So there was a women at work who I was convinced was Interested in me from interactions at lunch and drinking out in groups. She put her phone in front of me for a my Instagram and I stared at her in confusion and later realised she was asking for my Instagram.
We are all in a group chat on WhatsApp and can see who is who. So I got her number from there and texted her
"Hey, I didn't get the chance to give you my number and I don't use WhatsApp but we can go out for a date.when are you free?"
She texted back after an entire day that yeah, we could meet up for lunch at some point(at work) I am sure
I just texted Great, see you soon and decided not to escalate any further
Is she freaked out right now? Will apologising to her make things better or worse? I don't really want anything to do with all this now because I realise now asking out a women at work is a horrible idea.