If you're not looking to grow as a person then anime woman is going to be your ideal woman. If you're comfortable with stagnation and isolation then your waifu is going to be as good as you will ever need. If you ever start to develop a want or need for companionship, the desire for growth, and a yearning for physical contact, then you will understand what real women have over picture women drawn by overworked Japanese salarymen.
What I'm saying is that anime women are only good for stagnant people. If you want something that can never change, never grow, never be anything more than it already is, then do what you want and waste your time with a picture.
If you're content with knowing the deep down this picture doesn't love you and does not possess the capacity to ever love you, then I see no reason why you should pursue an actual person with thoughts, dreams, and desires of their own.
If you however dream of having a family, a wedding, loving someone, being vulnerable to open with a human being in a way that is indescribable, coming home to home cooked meals kisses on the cheek; then find yourself a real woman. Personally I found it worth my time to improve myself enough and put the effort into keeping my woman happy; I've never been happier in my life without her than I have right now with her.
If you're comfortable living the life with no change that eventually degrades around you then be my guest, it's your life and if you want to live in misery then godspeed anon.
Just don't pretend to be offended when people give you weird looks for bringing a body pillow on a date.
You get old, your stuff breaks, your friends find themselves less and less available, your family dies off bit by bit.
If you want to live your entire life behind a screen then go for it I guess.
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i have only like one friend and i barley speak to my family already
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Ok anon, it is the best thing for you. That's what you wanted right? Validation from an inconsequential stranger that your infatuation with fictional women is healthy and good right?
You seem to know what you’re talking about, so I have a question >If you however dream of having a family, a wedding, loving someone, being vulnerable to open with a human being in a way that is indescribable, coming home to home cooked meals kisses on the cheek; then find yourself a real woman. Personall
I’ve never desired or fantasized about this, or thought to put in work to achieve those things, even though it’s what humans are supposed to do, why?
Because you don’t want to face the hurt chasing real women causes. You don’t want reality to conflict with you imagined ideals. I’m that applies to a lot of areas of your life.
You don't want to get hurt or experience what others have experienced
I've had gfs and fwb's before
>Why are anime women fulfilling the role better than real women for me?
They're made for men like you to fantasize.
more than a relationship and sex though?
If you're not looking to grow as a person then anime woman is going to be your ideal woman. If you're comfortable with stagnation and isolation then your waifu is going to be as good as you will ever need. If you ever start to develop a want or need for companionship, the desire for growth, and a yearning for physical contact, then you will understand what real women have over picture women drawn by overworked Japanese salarymen.
so anime women is better then is what you are saying?
What I'm saying is that anime women are only good for stagnant people. If you want something that can never change, never grow, never be anything more than it already is, then do what you want and waste your time with a picture.
If you're content with knowing the deep down this picture doesn't love you and does not possess the capacity to ever love you, then I see no reason why you should pursue an actual person with thoughts, dreams, and desires of their own.
If you however dream of having a family, a wedding, loving someone, being vulnerable to open with a human being in a way that is indescribable, coming home to home cooked meals kisses on the cheek; then find yourself a real woman. Personally I found it worth my time to improve myself enough and put the effort into keeping my woman happy; I've never been happier in my life without her than I have right now with her.
why would i want to grow? why would i need a gf to grow? that's good for you but maybe it's not for everyone
If you're comfortable living the life with no change that eventually degrades around you then be my guest, it's your life and if you want to live in misery then godspeed anon.
Just don't pretend to be offended when people give you weird looks for bringing a body pillow on a date.
>that eventually degrades around you
how so?
You get old, your stuff breaks, your friends find themselves less and less available, your family dies off bit by bit.
If you want to live your entire life behind a screen then go for it I guess.
i have only like one friend and i barley speak to my family already
Ok anon, it is the best thing for you. That's what you wanted right? Validation from an inconsequential stranger that your infatuation with fictional women is healthy and good right?
nope i just wanted to talk about this thought
what?
You seem to know what you’re talking about, so I have a question
>If you however dream of having a family, a wedding, loving someone, being vulnerable to open with a human being in a way that is indescribable, coming home to home cooked meals kisses on the cheek; then find yourself a real woman. Personall
I’ve never desired or fantasized about this, or thought to put in work to achieve those things, even though it’s what humans are supposed to do, why?
Might be a sign of antisocial personality disorder, but I'm just some asshole on LULZ so take that with a grain of salt.
Might be something to talk to your doctor about
Because you don’t want to face the hurt chasing real women causes. You don’t want reality to conflict with you imagined ideals. I’m that applies to a lot of areas of your life.
i've had gfs before though
we all know 3DPD
Because you're a failure of a person
how so?