As the man in a relationship, how much should you give up for the woman? I just met the in-laws for the first time.

As the man in a relationship, how much should you give up for the woman? I just met the in-laws for the first time. For me my parents are together and upper middle class
Hers were split and lower middle class

I never imagined class would be such an issue with a relationship but point is, I don't want to be forced to stoop to her family's level to keep the relationship
I'd rather she climb to mine

But I don't want to force anything

Tldr how do I get my hot lower class gf to embrace upper middle class lifestyle without insulting her family?

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  1. 5 months ago
    Anonymous

    What does stooping to their level even mean?

  2. 5 months ago
    Anonymous

    Just lead by example and live how you want to and she might get used to it. If not let her enjoy what she enjoys and potentially compromise if it would be a big issue.

    • 5 months ago
      Anonymous

      I don't want to give up things like nice Christmas dinners for trashy holiday affairs

      I am wondering how to compromise

      • 5 months ago
        Anonymous

        If it's important to her then you will go but she will go to yours too. If she's not that important then when she refuses tell break up with her and find someone of a equal class.

      • 5 months ago
        Anonymous

        >Nice christmas dinners is upper middle class

        You sound like a narcissist bum to be honest. Even the most working class welfare families have big christmas dinners

        • 5 months ago
          Anonymous

          Yes, but they are usually all morbidly obese and one fat uncle takes a shit in the bathroom that has the door right next to the table like they always have for some reason in poors’ houses, then comes out and loudly brags about how massive of a shit he took and how loud he roared and screamed while doing it, because fat fucks are always inordinately proud of taking a shit for some reason, then the other morbidly obese fat fucks get insecure despite their laughter at his descriptions, and start having a farting contest at the table until one fat fuck accidentally shits his pants so vigorously that diarrhea sprays from the top of his ass crack that is hanging out of the waist of his pants, and the other fat fucks are momentarily disgusted until they all start laughing at it.

      • 5 months ago
        Anonymous

        >Christmas dinners
        do people really care that much about shit like this in their relationships? wtf

  3. 5 months ago
    Anonymous

    Haha, I don't think you can ever bring up class difference in your families without being really insulting. If you want to stay with her I recommend just forgetting about it and changing your own mentality rather than trying to change her somehow.

    • 5 months ago
      Anonymous

      She's already met my senpai
      She knows what cloth I'm cut from
      I think she was embarrassed for me to meet her

      • 5 months ago
        Anonymous

        it doesn't sound like there's a problem here

  4. 5 months ago
    Anonymous

    Haha what?
    Literally 0.
    You do what you like together. Perhaps you make trades that benefit you both overall.
    But you don't give anything up. If your relationship isn't a benefit to you, end it. And that goes the same for her.

  5. 5 months ago
    Anonymous

    >how do I get my hot lower class gf to embrace upper middle class lifestyle without insulting her family?
    Insult her family. Their daughter is in your sphere now, not theirs.
    Quit being a beta cuck.

  6. 5 months ago
    Anonymous

    what the fuck does stooping down mean
    Are they forcing you to do anything ?
    your worldview is abject

  7. 5 months ago
    Anonymous

    Poor trash are disgusting.

  8. 5 months ago
    Anonymous

    We talking blue collar working man father and secretary at a small business mother low income family or like genuine poor welfare retard hick hillbilly trash?

    • 5 months ago
      Anonymous

      The former

      • 5 months ago
        Anonymous

        Such people are the salt of the earth and you are probably lucky to have the opportunity to learn from them, you snob.

  9. 5 months ago
    Anonymous

    This is something I am thinking about. I am very working class. My dad worked in a steel mill and my mum didnt work

    My dad has such low aspirations for me. We're talking so low that he tells me that I should get a state mandated welfare home and not work. Just live there. Because he thinks im not capable of working. He has no goals for himself and never pushed his kids

    I wonder if class would be an issue for my future gf

  10. 5 months ago
    Anonymous

    I would never commit to a girl whose parents were split. I want to stay married even if we both hate each other.

  11. 5 months ago
    Anonymous

    Ignore it you are starting a family with her, not your parents or hers make your own traditions. Your making an issue where there is none by judging her "trashy upbringing", think of it this way if you had been born under different auspices you could be the trashy one.

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