>a friend confesses to be in love with me

>a friend confesses to be in love with me
>I turn him down as sweetly and gently as I can and honestly tell him we can stay friends
>he hates me anyway
Men are a meme.

  1. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I don't do that. I wouldn't do that.

  2. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    You are probably better off without him tbqh

  3. 3 weeks ago
    Catboy

    Sorry you had to go through that, but sometimes if they can't deal with their romantic feelings for you then it's better fof you both if you moved on instead of attempting to keep up a unstable friendship.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      You are probably better off without him tbqh

      I didn't even lead him on that badly...

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        You lead him on to begin with? I respect obvs, but why?

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          I'm lonely
          WXSGP

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Wtf why wouldn't you just accept him then

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            You are playing a dangerous game hun, gotta start friemdzoning them sooner so that only the ones that WANT to be your friend will stick around. Build a line of orbiters before aiming for a partner yk?

            • 3 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              Are males really this desperate irl to be friends with females that you actually get orbiters?

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Well I certainly do not struggle to find them, so I suppose from experience they are. Maybe those are just the type of men I attract. I am significantly more manipulative though

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >I am significantly more manipulative though
                How so? Also, mind describing these dudes?

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                I have BPD like the best quirky people so it makes me pretty good at being manipulative. As for the men, it is mostly dumb lonely college boys. Nice for free food and games and whatever. One is trying to be a lawyer doe, and I am all about getting a little money off the richer

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >doe
                Holy shit the things I would do to you

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Flattering lmao

                If you have BPD and don't really care, why haven't you gone for autistic men? I've heard that they have THE most control over them of any kind of woman.

                I cannot read autistic men well obvs because I am probably neurotypical. I would rather go with what ikyk?

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >I would rather go with what ikyk?
                What does ikyk mean and when you say read them, do you mean unable to identify?

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Ikyk is I know you know

                Well they just act hella differently than I am used to. Kinda spergy or like socially unaware. It is more of a felt thing than something I can really explain. I mean, you just KNOW when someone does not fit into the regular social flow imo

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Yeah, I get it. So how does this work? For your company they just give you free shit? What are you doing to manipulate these dudes? Whispering sweet lies in their ears or stroking there egos!

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                no bpd would claim to be "neurotypical", youre just another useless attention seeking narcissist poser who'd be better off stabbed to death in a dark alley somewhere.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                If you have BPD and don't really care, why haven't you gone for autistic men? I've heard that they have THE most control over them of any kind of woman.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            That is extremely fucking evil. Imagine toying with someones feelings by leading them on and turning them down, then justifying it by loneliness. Imagine calling that person a "friend" when the entire time you were just fucking with them for your own sake. He has every right to be angry. If you didn't lead him on at all then thems the breaks, but you knew what you were doing.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Catboy

            Anon your never gonna feel less lonely by simply surrounding yourself with simps. Leading people on just for attention will do nothing but cause situations like this to occur over and over again and you'll feel worse than you did before. Be honest with them from the start, even if they fall for you then at least it isn't your fault and you don't need to feel guilty over it.

            • 3 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              Kek Femboy attentionwhoring on here telling someone to not amass simps

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Wouldn't hate you for not wanting to be with me, but I wouldn't want to stay friends either. Might hurt too much and would be inappropriate.

            Leading people on just because you are lonely is immature as fuck.

            • 3 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              Yeah...
              I kissed him sometimes and told him here and there that I might want to date him one day. I didn't really mean it.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        You have no idea how much you hurt that guy for your own amusement. Don't lead people on

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        an anspiring Lily, I see

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >lead him on that badly
        Fuck you, you manipulative piece of shit. How dare you make him out to be the bad person here when you were sending him signals to advance the relationship.

  4. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >tfw no yandere gf who confesses to me and i say no so she kidnaps and reenacts misery while making me write a novel about how much i love her

  5. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Do you realize that he never saw you as a friend? actually, why should he still be your friend?
    He wouldn't get anything good out of you, but the truth is he's still a fagot for getting angry. he should have accepted it and that's it and you are retarded for wanting to still be his friend after that

  6. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    It's too painful to stay friends with someone you love like that after they reject you. Don't be too hard on him, he doesn't hate you, he loves you. He confessed to you and is now trying to convince himself he doesn't love you to dull the pain

  7. 3 weeks ago
    sage

    Does he actually "hate" you, or did he just realize that there's no way for that relationship to continue to the benefit of anyone, so he decided to give it less attention?

  8. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    He is not required to stay your friend

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Very true, anon.
      The standard rule now is that how other people feel about you is an irrelevant factor is how you should feel about them. Just because the guy loved OP, it doesn't mean the OP has to love the guy, right? The guy's love means nothing. In the same way, just because OP wants to still be friends with the guy, that doesn't mean the guy has to still be friends with her. He can do whatever and feel however he pleases, OP's feelings and own subjective view on things is irrelevant.
      This is just how things are.

  9. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    It's very hard to stay friend with someone you love
    i tried and failed he shouldnt hate you though thats retarded

  10. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    there is a girl at my work who is trying to force me to date her
    i am absolutely disinterested
    i feel like i can relate to women on a new level she is annoying but i dont want to hurt her feelings either

  11. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >a friend confesses to be in love with me
    >I turn him down as sweetly and gently as I can and honestly tell him we can stay friends
    >he hates me anyway
    BASED FRIEND
    FUCK YOU nagger BITCH WHORE ZOGBOT SLAVA Z

  12. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    All women threads can be boiled down to 2 things:
    >I dont want to date a beta (beta did not keep providing free resource/attention, boyfriend is a beta, whining about how beta men are nowadays, someone she did not like showed interest, attentionwhoring for betas to fill the bottomless hole in their ((soul)), though attentionwhoring could be argued as an attempt to attract chads)
    >chad does not want me (where have all the good men gone, documenting abuse they enjoyed by chad, saying their hyperinflated standards, etc)

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >All women threads can be boiled down to 2 things:
      Aside from freak once-in-a-blue moon threads, they can be boiled down to one thing:
      >I am a mentally ill idiot who, instead of seeking professional help, chooses to let his disorder fester because I like the attention I get by pretending to be a woman on an Internet forum and being either inflammatory or coy. I will keep on postponing doing something productive or even just sorting out my mental health first because of the immediate satisfaction I get from seeing replies from credulous people.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        And then there's this neurotic freak who thinks he's a cut above the rest lmao

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          I am above people who pretend to be women for attention online, yes.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            You are pretending to be intelligent online. Considerably worse.

            • 3 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              There is nothing worse than women

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                They are the ones who feign intelligence.

  13. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >Confess to friend
    >She seemingly turns me down nicely
    >Am cool with it, want to stay friends
    >Ghosts me and also two more of our mutual friends
    >Blame myself, wonder if I have somehow been creepy for years afterwards
    >Don't collectively blame women
    Shit just sucks sometimes, that's all there is to it.

  14. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >Men are a meme.
    Foids are a meme

  15. 3 weeks ago
    The original Amyfag

    Why not just give him a chance?

  16. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I went to a Dennys once and found this person in the men's bathroom stall. That's how I met my wife

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Well I have some bad news for you pal. You wife's on a bunch of porn sites.

  17. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Why are you underages allowed to post here?

  18. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >be a fag
    >make a faggy greentext story
    >post to LULZ

  19. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Would say yes if it was chad
    Hope you die bitch slutty bitch who savors beta males' attraction but only reciprocates for chad hope you get what you deserve and get fucked up and raped bitch
    kind regards from kazakhstan

  20. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >friends with a guy
    sounds like someones a slut

  21. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >I know that you've made me the center of your whole existence, but to me you were just a transient amusement. Can we still be friends? lol

  22. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I wouldn't mind orbiting you, if you were that one girl from my highschool days.
    But also, never mention any sort of boyfriend, or else I would get sad.

  23. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >>he hates me anyway
    >Men are a meme.
    sounds like he has good self-esteem to not hang around where he isn't wanted.
    you'll forget about him and find another simp tomorrow anyway so i don't see this point of this post.

  24. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I have enough friends.

  25. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I think it's scary how men go from love to hate. When I was led on and rejected I was angry at feeling like I had a chance and then I didn't. Especially since the guy I liked literally took me on two dates that he later backtracked and said weren't real because "he wanted to make me feel better about myself" which makes no fucking sense. Also we wrestled together and he touched my tit and he called me cute but apparently he was never into me like that and I'm just a loser I guess. And he had the gall to try and force me to stay his friend. Well I'm wise to that shit now it's clear he was just using me to feel good about himself. Leading me on ON PURPOSE then feigning innocence, "ooh this girl likes me so much I'm so irrestistable and innocent" it's a disgusting strange behavior. I wouldn't be surprised if he turned out to be a homosexual by now or a serial killer. Only a demented person does that to somebody. Like try getting a fucking life instead of teasing people for the fun of it. Emotions aren't a game one day you will piss off the wrong person. I hope he gets beaten within an inch of his life

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >I think it's scary how men go from love to hate.
      >rest of the post is documenting how quickly a woman goes from love to hate
      Remember, boys: SEE A FOID, YOU MUST AVOID

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I sincerely doubt you care about anything resembling real wisdom that points to the underlying truth of the world, since woman are foolish by nature and allergic to truth by design . .
      but what I am about to tell you is one of the most important spiritual truths

      Hate and love aren't opposites, they are two sides of the same coin
      To love or hate something is to put your precious attention to thinking about it, to focus on the effort of your soul on what to do with the object of your hate/love
      When you love or hate someone, you do so with your heart
      The real opposite of love and hate is apathy
      You are in that mans heart, which is why he must love you or hate you
      If you weren't in his heart he would be apathetic

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >you are in that man's heart
        No retard he was using me to feel good about himself so he could LARP that he was a cassanova that couldn't keep a girl from wanting him and played innocent like he was intentionally leading me on. I am glad I told him off and blocked his ass

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          How was he using you? Were you touching him or having sex with him? Men definitionally cannot emotionally use women. What is gratifying and valuable to men isn't conversations and emotions of a woman, lmao. Unless you were having sex under the pretense of a promised relationship from him, you weren't being used. Stealing his time, in fact, was you using him.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >wrestling and cuddling and groping me
            >dates that he later took back and said were fake
            >constantly calling me cute
            Learn to read all things I typed all things he initiated

            • 3 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              So why didn't you say yes? Fundamentally you used him. He clearly loved you and you used his affection and time carelessly. The first time he touched you romantically you should have rebuked him so he knew to move on and forget you. You let him fall in love with you because you found his admiration and attention gratifying. You used him cruelly. You nasty ugly souled woman.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                He refused to date me

  26. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >self respect is a meme
    Makes sense. Everything adds up. Pack it up Boys

  27. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >Be me.
    >Be confident etc anon, shoot your shot.
    >Friends with a girl.
    >Made it clear with flirting etc that I liked her.
    >Asked her out.
    >"N-n-no don't do this anon!"
    >Look, I kinda know what the answer will be but I gotta shoot my shot and know for certain.
    >She gets upset and literally cries.
    >Keeps going for a while.
    >Finally get the answer 'No' and feel a great sense of relief.
    >She got more upset about it than I was.
    >I felt completely clear headed and was completely cool about it, it enabled me to get over rejection and grow as a person.
    >She couldn't get over it because she reduced everything down to a base level.
    Asking people out isn't that big a deal and people should get over themselves more.

  28. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Just know that as a man, anything you do with a woman is a minefield. Because you are supposed to cryptically figure out her mental bullshit despite her having the personality of an AI responding blandly to your questions. And then they dare say you don't want to be friends anymore.
    In most cases it's completely one-sided with women enjoying how they can keep men on a leash.
    If a man wants real friendship, he'll look for other men because that's where he is going to find.
    Modern women are a complete liability, without any gender related dynamic there is very little reason to keep ''friendship'' going.

  29. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Every day I fucking come on here and I expect something to be different. Like a frequent userbase of about one hundred people can learn when someone is trying to get a reaction out of them. And every time I am disappointed to see these same people in a "femcel" thread, or a "iris" thread, or another post of a male pretending to be a woman, trying to get a rise out of them by repeating the same shit they complain about back to them. I have learned certain people are just the fish that were made to always take the fucking bait.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      People are addicted to the same cycles of anger.

  30. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >a friend confesses to be in love with me
    Sorry you got fuckzoned OP

  31. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Him turning you down for friendship is no more hateful than you turning him down for a romantic relationship.

    In a way there is no more dehumanizing thing than a woman telling you she doesn't see you sexually. Sexuality is the most fundamental aspect of an adult's human beings biology and personality. There is no greater condemnation than saying "I would rather eliminate your personality and presence from all future generations than return your love."

    Romantic rejection is fundamentally the most hateful act. Own your hatred of him. You don't know what friendship between men is, and you weren't offering him friendship (willingness to die for him). You were offering him the opportunity to be a resource of time/emotional tampon/provider to you. You were offering him a front row seat to your affairs and affections with other men. Actions speak louder than words, and loving them says undeniably to him that "here is who I think is superior to you in every way, you useless genetic deadend".

  32. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    stop being friends with moids, retard
    they only want sex
    if you don't have sex to give you are nothing to them

  33. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    All romantic relationships between men and women can be distilled down to height differences.

    Research says that a woman's preference for men is 99% height based.

    Research says that the stability of a relationship long term, particularly a marriage, can be determined by the presence or absence of resentment between the partners.

    But research also says that the satisfaction of women in marital relationships is determined by the height differential between them and their partners. The taller he is relative to her, the more satisfied with the marriage she is, even accounting for all others factors like abuse.

    Thus we can conclude that the resentment factor is downwind of the height factor, and that its just not socially acceptable to go straight to the root cause despite it being scientifically factual.

    The truth is, women don't love. They want HEIGHT. Leg bone length. That's why you're lonely and she is pouring her affections and love on him along with thousands of other eager women. They will malign you and curse you as worthless because of a few genetic inches of leg bone length.

  34. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    why would i agree to still be friends to someone that rejected me? I would try to actively hurt you if i had the chance, friend my fucking ass, you are an enemy now

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      No, you are not good enough for love but you are good enough to be useful as a "friend" in her conception of it as a man who watches her bestow her love on other men and is emotionally available to her without expectations when her sex partner(s) come up short. Don't you just value her "friendship"? lol

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        No you fucking incel

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Whatever you say, you fucking pedophile.

  35. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    It's almost like he doesn't owe you friendship any more than you owe him a relationship. So maybe get the fuck over it and get different friends?

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I mean, I agree with you, but I wonder sometimes why we've become so obsessed with the concepts of "owing" people things during the 10s and 20s. The words "owe" and "entitlement" almost never fucking came up in the 00s during conversations like these. It's so reptilian and cold-blooded. We used to be human.

  36. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >men after they grow tired of roast beef hags
    he is in a better place now, chasing bussy

  37. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Ive done this twice and end up dating them for years. Fuck their brains out for a couple years and make their lives terrible lmfao. A couple are still waiting to see me eventually when we both have time. How does this garbage only work for me? I can talk to a girl for months and I can tell they are into me. Close the gap by saying I have a week off from work. After hanging out a few times and take another month of not seeing them. Eventually moving in. Being a schizophrenic alcoholic is fucked but the halo effect is hilarious

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