Im short, engineer so no women in highschool or college or work at all except old ladies and couple of married women. All of my cliques were drunks, no women in them
Now I WFH in a foreign land, not knowing the local language, I'll move back home next year
I'm very extrovert, jovial, muscular but a manlet so 0 action on dating apps, gays shower me with messages on social media though
35. Made out once with a girl, 17 years ago. Had sex once with a hooker 15 years ago.
I want to of myself but I'll buy a house first so I can decompose in it
No single women in the gym, tried to hit on some Asian one recently but she could not speak english
>Be wizard, 33m kissless virgin, never asked a girl on a date >Now 43 with a long term partner and 2 kids. >Fucked 5 girls, mostly sluts, all 10 years younger than me and as it turns out, 3 of them were cheating on BF's with me.
I wasn't proud of them cheating to with me, didn't know at the time, and when I found out it added to my huge emotional baggage and issues around sex.
Everyone is different so I can't really tell you how to fix it. For me it was all about depression and being introverted. I beat myself for being ugly, thought I was hideous but I was telling myself that to cope, to explain my situation. I'm white, athletic (was successful at sports), 5"11
I decided to treat it as a phobia with exposure therapy. Went to massage shops, was too scared to even be naked but I just let the asian girls try to flirt me out of $20 for a handjob and pull my underwear off. I didn't let them do anything for months until my nerves died down and I met a nice girl.
Then I was less scared of online dating, met some girl of /soc/ and fucked her.
I'm still no chad but my relationship with women is better, I have a better idea and feeling for what is normal and how to act. I feel I needed to be with some girls to learn that well
Pic related illustrates most of my problems.
I've been told to be nice my whole life. Be nice, be polite, be nice, treat everyone equally. And I was nice, so much so that I even got the quite embarrassing "Most Polite" award back in school, twice.
Being "nice" was just ingrained in my being and I can't help it, so much so of that I became incapable of flirting/showing sexual interest towards women without feeling as if I'm being extremely rude to them.
So nothing ever happened in that department
Very similar for me. Too nice, unassertive, hate asking for help, can't ask for a pay rise even when I'm the most experienced in a team, doing the most work and often one of the lowest paid. (Only way I got around that was quitting and getting other jobs that had higher base salaries)
You're probably normal looking. Of course it's easy for an average guy to get a gf. Distinct ugly facial features that make you look weird are a death sentence when it comes to relationships with women.
Ugly looks are a common cause for introvertedness. It's difficult to talk to people when you've been shitted on all your life. Women are social beings. With an average man they feel part of the tribe. They'd never want to be seen with someone objectively ugly, because others will project the outcast status onto them.
Good Lord, worse than I am. I'm 5'7, 35, masculine, deep rough voice, big chin, very muscular, beard, however I don't know where are all the women
0 luck on dating apps
We have to famous Maxx. I should make a yt channel about stuff and insta, tiktok, maybe I get some attention
Jk it will fail, but I would hate not at least trying it
Sex is overrated and women are an albatross. You trade a lifetime of pain for minutes of pleasure. And no matter how hot your girl is you get bored of her after awhile.
>And no matter how hot your girl is you get bored of her after awhile.
This is the most underrated comment of all.
Its crazy, I fantasize so much about hot women and want to move mountains to fuck them. Once I fuck them, sometimes even twice, I notice all of her flaws and just get annoyed by her taking all my time and energy. Doesnt matter if she is hot, I just want to fuck someone else then.
Worst thing is that I'm hyper in both ways - hyper focused on fucking (new) chicks, but getting bored hyper fast too. Just fuck me. Masturbation kills the desire to fuck new chicks but also drains my social energy level so don't want to do that all the time.
Same here and true. Any girl gets boring. Accept your nature. You are a man and men want to seed many pussies naturally. It's an illusion though. Grass isn't greener. Find a decent one and stay
Same here and true. Any girl gets boring. Accept your nature. You are a man and men want to seed many pussies naturally. It's an illusion though. Grass isn't greener. Find a decent one and stay
Fuck same bros. It’s caused me to destroy many a good relationship. I get bored and cheat which further drives the point that maybe I should get a new gf. I’m 31 and with a very attractive, sweet med student. Trying to stay on the rails and remind myself that it won’t be any different with another girl. I just wanna be at peace bros
>it won’t be any different with another g
It won't be. Once a girl becomes your gf she instantly drops in attractiveness and woman that are not your gf go 3x in attractiveness. It's just your biology trying to make you seed as many pussies as possible. If you leave your gf and take a new one then after awhile the same happens. Girls that are not your gf always look better for some reason. Until they become your gf. Kek.
>And no matter how hot your girl is you get bored of her after awhile.
This is the most underrated comment of all.
Its crazy, I fantasize so much about hot women and want to move mountains to fuck them. Once I fuck them, sometimes even twice, I notice all of her flaws and just get annoyed by her taking all my time and energy. Doesnt matter if she is hot, I just want to fuck someone else then.
Worst thing is that I'm hyper in both ways - hyper focused on fucking (new) chicks, but getting bored hyper fast too. Just fuck me. Masturbation kills the desire to fuck new chicks but also drains my social energy level so don't want to do that all the time.
Sex is overrated and women are an albatross. You trade a lifetime of pain for minutes of pleasure. And no matter how hot your girl is you get bored of her after awhile.
you guys are human scum for being controlled by your dick
Pic related illustrates most of my problems.
I've been told to be nice my whole life. Be nice, be polite, be nice, treat everyone equally. And I was nice, so much so that I even got the quite embarrassing "Most Polite" award back in school, twice.
Being "nice" was just ingrained in my being and I can't help it, so much so of that I became incapable of flirting/showing sexual interest towards women without feeling as if I'm being extremely rude to them.
Pic related illustrates most of my problems.
I've been told to be nice my whole life. Be nice, be polite, be nice, treat everyone equally. And I was nice, so much so that I even got the quite embarrassing "Most Polite" award back in school, twice.
Being "nice" was just ingrained in my being and I can't help it, so much so of that I became incapable of flirting/showing sexual interest towards women without feeling as if I'm being extremely rude to them.
Start a hustler university / reddpill or scam lonely men with affiliate links for dating sites and porn . Your bank account will profit but your soul will descend. The choice is yours
33 y/o. New GF after 5 years single. She's 26. 4th GF but this one is the most serious/real relationship. Tongue kissed atleast 20girls in my life. More importantly I have accumulated 11 Bitcoin (and still collecting more)
>Tongue kissed
off topic but when is this supposed to happen? When people say you should try to kiss after first date before going home, are they talking about making out (which I suppose stands for using tongue as well) or just like one or several kisses in the lips?
t. 21yo retard who has not approached a girl in his life even though looks okay and is doing decently in life otherwise
>off topic but when is this supposed to happen?
it can happen anywhere. in the park, after a party, during a party, on holiday, they mostly happenned before dating apps where a thing tho
They do, but not usually on the first date. I'm autistic--average looking but LULZ enough (not huge; ottermode) that every few years a woman approaches me--so I just ask "do you want to make out?" I used to get nervous wondering what to do, and when, but a few years ago I was depressed and hurt enough that I stopped caring.
As you get older it gets easier because the women are equally as damaged as you, but are now way more desperate. I still want to be loved, but I know the women I date now are just looking to settle, and I'm a seemingly nice enough guy, so I make them pay for dinner more often than not, fuck them for a few months, then dump them.
I'm not so jaded as to not give them a chance, either, but without fail they always end up saying something like "I never would have dated you before!" Or even, verbatim, "I wouldn't have liked you when I was younger!"
They don't realize they give themselves away like that. They probably think it means they've matured, but they haven't. It just means that their looks are fading and they've lowered their "standards." (LOL)
>31 >So tired of having threesomes with women working at bars and hairdressers I decided to settle down with a single mom
I have finally found inner peace.
I'm divorced. Married a model more then ten years younger than me. Perfect body. It was annoying as hell as I always had to beat other men off her and she loved the attention. Got bored of fucking her nonetheless. After divorce I haven't bothered pursuing women. I've had some throw themselves at me and I just laugh in their face. Go to a bar and ask any married man if they'd rather be single after having a few drinks. Nothing beats freedom. The only downside is not having kids but the world is going to shit anyway. That's my only regret as I feel I would have made a good father. Liberalism has destroyed everything. I can't imagine raising a daughter in the present age. The fucking horror.
All these numbers, and none of them matter. The only thing that matters is if you are satisfied or not. There are guys with hundreds or a thousand lays that feel empty because they are about to turn 40, have never been in love, and are starting to feel all the social and psychological effects of being a man without a family. The attitude that most men have about women is going to lead to dissatisfaction inherently. You will always have a sex drive, you will always want to explore with new women. There is no number or woman hot enough to make that go away.
You need to bring your attention to other qualities of being with a woman that are worthwhile. If you have never had a partner before, that doesn't matter. As a human, you are able to imagine what it would be like, I know it because >tfwngf exists expressly as the pain of realizing what you are missing out on and we have all felt it. Satisfaction as a man is about commitment, being a part of something bigger than you, and providing for others. That's it. Physical sensations cannot compare to emotional ones and they never will. The best part about sex for so many of these men isn't the orgasm, it's the ability to go back to their buddies and brag, thinking they are going to be envied for what they think they've accomplished.
Stop playing this endless game of king of the hill. Let yourself discover the contentment that comes with being with a partner. Don't even try to tell me about so-and-so who got married or in a relationship and his life got ruined. It is a readily observable fact that many, many people are happy in their relationships. I make no declaration about the number or % or if it's more than unhappy, etc. This isn't advice on how to live an "okay" life, or min-maxing your likelihood of this or that, you don't need wisdom for that. This is about living a fulfilled life.
As a man, physical sensations, social status, "fun", none of that will satisfy you. It's actually fundamentally feminine. Those playboys with a new girl every week or even every day, talking about how evolution says men should fuck as many women as possible? That's appealing to feminine desires. Sensuality, status, and short-lived, novel frivolities are for women. You are unhappy not because you aren't good enough at this game. You are unhappy because you are playing a game that isn't meant for you. You are supposed to find a woman, commit to her, provide for her, and feel like an irreplaceable part of a family unit. This will satisfy your desires to be useful and committed. The satisfaction from fulfilling those drives cannot be compared to feeling like "the man" because you are known for your escapades with attractive women.
Im short, engineer so no women in highschool or college or work at all except old ladies and couple of married women. All of my cliques were drunks, no women in them
Now I WFH in a foreign land, not knowing the local language, I'll move back home next year
I'm very extrovert, jovial, muscular but a manlet so 0 action on dating apps, gays shower me with messages on social media though
35. Made out once with a girl, 17 years ago. Had sex once with a hooker 15 years ago.
I want to of myself but I'll buy a house first so I can decompose in it
No single women in the gym, tried to hit on some Asian one recently but she could not speak english
First GF at 24, 27.
Now i'm 36 and i had 9 GF and 25 Fuck Buddies.
Fucked 16 and 17 yo at 30, now with a traditional girl (34 yo) who loves me a little too much, i'm thninking of settling down.
30 years. 1 fat gf. 3 8/10’s in bed. Still no wife.
2223 days.
No sex.
35 - 0 for me old champ
>Game scalping general
>Be wizard, 33m kissless virgin, never asked a girl on a date
>Now 43 with a long term partner and 2 kids.
>Fucked 5 girls, mostly sluts, all 10 years younger than me and as it turns out, 3 of them were cheating on BF's with me.
I wasn't proud of them cheating to with me, didn't know at the time, and when I found out it added to my huge emotional baggage and issues around sex.
Everyone is different so I can't really tell you how to fix it. For me it was all about depression and being introverted. I beat myself for being ugly, thought I was hideous but I was telling myself that to cope, to explain my situation. I'm white, athletic (was successful at sports), 5"11
I decided to treat it as a phobia with exposure therapy. Went to massage shops, was too scared to even be naked but I just let the asian girls try to flirt me out of $20 for a handjob and pull my underwear off. I didn't let them do anything for months until my nerves died down and I met a nice girl.
Then I was less scared of online dating, met some girl of /soc/ and fucked her.
I'm still no chad but my relationship with women is better, I have a better idea and feeling for what is normal and how to act. I feel I needed to be with some girls to learn that well
Very similar for me. Too nice, unassertive, hate asking for help, can't ask for a pay rise even when I'm the most experienced in a team, doing the most work and often one of the lowest paid. (Only way I got around that was quitting and getting other jobs that had higher base salaries)
30 years, 1 gf
Incels are retarded. If you saw a picture of me you would think I’m an incel yet I’ve fucked multiple cute chicks and have a cute gf
You're probably normal looking. Of course it's easy for an average guy to get a gf. Distinct ugly facial features that make you look weird are a death sentence when it comes to relationships with women.
I am normal looking, verging on cute, white, wealthy, but still unattractive to girls in an Elliot Rodger way
Its not about the looks, if you are a total introvert nosocial its hard to approach and talk to people
Ugly looks are a common cause for introvertedness. It's difficult to talk to people when you've been shitted on all your life. Women are social beings. With an average man they feel part of the tribe. They'd never want to be seen with someone objectively ugly, because others will project the outcast status onto them.
try being 5'3" as an adult male in the US
ugly face too, soft voice, and no friend circle
I’m the guy you’re replying to and I’m 5’4. Average face, white. Upper middle class job.
Good Lord, worse than I am. I'm 5'7, 35, masculine, deep rough voice, big chin, very muscular, beard, however I don't know where are all the women
0 luck on dating apps
We have to famous Maxx. I should make a yt channel about stuff and insta, tiktok, maybe I get some attention
Jk it will fail, but I would hate not at least trying it
Sex is overrated and women are an albatross. You trade a lifetime of pain for minutes of pleasure. And no matter how hot your girl is you get bored of her after awhile.
>And no matter how hot your girl is you get bored of her after awhile.
This is the most underrated comment of all.
Its crazy, I fantasize so much about hot women and want to move mountains to fuck them. Once I fuck them, sometimes even twice, I notice all of her flaws and just get annoyed by her taking all my time and energy. Doesnt matter if she is hot, I just want to fuck someone else then.
Worst thing is that I'm hyper in both ways - hyper focused on fucking (new) chicks, but getting bored hyper fast too. Just fuck me. Masturbation kills the desire to fuck new chicks but also drains my social energy level so don't want to do that all the time.
That’s why you aim for friendship when it comes to relationships
Same here and true. Any girl gets boring. Accept your nature. You are a man and men want to seed many pussies naturally. It's an illusion though. Grass isn't greener. Find a decent one and stay
Fuck same bros. It’s caused me to destroy many a good relationship. I get bored and cheat which further drives the point that maybe I should get a new gf. I’m 31 and with a very attractive, sweet med student. Trying to stay on the rails and remind myself that it won’t be any different with another girl. I just wanna be at peace bros
>it won’t be any different with another g
It won't be. Once a girl becomes your gf she instantly drops in attractiveness and woman that are not your gf go 3x in attractiveness. It's just your biology trying to make you seed as many pussies as possible. If you leave your gf and take a new one then after awhile the same happens. Girls that are not your gf always look better for some reason. Until they become your gf. Kek.
you guys are human scum for being controlled by your dick
Bump
I mistakenly read no .gifs, so I was going to post one for you.
I am 29 years old and I never even kissed a girl
why?
Pic related illustrates most of my problems.
I've been told to be nice my whole life. Be nice, be polite, be nice, treat everyone equally. And I was nice, so much so that I even got the quite embarrassing "Most Polite" award back in school, twice.
Being "nice" was just ingrained in my being and I can't help it, so much so of that I became incapable of flirting/showing sexual interest towards women without feeling as if I'm being extremely rude to them.
So nothing ever happened in that department
good mornin sirs
i hate women
GM
gm
I’m a loner, naturally unpopular, naturally not good with women, I don’t fucking know Anon it’s a mystery to me too but it fucking SUCKS
The only women in my life are fat ugly and have horrible personalities. I expect my gf to at least not be fat, that's near impossible in America.
How do I profit from this?
Start a hustler university / reddpill or scam lonely men with affiliate links for dating sites and porn . Your bank account will profit but your soul will descend. The choice is yours
33 y/o. New GF after 5 years single. She's 26. 4th GF but this one is the most serious/real relationship. Tongue kissed atleast 20girls in my life. More importantly I have accumulated 11 Bitcoin (and still collecting more)
>Tongue kissed
off topic but when is this supposed to happen? When people say you should try to kiss after first date before going home, are they talking about making out (which I suppose stands for using tongue as well) or just like one or several kisses in the lips?
t. 21yo retard who has not approached a girl in his life even though looks okay and is doing decently in life otherwise
>off topic but when is this supposed to happen?
it can happen anywhere. in the park, after a party, during a party, on holiday, they mostly happenned before dating apps where a thing tho
>they mostly happenned before dating apps where a thing tho
so people don't kiss anymore with tongue?
They do, but not usually on the first date. I'm autistic--average looking but LULZ enough (not huge; ottermode) that every few years a woman approaches me--so I just ask "do you want to make out?" I used to get nervous wondering what to do, and when, but a few years ago I was depressed and hurt enough that I stopped caring.
As you get older it gets easier because the women are equally as damaged as you, but are now way more desperate. I still want to be loved, but I know the women I date now are just looking to settle, and I'm a seemingly nice enough guy, so I make them pay for dinner more often than not, fuck them for a few months, then dump them.
I'm not so jaded as to not give them a chance, either, but without fail they always end up saying something like "I never would have dated you before!" Or even, verbatim, "I wouldn't have liked you when I was younger!"
They don't realize they give themselves away like that. They probably think it means they've matured, but they haven't. It just means that their looks are fading and they've lowered their "standards." (LOL)
so many wizards in here
Rookie numbers, boy.
35 years. 0 gfs, 0 sex.
KHV
36 years old
married and have a kid
i barely fuck anymore and most of the time i would rather jack off alone
sex is overrated af
I had 2 online boyfriends
Dont care do what makes you happy
Don't mean to brag or anything but
>24 years
>27 women
>4 gfs
>1 fiancee
>still frogpost
>31
>10gfs
>countless hookers
if you seek women you get women is not so hard
>31
>So tired of having threesomes with women working at bars and hairdressers I decided to settle down with a single mom
I have finally found inner peace.
>Single mom
You fucked up
dump it.
26 years
1gf
2 sluts
I regret it I actually wish I was a virgin saving for marriage
Based, always have some backup in case your gf starts bullshitting
26 years. 3 gfs. lot of side bitches. kava bags
pretty much looks good to me
No wife? Wtf happened?
99 problems
a bitch ain't one
28 years, 0 sex, 3 worthless whores, 2 million dollars
I'm divorced. Married a model more then ten years younger than me. Perfect body. It was annoying as hell as I always had to beat other men off her and she loved the attention. Got bored of fucking her nonetheless. After divorce I haven't bothered pursuing women. I've had some throw themselves at me and I just laugh in their face. Go to a bar and ask any married man if they'd rather be single after having a few drinks. Nothing beats freedom. The only downside is not having kids but the world is going to shit anyway. That's my only regret as I feel I would have made a good father. Liberalism has destroyed everything. I can't imagine raising a daughter in the present age. The fucking horror.
BUSINESS AND FINANCE
All these numbers, and none of them matter. The only thing that matters is if you are satisfied or not. There are guys with hundreds or a thousand lays that feel empty because they are about to turn 40, have never been in love, and are starting to feel all the social and psychological effects of being a man without a family. The attitude that most men have about women is going to lead to dissatisfaction inherently. You will always have a sex drive, you will always want to explore with new women. There is no number or woman hot enough to make that go away.
You need to bring your attention to other qualities of being with a woman that are worthwhile. If you have never had a partner before, that doesn't matter. As a human, you are able to imagine what it would be like, I know it because >tfwngf exists expressly as the pain of realizing what you are missing out on and we have all felt it. Satisfaction as a man is about commitment, being a part of something bigger than you, and providing for others. That's it. Physical sensations cannot compare to emotional ones and they never will. The best part about sex for so many of these men isn't the orgasm, it's the ability to go back to their buddies and brag, thinking they are going to be envied for what they think they've accomplished.
Stop playing this endless game of king of the hill. Let yourself discover the contentment that comes with being with a partner. Don't even try to tell me about so-and-so who got married or in a relationship and his life got ruined. It is a readily observable fact that many, many people are happy in their relationships. I make no declaration about the number or % or if it's more than unhappy, etc. This isn't advice on how to live an "okay" life, or min-maxing your likelihood of this or that, you don't need wisdom for that. This is about living a fulfilled life.
As a man, physical sensations, social status, "fun", none of that will satisfy you. It's actually fundamentally feminine. Those playboys with a new girl every week or even every day, talking about how evolution says men should fuck as many women as possible? That's appealing to feminine desires. Sensuality, status, and short-lived, novel frivolities are for women. You are unhappy not because you aren't good enough at this game. You are unhappy because you are playing a game that isn't meant for you. You are supposed to find a woman, commit to her, provide for her, and feel like an irreplaceable part of a family unit. This will satisfy your desires to be useful and committed. The satisfaction from fulfilling those drives cannot be compared to feeling like "the man" because you are known for your escapades with attractive women.
Im short, engineer so no women in highschool or college or work at all except old ladies and couple of married women. All of my cliques were drunks, no women in them
Now I WFH in a foreign land, not knowing the local language, I'll move back home next year
I'm very extrovert, jovial, muscular but a manlet so 0 action on dating apps, gays shower me with messages on social media though
35. Made out once with a girl, 17 years ago. Had sex once with a hooker 15 years ago.
I want to of myself but I'll buy a house first so I can decompose in it
No single women in the gym, tried to hit on some Asian one recently but she could not speak english
Not very bullish for your lil pp
You just are not trying hard enough. I am 45 and I fucked a 22 year old last week.
>32
>24 roastie body count
>1 girl i loved but she left me because i cheated
don't cheat on girls you love bros
First GF at 24, 27.
Now i'm 36 and i had 9 GF and 25 Fuck Buddies.
Fucked 16 and 17 yo at 30, now with a traditional girl (34 yo) who loves me a little too much, i'm thninking of settling down.