any other stealth mtfs never gonna have sex again?

any other stealth mtfs never gonna have sex again? the idea of breaking stealth at all is way too big a drawback for something as pitiful as sex or a relationship. men are super cruel to stealth women also so i think it’s for the best. anyone have experience with this?

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  1. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    im considering never having sex again, but its more because I am just so bitter and heart broken over many failed relationships and life just seems better when im single

    • 1 year ago
      Anonymous

      some people are built for it. i’m definitely meant to be in a relationship, but at this point it feels unsafe. and i hate knowing people don’t see me as cis, it’s borderline pathological

  2. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    just get srs

    • 1 year ago
      Anonymous

      i feel for the psyop. dont wanna disfigure myself even though my genital dysphoria is on 100

    • 1 year ago
      Anonymous

      If I avoided that I'd be gay today

  3. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    Idk im stealth and my last partner definitely saw me as a woman. Tbh I don’t think me being trans really was a factor in his mind most of the time. Ended up dumping him for unrelated reasons but it was nice while it lasted. I’m not saying all men or even most men will treat us like we’re really women after we come out, but there definitely are some out there. I’m too lonely, I need love too much to stop looking for another even if it’s gonna be really hard and hurt along the way.

    • 1 year ago
      Anonymous

      how did you meet? how did you know? i put myself out there a few times with guys who seemed accepting only to get my heart smashed. luckily not outed, but still.

      • 1 year ago
        Anonymous

        I met him at school. He started talking to me and I could tell he was interested so I gave him my number. We talked for a while and when I felt like he was safe I told him. He was surprised at first and wasn’t sure how he felt about it, he took a day to think about it but he came to the conclusion that I was undeniably a woman in his eyes and he liked me so why should he care? I could tell just by how I was treated how he saw me. I know how people who see me as trans first and woman second treat me, he didn’t seem to see me that way. He treated me like his girlfriend who he was proud to show the world, no shame or hiding me or anything. I felt normal around him, something I dont get with people who know. Idk everything just felt right. But I can understand why you’d be afraid, dating has risks and I was terrified of being outed but when you meet a person who you think you could be happy with sometimes you just gotta take a leap of faith. I can’t live my life being too scared to be happy. Plus if he tried to out me I’d deny it fervently since I pass anyway lol

        • 1 year ago
          Anonymous

          i had a similar experience, twice. except both times it ended in them just seeing me as trans. hard to go from “the prettiest girl i’ve ever seen” to “homie” twice, back to back. just not worth it anymore. i felt so low after that

          • 1 year ago
            Anonymous

            That’d hurt yah, but it doesn’t have to go like that. Even now that I’m not dating him my ex still sees me as a girl. I’m sorry the people you met sucked but it’s no reason to give up

          • 1 year ago
            Anonymous

            it just feels like stories like urs are a total rarity. doesn’t help that i straight up got raped by the last person i tried to date. it just feels awful

          • 1 year ago
            Anonymous

            I am honestly not sure how rare it is. I have only dated a few people but none of them have been bad really. One of them we stopped dating partly because of me being trans but for the most part If I reached the point with someone that I decide to be kinda serious with them I’ve already determined that they good people to tell. I’m not saying their a majority, but they aren’t so rare they’re impossible to find. But I can see how something like rape could really frick with you’re ability to date people and really mess with your outlook. I’m sorry that happened to you and it will probably take some time to heal before you’re ready to look for someone again.

          • 1 year ago
            Anonymous

            sorry yeah, i guess this is just me pissing and crying about my unluckiness. dont really know what to say anymore

          • 1 year ago
            Anonymous

            It’s alright sometimes you just need to vent a little bit when you’re feeling down.

          • 1 year ago
            Anonymous

            yeah. hey man it could be worse at least im hot and alt and i can play guitar. even if i am a fricking rape victim i still have nice tattoos

          • 1 year ago
            Anonymous

            Playing instruments is really cool, I had a friend in highschool who could play a few and I always thought it was so cool

          • 1 year ago
            Anonymous

            you can always learn. just takes time and effort. music is my one true love. that and poetry

          • 1 year ago
            Anonymous

            It’s good to have passions, especially creative ones. Maybe I should pick up an instrument

          • 1 year ago
            Anonymous

            guitar isn’t too hard. get a cheap acoustic for less than 100 bucks and do some youtube vids. highly worthwhile, as long as you remember that perfectionism is not the goal and you can enjoy failure

          • 1 year ago
            Anonymous

            Honestly might give it a go

          • 1 year ago
            Anonymous

            frick it. i quit cigarettes on a frick it, so why can’t you start guitar?

  4. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    I had SRS long ago. I had a lot of sex the first couple of years lot of anonymous sex with men I picked up and nightclubs and bars. It didn't do much for me sexually so I sropped haveing sex twenty yrs ago.
    The drawback is it's lonely, not sexual hunger. I don't have any more sex drive than a child
    I would not want to tell anyone that I was trans had any cost.

    • 1 year ago
      Anonymous

      was your srs good? bad? is it as bad as people say?

      • 1 year ago
        Anonymous

        First of all it's very old surgery. Secondly when I had it done I think it was mostly geared to provide men with pleasure. Thirdly, it was probably not the type where they made a clitoris with penal tissue.

        I really enjoyed gay sex and had no phobia or dysphoria about using my male genitalia. I just looked more like a girl like a boy and I thought I would be more accepted by mainstream society, by having surgery, living as a genetic woman
        Sex just feels painful and meaningless to me. I'm not going to tell anybody that I'm trans. So, relationship doesn't work in the long run

        • 1 year ago
          Anonymous

          jesus christ. no srs for me then. i really fricking wish it was good

          • 1 year ago
            Anonymous

            they make clits now and if you're not a gay man it actually works out pretty well

          • 1 year ago
            Anonymous

            wdym not a gay man?

          • 1 year ago
            Anonymous

            you were replying to someone who said she "really enjoyed gay sex" and spams the board with her story about how she'd just be a gay man today

          • 1 year ago
            Anonymous

            oh, i don’t browse here regularly. mb

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