>a transgender person wants me to see them as their preferred gender.
> I don't see them as a preferred gender.
what should I do?
>a transgender person wants me to see them as their preferred gender.
>a transgender person wants me to see them as their preferred gender.
> I don't see them as a preferred gender.
what should I do?
Hide the thread and sage, simple. I'll demonstrate right now
Your feelings matter the most. You should back them into a corner and force them to apologize for making you slightly uncomfortable. They need to learn some empathy!
ok! So I'll just lie!
Lie, it's called being a decent human being.
Women want you to lie to them about how pretty they are. Trannies want you to lie to them about how well they pass.
well, you have to earn your preferred gender.
tell them to put in more effort.
Why do you all love torturing hons?
I avoid people who make me lie to them. Especially when they act like a victim about it. It's a sign of BPD.
>It's a sign of BPD.
yes, anon, you're talking about trannies, you don't need to restate yourself
You think not calling hons women is lying? Are you also fact-checking the priest at family funerals?
So it is just a religion
No, it's just a social construct. Like money or debt.
I don’t see why not. like you don’t have to believe a tranny is a girl but you should let them believe it. I don’t believe Jesus had superpowers or that the sun fell into the ocean but I’m not not going to advocate lawmakers to make it illegal to be Christian
Never seen one single decent take by you
humor them to their face and use their real gender whenever the conversation is over. it's a fine halfway point of keeping them appeased without compromising ur beliefs
This is what my brother does to me. We don't fight, but we also have 0 relationship with one another.
yea it's turbo shit but what can you do with a trasphobe you have to interact with but also won't change their views it's the best of a bad situation imo. I would never wanna be around someone like this
it's from the pov of the unmoving transphobe not the transwoman so I'm using their tard language
bbycakes in an ideal world they would simply not be transphobic but I'm talking to a retarded chud and using their caveman language to get the point across to treat the transwoman at least marginally better to her face. It's a shitty compromise but the best one I can think of short of him just treating her the right way and not being an asshole
I would never treat anyone like this personally 🙁
That's the most spineless thing I've ever heard.
At least kylie is a cunt upfront, this is legit one of the worst takes possible and you have gone down in my estimation.
Hang your head in shame
poopie
Lie to their face
gradually cut them out of your life
After they're completely out, furiously misgender them
see them as their preferred gender
I can't, my perception is telling me otherwise.
What if you genuinely, literally can't though? If you brain associates that person with the other gender and there's nothing you can do about it?
It doesn't matter if they look like this, you have to pretend they're a little girl regardless of their persinality
Look, even trans people don't see themselves as the gender they say they are. Most of the non passing ones are doing it to fuck with people and because toying with people's guilt makes them feel powerful. Don't feel bad.
Nothing. If they get mad just tell them to fuck off.
Use that seemingly useless thing that's inside your skull and refer to them as their preferred gender
Become better and change as a person. It can be a gradual change, just try.
brains are hardwired to recognise sex
https://stanmed.stanford.edu/brains-hard-wired-recognize-opposite-sex/
Nothing? You don’t have to do anything. Why would you have to do something?
Tell him he's delusional and will never be a woman, but you can be friends if he accepts that
why do you not see them as a woman? Is it because you're gay and thinking of them as a man turns you on more?