anyone else have severe trust issues with women?
when i was in 4th grade to around 10th grade, girls would frequently 'hit on me' as a joke. i took it seriously one time, and everyone mocked me for a literal year after that because i wanted to actually pursue something.
i've been hit on maybe 1 or 2 times in my life legitimately, but during those times i thought i was being pranked, and to this day (i'm 19 now) i can't have a genuine conversation with a woman showing interest in me without thinking there's an ulterior motive.
is there something wrong with me? is this normal?
pic unrel
For about 4 months in high school, late August to just before Christmas, Stacy pretended to be my gf in exchange for me helping her out with studies. We walked together danced together and even went to homecoming. She even kissed me and had sex with me in the back of my car. At the end she told me it was just all a joke though and she wanted to get over her ex bf chad
that sounds rough anon. care to elaborate?
Stacy befriended me in math class. She put on her best show and pretended to be into me. She carried the conversation most of the time. She asked me to hang out once, after school, so I did and she offered me my first drink. We did a lot of firsts together actually. We even showered together which was really weird because she was a petite blonde girl and I was a hairy fat nerd.
I grew accustomed to hanging out with her she was actually really nice. She smelled pleasant and was always making jokes. She acted like a little girl everywhere we went and skipped around, hugged me all the time. Eskimo kisses.
At around Christmastime she told me it was pointless to go on because she wasn't in love with me, she did this all because she wanted to get over her ex. She didn't feel anything for me (her words) and she no longer wanted to be friends.
Since then ive never trusted women or had a relationship. Im 28 now
Ye. Throughout my life, male bullies would just insult/try to start a fight. Female bullies were the fucking sadistic ones. The ones that would actually try and fuck with your head. I've never fought a male bully, just ignored them. I had to boot a bitch in the face when I was 10 because her and her goons had literally lifted me off the ground and were trying to throw me in a flooded part of the school. That bitch also had her "bf" trip me full sprint on concrete. Had her friends hold me down while she gave me an indian burn that left a scar until I was like 20.
Pretty sure she's the reason I'm into evil bitches. Also back to the point: "women are evil" isn't a statement about women/girls, but the power society gives them. A bitch can punch you square in the mouth, look you straight in the eyes and ask you "what are you gonna do, hit a girl?'
>Pretty sure she's the reason I'm into evil bitches. Also back to the point: "women are evil" isn't a statement about women/girls, but the power society gives them.
you're genuinely fucking retarded
Why? A guy insults you, you're free to smack his teeth out. A woman hits and insults you and you've just gotta take it?
Or are you playing Freud?
yep. you're actually fucking retarded. holy shit
You two banned from lgbt and pol respectively?
fucking lost, hard, oreganoli
i like the part where you samefagged
i'm not samefagging you retards i'm op i just thought it was funny
I can't tell which one you think I am.
Do you think your a woman or white?
well, i'm definitely the pol. you're the lgbt guy
But what did I say that had anything to do with gay people...?
>"women are evil" isn't a statement about women/girls, but the power society gives them.
So it's like ACAB for incels?
Not just women. Anyone really. Every "hello" feels like bait, and the moment I bite it everyone around me will start laughing and beating me because I comitted a social misstep
Yeah, most of the people who bullied me from 1st straight through to grade nine, when it died off somewhat, were girls. The real demonic stuff was in that 5th to 8th early puberty pocket - fake flirting, questions about what kind of girls I liked with no right answer because refusal to engage just meant loud speculation I was gay, the very concept of me as a sexual creature as a punchline...
I absolutely have the same response you do as an adult still - the small handful of times women have expressed interest in me, I freeze and/or withdraw because I still have that instinct that I'm being pranked, and there's no coming back from that hesitation - they immediately read it as "Oh, he's not interested, fine, fuck you too".
I have trust issues for similar reasons, got tricked by a guy pretending to like me and then ridiculed because he shared our messages.
When I was in 6th grade I stood in front of a girl in crutches to block her path to tease her, and she made up a story about me pushing her down the stairs. The school checked the tapes and saw that nothing happened but my parents grounded me for it. Also when I was in kindergarten a couple of second grade girls pinned me down and forced me to kiss them, even though I was screaming and trying to get away, and I got grounded for it
I have trust issues with everyone. Just about every person I've let get close has ended up stabbing me in the back or were putting up with me to get something they want. That includes family members.
humans are all insufferable wretched creatures
Yup. I cant wait for the impending third world war. I dont care if I die in a radioactive wasteland or a nuclear blast. I'll be happy to see insufferable normalfags screech as their beloved shitpile of a life is ripped away.
There's "trust issues" and then there's knowing exactly what they say and do is bullshit/dishonest.
My mom told me growing up that she "couldn't wait until a girl rejects me so I know how it feels to be completely destroyed". I was also bombarded near constantly with stories of friends-of-family's kids flunking out and dropping out of school due to breakups, romantic rejections, and other drama. So basically I learned early on I would get zero support for any interpersonal relationshits and they would be used against me. That said I did ask out a girl and it went catastrophically. As in multi-year shitfest that destroyed my college career. It sucked, but I survived, though I couldn't tell anyone what happened. Now my wonderful family is wondering why I never talk to them about my shitty dating life...
>My mom told me growing up that she "couldn't wait until a girl rejects me so I know how it feels to be completely destroyed".
what'd you do to her
Hell if I know. I had to have been around 12 when she said that.
Yes, my mother was all kinds of crazy and abusive growing up and it messed with my head and warped my perspective of women. No matter how nice they may seem my brain forces me to think they'll just treat me like my mother did the second it's convenient for them