ofc men will throw epic tantrums over it because so far they could also just manipulate or rape a woman to cheat their way into passing on their dna.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >Implying trashy women like you select good "dna" to pass on
        >Implying trashy women like you have "good dna"

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          There is no good dna anymore to pass on specifically because incels have fucking ruined that for everyone. They have interfered with female selection to the point of having bred good and functional humans out of existence. I sure hope you‘re proud of your masterpiece.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >There is no good dna anymore to pass on specifically because incels have fucking ruined that for everyone.
            That's a real shame. Truly.

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              Indeed.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >Sexual selection and natural selection are the exact same thing

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous
              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                Idgi

  95. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    why are so many women of the younger generations childfree? it seems totally normal for women under 30 to not want kids. in my circles and on bumble many women i've met just never plan on having kids. getting an abortion is totally normal and fine too.

    has it always been this way and then they changed their minds when they got older, or is this new? are there really this many childfree women?

    also i know this topic always gets the racists out but it doesn't seem to be any one particular race of people, at least in the west, women of every background seem to be leaning towards no kids.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      A generation of shitty parents and an economy that punishes the younger generations to bloat the older generation clinging on for dear life creates a situation of having children being not worth it.

      I want the whores to stop going for the virgins
      Like which one do you think the woman’s gonna choose
      Women will really let the father of their children be a guy who did crack on a stripper and will cheat on them when she’s pregnant
      [...]
      I don’t have to want a used pussy
      I’m not obligated to change my preferences because it makes you uncomfortable

      No one said you were, I'm just asking why it matters to you so much. You went from
      >I HATE FEMOID CREATURES SO MUCH
      To
      >Its not MY responsibility to change my preferences!
      And it sounds like your preference is not something realistic, which is fine but you can't blame the world for that

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        My preferences are unironically righteous
        Femoid creature preferences are evil

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >has it always been this way
      Yes but men had made damn sure that women were kept on such a tight leash that their only way to secure a living for themselves was to shit out some mongrel‘s abominations. The same men who could only make sure they got someone to breed by making it impossible to survive as a woman if you don‘t let someone use your body for breeding. It‘s peak incel mentality. Most men in history would have never even been let close to vagina if they didn‘t used some trick or another to get there, be it by abusing their power, their physical strength or their brain washing techniques. Fucking disgusting subhuman dirt.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        This isn't crystal cafe

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous
      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Why do feminists have such a distorted view of history?

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous
  96. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Can someone recommend me a moisturizer that won’t clog my pores? I have really oily skin(no my skin isn’t dehydrated it’s just naturally very oily) and every moisturizer I’ve ever used has clogged my pores and made me breakout.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      It was the same for me but turns out it wasn‘t the moisturizer but that i didn‘t cleanse well enough. I had to start double cleansing and then i could finally use moisturizer without it breaking me out. I can recommend the cerave moisturizing cream and lotion or the inkey list omega water cream and/or vitamin b, c and e moisturizer. I use all of them on a daily basis and they don‘t break me out at all.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        No I cleanse my skin really well at night. I used ponds cold cream and followed with la roche posts foaming cleanser and didn’t moisturize after and had no break outs at all for months. I recently tried a Bubble balancing moisturizer and I woke up with red bumps all over my face.

        Also I’ve two of the three moisturizers you listed and they clogged my pores badly. The vitamin moisturizer has coconut oil in it.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          *la roche posay

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            *The Rosy Pussy

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Idk the ponds cleanser, but maybe give the cerave moisturizing lotion a try, that one‘s pretty light. I still have to be careful with my body skin and that one‘s the only one it tolerates. The cerave cream is too heavy already.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            All cerave products ruined my skin. Their moisturizers are way too heavy for my skin and the cleansers don’t cleanse my face at all and leave behind a weird film. Cerave is a brand that really caters to dry skin folks.

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              >dry skin
              Yeah, that could be, i had very dry skin. I might not be the right person to help you then. Although i always thought i had oily skin because of the break outs, turns out it was just my skin barrier struggling because of lack of moisture.

  97. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Question for fat people.
    Actually it's a question for fit people.
    But I also want to ask fat people.

    How the FUCK do you manage to eat so FUCKING much? I am on the very edge of being medically considered underweight and I'm trying to get into working out and eating healthier and put on some weight.

    I physically CANNOT shove as much food into my body as these workout guides say I need, hell I hardly even manage to meet my own body's daily caloric needs if I don't keep active care and force myself to eat at time I'm not hungry just to force more food into my body.

    How do you manage it?

    • 2 months ago
      Anοnymous

      food is fucking delicious, that's how

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >How do you manage it?
      Self harm tendencies and complete depersonalization to the point of physical numbness.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        But... that's what causes me to not eat

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Yes, for some it goes into this direction, for others it goes into the opposite. Some use the pain of starvation to depersonalize, some the pain of overeating. Same mechanism, just one will make you obese and the other underweight.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Oh hey, me too

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I don't eat much but I drink a fucking lot of beer on a Friday night.

      I can do it because I have a high metabolism and I don't get a "beer belly" as a consequence I guess.

  98. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    what explains this?
    >girl is very attractive
    >not a sperg
    >very social
    >has interesting creative hobby thats inherently highly social
    but
    >hardly has any friends
    why?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I'm too busy.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Who is she social with if she has no friends? Are you confusing just having social skills with being extroverted?

        >very social
        >hardly has any friends
        These are conflicting statements.

        she dances but seems socialize minimally outside of her studio

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          And I walk around all over a college campus visiting people in their offices and helping them fix their computer hardware issues.
          I don't consider "socializing" at work to really be socializing, it's technician-client interaction, it's just good business.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Dancing isn't inherently social. Sure you do it with other people but you don't really have to talk to them. You focus on the instructor.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Who is she social with if she has no friends? Are you confusing just having social skills with being extroverted?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >very social
      >hardly has any friends
      These are conflicting statements.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      She might just be introverted.

  99. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Femanons, is there any particular reason a taken girl would feel compelled to complain about her boyfriend to a guy friend? Aside from the fact that almost every girl I meet is taken, most of them seem to always complain about their partners whenever they talk to me. I always try to shift the topic to something else but it somehow keeps going back to the boyfriend thing. Should I pull the plug on these friendships?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Does it matter if it's a guy or girl friend? She just wants to complain. Don't get big headed over it and think she wants you and make a mess for yourself.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        It's less about getting big headed and more about it just keeps going back to those complaints. Once in a while would not be an issue, I wouldn't mind that, but it's almost an everyday thing. I always say to actually talk it out with their partners if it's as bad as they say but it's like my advice falls on deaf ears.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Because humans need to validate that what how they feel about what they have experienced is valid. We‘re social creatures. We always look to others to tell us if we‘re functional or not. They want your male input on the behavior of their male partners to see if they feel disappointed, frustrated, hurt, disgusted or annoyed because that‘s the right emotional reaction to the situation in question and not because they have some hang ups they should work on. Means they trust your opinion on what‘s sane and what isn‘t. Doesn‘t mean it actually is, just that they think it is in comparison to the other people they know. Or they just ask everyone to see what the consensus is to gauge wether or not the bf is the idiot or they are.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        That makes sense when you put it like that. My main problem with it all is because they keep talking about the same issues sometimes and I've tried to give advice on them. It just gets a bit repetitious when you take time to listen to those complaints and give advice only for your advice not to be taken.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Yeah, because the point of this isn‘t actually to get advice. It‘s just to find out how others would react if they were in their shoes. Or they don‘t really think your advice is good. In which case it would make no sense for them to come back and talk the same scenario trough. It could possibly mean that she‘s attentionwhoring and just wants to get you to the whole white knight i‘d never treat you like that my fairy princess simp crap point. I‘d need more context to know which one it is. For example, what would be an issue she mentioned and what was your advice?

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Nta but when most people complain they're looking for "yeah that sucks, what an asshole" not advice.

  100. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Why are women so evil?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Because I exist

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Because we can and you‘ll still crawl trough hell to get a glimpse.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Please mommy

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        I'd be fucking repuled if a girl did this to me

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Sure sure

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Kinda cringe ngl

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous
              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                No, this is me, not you. Dirty imposter.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                I am you and you are me we are one accept it don‘t fight it surrender my child

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                Okay, those images are beginning to speak to me.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                What about this one?

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                This is me after she jerks me off or sucks my cock for a lil while before we fuck. Otherwise, it takes like 30 mins for me to cum by myself. So, kinda.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                Lel you're not even circumcised

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                And that's a good thing

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                And a porch monkey. Dang.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                I see how it is

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                Kek, post more plox

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                This is how i roll

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                The vicious cycle

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                This one might scare you

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                Pic didn‘t attach

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                Kek, saved

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                And my personal mantra

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                Why is this weirdly inspiring

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                Because the only true power move is to stop trying to fix yourself and just demand that humanity learns to deal with you as you are.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                Real talk, that's actually a good attitude to have in some cases.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                It is. Granted, it‘s worth it to combine it with being self aware and have phases of improooving but if it‘s all you do or you feel like you have to improve to be worthy then you‘ve already lost. If the underlying mindset is that it‘s not my fucking problem if i‘m a menace to society, then all self improvement i do is for my own benefit and not for validation and thus i don‘t feel pressured at all because i only need to work what actually bothers me on a day to day basis. Basically, understand that you don‘t owe anyone functionality and then take it from there.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                Yup, I absolutely agree with you. Truly a based /atoga/ poster.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                I‘m running out of the funny ones unfortunately

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                That's fine, it's been fun 🙂

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                I have more trash cat ones though

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                This speaks volumes

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                Funny how you think that‘s an insult

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                Wasn't my intention. Don't stop posting 🙂

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                My bad, i thought you were saying that that explains why i‘m so fucked up, which is true but not something that actually would upset me since i don‘t have an issue with it.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                No worries at all. You're fine as you are fren 🙂

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                <3

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                Not him but post more mommy ones. I liked them

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                I don‘t have as many but here

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                Thanks

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous
  101. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    ATOGA Femanons and tripfag Cigarettes, you deserve no mercy and cancer/AIDS.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      What's your question?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I love you too anon<3

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >/atoga/ should only have sexy young men!
      Gay.

  102. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    What does it mean if women as a whole tend to hate me but I tend to get along with men really well? Like I can hit it off with any man pretty easily but women generally don’t acknowledge that I exist unless it’s in a negative way. I don’t know if there’s something wrong with me a person that makes other women hate me or if it’s just because of differences in our genders and men not caring about stuff that women typically do.

    What do you guys think?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      It just means that the only way you can bond with other human beings is by capitalizing on the sexual tension.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Nta but this cut me deep.Truth hurts.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Yep, same. It‘s why i‚ve cut contact with all male „friends“ and had just accepted being completely alone until i met my one female best friend. I‘ve decided that i‘d rather have nobody than only people i can keep around by that shit. One of the best decision ever.

          What makes you say that?

          If you can only bond with men, it‘s pretty obvious that that‘s what makes your bonds. Ofc it would theoretically be possible for men and women to have completely platonic friendships but in reality those are absolute unicorns. It would never be realistic for you to have found multiple such relationships with men. Which means that at least most if not all of them rely on the sexual tension and the fact you can‘t seem to connect with other women further cements this theory.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            It's so stupid that that's the only kind of social interaction I've managed to master.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Yep, same. It‘s why i‚ve cut contact with all male „friends“ and had just accepted being completely alone until i met my one female best friend. I‘ve decided that i‘d rather have nobody than only people i can keep around by that shit. One of the best decision ever.
          [...]
          If you can only bond with men, it‘s pretty obvious that that‘s what makes your bonds. Ofc it would theoretically be possible for men and women to have completely platonic friendships but in reality those are absolute unicorns. It would never be realistic for you to have found multiple such relationships with men. Which means that at least most if not all of them rely on the sexual tension and the fact you can‘t seem to connect with other women further cements this theory.

          Me three. I used to feel bad about making friends with men this way, but now I just cope that it happens simply with men existing around me, so it's not really my fault.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Becoming conscious of it is a form of torture. I feel like I can't smile.

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              It doesn't help that I've literally been told to stop smiling because it leads guys on.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                Because it does. Nobody smiles at people for no reason, that's weird.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                I'm a guy, but I talked to a girl who said her dad told her to not smile so easily to men. She said it was for that reason, and also to not be taken advantaged of. I think that's fair

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        What makes you say that?

  103. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    How do I stop being a shy 21 year old virgin?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Wait until your birthday.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Wait until you're 22

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Find someone to force you out of your comfort zone

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        How? Extroverts people like me. They constantly want to be entertained

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          You don't have any extroverted friends or family you can go out with?

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            No. My family is annoying

  104. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    State gender and post quote you know by heart.
    Male
    >I watched a snail crawl along the edge of a straight razor. That's my dream. That's my nightmare. Crawling, slithering... along the edge of a straight razor... And surviving.
    Fun fact, snails can do that with no injury.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      PISS ON ME FUCKING PISS ON ME BUT DO IT IN THE ANTARCTIC SO THAT THE PEE FREEZES IN MID AIR WHILE YOU ARE PISSING OFF A BUILDING AND THE PISS TURNS TO SPEAR’S IMPALE ME WITH FROZEN URINE AND THEN SHIT ON MY BUTT CORPSE IM A FAT GAY AND I WANT TO GO TO ICE HELL FTW

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Pls be girl

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          yes I'm a girl

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Big if true

    • 2 months ago
      Anοnymous

      >Happiness runneth after me because I do not run after women

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      M
      >space is paradise time is hell

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Someone told a guy squashed a snail before it was strange. I saw someone pour salt on a snail, it looked weird

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >They is four things that can destroy the earth, he said. Women, whiskey, money, and naggers

  105. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Hello /atoga/
    Last night I was dancing at a party and I saw this girl pull up near me and started dancing a bit with her friends. I didn't talk to her, I guess we just glanced at each other for a bit but she looked nice.
    This morning I saw that I have her in FB and she posted her with the same dress on her status. Should I message her and say
    >Hey, I never talked to you before, but I saw you dancing last night and you looked nice
    ?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Why not. What do you have to lose?

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        That's a good point. Was just wondering if that was weird or not.

        Instead of saying you looked nice say something like
        >You seemed cool
        but idk I'm not the most qualified to give advice on that
        [...]
        M
        >Behind every mask.... is another mask.

        Thanks for the advice.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          In my personal opinion it's not weird. It's not like you went searching for her it was a coincidence.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            That makes sense, thanks. I'm really not expecting anything from this, but she really did look good last night.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Instead of saying you looked nice say something like
      >You seemed cool
      but idk I'm not the most qualified to give advice on that

      State gender and post quote you know by heart.
      Male
      >I watched a snail crawl along the edge of a straight razor. That's my dream. That's my nightmare. Crawling, slithering... along the edge of a straight razor... And surviving.
      Fun fact, snails can do that with no injury.

      M
      >Behind every mask.... is another mask.

  106. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Stop posting femdom it’s not real
    The meanest cunts want to be put in their place and and the nice ones want to be treated like shit

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      If you say so

  107. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >Go to store
    >Hot Cashier
    >Get shy

    Every single fucking time. Why can't I just see them like regular cashiers?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      They have bf or gfs just so you know. You creep them out too, even if you're attractive.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Don't be rude to OP

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          I'm being honest, it's not rude. Grow tf up

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      It's just hormones lad. It's okay. Just don't be creep

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I know what you mean... i once tried to kiss a cashier and she slapped me

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Good

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Yeah, it felt nice. Jerked off to that when I came home

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            yikes

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      They can't tell you to fuck off or call you a creep or they will get fired, take it as free practice of looking attractive people in the eyes and talking to them.
      Don't do anything weird, but next time they bag your items and give you your recite look them in the eye and say
      >Have a wonderful rest of your day/night
      while giving a genuine smile, just do it.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >See hot girl
      >Realize that she's completely out of my league
      >Don't get nervous at all.

  108. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    does anyone here watch vloggers? starting to feel lonely please recommend channels of people I can relate to

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >starting to feel lonely
      Overcome this feeling and you'll acend.

  109. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I love cats

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Me too

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      but do they love you?

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Yes two in particular.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Yes

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Yes

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        lmao
        only a cat can silently destroy your confidence like this

  110. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    CC femanons, why do you post here?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Boredom. What about you?

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        There is no male crystal cafe

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Wizard Chan

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            I'm not 30

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              Doesn't matter what age you, it's an okay site ig

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Right, because men are too horny to ever have a site that bans women.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            All it takes is one simp and the group is destroyed

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              Yep, a chain is only as strong as its weakest link, and when presented with the female body, men are very weak indeed.

  111. 2 months ago
    Anοnymous

    How many incels does it take to screw in a lightbulb?
    None. They'll just compliment it and get pissed when it doesn't screw.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous
      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Funny thing is that i‘m all of them.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          What languages do you speak?
          Or are you just the useless bis?

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            German, english, french. It‘s not much but it‘s honest work and wdym the other are based.

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              Well if I was in a relationship with you the other ones would just make my life more difficult.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                That‘s exactly why i think they are based. I wouldn‘t want to be in a relationship with someone who doesn‘t think the same. 10/10 filter. You do you, i do me, everyone‘s happy.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Woman moment.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Women say this and act like they don’t hate virgins

  112. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Ladies, what is the most "extreme" form of pornography you could find on a guys device without immediately breaking up with him?
    Asking for a friend, of course.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Pedo or necro/snuff. Hard no.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      To add, i‘d make a difference between „having watched“ and „having saved“, because humans are stupid and curious but if you want to keep it in case you want to look at it again, straight to jail.

  113. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Women, when you’re horny, do you get the desire to be fucked like an animal, or do you more often prefer if a guy is stoic and in charge?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Define like an animal. If a man was stoic whilst fucking i‘d get dressed and leave. Either you whimper and moan or you fuck me like you mean it but don‘t bother me with your emotionless clowning.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Would you rather be fucked savagely and directly, or would you rather be tied, bound, and forced to cum in a less direct fashion? How often do you prefer one or the other? I feel like I prefer doing the latter to women more often than I do the former, but I very much enjoy both.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          >fucked savagely and directly
          Absolutely, yes
          >tied, bound, and forced to cum in a less direct fashion
          I‘d hate every second of this and not in a good way

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            A lot of women enjoy the kind of pain, humiliation, and vulnerability of a man forcing an orgasm while they’re bound. However, it’s definitely not for everyone.

            Do you like to have your hair pulled and arm held behind your back when you’re fucked from behind? It’s one of my favorite things to do along with putting my fingers in their mouths.

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              >Do you like to have your hair pulled and arm held behind your back when you’re fucked from behind? It’s one of my favorite things to do along with putting my fingers in their mouths.
              Ew no. Why would you do that? I‘m there to have a good time, not be humiliated by someone who eats cereals for breakfast.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                I resent your implications of people who eat cereal for breakfast.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                Understandable. But either you hop on the oats train or no pussy for you.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                But I love oats as well. Especially with some honey, cinnamon and raisins mixed in.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                >not be humiliated
                It’s not to humiliate you. Why would you feel that? We already know that I’m stronger than you. It’s entirely to bring you and your senses to the limit by putting yourself in a vulnerable position where I’m in control and you can let loose.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                If you have to use cruelty to make me feel your power you already showed me that your power stops on the physical level and i don‘t fuck with that.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                >If you have to use cruelty
                Where’s the cruelty? I may be rewarded along the way, but the whole experience is meant for you. Again, I’m bringing you to the limits of your experience in a pleasurable way. I don’t do these things for myself necessarily.

                >I ORDER you not to feel humiliated! I'm in charge here!
                That's not how it works

                I’d never humiliate a woman on that level. If she’s not comfortable being savagely fucked, I obviously wouldn’t do it. However, many women enjoy the intensity, and there’s nothing wrong with it.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                >I ORDER you not to feel humiliated! I'm in charge here!
                That's not how it works

  114. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Tell me about your sexual fantasy.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Is the attached webm yours? Mine is pic rel.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Kek, looks like two dolphins

        I have more trash cat ones though

        I stepped away to do laundry. But I like these too kek.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          They love each other but from a distance, so they can‘t contaminate each other with their filth. It‘s perfect.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            If humans were like this, we'd be such a peaceful race.

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              One can dream

              women. Cum on face, do you tolerate it, or no?

              No thanks.

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              That‘s why this place is still the best. All the drama of human connection with none of the real life consequences. You can just close the tab if you need a break.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                Agreed, although
                >just close the tab
                Lol. Lmao even.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                >Lol. Lmao even.
                Yeah, same. I need to get myself banned to do that and even then i sometimes lurk and get antsy when i want to tell someone my unwanted opinion but can‘t.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      A passionate night of love making and affection.
      I literally just want the Disney Prince and Disney Princess ending. If she has any other cute Princess friends thats fine as well but 1 on 1 is the apex of fantasies.
      Just true love where 2 people know each other fully and still choose to 100% accept each other, want to even.
      This dream is what keeps me going, I will find my cute goth princess to watch anime and play vidya with. We will travel the world and be happy together.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Do you want some whine with that cheese?

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Its cheesy, but its exactly what I want and what I will have eventually.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            God speed anon.

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              Thank you anon, we are all going to make it. It isn't over until we give up. Life is a mental game.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                >Life is a mental game
                It is and you seem to be winning.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                Does it mean my dreams can cum true as well..?

  115. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Do you believe in heaven and hell?

    State gender

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Yes

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      F
      No

  116. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >Female friends changes her bio to he/him (questioning)
    >Ask her what this is supposed to mean
    >"I'm questioning if I'm trans"

    How should I react to this?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >how should i react
      Not at all. Unless you actually care and want to ask her what makes her consider it.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        I just asked her why. It seems out of fucking nowhere. I thought she was a lesbian. I don't have any issue with her being trans or identifying as that but I hope to God she's not doing it for the wrong reasons. What are the wrong reasons? Some people will transition or the explicit purpose of attracting a specific gender (for example: a lesbian transitioning into a male because they think that'll increase their chances of lending a woman). If she says or implies that's the reason I'm just going to flat out say she's retarded. Otherwise I'll support her

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      “Oh, ok”
      No need to react any further

  117. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    What would have to happen, or change in society to make women likeable and affectionate? Is the problem the boss bitch movement of the 00's and early 10's? What can be done? There will always be simps willing to tolerate them so no natural force will be created to change their behavior.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Men need to stop being so dangerous and threatening. Then women won’t be forced to put up their bitch shields.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        All I do is just stand there doing my job and you bitches are scared
        Meanwhile you drool over serial killers or just those who have a history of domestic violence

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Generally speaking men have already done that en masse. You're shields are up for no reason and it's incredibly obvious if a man is dangerous.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          >it's incredibly obvious if a man is dangerous
          You realize the implication of thinking this is “every woman who gets killed or raped deserves it”?

  118. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Why are zommie bitches so insane?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Desensitized to trauma due to seeing a world of it via the internet

  119. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Men, why do you not care about a woman's past or sexual behavior? I've watched women be petty, annoying, hear about how they've made sexual advances aka one night stands to multiple men at the office and everybody knows, has had multiple sexual partners, yet somehow gets into a relationship and married within a year after turning 25. Then trash talks her fiance to everyone and complains all of the time. Maintains a close relationship with one of the men she made sexual advances to and calls him on the phone. I mean, seriously? What makes her so valuable? She was even overweight with a frumpy body, no butt and A-cups. Still went clubbing while engaged.

    Women what did she do to trick a man into marriage?

    I need serious answers because I'm still a KHV and I need to get a man to marry me ASAP.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >Women what did she do to trick a man into marriage?
      She was probably feminine, "hot by his standards, good body, manipulative. If any other female or man tells you otherwise they're lying

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        I won't lie she had a pretty face, Asian, dark skin. However, her body was actually really bad shape wise and she was overweight.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Most people hate being alone they will settle for anything.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        This is a lie

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >Men, why do you not care about a woman's past or sexual behavior?
      I do care, but I'm not going to judge them based on who they were 5 years ago I'm going to judge them based on who they are now.
      I don't care how many sexual partners they have had in their life, but I do care how many they have had in the past year and a half or so. If a lot of their relationships ended badly I am willing to hear them out as to why but its not a good sign. If they are still friends with exes I honestly don't really care, but if I get reason to believe they still have something going on I am going to confront her about it. I am confidant in myself but not oblivious.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I care but I cant afford to disregard any possible woman who shows interest.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Every day i thank god on my knees that i was born a woman.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          You're a cunt.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Yes, and?

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >Men, why do you not care about a woman's past or sexual behavior?
        I do care, but I'm not going to judge them based on who they were 5 years ago I'm going to judge them based on who they are now.
        I don't care how many sexual partners they have had in their life, but I do care how many they have had in the past year and a half or so. If a lot of their relationships ended badly I am willing to hear them out as to why but its not a good sign. If they are still friends with exes I honestly don't really care, but if I get reason to believe they still have something going on I am going to confront her about it. I am confidant in myself but not oblivious.

        I guess men will really do anything just for face aesthetics. Sad, but realistic.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I have only ever dated virgins

  120. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    What are you doing on this fine saturday night?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Night??

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Could you not personally attack me like this?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Going to bed early so that I can continue to improve myself for when my friend moves back in a month or so and we start going out again.
      Might cry myself to sleep or something idk

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      nothing
      my dnd meetup got cancelled

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Sobering up from yesterday's night out. It was kinda lit, but I didn't meet anyone new and people kept recognizing me, so I spent most of the time talking to people who already knew me.

    • 2 months ago
      Anοnymous

      going over to my parent's house to eat dinner, probably watch a little tv, finish my response posts for grad school, get enough sleep so I can be at work bright and early for my half shift

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Loathing myself

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Being sick and shitposting.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I'm at animeNYC waiting for a screening of a new show to start.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Nerd.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Are you in cosplay?

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          I am not.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Imagine the smell

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        What a loser
        You can get the raws faster online then by watching them at a con bro
        I just go to cons to cosplay and be a nuisance

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Preparing to receive my sister's cat to take care of while she travels for a month.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I'm going on a date later

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Dang, is that you? Hot

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          no I am a male

  121. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Going out later tonight, want to rid myself of social anxiety.. how do I stop giving a fuck? in regards to talking to women etc

    I was out shooting pool with a friend last night and one of my co workers showed up with his friends to shoot with us. Love the guy, he's very social and friendly, but he's like SO smooth with people and women. He just doesnt care and he radiates positive energy. I want that so bad. The thing is, people (Including him,) tell me that I'm introverted / quiet at face glance, but once I know somebody very well I'm like the funniest / most extraverted person ever. I want to be able to bring that out more and stop being so nervous around new people

    how do I fix this? I plan on trying to talk to more people at the bar later but I'm afraid?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >how do I stop giving a fuck?
      Drink alcohol, but don't get shitfaced.
      >The thing is, people (Including him,) tell me that I'm introverted / quiet at face glance, but once I know somebody very well I'm like the funniest / most extraverted person ever. I want to be able to bring that out more and stop being so nervous around new people
      I've also been told this, word for word even.
      As someone in the same boat, the best advice I can give you is just go out and do it, you are going to fail but failure is a part of learning.
      For me looking people in the eye was an issue, but I just practiced it and now I can do it at least for a while before looking away.

  122. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    women. Cum on face, do you tolerate it, or no?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous
    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Too lewd, too messy and too problematic

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >messy
        >problematic
        It's as easy to remove as liquid latex
        This is a skill issue, git gud

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          I don't have to remove it at all when he cooms where mother nature wants him to coom though

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      No. Gross and hard to clean up.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >watching his concentrated aim face before he shoots his load
      >cum up your nose, in the eyes, in your hair or in your mouth can all be highly unpleasant and you are at risk for all four
      >no afterglow/cuddling right after his orgasm because you probably gotta clean up first

      I mean if it was my bf biggest turn on I'd definitely sit one out, but nothing about it appeals to me.

  123. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    New thread?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      No, we go to 1300 at least.

  124. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Girls
    Thoughts on big loads? Does it turn you on a man can cum so much for you?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      No, how would i even know how big the load was? Also, it doesn‘t really have anything to do with how aroused he was, so it‘s just porn damage if you really care about it.

  125. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Hypothetically, Am I a low value man for dating a fat woman? Especially as a black man, that men stereotyped as loving fat (not thicc, fat) chicks?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      There's nothing wrong with fulfilling stereotypes if it gets you laid

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Should it count if she's fat and ugly? Men will make fun of you if the person you got laid with is ugly looking. Especially if you yourself are average. If the main reason people value looks so much.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Men will make fun of you for literally anything, so why care?

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            I'm a Virgin with not friends. When or if I become more high value, I don't want people thinking I'm only good enough for a desperate fat girl

            An architect, nicely done sir.

            [...]
            You're literally describing me. I have a very hostile relationship with LULZ mods and jannys. I can't post images because of "abuse" but really it's just some mad mod that posts on LULZ that banned me for calling him out lol.

            >An architect

            What?

            If you are happy who cares?
            I could never date a fat person, but if you are content then it doesn't matter if other people think you are "low value."
            If anything, the only thing that makes you low value is if you are self conscious about it.
            [...]
            I'm just being honest with what I want, you should seek a partner who pushes you to be better.
            [...]
            Have you ever heard the term "God can't do all the work"? Most religious people believe in prayer but also believe that they can't expect miracles and have to put in effort themselves.
            This extra motivation more often than not can lead to them fixing the problem they were praying to have fixed in the first place.
            Same with manifesting your dreams, you believe it can happen through work of your own and that makes it more likely to happen because you are putting more into it.
            You know if you have things you need to fix, the point is they are fixable especially in current year.

            Everyone that's self-conscious about something. You SHOULD a self-conscious about something at all times unless you want to live your life as a socially retarded bumbling fool that's unaware of their surroundings and social etiquette

            t. Was a socially retarded bumbling foot unaware of social etiquette For most of my childhood. I actually want to change that so I can finally stop feeling miserable and worthless

            Yeah, counter point if you’re having good sex why do you care what other women think? They love talking shit. They do it all the time.
            Also I hate to say it but I’ve never met a fat Indian woman before. They take good care of themselves. It’s a curse in disguise for black men such as yourself seeing as you guys really like them for some reason

            See the above text. Also is the "black men LOVE Indian woman" meme true? I literally only heard that here. I'm convinced it's just one person with group of people that live in the same area saying this all the time. I live in a fairly diverse area on a college campus It happened living in this area over a decade. I've literally only seen one single solitary Indian-black relationship but I've seen literally every other combination countless times.

            >a man said "women bad" and I believed him
            ngmi

            Dimwit, neither I or he said they were "bad". It's just an observation.

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              >I actually want to change that so I can finally stop feeling miserable and worthless
              Confidence isn't a lack of insecurities its understanding your worth despite them.
              Its also earned, you have to do things that make you think better of yourself. Go to the gym clean up your diet get a good haircut buy some decent clothes go go go

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              >I've literally only seen one single solitary Indian-black relationship but I've seen literally every other combination countless times.
              Who said that Indian women have reciprocal feelings for black men? The reason you don’t see it is because the attraction is not mutual.
              I also happen to live in a river area with plenty of Indian women and black men and I’ve witnessed this

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              >What?
              https://www.truthorfiction.com/pierce-brosnan-she-is-in-my-eyes-the-most-beautiful-woman-in-the-world/

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      If you are IN a relationship why are you so concerned about your value? I mean genuinely? Who’s looking?

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Literally everyone? Especially a close friends (I don't have any and by extension don't have a gf, so this sort of doesn't apply to me). A dude in the last thread literally said that women talk about their sex lives all the time and that her female friends will know about your performance. You're kind of dumb if you think people aren't at least a little judgemental

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Yeah, counter point if you’re having good sex why do you care what other women think? They love talking shit. They do it all the time.
          Also I hate to say it but I’ve never met a fat Indian woman before. They take good care of themselves. It’s a curse in disguise for black men such as yourself seeing as you guys really like them for some reason

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          >a man said "women bad" and I believed him
          ngmi

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      If you are happy who cares?
      I could never date a fat person, but if you are content then it doesn't matter if other people think you are "low value."
      If anything, the only thing that makes you low value is if you are self conscious about it.

      don't tell shy girls to go for outgoing guys, we have enough of those types of couples already, and those women were already gonna do that
      you're a shy shut in so you can understand the hardship but you wanna make it even harder because the shy girls are also going for the same outgoing guy the outgoing girls want

      I'm just being honest with what I want, you should seek a partner who pushes you to be better.

      Does it mean my dreams can cum true as well..?

      Have you ever heard the term "God can't do all the work"? Most religious people believe in prayer but also believe that they can't expect miracles and have to put in effort themselves.
      This extra motivation more often than not can lead to them fixing the problem they were praying to have fixed in the first place.
      Same with manifesting your dreams, you believe it can happen through work of your own and that makes it more likely to happen because you are putting more into it.
      You know if you have things you need to fix, the point is they are fixable especially in current year.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >you should seek a partner who pushes you to be better
        women don't want you to be "better" they want you to already be good

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          I can speak firsthand that there are women who will push you to be a better version of yourself. You just need to find them. A lot of them share a common interest in the gym.

          Thank you for motivation anon...
          Hail me, for when I wipe the state of Israel of the surface of the earth!

          No problem anon, hypothetically of course.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Raphe is a cunt

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >I can speak firsthand that there are women who will push you to be a better version of yourself.
            How do I find them? To be more accurate: How do I differentiate them from other women? I'm not demanding to be with a ripped gym rat But I like for my gf to at least be decently in shape and active. Personally I think your activity level and fitness has some correlation with character. This obviously isn't the case for all our of shape people But I feel like they tend to be lazy and shove shit onto you because they don't feel like doing it

            >I actually want to change that so I can finally stop feeling miserable and worthless
            Confidence isn't a lack of insecurities its understanding your worth despite them.
            Its also earned, you have to do things that make you think better of yourself. Go to the gym clean up your diet get a good haircut buy some decent clothes go go go

            >Clean up your diet
            Where do I start? My diet isn't terrible but I think it could be better.

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              >How do I find them?
              The same way you find anyone, you just have to fish around until you find the right person.
              >How do I differentiate them from other women?
              By observing how they act, you can't get a gauge on people like that at first glance.
              >Where do I start? My diet isn't terrible but I think it could be better.
              Understand that weight is CiCo, Calories in vs Calories out or how much energy you consume vs how much energy your body depletes.
              Protein synthesis is how your body rebuilds muscle after a workout to make it stronger.
              Cooking for yourself is the only realistic way to do it. Just have staples of good foods in your diet, for me a few are
              >Air fryed sweet potatoes, just peel the sweet potato and chop it into similar sized cubes. Then rub them in salt+Pepper+Garlic Powder and a little bit of olive oil and air fry at 400F for 24 or so minutes, shaking the rack halfway through. This can also be done in an oven but wont be quite as crispy. Can do the same for Brussel Sprouts
              >A smoothie of greek yogurt and frozen fruit like blueberries and strawberries. I also add in some Kiwi
              >Brown Rice + A lean white fish or Salmon + wilted Spinach + Low sodium Onions Sauce
              You just have to personalize it, get a food scale and weight it all. Don't use intuition for counting calories, weight it in grams and use the food label to get that amounts calories and protein amount.
              If you want to know your calorie goal then use an online calculator. Make sure to weigh yourself daily in the morning before eating or drinking a lot of water. Write your weight down and watch the trends over weeks. Your weight will fluctuate day by day.

              [...]
              I guess men will really do anything just for face aesthetics. Sad, but realistic.

              I don't see how I said anything innacurate in my post of

              >Men, why do you not care about a woman's past or sexual behavior?
              I do care, but I'm not going to judge them based on who they were 5 years ago I'm going to judge them based on who they are now.
              I don't care how many sexual partners they have had in their life, but I do care how many they have had in the past year and a half or so. If a lot of their relationships ended badly I am willing to hear them out as to why but its not a good sign. If they are still friends with exes I honestly don't really care, but if I get reason to believe they still have something going on I am going to confront her about it. I am confidant in myself but not oblivious.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                >By observing how they act, you can't get a gauge on people like that at first glance.
                In case you haven't figured it out, I'm a social retard with no friends. How do people like that act?
                >Brown rice
                My household almost exclusively eat white rice. I've seen a ton of other people preach the gospel of brown rice. What is so special about brown rice specifically?

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                I mean you're just beating around the bush to give everyone who you think is really attractive the benefit of the doubt. A lot of the stuff you stated can be circumvented through lying or omission of truth by her, and you can't ever know unless someone else or something spills the beans. The last is a red flag and just means they can't get over their ex. Having opposite sex friends of friends or people you see in groups is one thing. Having to frequently call or speak to your ex while being in a relationship is another.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                You are always going to risk getting burned when you play with fire, you have to take risks and open yourself to being betrayed if you want a real relationship. There is always a risk
                >Having opposite sex friends of friends or people you see in groups is one thing. Having to frequently call or speak to your ex while being in a relationship is another.
                I agree

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Thank you for motivation anon...
        Hail me, for when I wipe the state of Israel of the surface of the earth!

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      An architect, nicely done sir.

      >Lol. Lmao even.
      Yeah, same. I need to get myself banned to do that and even then i sometimes lurk and get antsy when i want to tell someone my unwanted opinion but can‘t.

      You're literally describing me. I have a very hostile relationship with LULZ mods and jannys. I can't post images because of "abuse" but really it's just some mad mod that posts on LULZ that banned me for calling him out lol.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >I have a very hostile relationship with LULZ mods and jannys. I can't post images because of "abuse" but really it's just some mad mod that posts on LULZ that banned me for calling him out lol.
        I don‘t think i could ever seriously have a crush on someone who doesn‘t get into frequent slap fights with LULZ mods. It‘s truly the superior form of 4d banter.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Lmao well this one in particular is just extremely fragile so he's an easy target.

          >mfw I will never bully a mod with a femanon
          Sucks tbqhwu

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >extremely fragile
            The best<3 there‘s one here who‘s getting irrationally angry when i post pics. I think he feels personally attacked. But he doesn‘t seem to be around today. A shame.
            Never say never.

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              He probably can't handle the girl boss energy you exude with your possom posts.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                I think he felt personally attacked by the sigma memes<3

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                Sigma females are the best

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                Problem is you‘d need a sigma male to ride with.

                Tell him to ligma next time he's hating on a sigma.

                I‘ll keep that in mind.

                >what cereals?
                Honey Nut Bunches and Honey Nut Cherrios usually.

                >Whole oats (42%), sugar, wheat flour, maize, vegetable oils (sunflower, certified sustainable palm oil), roasted peanuts (5%), invert sugar syrup, glucose syrup, honey (1%), salt, barley malt extract, antioxidants (ascorbyl palmitate, alpha tocopherol), skimmed milk powder, onions lecithin
                Anon you can‘t be serious

                >Eh, i‘d rather you‘d genuinely enjoy yourself
                I do that by bringing you to your limit.
                >a show
                The way you’re speaking tells me that you’ve never been fucked like this. It’s a strong form of love, yet it appears paradoxically selfish. Don’t knock it till you try it.

                No i get what you mean but what you‘re trying to do is not achieved by hair pulling and arm twisting. I agree though that sexual submission can create an extremely deep bond if done right, but so can other forms of sex that don‘t rely on physical pain. I feel like it is generally undignified to inflict pain on a body that someone trusted you with, the same as it is cruel to play with a heart someone has put in your hands.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                >I feel like it is generally undignified to inflict pain on a body that someone trusted you with
                “Pain” isn’t necessarily the right word. It’s more about the adrenaline and endorphins than it is the pain itself. I’m not doing any real damage by pulling hair and holding your arm behind your back (not twisting it).

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                Have you ever had your hair pulled? Your arm bent? It does hurt. If you can‘t flood me with adrenaline and endorphins just by the sexual tension we have between us then why even bother? That‘s what i mean. If you have to artificially make it more exciting by being brutal, that‘s not a good sign. Don‘t get me wrong, some good hard fucking can be cathartic and maybe i‘m just not the right person for this kind of power play but i‘ve tried it and all it ever did was make me feel disgusted with myself and the other person and wanting to get as far away from them as possible and never interact with them ever again.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                >If you can‘t flood me with adrenaline and endorphins just by the sexual tension we have between us then why even bother?
                Because it can be all of that and more for some people. However, it’s okay to not be into it, and, if you feel bad about it afterwards, you shouldn’t do it. I haven’t decided for myself if it’s inherently degenerate or not. It could be, but I don’t see any consequences to it in the right context. If I could just press your buttons and deliver the same responses without pain, I would, but, you’re right in that it should not be necessary. It’s just extra.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                >in the right context
                But that‘s the thing. What would be the right context? Because i can‘t think of one. If you love someone, why on earth would you ever in any context want to hurt them unnecessarily even in the slightest? If you don‘t love them, what are you even doing, being inside them?
                Sure, it might be possible to have sex with someone for pure physical reasons but maybe that‘s why there‘s no scenario for me where this would feel right. I‘d only want to be intimate with someone i have a strong emotional connection to and if that someone would use my vulnerability to be physically intimate with them to cause me pain in any way or form, i‘d be devastated and i‘d recoil in horror. I feel like it‘s a huge act of trust to be with a man, naked and alone. I‘d need to feel safe and protected in your presence to ever feel ok with going there. I understand the thrill of power play and the excitement of clashing the fragile feminine with the powerful masculine but i feel like this can be done in way more effective and way less destructive, degenerate, degrading and humiliating ways. The most a man could humble me is by being emotionally powerful. I‘d surrender to that willingly in a heartbeat. Being physically powerful over me isn‘t very impressive since that‘s how we were born. But you would have to ear and grow your emotional power and that‘s a real flex.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                Tell him to ligma next time he's hating on a sigma.

  126. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Femanons,
    Are you lying when you say cum tastes neutral to spare men’s feelings? All the cum i‘ve ever tasted was fucking disgusting. Bitter and just nasty af. Mind you, it was always from someone in fairly good shape and with a health diet, so i don‘t think it was that. I just feel like cum tastes bad in general and that‘s because it wasn‘t mean to go anywhere near taste buds.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I'm honest about that, never got asked that. I can't recall to be honest with you, sensitive tongue you got.

  127. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I have a announcement to make.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I‘m all ears.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        That was it.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          I am - slightly disappointed.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Whoa... have you considered to think metaphysically about my a announcement!?
            I made a annoucenement about a announcement which in itself was a annoucement!
            That's... like... dude!

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              I have indeed.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                Bullshit. Think deeper

  128. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Why are female creatures so shallow that they prioritize things like height, social status and dick size instead of traits that would actually make for a good potna, like intelligence, kindness and being caring?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      *ding ding*
      Let the incel hours begin!

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Not an incel. You can't answer the question?

  129. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    is it true that most guys have smelly bedrooms?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I have a smelly life in general.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        ever since I split up with her my apartment has gone to shit

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Unfortunately, yes

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Yes, and they can't even notice it. Only female guests can, and it hits us like a brick wall as soon as we step inside.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Why did you have to remind me.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Unfortunately, yes

      >tgender
      >tp
      Go clean your room bucko

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Are you okay anon? Did you have a stroke?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      No, unless they fard alot, you get used to it from what I've read.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >unless they fard alot
        fuck

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Please fix your diet for the love of all that is holy,

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            I eat 80% fats and protein. It's the only way I can lose weight while keeping my muscle mass at my hard labor job. I almost have visible abs, just need to tighten some loose skin around my belly

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              >he fell for the keto meme and now wonders why he‘s become a human gas chamber
              You think your intestines were designed to digest fat and protein with basically zero fiber? That shit is rotting inside you. Yeah, cool cool, you staved yourself to the point of visible abs but you are paying way too much for something you could have without the downsides.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                I eat one bowl of blueberries+all-bran in the morning and one heart of plain romaine lettuce in the evening

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >you get used to it from what I've read
        Thanks for reminding me why i‘d never ever move in with a guy. Even if i get married, i want my own house.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          I'm a guy and this is actually my idea scenario, we each have our own small bungalos on the property to store our things have have our unique style of decor and then one large house for the kitchen, living room, guest room, or kids rooms if we ever decide to have them

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            One day anon, one day.

            girls
            What would you consider your looks to be? A girl next door or kind of alternative? You could post photos of celebs/influencers for reference

            Can be both. I feel like i have a very versatile look. If i go for plain and conservative styling, i‘d look like every other cute virgin from church but i can also transform into a slutty doll whenever i feel like it. I find it kind of funny to play with that, so i tend to keep things temporary to make sure i can switch whenever the mood hits. Iow, i don‘t get tattoos or piercings or crazy hair cuts or colors, but i can make myself look like a sugar e-boi or someone who wants to hurt you emotionally in half an hour if necessary.

            Female creatures leave their used tampons all over the floor. What are you talking about?

            Birds of a feather

            But I love oats as well. Especially with some honey, cinnamon and raisins mixed in.

            Ok but what cereals?

            I eat one bowl of blueberries+all-bran in the morning and one heart of plain romaine lettuce in the evening

            Better than nothing but still never going to be enough to transfer the rot out of your intestines.

            >If you have to use cruelty
            Where’s the cruelty? I may be rewarded along the way, but the whole experience is meant for you. Again, I’m bringing you to the limits of your experience in a pleasurable way. I don’t do these things for myself necessarily.
            [...]
            I’d never humiliate a woman on that level. If she’s not comfortable being savagely fucked, I obviously wouldn’t do it. However, many women enjoy the intensity, and there’s nothing wrong with it.

            Eh, i‘d rather you‘d genuinely enjoy yourself than put on a show for me. This is fucking, not going to the circus.

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              >what cereals?
              Honey Nut Bunches and Honey Nut Cherrios usually.

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              >Eh, i‘d rather you‘d genuinely enjoy yourself
              I do that by bringing you to your limit.
              >a show
              The way you’re speaking tells me that you’ve never been fucked like this. It’s a strong form of love, yet it appears paradoxically selfish. Don’t knock it till you try it.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                Tester

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Female creatures leave their used tampons all over the floor. What are you talking about?

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Only bpd ones

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            And have shitty bathrooms

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Grow the fuck up, your fard too, shit, periods, etc

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            I don‘t actually fart but i do shit and bleed. That‘s one more reason why i‘d want a separate house. I want to be able to do that in peace, unbothered and i‘d want the same for my husband. Why annoy the shit out of each other by forcing yourself to sleep next to someone who snores and steals your blanket? Why cheat yourself out of having a place that‘s yours and yours alone to retreat when you need a break? I‘m an introvert and the thought of having no choice than to share my space with someone when what i‘d actually need was being alone is terrifying. I‘d rather we had the option to fall asleeep next to each other, cook dinner together, cuddle and watch something or so because we want to, not because we have no other place to be. Maybe i‘m just unhinged and it‘s because i detest having to do something because it‘s expected of me but if that‘s the case then so be it. I‘ll never want to feel like i have to spend time with my man, i‘d rather always want to feel like i can‘t get enough of him, not grow sick and tired of having to be around him 24/7.

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              I don't snore, I don't steal blankets because we'll have two blankets, and I don't fart in the same room as you because I stand up and walk to the bathroom when I fart (which is rare because I don't fart often). In addition, you and I can have separate bedrooms, and nobody will be bothered by this because we're not even the first couple in my family to have separate bedrooms. Is this good enough for you and I to get married and live together now?

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                nta but I would have a designated sex room

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                But why not just go all out and have separate houses? Least i‘d do is separate bedrooms and bathrooms but i‘d have a really hard time sharing a kitchen too because if you put your filthy ketchup in my immaculately curated orthorexia fridge i can‘t deal with that and i don‘t want to force myself to pretend like i can just for some outdated fantasy about how couples should live their life.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                Separate houses? In this economy? Separate bedrooms would simply be more realistic and feasible for our finances. Besides, I don't use ketchup.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                >more realistic and feasible
                I‘m not trying to be realistic. I am trying to make sure that i have such high expectations for a relationship that i never get into one at all. It‘s the only strategy that keeps me from getting myself into troubles.
                >i don‘t use ketchup
                A relief for sure. But i‘m certain you‘d have other food that would taint the purity of my kitchen. Let‘s just not risk it.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                >make sure that i have such high expectations for a relationship that i never get into one
                Fuck you remind me of someone
                She sucks

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                >She sucks
                Is that the famed situation where a man calls a woman a bitch because he doesn‘t meet her expectations? Look, i don‘t want any man to meet my expectations. I know they are delusional. That‘s the whole point. I could never actually love someone who meets them because he‘d have to be an alien god or something. I can only love other trash people but that‘s always a whole mess, so instead i make sure to remind myself of how uncomfortable it would be for me to try and actually share my day to day reality with another human being to save myself and them the torture of trying.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                I suspect she had the same issue as you. It's called lack of vulnerability by the way. I dumped her because she kept pulling away and making our relationship boring as hell with her selfishness

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                >It's called lack of vulnerability by the way
                Yes, i know. But i won‘t repeat the mistake of being vulnerable with someone who doesn‘t deserve my vulnerability. I‘d rather err on the safe side.
                >i broke up with her
                Probably for the best for both of you.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                >But i‘m certain you‘d have other food that would taint the purity of my kitchen.
                I don't. All my food is pure and untainting. All my dry food can fit in 1 (one) cabinet, all my wet food can fit on 1 (one) refrigerator shelf. Face it, I'm your future cohabitating husband.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                >Face it, I'm your future cohabitating husband
                I could pull out the big guns on what food can‘t be in my kitchen but i don‘t want this to derail into a political debate. But still, why would you even want that? Can‘t you see how annoying it would be to try and share your home with someone?

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                Thread's over, we're on page 10, so you might as well spill the beans. Then I can boil your beans, add some veggies, and blend them into hummus.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                Ok ok, because it‘s you and nobody‘s reading my schizo posting. So, no animal products. None. No oil. No matter what kind. Only minimally processed products. Whole wheat flour or white rice is acceptable every now and then but no white flour, sugar, or any of that kind of stuff. You in?

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                Of course I'm in. Why do you think I eat so much hummus? When it comes to "processed" food, the food processor is the furthest we'll descend into sin.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                Please tell me you have a good blender. I‘m starting to reconsider.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                Decent blender, KitchenAid. I can't make too much hummus or the motor burns out, so I make a great big batch of "proto-hummus" and then freeze everything that I'm not going to be able to eat in the next week. I also make use of the office freezer at work to store my extra proto-hummus until the time is right to thaw and blend.

                But in truth, I was lying... we can't get married... because I can live with all your other dietary restrictions, but I can't live without olive oil. I'm sorry for leading you on. I hope you can find it in your heart to forgive me for my deception.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I do have a smelly room, it smells normal to me, but if I’m away for a bit and come back it’s kinda funky for a minute.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      lmao this is NOT exclusive to men no matter how much women try to push their men-are-dirty propaganda

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Describe the smell of a woman's bedroom

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Vaginal

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Butthole and Doritos

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Nailed it. Tbh it smells good

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          wet iron and aged beef

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          unwashed cats, stale cigarette smoke and BO

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Male cum, feet, and sadness

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          In my experience? Perfume, lotion, and sweat.
          It gives me a boner even if she's not there.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >even the lingering traces of my presence makes men horny
            This makes me feel powerful

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              Don’t let it get to your head. Despite subjectively smelling good you still objectively smell like butthole and Doritos

  130. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    guy here a question to other guys
    While I agree that since puberty I take notice of boobs and ass way more, but it's nothing compared to her face
    So why are you constantly looking about ass and tits? The face is the most important by a mile

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I can't really give an answer since I also place way more emphasis on a nice face and long, well kept hair.
      But I have a real weakness to cleavage tbh

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I'm a guy and I never look at anything except a girls face
      I never stop finding it funny and sad when a girl with a 10/10 face will think she isn't attractive because she has a body men don't find sexy

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      holy shit my english
      talking about*

  131. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    girls
    What would you consider your looks to be? A girl next door or kind of alternative? You could post photos of celebs/influencers for reference

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      None

  132. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Are you watching the world cup?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Yes, illegally. Because fuck FIFA and fuck the Qatari government.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Called authorities on you.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          This is how the Qatari cartel works. Fuck them, seriously. Playing the World Cup on a fucking dessert where it'll be 35 degrees on average throughout the tournament. It's a farce.

  133. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    OUCH that was my dick!

  134. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Is it normal to date multiple people in the early stages or is that just PUA/redpill propaganda?
    Cos I'm at a majority female uni and kinda spoilt for choice lmao
    From the UK if that helps

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      bumping my gay question because fuck you

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Propaganda. Why would you waste your time with someone that leaves room in your heart and mind for others?

  135. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Someone post a new thread

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Hows about you suck my cock instead?

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        How about you smash my cock with a rock

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Here

      [...]

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        hideous image

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          In other words you're a fag? That's the only excuse you have for not finding her gorgeous

          >Posting failed: Error: Max limit of 150 image replies has been reached.jpg

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Pornsick cumbrains ruin everything.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Someone post a new thread

        Pornsick cumbrains ruin everything.

        Here

        [...]

        for real this time

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          much better

          new thread
          [...]

          There’s multiple bakers, should be fun. I hope both stay up.

          oh dear

  136. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Are 28 year old men on average mature?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      yeah

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      You'll have to define "mature" in a series of discrete or non-discrete parameters first. Then hop on Kaggle and start a study. Or maybe Google existing studies on the subject.

  137. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    new thread

    [...]

    There’s multiple bakers, should be fun. I hope both stay up.

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